An Experiment to Find the Quickest Ways to Orgasm

My wife and I recently conducted a series of sexual experiments for fun. We wanted to see what the quickest way to orgasm was for both us during oral sex, different positions of intercourse, and masturbation. We do a lot of quickies! I came up with this crazy idea, and we kept a journal over a period of six weeks to track the results. The one overarching rule was that all foreplay had to be the same—no extras—so the sexual playing field would be level.

Now, for the results (times shown are exact times from start to orgasm, kept via an iPhone stopwatch):

Oral sex – me (Lauren giving me a blowjob, same position each time and with the promise to swallow, which of course she did):

Session 1: 6 minutes, 32 seconds

Session 2: 7 minutes, 16 seconds (She said this was a very large ejaculation.)

Session 3: 5 minutes, 49 seconds


Oral sex – Lauren (me eating Lauren’s pussy, same position):

Session 1: 7 minutes, 58 seconds

Session 2: 9 minutes, 2 seconds

Session 3: 7 minutes, 40 seconds. (For fun, I kept going, and she came again in 4 minutes, 44 seconds)


Oral sex – me (Lauren giving me a blowjob, same position, and asking me to cum all over her tongue and face, which of course I did):

Session 1: 7 minutes, 23 seconds

Session 2: 8 minutes, 10 seconds

Session 3: 8 minutes, 29 seconds (Very large amount of ejaculate.)


Intercourse – doggy style (how long until I came in her pussy)

Session 1: 4 minutes, 52 seconds

Session 2: 7 minutes, 1 second

Session 3: 4 minutes, 30 seconds (She was incredibly wet.)


Intercourse – doggy style/Lauren (how long until she came; I used distraction methods to try to hold my cum.)

Session 1: 9 minutes, 50 seconds

Session 2: 7 minutes, 32 seconds

Session 3: 11 minutes, 49 seconds


Intercourse – doggy style with anal stimulation with my fingers (how long until she came; I used distraction methods to try to hold my cum.)

Session 1: 6 minutes, 22 seconds

Session 2: 6 minutes, 58 seconds

Session 3: 7 minutes, 14 seconds


Intercourse – missionary (how long until I came)

Session 1: 10 minutes, 23 seconds

Session 2: 10 minutes, 10 seconds

Session 3: 6 minutes, 45 seconds


Intercourse – missionary (how long until she came; I used distraction methods to try to hold my cum)

Session 1: Didn’t cum

Session 2: Didn’t cum

Session 3: 14 minutes, 49 seconds


Intercourse – forward cowgirl (how long until I came)

Session 1: 12 minutes, 2 seconds

Session 2: 10 minutes, 44 seconds

Session 3: 14 minutes, 1 second


Intercourse – forward cowgirl (how long until she came; I used distraction methods to try to hold my cum.)

Session 1: 7 minutes flat

Session 2: 8 minutes, 58 seconds

Session 3: 11 minutes, 1 second


Masturbation – she used a vibrator, and I watched.

Session 1: 4 minutes, 58 seconds

Session 2: 3 minutes, 30 seconds

Session 3: 5 minutes, 2 seconds


Masturbation – I used my hand and some Astroglide, and she watched.

Session 1: 7 minutes, 0 seconds

Session 2: 8 minutes, 42 seconds

Session 3: 7 minutes, 36 seconds

The results were quite interesting! For me, the fastest way to orgasm was intercourse with Lauren in doggy style, our favorite sex position. The average time it took me to cum was 5 minutes, 28 seconds. On one occasion, I came in 4 minutes, 30 seconds, and I distinctly remember her being exceptionally wet within one minute of entry. How wet she is inversely corresponds to how long I can last!

For Lauren, the fastest way to cum was, no surprise, masturbation with her vibrator. The average time it took for her to cum from masturbating with her vibrator was 4 minutes, 30 seconds. We also noted how much faster she reached orgasm in doggy style position with simultaneous anal stimulation as compared to doggy style with no anal stimulation. She is definitely an anal kind of woman. We were not surprised at all that it’s hard for her to orgasm in missionary position.

