Taste Test
I’ve got a lingering question for MarriageHeat readers: What’s your opinion on female oral sex (cunnilingus)?
I ask because, for me, giving my wife oral pleasure is even more erotic and stimulating than getting a blowjob. Don’t get me wrong, my wife gives amazing BJs, and I would never turn one down! But I love experiencing the ecstasy she feels when I go down on her. I love exploring her with my mouth, tongue, and hands. Bringing her there, and beyond, is truly magical.
Here are just a few of the ways we like to experience it:
1. “Sideways”
This is often our go-to when we initiate sex in bed. Lucy lies on her back and I curl next to her, my head resting at her belly. She likes to keep her legs straight and knees together. I kiss her body up and down, teasing her nipples with my tongue. My right hand slowly fingers her clit, playing with it until it gets hard. When she lifts her butt, I reach my left hand underneath her, put my palm on her ass and slowly stroke the folds of her pussy from behind with my index finger. I kiss the length of her torso, from her neck to her breasts, down her tummy, to the inside of her thighs, which I kiss gently. Then I lick her hard clit, and kiss and suck her labia.
Since I’m coming at it from the side, the angle is different and her right side usually gets more attention. But I do my best to distribute the love equally. I use my right hand to stroke her while licking, sucking, and tonguing her clit. After a few minutes of this, she’s ready to cum! I put two fingers from the hand cupping her ass deep into her pussy and bring my tongue down to join the party. My other hand is busy keeping the attention on her clit. Soon she’s on her way!
2. “Stand by Me”
Again, this one usually happens in bed. We set up bolster pillows at the head of the bed and drape a thick quilt over the headboard. Lucy holds on to the quilt and faces the wall, standing with one leg propped on the bolster pillows. I’m semi-reclined, leaning against the other pillows with my head between her legs, and I get a delicious view of her incredible auburn bush and juicy cunt. I love this view. Let me live to be 1,000 and I would never tire of seeing my beautiful wife’s fleshy mound, soft pink lips, and moist hole. I tease her, using my tongue sparingly until she can’t handle anymore and pushes herself roughly against my face. Then I grab her hips and eat her out like there’s no tomorrow.
3. “Rear Window”
Lucy can be a bit self-conscious and finds this one a little embarrassing, but when she’s willing, I find doggy-style oral extremely hot. Usually she’s in the mood for this position when she’s extremely horny. It often starts with my bending her over the arm of the couch, pushing up her skirt, pulling down her underwear, and burying my face in her ass. Sometimes she’ll crawl a little further down the cushions to rest her head, her hips raised high, and her ass and pussy on full display. I lick her folds and tongue her hole and take a few quick trips to play with her ass, too.
This position often evolves into 69, and I love it for the pure intimacy it allows. It also enables me to push my entire tongue deep into her tight, wet, and warm pussy.
Wishlist
There are a few scenarios that we haven’t tried yet but are definitely on my bucket list. One of the biggest is the kitchen. I would love Lucy to sit on our kitchen counter, naked from the waist down. I would then kneel in front of her and direct my attention to her pleasure. If she sat by the sink, we could push the rolling island closer to prop her leg on it. This would allow me easier access. We don’t have curtains on our kitchen windows, so I know Lucy would worry the newlyweds who recently moved in next door might catch a glimpse of us. But frankly, they’ve probably got the same thing on their minds. And the idea of being watched is pretty hot, too!
So what about it, readers? Care to share your own favorite oral positions?
Love using both hands, one from the bottom slowly in and out up and down like you described. Not sure about oral from there though. I definitely love using the island/counter top. Blanket or towel down first because it’s a hard surface then enjoy the perfect height for eating. No strain on neck, arms or hands. Great view too. Love that.
No position is a better treat than a pillow under Anne’s ass to give me a perfect angle to lick her sweet juices as they flow from my tender attention to her labia and clit. It also gives me a perfect angle to tantalize her rosebud. Tongue and finger fucking drive her to ecstatic orgasms!
SilverGold, we're on the same page. This is just the best position. I love it. Really love it. Her pussy lifted up, presented to me on a cushion or wedge is a true delight; long, slow access to all erotic areas, as you say, is my favourite thing. Gets my cock seeping on the bedsheets and ideally at least two of her orgasms in my mouth. Dreamy.
Cunnilingus is something I'm really looking forward to doing after I meet the right woman and get married, even thinking about it right now is making me hard! I also just recently finished reading SHE COMES FIRST by Ian Kerner as that seems to be the gold standard on how to please a woman orally. I want to make my wife come every day that we're married.
