Reaching New Depths (A)
Happy to share my first MH story entry with everyone. This event happened a while back and is vividly and delightfully seared into my memory. I think it managed to awaken something in both of us and has been a game changer ever since.
My wife Kate is the absolute love of my life, and sharing my life with her is an absolute joy. Kate grew up on a rural coconut farm in the Philippines, which is a more conservative society about sexuality. Yes, sailors that frequented certain clubs near the base in decades past might have other perspectives. But, generally outside of red-light areas, what I said is true.
Kate has been pretty innocent and naïve in a sweet way. She has also been very open to exploring new things in our sex life. She is 14 years my junior and, in contrast to my pale 5’9”, 275 lb., less-than-ideal physique, she is a very petite 4’8” and 100 lbs. with fairly dark skin and beautiful brown nipples and pussy that find their way to my mouth routinely.
I never get less than her best effort when Kate and I make love. Her oral fixations extend beyond my genitals, and we have always enjoyed eating ass, but I just felt an urge to take it to another level this night, and I knew her passion would be up for the task. She does have a weird hang up about being grossed out by her own saliva, which made this night more special after she ignored her inhibition.
I withdrew my tongue from deep within her mouth. Things had just begun to heat up, and I told her to drop to her knees. She surely expected to take my cock into her mouth. I turned 180 degrees and thrust my rump into my beautiful wife’s face. I instantly spread my cheeks and barked a “LICK MY ASSHOLE!!!” directive to my wife.
The words weren’t out of my mouth before she was locked on and feverishly swabbing my anus with her tongue. I could feel the warmth of her saliva and hear the sounds of her intense tongue movements. As I lightly bobbed my ass up and down, we built a beautiful rhythm of her persistent, wet tongue strokes to my asshole.
At this point, it was time to take it from the floor to the bed. We have a sizeable bedroom with a massive TV on the far wall, so we made the atypical decision to put a loveseat at the bottom of our bed for when we opt to catch a movie right before retiring for the night. The loveseat is a few inches higher than the bed, so I bent my body over the loveseat and gave Kate a full view and control of my ass.
“Babe, I want to feel your tongue deep inside my asshole. I want to feel it like it’s never been before,” I said.
“Mmmmm. Yes, love!!!” Kate’s soft cooing voice said, conveying her excitement.
However, her next immediate move was an amazing tease to warm me up. She playfully licked and lightly sucked my scrotum, softly rubbing my balls and slowly stroking my cock. Her amazing ability to hit just the right spots and pressure had me so aroused and filled with pleasure.
She refocused her attention to my asshole, and our four hands helped spread me open as much as possible.
“Babe, relax your ass so I can get as much of you as possible,” she told me.
I focused on breathing and relaxing, while trying to contain my excitement from the rush I was feeling. Kate’s wet tongue pressed its way inside my asshole. I closed my eyes and savored the sensation of her reaching beyond anything she had achieved before. My moans of pure joy provided her with all the encouragement she needs to continue her persistent probing.
“Deeper, deeper, DEEPER!!!” I howled and she pressed hard into my rectum, sending me over the moon.
“Hold your ass wide open for me, babe,” she said after she had pulled backed for a brief second.
I spread my asshole as much as I could, and she reached around and grabbed my hips. With primal grunting and groaning, she pulled my ass to her and drove her tongue in with incredible fury. I could feel her teeth pressed into the area below my tailbone. She was salivating heavily, and I could feel her sweet slobber begin to coat my balls. She took a momentary breather, and I was ready for a new motion from her.
“Swirl your tongue all around my pipe, baby. I want you to taste every bit of hubby’s rectum you can reach.” And I was immediately treated to the sensation of her tongue swirling around and around the outer portion of my rectum. Obviously, anatomy limits how deep one can really reach in rimming a partner, but I’m sure Kate managed to get in excess of a full inch into me. It was exceptional and incredible in all ways.
“Does my rectum taste good, baby?” I teased.
I received a flurry of probing and swirling, accompanied by her heavy moaning and salivating as her confirmation. Her saliva had begun to slide down the length of my cock.