For me, if Lauren is giving me a blowjob, I’m going to cum faster if she’s going to swallow versus me ejaculating on her tongue and face. That was an interesting and surprising finding.

But fastest time to cum doesn’t necessarily equal favorite way to cum! My favorite way to cum: Doggy style position, followed by in Lauren’s mouth from a blowjob. Her favorite way to cum? Also doggy style with anal play followed by me eating her pussy, though she didn’t hold back in saying she loves her vibrator. (At least she’s honest.)

Why don’t you all give this experiment a try? Would love to hear from others!

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27 replies
  1. RockyGapMan says:

    Didn’t really experiment yet, but your story/experiment brought to mind what I thought was an unusual response during our lovemaking yesterday.

    You mentioned Lauren’s quicker orgasmic responses with anal stimulation. We were in the middle of some very sensual 69. She was sucking my dick with passion, and I was going to town on her clit with my tongue, while simultaneously trying to stimulate her vaginally with my right middle finger on/around her g-spot – with some occasional thrusting of my finger.

    All of a sudden, she took my dick out of her mouth long enough to say: “Get your finger out of my butt.”

    I calmly explained that my finger was NOT in her butt, but in her vagina. That because of her right leg position (extended) I was doing my best to reach around it, and due to that fact my finger WAS unintentionally rubbing against the posterior wall/edge of her vagina – right NEXT TO her “butt.” I lovingly, but firmly suggested she stop worrying about WHERE I was stimulating her, and focus on the pleasant sensations/feelings she experienced.

    It’s crazy. I immediately resumed what I was doing. Within seconds, she was moaning & squirming all over the place. This from a woman who balks at any suggestion of anal play.

    • JuicyForMyMan says:

      In our marriage, I was the one who longed for anal stimulation, I just didn’t quite know how to get that across to him (fairly early in our marriage and I was shyer). Once I did and he tried it, I just about went ballistic and full-on anal sex is fantastic!! Now, if we could just overcome his ED issues and my bad hip and have any kind of penetrative sex!

  2. SamtheMan says:

    Interesting story. I'm a spreadsheet person and have been tracking 2013. Looking back we definitely have patterns and are fairly consistent from year to year.

    I've done oral on my wife an avg of 39 / year or a higher ave of 60 times a yr the last 3 yrs.

    My wife has done oral on me an avg of 10 times / year however only bringing me to ejaculation only 1 time in 9 yrs. She has done a hand job on me a total of 6 times in 9 yrs. She has orgasmed an avg of 10 times / year using a toy. *Note she doesn't masturbate even with toys so every orgasm was a result of me holding the toy.

    Missionary (wife's preference) avg of 46 times / yr
    Cowgirl (my favorite) ave of 22 times / yr
    Reverse Cowgirl ave 5 times / yr
    Doggy ave of 1 time / yr. (My wife dislikes this position however I enjoy this position.)
    Standing ave of 1 time / yr

  3. LovingMan says:

    Interesting study of what works for you and your wife and how long things take.
    It seems to me that you two had a lot of married sexual fun collecting the data!

    I think it’s important for everyone to remember that every couple is different and that’s how it should be. We use a vibrator nearly every time we have sex. Sometimes we use two or three. Our health situations have made a vibrator necessary and my wife & I have embraced their use. Sometimes she cums during foreplay, sometimes she cums after I’ve cum in her vagina, and sometimes we cum together during sexual intercourse. Often we have round two after round one. Once in a while we have round three.

    We love doggy style. We sometimes do missionary position too. But our “go to” sex position we call “X position” & it involves her on her back with me on my side facing her at a right angle. This position is great for her using a vibrator on her clitoris during sexual intercourse!

    As my heart condition has worsened we’ve done longer foreplay + shorter intercourse then often “between play” and again shorter sexual intercourse. Then either round three or, more often, long cuddling.

