An Exhibition Fantasy and Discussion
I’d like to start off by saying that, as you’ve probably noted from various comments of mine, open exhibitionism or voyeurism without explicit consent from all parties is not a turn-on for me. I’ve worked in the mental healthcare sector, as well as security, and I’ve dealt with flashers and exhibitionist masturbators in both of those lines of work. Those experiences annoyed me more than aroused me.
With that preface out of the way, I’ve always found auditory exhibitionism and voyeurism arousing. Hearing others make love in an adjacent hotel room, or being aware that others can hear me and Vanessa, is a major turn-on, and doesn’t strike me as deviant or wrong or sinful. Throughout most of history, humans lived in very close quarters and likely overheard each other’s sexual pleasure on a daily basis.
The most extreme fantasy of mine, though, takes things a step beyond that. I would love to passionately take my wife in a private setting, in front of consenting adults. I would want them to be vetted people I can feel comfortable with. I’d also want them to honor and respect my wife.
She is beautiful, but is a heavy girl. She was somewhat leaner when we met, but she currently has a very similar body type to the late Worship singer Mandisa, who was beautiful as well, but had struggles with her weight and health. I love my wife very much, and would want to know that those watching would appreciate her beauty for what it is, and not be inclined to mock or look down on her for her size as they see her body without any clothing.
I would love to express our love mutually in the most intimate ways as others watched. It would only add to the fire if those watching began masturbating and having their own orgasms, or else having sex with their own spouses. I would not want any “swinging” or orgies to occur. Just enjoying the effects of the erotic sights, sounds, and sexual energy on our bodies and appreciating the results.
I’ve shared this fantasy with Vanessa once, and told her I sometimes imagine it while we are making love, and it makes the sex feel even more intense for me. She said, “I don’t see anything wrong with that.” I told her I wish there was a way to fulfill it someday—not that I necessarily ever will—and in response, she gave me a naughty smile.
Another similar fantasy I’ve had since my youth was to be consensually watched by others as I treasured, touched, explored, and brought my own body to a slow, building, edging orgasm. To see and hear their arousal in response to mine, and to watch them begin to enjoy themselves as well. I have never acted on this fantasy, but still occasionally imagine it when I masturbate alone, such as when my wife and I are temporarily apart.
Once again, I am not talking here about online porn, or public exhibitionism either. And I’m definitely not talking about orgies or “swinging”. I’m merely fantasizing about highly erotic, but very controlled and vetted settings where people touch themselves or stimulate their partners in a private setting, together, and enjoy all the sights and sounds as it mutually increases the arousal in the room.
Have any of you ever fantasized in similar ways? Have any of you ever experienced something like this? I admit, rather shyly, that it is something on my bucket list, even though I may not ever truly experience it.
NorthernSky, thank you for sharing your fantasy! It was hot to read how you would enjoy others watching you loving on your wife. I definitely enjoy catching glimpses of others making love in their homes (living in nyc is perfect for that 👀) and I share the fantasy with you. It’s such a turn on for me to think of sharing a room with other couples, each couple making love and pleasuring their spouses and everyone enjoying watching. I’m so proud of how well my husband makes me cum and it would be so hot to squirt while other couples watch us.
Thank you for your reply! I am glad I am not alone in this fantasy. I know we’ve been eavesdropped on while having sex a couple of times, and the experience was so thrilling. So I imagine being watched and listened to at the same time (like if someone was in the room with us) would be all that and then some.
Jill Marie,
WOW, I just love a squirting pussy!!
The idea that you would want to be watched while having a squirting orgasm is really HOT, and now I have an aching hard-on.
I'm eagerly seeking my next wife, and I hope that she would enjoy watching me jack-off as much as I would enjoy watching (and helping!) her jill-off.
This, too, is a fantasy of mine. No interaction (touching) between the married couples – us and them. Also, masturbating in front of or both masturbating (no touching) is also a fantasy. Watching, enjoying, hearing, sharing our own/my sexual pleasure within eyesight and earshot would be highly erotic and enhance our/my pleasure. Thanks for share your honest fantasy, NorthernSky.