After a few minutes of Kate’s deep, passionate French kissing my rectum, we tired of that position. Kate lay back against the loveseat and took my cock into her mouth.
After what she later admitted was an initially adverse reaction to the taste early in our marriage, Kate says that she loves to taste and swallow my semen. As she worked her mouth up and down my cock, I knew I was close to coming. I noticed the sensation of her saliva that had drenched all around my asshole beginning to get cold, and I smiled with appreciation at the wonderful pleasure she had provided me. The most taboo and dirtiest, some would say, of areas was nothing but insatiable desire to my beloved wife.
I released a wonderful climax into her mouth, and she milked me so as to not cheat herself out of any remaining semen she could salvage. Her neck muscles moved, confirming her swallowing of my love yogurt.
I was happy she got the reward she worked so hard for. I looked down at Kate and her warm face, smiling ear to ear, then softly ran my hand down her cheek, telling her how much I love her.
Rimming has never been the same for us. That night began what has been taking it to a whole new level. When we eat ass, we don’t mess around, start slow, etc. We delight in probing and licking everything we can get from each other. “Let’s take a shower” is code for one of us to suggest epic ass eating. The event above recalls a lovely memory that began taking it to a next level, but it has become the norm since then, and I match every bit of the intensity when I devour her sweet asshole.
Every minute on this earth with Kate is a true blessing! We have no hesitation or limits in physically expressing that love for each other. I love her more than I could ever begin to say.
So yesterday was my first story. Someone (me) didn’t understand the submission process when I submitted them. LOL
Love reliving my joyous moments on MH and hope they inspire your own adventures.
Alan (and MH), I am appalled and disgusted by this story. Re-read your story sir. Nothing, and I repeat NOTHING about this story is selfless toward your wife. Nothing is edifying, nothing speaks Love, nothing speaks Kindness, and I could continue. If you read about how Christ treated women, you might evaluate your behavior to be the polar opposite. In each and every encounter with them, He was loving, He was patient, He was compassionate, He was….
I may be a lone dissenter, but I couldn't find this story more repugnant. Just one man's opinion.
Peace.
It is well within your rights to determine that Analingus is not your thing, because you find it repugnant. It's obviously a fairly unorthodox act that is not for everyone.
But I take issue with your pious attacks on Alan. You assert that nothing about his story is edifying, or loving, or kind etc. Did you completely miss the part where he made his requests to his wife and that she happily obliged and with great excitement and pleasure of her own?
He was not commanding her to perform an act she was uncomfortable with. Quite the opposite. What could be more loving and kind than being honest with your spouse about what you desire, and then delighting in the act together as she takes pleasure in participating?
Based on your response, this particular sex act is obviously highly distasteful to you – which, again, is your prerogative – but by extension of this you have determined that because you find it repugnant, it is therefore universally repugnant and anyone who requests it of their spouse is guilty being selfish and unloving, regardless of whether the story indicates (clearly) that the wife enjoys the act equally.
Then you follow up your condemnation by telling the author how un-Christlike he is being – again, based on nothing more than your fallacious logic that a man is mistreating his wife by asking her to perform a sex act on him that YOU find disgusting.
Your comment was more than just a voiced opinion, it was a self-righteous diatribe. When it's made clear that both the husband and the wife happily participate in this activity together, you have no right to cast judgement on Christian character based on nothing more than what sexual acts YOU prefer or don't.
Perhaps next time you could end your comment after merely stating "this isn't my thing".
Or maybe better yet, don't say anything at all.
While I am still not fully enchanted with the idea of rimming, I can't say that anything in this story was off-putting. Husband and wife are totally in love and want to bless and pleasure each other; neither is coerced or coercing; they are eager to try new things. If she had hesitated or been uncomfortable and he still forced it, that would have been wrong. But there is none of that. Every couple is of course going to have different practices in their sex life. I myself wonder what things I will or won't be interested in trying if I ever get married. The rule should always be: is it safe, moral, and are both spouses are on board?