    • bensmom18 says:

      I'm glad you've found a way to work with your current limitations and still enjoy yourselves!

  4. Mike2020 says:

    Nice experiment to try. Speed is not the most important thing! As you get older you will find everything takes longer! With us, I generally come in a couple of minutes during vaginal sex in any position. When my wife masturbates my penis it can take 10 minutes of sheer bliss. When I masturbate myself I can take as long as I want, holding my orgasm on the edge. If I just start masturbating and keep going till I cum it usually takes about 3 minutes.

    • SamtheMan says:

      My wife and I are both in our 60's and I would consider our age group being "older". It seems every time we now have sex it's a quickie. If we go past 3 minutes of thrusting it's a marathon session for us. I wish we could go for longer. I need the cardiovascular workout and need to burn those calories.

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      Agree. Speed is absolutely not the most important thing–far from it. We most enjoy longer sessions together. But with these experiments we were curious about speed to orgasm.

  5. YoungCouple69 says:

    Wow MarriedtoaHotBabe, this is a pretty intense experiment. We have never tried timing sex, could be interesting to try and see if our results are similar to yours. Our sessions vary in length quite a bit, some probably under 10 min and others more like an hour, and almost always involve multiple positions and at least some oral sex. I would say Julie also orgasms fastest using a vibrator. She can cum pretty quickly though just from PIV sex in missionary position (it's the grinding against her clitoris that makes this work, not the thrusting!). Quickest way for me if I'm not really focused on lasting is probably reverse cowgirl. The sight of her twerking her amazing ass on my cock while she plays with my testicles and fingers my anus is not conducive to lasting very long!

    A technique question for you: In positions like doggy style or cowgirl, do either of you try to incorporate clitoral stimulation, or is she able to orgasm simply from PIV thrusting? Curious how this works for you.

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      She usually applies clitoral stimulation in doggy style and cowgirl. Doggy style is our position of choice.

  6. YoungCouple69 says:

    On another note, Julie challenged me to a bit different experiment today. She is out of town working this afternoon/evening and has challenged me to see how many times I can ejaculate in one day. She's convinced I probably can't more than 3 or 4 times (it's been a while since I've cum more than twice in a day to be honest!). I think I can prove her wrong though 😉 Taking MH story suggestions to read while I attempt some record breaking LOL. In keeping with MarriedtoaHotBabe's theme, might time them and see how the time till ejaculation changes over the course of the same day.

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      How many times did you cum? For me, my personal record is 4 times in a single day, which I've done a few times. Over the years, I have had many, many hat tricks (3x in a single day). Lauren's record is, I think, 5 or 6 orgasms in a single day. If you are still looking for inspiration, check out my story about the hotel room…..

  7. D&D says:

    Sounds like a fun experiment! One night during our play nights I had her count out loud each time she came, 10! I like to see how long we go on play nights. Usually it's 15-20 min and she feels it's hrs. Because she is lost in a sea of orgasmic bliss she loses all sense of time. We have learned to take time between each orgasm and catch our breath and bathe in each other's love as we have grown older. No rush!!

    • MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

      Your wife has cum 10 times in a single session? That's amazing. My wife's record is at least 5.

  8. Wife lover says:

    My wife and I discovered she likes anal play after 7-8 years of marriage. She was in reverse cowgirl, and I was grabbing her ass when my thumb started to massage her tight little hole. She was moaning and telling me how erotic it was. We kept exploring and found she loves for me to finger her ass during sex. Now her favorite way to cum is doggy style with a vibrator on her clit and me fingering her while pounding her from behind.