Thank you SilverGold for your comment! I am a very reserved fella and have a lot invested into my career and the church, so sharing anonymously this very personal fantasy and finding out there’s others with similar interests has definitely been encouraging.
So, my wife and I are kinda experienced in being watched, as well as watching others, having sex!
Biggest example: https://marriageheat.com/2021/06/20/the-watchers/
A note on the above encounters, is we didn't know it was happening, until afterward…..but it was still HOT!
Even though we did and still do get all heated up and humping when we talked about it, especially the above times, it's still not something we would plan and do intentionally no matter how much we trusted the other couple! I can't argue the fact that is is fun & hot for us to think about, but that's where we leave it!
Yes that’s a very sexy story. I don’t think Vanessa and I have ever been watched like that without us knowing. We’re usually pretty careful we aren’t in view from potential passerby when having sex. I wouldn’t complain if it happened though as long as it was adults, but considering how careful we are I don’t think it would. I think in general, the idea of “getting caught” isn’t normally a turn-on for us if we don’t know about it or don’t know who is watching. That’s why my fantasy has to be a little more planned out. She has fantasized along with me though about that, having sex in a room where other couples are watching. She introduced me to the fantasy early in our marriage, actually!
Personally as a guy I’d love to masturbate with a group of consenting adults, both men and women. If anyone was married, I think it’d be okay for them to touch and/or have sex with their spouse also in that setting.
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I have had fantasies of a group of hot women taking me captive, stripping me of my clothes, and masturbating as I fix their major appliance, do yard work, and build them closer organizers.
LoLz
Seriously though, I sometimes fantasize women are watching me and my wife do it and masturbating. This is just a fantasy and I don't want it realized. I am more intensely aroused when I feel very comfortable and that is alone with my wife.
I think I was the victim of a peeping woman once. I heard her outside my apartment while I was naked. She made a gasping noise. Once I came home and she was peeking in my bedroom again. I felt she was kind of creepy but at the same time she was a cute younger woman so it was better than it being some gross sweaty dude. Plus, I figured I must not be so gross if she returned for seconds. Ha ha
@IsoHorny lol that’s really hot! When I was single in my late teens to mid 20s I had a lot of attention from gay men and while I appreciated the flattery I was never interested in anything more. Suffice to say I didn’t get a lot of attention from women, so I would have gone completely insane with excitement if I had had a peeping woman like you did! Frankly I probably would have gone against my better Christian judgement and tried to meet my peeping woman and ask if she wanted to spend the night with me 😈
Thankfully I eventually married my (female) best friend and she and I have had a lot of fun since then! 😄
@LonelyFarmer, I would 100% love to do this too. I’ve fantasized about it since my youth but have never actually done anything like it.
Closest I’ve come to any real experience resembling that was once I didn’t realize I could partially be seen. It was during my single, college years when I often got very horny after dark, and there wasn’t much space in my room, so I had to stand by my closed window next to the bed or lay down while taking care of things. I usually had a very harsh light on behind me and didn’t realize my silhouette was clearly visible outside (or I would have shut it off first). I definitely remember a few honks and playful shouts (probably from guys my age) while exploring myself a few times, and I didn’t understand what was going on at the time and kept jerking off, until one day I went outside at night and saw everything in my room completely backlit in silhouette against the shades! I actually wrote an erotica loosely based on the experience and it is scheduled to post in February. It is an arousing memory knowing some people seemed to enjoy it, and that memory only served to feed the fires of my fantasy. The thought of actually masturbating in the same room, though, with other people watching is only an imagination so far, but I imagine I’d probably stay pretty hard throughout the evening and cum several times in a row just from how intense it would feel, the gaze of others on my nude body during my most pleasurable moments. It feels funny to have such a kinky fantasy, because if you knew me in person I am actually a very reserved guy with a sterling reputation and very respected by those I work with and those who know me at church. Which makes me a bit nervous and in all honesty, I have a lot to lose, so there’s a good chance it will never be anything more than a fun fantasy. I’m thankful my wife doesn’t mind and even plays along with it sometimes!
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with either of these fantasies. Your wife’s response wasn’t a no, so maybe sometime it can work out for the both of you.
Cheers!