LovelyLonelyLady:
I agree; safe, moral and both spouses on board is a good place to start
My rule of thumb is that everything in the marriage bed is acceptable if it remains within these boundaries:
-It involves ONLY the husband and wife (no orgies, no threesomes, no watching other couples, no bestiality)
-It doesn't break the law (no sex in public, no public nudity)
-Both the husband and the wife are comfortable and happy to participate in it
If all these are fulfilled, I believe anything a husband and wife do together can not only be considered acceptable, but as honoring to God.
I think this story is wonderfully passionate, so thanks for sharing! Not really my thing, because I can't imagine the taste and don't know how hygienic it could possibly be–even if my wife wanted to do it to me, I think I would have a lot of hangups about kissing her immediately after that. To each his own. I do want to say, Filipinas can be incredibly attractive!
I did indeed hit the lottery with my wife, in all ways. 🙂
Hubbie here: Ahh, to quote Ron Burgundy, “Boy, that escalated quickly… I mean, that really got out of hand fast.” So much to process, too much to comment on. Just a few points, if I may.
* ThirdCoastLover, as stated, you certainly get your opinion, and I think MarriageHeat encourages discussion and even disagreement. I do think your “appalled and disgusted”, and “repugnant” assessment of the story went a tad out of bounds with the judgements about AA’s character and relationship with his wife.
* musicmaker86, your response was well-reasoned, and spoke to a different way that TCL could have made his opinion about the story known. I agree with your recommendation to “… end your comment after merely stating "this isn't my thing".” The “Or maybe better yet, don't say anything at all.” discourages dissent.
* LovelyLonelyLady, your gentle spirit blessed me in your comment, “ Every couple is of course going to have different practices in their sex life. I myself wonder what things I will or won't be interested in trying if I ever get married. The rule should always be: is it safe, moral, and are both spouses are on board?” Well said.
* Alan A, here’s some “two-edged sword” advice about writing erotica. On one hand, it’s very good (and hot) to be genuine and reveal a bit of your sexuality to your readers. On the other hand, you are writing for a reading audience with varied sexual practices and tolerances. I think good erotica balances these two.
So, if I may, some gentle recommendations for finding this balance …
– “I turned 180 degrees and thrust my rump into my beautiful wife’s face. I instantly spread my cheeks and barked a “LICK MY ASSHOLE!!!” directive to my wife.”
– I think “rump”, “barked”, and “directive”, are a little strong. And I trust you know that ALL-CAPS means yelling. Again, maybe strong in this context.
– “Swirl your tongue all around my pipe, baby. I want you to taste every bit of hubby’s rectum you can reach.” Perhaps “pipe” and “taste … hubby’s rectum” could have been worded a little more discretely.
– ““Does my rectum taste good, baby?” I teased.” – again, if this is great stuff for you and Kate, then have at it. For a reading audience, it is probably a bit much. To you, it may convey heat and passion, but some may take it as gross, yuck, disgusting, etc., and be turned off, rather than turned on.
I do love your positive, unfettered passion, and Kate’s character arc, but the extreme writing style could be received as off-putting. I have been a staunch advocate of “If God’s Word doesn’t specifically say ‘no’, then it can be a ‘yes’ for a married couple.” That freedom is best communicated to a reading audience with care.
To all, I’m glad for the reveal of passion, the expression of disagreement, and any ensuing discussion. I would encourage us all to remember that this is a Christian site, and it’s been said “they’ll know we are Christians by our love.” Love you all. Blessings and passion.
QueenandHubbie:
I concur with a lot of what you said.
To clarify, when I wrote "don't say anything at all" I'm not discouraging dissent necessarily. MH should always be a place for free and open dialogue. I simply felt that given the commenters overwhelmingly negative reaction to the story, if it wasn't possible to reply without being judgemental then perhaps it would've been more respectful to simply not respond at all.
I also agree with your construction criticism about the language used in the story. It was indeed very graphic, more so to a degree than I think most on MH are used to. Speaking only for myself, I certainly wouldn't use language like that – it's just not my thing. Were it worded in a more discrete way, as you put it, I think the content would come across much more palatable.