  9. Diligamus says:

    Very interestinng experiment, and I love the way you did it, very systematic and timing the sessions. Most people (especially men) are concerned with NOT coming too quick, and you're trying to do just the opposite! I used to try to delay my orgasms as long as possible (it used to routinely take me 45 minutes to orgasm), but my wife now tells me not to bother, because I've usually made her cum many times already with my tongue. So when we start screwing, she tells me that it's okay to cum quick, that she's already worn out from cumming. Just looking at how beautiful she is when I'm banging her, whether from the front or back, combined with the intense sweetness and heat of her vagina makes me cum very quickly anyway. To see her gorgeous long strawberry blonde hair flowing down over her little perfectly shaped breasts and erect nipples, her beautiful face with her eyes closed, and, if we're in the right position, watching my hardness go in and out of her pussy framed by her reddish blonde pubic hair is enough to make me almost instantly cum. I have to stop periodically to keep from cumming TOO quick. If I take her doggy style, the visual stimulation is just as intense because her butt and hips, a little bigger and more shapely than the rest of her body, is enough to make any man cum just looking at it-not to mention how she likes to use explicit language while I do her from the back, and her rubbing her clit in that position or using her vibe is an enormous turn on. Also, her tendency to moan with each instroke drives me crazy!

    Her record at cumming was 15 times with her sitting in a chair and me kneeling on the floor licking her when she was pregnant with our first child. Like your wife, she frequently does not cum when during penatrative sex unless she masturbates herself or uses her vibe, and also like your wife, she orgasms quickest with her vibe, usually in much less than one minute, although she always has sequential orgasms. Thanks for sharing the intimate details of your experiment!

    • alwayswet101 says:

      Was your wife really horny and orgasmic when she was pregnant? This is me right now, I can't get enough! I cum instantly when I am sitting in a chair and my hubby is licking me. Doggy style is also my favorite because of the way it allows his cock to hit my G-spot and since being pregnant I am able to squirt, which feels absolutely amazing. That is awesome that your wife is able to have sequential orgasms because it is amazing. I am like this since I am pregnant, and I am just on fire, so it really struck me when you said your wife had her record for orgasms when she was pregnant.

  10. Diligamus says:

    I forgot to mention what we do if we really do want a quickie in the literal sense. Since we've got 3 kids, somtimes we have to do things quickly, and hopefully without them noticing, what with them running around all over the place. So, we'll lock the bathroom door, and with both of us standing up, she'll unhook her jeans and pull them and her panties down around mid thigh. I'll pull my pants down some to around the same level. This gives us the ability to get our clothes back on quick if we need to.

    Then she'll grab the shaft of my now very stiff penis and put the head right against her clit. Still grabbing the shaft, she'll begin to rub the head of my dick against her clit very fast and vigorously-there's plenty of lubrication from my precum and her pungent pussy juice. It feels so incredibly good, and she instantly starts moaning (as I do too) and she has this frantic look on her pretty face that she gets when she's real excited. I'll grab her big, sexy, tensed up ass hard and either play with her boobs through her shirt or pull it up and suck them somehow, maybe pulling her bra up far enough to suck her nipple. The feeling in the head of my penis is so sweet and intense that it doesn't take long for me to cum-it's just so good-I moan and ejaculate all over her little clit. If I cum before she does, she keeps rubbing the head of my dick against her clit until she cums once, twice….however many times she needs to. If I cum before she does and she keeps rubbing me against her, the head of my dick kind of hurts, but at the same time feels good, and I may have got a little soft by then, but still hard enough to do the job.

    Sometimes if we're doing that I can't help myself and will thrust into her sweet vagina while we're standing up, grabbing her big butt and thrusting into her until I empty my balls into her tummy. All in all, it's always been our favorite and true 'quickie' method. Y'all shoud try it and let me know how it goes 😉