So nice to hear that from a guy! We single ladies do worry about just being used by men. At least, I do. Thank you for having that mindset. I hope you find the right woman!
Thanks LLL I definitely hope so too! I would never want to use a woman just to get off. Ultimately I want my wife to want and enjoy sex at least as much as I do. I will say though…I worry about being a good lover. And I don't know that I would be right from the start. Expectations vs. reality being what they are, I'm sure that communication on this issue is extremely important.
Man oh man I hope I find a man like you someday. I know so many men who are not willing to go down on their female partners because to them vaginas are “gross,” but a lot of it is just fear of the unknown. Vaginas are mysterious but also such wonderful things that clean themselves! I’m still in the process of understanding my own body and what methods give me the most pleasure. Personally, I think I would like more sucking and kissing on my clit with my partner’s tongue going into my vagina, I don’t really like the feeling of fingers for some reason as I often tense up and psych myself out.
It’s nice to know that men like you exist in the world. I hope I can find a husband that loves Jesus as much as I do but also has a high sex drive like me. I personally also can’t wait to pleasure my man with my mouth too. I fantasize about giving my future husband oral and taking him deep down my throat and swallowing. I can’t wait!!!
You ladies really know how to build a guy up! Thanks, SSS. When you get married: don't be scared to tell your husband what you like, what feels good. How is he supposed to know how to pleasure you if you yourself don't know what you like, right?
I hope all us singles here and elsewhere are seeking God in the matter of finding the right spouse. And I sincerely hope that God will lead us to the right person at the right time. Sooner rather than later…
Agree completely–I adore licking her. Favorite position is with her lying on the bed face up, with pillows allowing her to elevate her head and torso. I kneel down with her legs on my shoulders, and feast on her slowly, watching her breasts heave up and down as she gets turned on and starts breathing heavily. The elevation of her head and torso just aids my view.
Related question–ladies, how do you like to be licked? Is there any way you would like it that's not already happening?
Definitely better to give than receive!
Positions: her on her back, me on the bed between her legs, or kneeling on the floor with her butt right up to the edge of the bed. 69 with her on or me on top. Me on my back her sitting on my face — tits very accessible this way.
Wish list item – Have my wife sit on the edge of the dining room table with legs spread serving her pussy for desert.
I absolutely LOVE cunnilingus! It’s amazing in every way. The sight, the scent, the taste, and the wonderfully soft sexy texture of her juicy folds drives me wild.
I am in complete agreement with you KingdomMan. I love cunnilingus!!! It is my favorite way to pleasure my wife. She prefers laying on her back while I go down on her, but I really enjoy loving her from behind.
KM. Yes, oh yes!
Our favorite, is out on our picnic table, or most any picnic table.
She sits on the table top, toward the edge, and I sit on the bench between her legs and devour her pussy! After she cums, I stand up, slip my dick in her, and pump away till she cums again, and I cum! Then, I sit back down and do her favorite, which is eating her out till she REALLY cums, and hard!
Same trick works with her on the sofa, and me on the floor kneeling. 🙂
I admit, I still have the tiniest hesitation when I think of a couple putting their mouths to each other's private parts. I guess it's because that's where we expel waste, and I've heard that humans are just never fully sanitized. However, I've grown so much in my views on sex that I'm 100% ready to try anything oral with my future husband. Do you guys ever get turned off by the smell or the hygiene of your wives? Is it okay if there's a kind of sweat-urine smell? It's hard to get rid of it completely. Of course, if oral is in the plan, then showering should happen first. But if it's spontaneous?
To answer your question simply – no, I was never turned off by her smell. I’ve always loved cunnilingus, but in our earlier years, she would often shower before sex and spend a lot of time cleaning her pussy. This washed away most of her natural scent temporarily, and I found that far more off-putting than her natural aroma. I much preferred eating her unwashed, even after a long day. So, (as I’m sure you do), keep up “normal” hygiene, I wouldn’t worry about it – at all. The natural scent of a woman’s vagina is highly arousing.
Showering really well normally makes oral much more pleasant.
We both shower (me) and bathe (her) before enjoy the delights of each other's body. The taste of her lady bits are a combination of sweetness, tartness, and over the moon delicious. Thinking about her love garden’s scent is hardening my cock as I write this!
LLL, you will find your hubby to lavish your pussy!