None of which is to suggest the story itself is bad. As I state earlier, I think such an act between a husband and wife happily engaging with each other is a wonderful thing. But conveying the beauty of it in writing definitely requires tasteful tact.
I stand by what I said Musicmaker. "Barking" at the daughter of the King to do such a vile act is reprehensible. One might even say it is "…degrading and dishonorable.." (see Rom 1:26). By your standard of being supportive since they are "happily engaging in this activity together", I suppose you think introducing bestiality and Pan worship is ok as well? Your lengthy defense of this tripe speaks volumes about you and I could give a rip what you think.
MarriageHeat: Please reconsider your decision to leave Alan's post active on your site. Christians should enjoy all that God has for us sexually. That said, acts of perversion left on your site is going to taint the entire site for reasonable and level headed Christians. It is a slippery slope … where are you going to draw the line?
Your insinuations and accusations are baseless and out of line, and your vitriolic attitude towards myself and other members is incredibly disrespectful.
The entirety of your argument is “I PERSONALLY find this sexual act disgusting, therefore it IS disgusting and anyone who engages in it IS disgusting”. The extent of your scriptural evidence provided to back up your judgements begins and ends with “I PERSONALLY label this act is degrading and dishonorable, and since scripture condemns acts that are degrading and dishonorable – the Bible supports my judgement”
Romans 1:26 refers to God’s condemnation of pagan people whose lust is so unrestrained it causes them to engage in evil acts OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE like adultery, extra-marital sex, prostitution, group sex, homosexual sex and rape. It has absolutely nothing to do with the sexual acts that take place within the confines of marriage between ONE MAN and ONE WOMAN. If you’re going to reference scripture to attempt to back up your judgements, maybe check the context before you cherry pick particular words that seem to suit your personal descriptions.
My guide for what is acceptable within the marriage bed is simple: Any sexual act is acceptable and God honoring as long as it ONLY involves one man (husband) and one woman (wife) and both are comfortable with engaging in the act. So no, obviously ‘bestiality’ is not acceptable – not only because it falls outside the bounds of “one man, one woman” but because God specifically denounces the act (Lev 20:15). Pan worship is a violation of God’s first commandment (no other gods before me) – so obviously that is unacceptable.
Frankly, you overstep your bounds as a member when you not only leave such bitter and judgmental comments, but also to attack the MH community as a whole and demand that the moderators censor content as you see fit. Obviously you are welcome to participate and voice opinions but it seems to me that a large majority of MH content likely falls short of your standard of acceptability.
So with all due respect, sir; why are you even here?
TCL, we do not see anything perverse or unloving in the acts described. The story will remain.
MHers, I apologize profusely that the original comment on this thread was published. It is MH policy not to allow mean-hearted personal attacks, only *peaceful* discussion and reasoning. I am grateful to the MH community for upholding that standard.
This particular thread is now closed.
MarriageHeat follow-up comment: Per your guidelines … "Please remember to mention precautions taken for safety and comfort, for the sake of those who might be considering following your example." I can't imagine a situation where the need for said guideline would be greater. Even a passive internet search on anilingus will yield reasonable cautions from WebMD, Mayo Clinic, and the CDC including diseases, bacteria, and parasites. Again, I appeal to you to reconsider allowing the story to remain.
Well stated, LLL.
“The rule should always be: is it safe, moral, and are both spouses on board?”
QueenandHubbie: I accept your admonishment. I believe your balanced commentary was better than mine in every way.
Okay, I was initially a little irritated at reading ThirdCoastLover's comments and those that were directed at the immense love I have for Kate were out of bounds, plain and simple. I'm not one to hold a grudge, and once I saw 14 comments on my story this morning, I sort of felt like a rock star. LOL. A few thoughts:
– I had no illusions that I was going to get a 5.0 rating on my story and knew a few would read it with a "ugh…nasty!!!" reaction in their minds. It was written for the [lovers of] asses, not the masses. LOL. Rimming is not everyone's cup of tea and I get that. Hygienic concerns are minimal for a monogamous couple. Kate and I never go beyond surface level without a real good shower and feeling all is comfortable. Washing good and some commons sense go a long way. One should probably take a pass on Taco Tuesday.