  11. Diligamus says:

    @alwayswet101: Yes, when she was pregnant with our first child she was very horny, in general. We even made love the morning of the delivery (she ended up having the baby in the middle of the night, after midnight, making him technically born the next day). I remember that she laid on her side and I entered her from the back and thrusted until I ejaculated as deep as I could in her hot pregnant vagina without hurting her or jostling things around too much. I deliberately avoided making her orgasm because I'd always heard that if a woman orgasms that close to her delivery date that it could induce labor. She was so sexy when she was pregnant, and I think pregnancy in general is sexy, because you're carrying a new life in you, and it's all part of God's plan. She kept complaining when she was pregnant the 1st time that she was getting 'fat'-I told her, you're not fat, you're pregnant, and you're natural, normal and beautiful-I had to watch her to make sure she ate enough. She was actually a little overweight before she got pregnant the 1st and second times, and looked fantastic, with very big boobs-now, after 3 kids, she's very skinny and has very small, perfectly shaped boobs, with little erect nipples. Go figure. I thought almost all women gained weight after kids instead of losing it.

  12. Diligamus says:

    Here's another quickie we had recently, one that we really had to speed up in order to not get caught.

    The three kids were getting ready to go to bed-their usual routine every night. My wife was already lying in bed. I go to bed later than her and she doesn't like getting woke up in the middle of the night if you're wondering why we just didn't do this later 😉

    She was lying in bed with her back against the headboard, her legs straight in front of her. She was wearing a loose t-shirt, braless, and her panties-that's all. I was sitting next to her, started stroking her pretty hair and her forehead. The kids were running around in the hallway and bathroom, and there's no lock on the bedroom door-we can bar the door with my daughter's dollhouse, but that wouldn't have worked in this situation.

    Anyway, I started stroking her legs, and moved up to the crotch of her panties. I was sure she was going to tell me to stop because the kids might walk in any second, but she didn't. I began to lightly touch her pubic hair through the crotch of her panties, then began to softly touch her clit through the fabric, which felt like it was already erect (her clit is small and it's pretty easy to tell when it's swollen from her horniness). Instead of telling me to stop, she responded by pulling the crotch of her panties aside. I started rubbing her clit with two fingers, and she was into it. I could tell by the frantic, almost painful "oh, I'm gonna cum" look on her face that she loved what I was doing. I asked her if we should cover her up from the waist down in case the kids came in and she said, "no, don't!". Instead, she pulled her panties down where the top of her panties was below her crotch, and I continued rubbing. By now, my hardon was obviously visible through my shorts and I was even making a precum stain on them. She looked down at her pubic hair,still with this painfu look on her face, and touched her pubic area with her fingertips, pulling on it, intensely looking at what my fingers were doing as if she were facinated by me masturbating her. When I suggested that we either cover her up or stop, she said, "no! Don't stop! No!" In about 5 or 10 seconds she began to orgasm, her eyes closed tight, her legs went tight together and she tried not to moan too loud. I thought it was a miracle that the kids didn't walk in on us.

    She said, "well, what are we going to do about you?", and since my dick pretty much ached by then, I said, "let's go into the bathroom". I told the kids that Mommy and Daddy were going into the bathroom to talk for a minute, and I thought they'd say, "oh, sure you are", but they bought it.

    We went in, locked the door, she pulled down her panties, I pulled down my pants-she lifted her right leg a little so I could enter her better standing up-I grabbed her sexy, tensed up ass and thrusted into her, cumming very quickly in her hot, feminine tummy. I apologized for cumming so quick, but she assured me that she was spent and that it was good because any second the kids would probably start banging on the door. I kissed her and told her I loved her, and we went back to the bedroom 😉

  13. Diligamus says:

    @alwayswet 101

    Ive read a lot of your posts and realize how (incredibly) horny you are during your pregnancy. I was just thinking about some of the sexual dreams my wife had when she was pregnant and was wondering if you've had the same experience. I'm not sure if MH would allow me to share those dreams, as they weren't about haaving sex with me, but, after all, they were just dreams.

  14. firefly says:

    I surely enjoyed the time line. Takes a while for me when getting a BJ. My dear wife on the other hand, orgasms almost as fast as my mouth and tongue touches her holes. She orgasms multiple times with my tongue licking her vagina, then on the anus, either one take her about a second, then bam. Subsequent orgasms 5-7 seconds behind the other.

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