We always bathe before a sex session. I installed a bidet when I did our bathroom exactly for that, in case we want to get to it in a hurry! She is just delicious. Sometimes sweeter than at other times, but the aroma and taste is always a big turn on. Quite often she will suck me first; it gets her wet, and the creamier the better as far as I'm concerned. Slurping her nectar is….ohh yess.
I’m another for whom the entire experience is most erotic when I get to see, taste, and smell my wife’s pussy. ‘Reasonably’ clean is enough for me.
I’m 74, she’s 72. I’m not always able to perform as I once did, but giving my dear wife pleasure with my mouth is very much within my ability.
We met as teens. (Wait! Maybe I should use this as my first short story!)
I love having my pussy sucked. Michael has always loved sucking the nectar from my pussy. Riding his mouth and massaging his face, mouth and lips with my creamy pussy is loved by both of us. I'm in control to some degree when I ride his mouth and produce my orgasms. Lying on my back with a pillow under my ass and my legs spread wide with my knees bent is where Michael does his magic. Sucking my cunt while he fingers me always produces multiple orgasms, and I love being that submissive for him. I give my pussy to him and he can suck me anytime he wants. I am his to enjoy.
Mmmmmmm, your comment gave me an instant hard-on!
I would say that Kate and I both enjoy giving and receiving about equally. We absolutely LOVE oral. Because we both enjoy all so much, we quite often opt for 69, though I must have the right pillow support to enable me to not give out.
Another classic is she is lying flat on her stomach and she reaches back to spread her asshole nice and open. I will give her the most passionate rimjob I can manage to delivery, while stimulating inside her pussy with my right middle and reaching around to stroke and rub her clit with my left fingers. Once she gets soaking wet, I drop down and lick her pussy from behind with tremendous fury. My nose will be pressed into her asshole, which is hot too.
In agreement~better to give than receive! Really great topic and we have learned a ton from this MH site and from the wealth of knowledge shared in this community-so thanks to all!
I am grateful for the opportunity to share! From the guy’s perspective here…In the giving of this erotic act of slow, methodical oral on my beautiful bride, our “go-to” position (always “wife’s choice”) is 69 ~that is my “hot babe” on her back with my body reversed over her belly~my head buried into “the treasure” for my tongue and lips to work the logistics of which God created! Preparation of always showering thoroughly and being mindful of setting the mood (soft music and candles) leading up to these foreplay moments is most important for each of us. So in this position, I am lying over top of my wife’s beautifully naked and sensuous body, my ass in her direct view, giving her full access to my “back door” of which she loves to “take advantage” via a prostate massage! Getting off track here ~ the point is that I am an absolute believer in “cunnilingus time” – absolutely nothing like it! Times of chatting about preferences brought us to experimentation of what is now our norm!! Our foreplay has become just a beautiful time and brings her to “that point” of being ready for her to receive the continued component of “my stiff package”! I have learned that taking our time is key (20 or so minutes) and is such a sensual act! I’ve had to tame my inner most being during this process so I don’t shoot my load (from my intensely sensitive, engorged cock brought on by this delightful performance of lovemaking) before entering her and rocking her world with our second phase of love making! Then once I have made certain she is seeing stars from her orgasms ~brought on by my thrusting “member”, and I have fully emptied every last drop of semen in her juice filled compartment, the “happy ending” and third phase begins! I slide down from missionary position and have my head buried in-between her legs and slowly perform oral again, my tongue lapping up the combined fluids of us both ~which are flowing at this point from “her garden”! So there is my opinion on female oral from this guy’s perspective and one of our favorite positions of both my lovely wife and myself!
Thanks for this 2b1. I've never done your happy "ending phase", although we were chatting about it just a few days ago. I guess I'm put off by the fact that my fervour subsides quickly after I've cum and the idea of licking my own Jizz does make me feel a bit ooky. But I'm trying to get my head around that. Licking her rosebud wasn't in my operations manual a year or two back, and now the kinda taboo nature of it gets me real horny!