– Sex itself is not 100% hygienic, in a clinic sense, and risk free. It's probably messy if it's done right. That aspect is a little taboo in itself and a turn on for some of us.
– Kate would tell you she enjoys rimming, both giving and receiving, more than conventional PIV sex.
– Somewhere the word "perversion" was thrown out. IMO, nothing between a husband and wife (solely–no 3rd parties) is off limits. Perversion isn't even a relevant concept for a Christian married couple, much like "lust" which Paul says is resolved to two individuals desiring each other pursuing marriage. We may use words like "perverse" or "lust" in detailing hot stories, but not in the context of sin.
– Any calls for censorship were unreasonable. There have been other accounts of it on MH before. Mine was very graphic. It was a dirty story. My wife and I don't mess around when it comes to kink and pushing hard on the boundaries. Kate loves my dirty talk and gets turned on by it. If I go too far, she'll say "yuck!!!" and we'll both spend a couple minutes laughing it off. My "directive" was certainly playful when it actually happened, and I thought that would be understood by readers, but I do acknowledge it as graphic, intense or extreme.
– We're a very anal couple. We do have quickie, "Vanilla" sex, on the spur of the moment, but I don't write about such typical things. 90% of the time when we settle in for lovemaking, her ass is getting tongue, fingers, toys or my cock and/or mine is getting the same (minus cock, of course). That is way we roll and we make no apologies for it. If anything, we're looking for new boundaries to smash, not to dial anything back. We "talk shop" a little bit sometimes with a couple of couples we're very close to and love watching their eyes pop out of their heads, and their jaws hit the floor, when we mention things we do. We giggle all the way home, arriving hornier than ever and ready for pushing new limits once again.
– I am the dominant one in our relationship, due to our personalities, but that doesn't mean anything is abusive or coercive. My accounts are typically written from MY perspective. IMO, I am singing Kate's praises by detailing her passion and efforts to please me.
– Considering the details above about my marriage, I am probably going to be one of the more graphic and edgy writers on MH, because that IS our sex life and the way we love it. Some other submissions are already set to publish, but I consider some thoughts particularly by QueenandHubbie in the future. My graphic nature is meant to be hot for those it appeals to. I do realize our sex life is pretty at the far end of the continuum.
– One person's "degradation" is another's hot fantasy. Many consider watersports (pee play) very degrading, but Kate and I freaking love it. Just because something is a turnoff or downright gross to you doesn't indicate anything about how other individuals view their love for each other.
– Kate means beyond the world to me. I love her like I could never have imagined loving anyone and she came into my life at a time when I had given up on love. There is so much to who she is and I love spending every moment with her I can. There is far more to our relationship than dirty, no-limit sex…but we do surely enjoy every minute of that too. 🙂
Sorry Alan, you got a 1 from me. Get yourself in shape and give twice as much as you ass for.
LOL, no worries. Our routine isn't for all.
I am in the process of getting in shape, which is fantastic for the love life too. Down over 30 pounds and counting from the time of the story at hand. As far as giving, this account was just an instance of Kate pleasuring me, which is not uncommon for my submissions, written entirely from my perspective. I am happy to report Kate gets hers too. 🙂
Alan,
I have no advice for you. No tips. No subtle hints. No improvement ideas. I just want to say that I thoroughly enjoyed every detail of your loving and sensual account! The total mutual acceptance that you two have for each other's whole bodies is both hot and inspiring. The full transparency is laudable. The trusting vulnerability is attractive. I celebrate your oneness. Thank you for sharing the experience that you and Kate have had. God bless you both. LH
Lovinghusband, absolutely beautifully said. Our love and sexual adventure is not everyone’s cup of tea, but we can’t get enough of it. 🙂