Hey Britbloke~I have to say that my wife has been my mentor in a lot things in life and the main thing is IN BED (or wherever we find ourselves)! However in all things cunnilingus ~the topic “Married20” began and stirred many great comments on ~ours has been a journey. You and all husbands who pleasure their wife through ORAL are mentors to me in this “department” and us guys with not a lot of experience. I am enjoying this path of growth as I try new stuff which I’m not always sure of! Then to see my wife ask for more ~as it brings her pleasure ~is my greatest passion, puts a smile on my face, and stiffens my rod! For us, the prelude to arriving to this point of “postplay” (or “The Happy Ending After”) as a “norm” was I believe where you’re at – starting the path with discussion. I would read about how to better pleasure my “better~half”~and that led to foreplay of cunnilingus not too long ago. Then I read a MH story a while back (I believe by “Tulsa”) about his experience with his wife and lapping up the “post-love making” combined juices (as he states earlier in this discussion)! Their experience of how it reignited the fervour after their orgasms interested me and has had a lasting impact and so “I dived in” (after chatting about adding in this “new phase” with the Mrs. to make sure she was comfortable with this new entity)! I hear you on the being put off of slurping up your own jizz. A few years ago when I was 14-ish yrs old – I started broadening my masturbation sessions and while on my back – would flip my legs over my head so that I could ejaculate straight in my mouth. And now a few years later-if I’m in solo~mode I will do the same or shoot into a shot glass and slurp it down. I say this because after I enjoyed Tulsa’s story I thought that is one exotic deal which I want to experience to deepen the intimacy with my wife (as God expects me to do) and of which I had already experienced with my slurping of my own deal (which I’ve heard has some nutrients involved!). Do I always feel horny and ramped up after ejaculation inside my wife ~No!~ however as I head into her to slurp- I want her to continue to feel my love continue after my orgasm has subsided. A beautiful thing and to continue love making in this way has led to beautiful times in our “Happy Ending AFTER”! (I believe in balance in dieting and exercise and same with my “love-making life”~ Looking forward to dessert at the end of an excellent meal is ecstasy!)
I can tell you, the first time I went down on my wife after cumming in her, was not something I really wanted to do. I did so anyway, because I had cum so quick and she was barely warmed up.
Despite my best efforts to work on her clit, and not get a taste of my own jizz, I couldn't, because she humped my face like a crazy person when she came! When she was done, my face was dripping with both our stuff, and what do you know……I was hard as a rock again!
The results were why I did it a second time! And, a third & on & on. Wasn't long, that the after ejac blahs disappeared, and the thought of getting a mouthful of my own cum, wasn't a bad thing at all, and was a real turn on to me too!
Your results may vary! 🙂
Agreement with Tulsa as I experienced very similar approach and positive results! Those after ejac blahs have turned into ramped up moments!! Thank-you Tulsa for passing on your lessons to assist in our love making!
We both love oral. For LLL, we have bidets on all our toilets. This has been a game-changer. She feels fresh all the time.
We are both in our mid-60s, married 46 years. We have oral one way or another 6 days a week. Full-on sex almost every other day. Jesus is the head of our house. We are very blessed.
Wow, you two are setting good examples for the rest of us!
What a fun discussion, I think I will jump in.
I look at oral sex with my wife as a buffet. There are a number of different courses. First of all, I love the smell and taste. If she takes a shower before planned lovemaking, I tell her to leave the area between her legs unwashed, please. For me this is intoxicating. I find myself moaning as much as she does, just because I enjoy it so much.
As far as positions, for us old folks the easiest position is with her on her back with a pillow under her butt. This helps out my neck for the ability to last longer. For my first course, I get between her legs and begin using my finger tips to ever so gently graze the inside of her legs. I move my fingers from her knees up to the area just below her vagina. I love to tease. I can normally tell when it is starting to drive her crazy because she will open her legs further apart. I also run my finger tips over her pubic hair. This gets her every time.
When I feel the juices beginning to flow, it's time for the next course. I begin by licking around the edges, occasionally moving from one side to the other as my tongue grazes over her hair. I slowly move closer to the opening, but continue to tease.
The next course is one of my favorites. When my wife can’t take the teasing any longer, she uses her fingers on both sides to open her lips wide. By this point, I can’t take the teasing any longer either, and I slowing begin to touch my tongue around her clit. Once my tongue gets the taste, it normally does not take very long before I lose control and begin feasting. Often while feasting, I enjoy using one finger to stimulate her G-spot. This course will continue until she can no longer take it, and she tells me to come up. And of course, that becomes another meal.
I will finish by agreeing with 2Becum1 that licking her after we have both squirted is extremely erotic.
My favorite position is when my wife is on her knees and I suck on her from behind. Usually her juices ooze out and I can catch some with my hands, and enjoy the wetness in more ways than one.
Other times it's just a matter of good old fashion "lie back and let him have you with his tongue," which I also enjoy. My wife tastes so delicious!
Ohhhh, the delicious and naughty pleasure of dining on her from behind. Having her face down with her ass up and knees spread while I spread her cheeks and engorge myself on the delights of her unique flavors. Mmmm…I may need a minute…😉