@KingdomMan thanks yes, I hope so! She likes to roleplay the fantasy with me sometimes. Maybe we can experience it for real someday.
Wow, I think that's super hot! I have had a similar fantasy of people (especially men) watching me and my future husband make love, but I'm not sure I'd be brave enough in real life! 🤪 It is still fun though to have that freedom to imagine scenarios, all in the marriage context and directing the heat and desire towards one's spouse.
Thanks LLL for your response!
Ok this happened to Julia and me on a road trip to a Hispanic pastor’s conference when an older widowed pastor went with us and we had to make unplanned stay at an Airbnb last minute on the way which turned out to only have two beds in one room next to each other. We’re apostolic and my wife dresses in long dresses and covers her hair, so I was curious how she would handle it but I was exhausted and fell asleep while she and Pastor Rey stayed up watching the Spanish tv station and chatting. The shows of course were full of scantly clad Latinas lol. My wife showered but didn’t have night clothes except for a shirt that barely covered anything. She slipped in the bed. She was closer Rey’s bed and I could feel her naked body against my bare back. It freaked me out but she grabbed me and started stroking. I turned around and she was not under the blanket so Rey could see everything with the glow of the tv. He acted like he was watching the tv and Julia decided to ride me. I objected but she did not stop. Her big brown boobs moved with her as she rode me quickly until she came and I came with her. She hit up and went up bathroom. Rey just smiled and turned off the tv. He never said a word about it. I might write a story about this later on if there’s interest
@RevRoberto I’d love to read the full story, that is such a turn on!
@revroberto I’d also love to read that story. I found the story that you posted earlier this year, and I’ve been dying for more content from you. That story was HOT.
@RevRoberto we’re still waiting for this story! As someone who is partly-Latino myself, I love the unique flavor your stories bring to our group. Hope to hear more about you and Julia soon!
It's a good thing you & your wife have such a good rapport. I believe every marriage is supposed to be partners in "crime." Meaning, as Bonnie & Clyde did, as criminals, marriages should be as disciples, in righteousness. I think people learn marriage the wrong way. Instead of being 2 halves of a whole, we end up being 2 individuals only getting along as long as we get our way. It is very nice to hear you & your wife not being afraid to be yourselves with & for one another. Would love to hear more of your conversations, & how you guys see sex & sexual differences.
It is a shame sexual liberty has to be kept secret from church. Yet, in its weakened state that it is in, consider it a dodged bullet. Better left alone.
I've often thought of a naked church service where our nudity before others would help us see the truth of Christlikeness. Where we can see all the imperfection & still forgive from the heart. A place where all feel welcome. Blemishes & all. Where confession & forgiveness actually heal.
Your fantasy would work in that. It would be a beautiful church. Where criminal & victim find repentance, forgiveness, love, & relationship with & for one another. The church we all long for…or maybe not.
Good post, thanks for sharing.
Thank you so much for your kind words!
RevRoberto, I loved it that Julia felt she could come on to you and ride you openly in front of the widowed Pastor. So instead of you sharing a goodnight kiss you had full on intercourse.
I would love to read more on this story. It got my 73 year old cock hard and erect and I concluded with a lovely messy orgasm !
It is kind of hot, I'll admit. I think that the audio side of it even moreso than actually watching a couple in the heat of the moment, but perhaps that's just me. Considering Gone Wild Audio exists, I'd say that there's ample opportunity for audio exhibitionism for singles and couples.
Erotic audio is extremely hot! 🔥
Vanessa and I have definitely gotten to experience the thrill of being eavesdropped on while having passionate sex. It’s amazing and only added fuel to our fire. Maybe I should write about it sometime.
Definitely!
Northernsky this is a hot fantasy! Me and my wife have been both ease dropped on and was dropped and it is certainly super spicy. We also have roleplayed the fantasy as well and we get very into it.
Hi NS. my wife and I can certainly resonate with you on several levels. Exhibitionism and Voyeurism have been a HOT part of our 40+ year marriage from our honeymoon up to the present! Perhaps a bit naively on our honeymoon, we took sexy very explicit naked pictures on a deserted beach right at the end of hotel row in Mexico, in the dark, but WITH a flash!! LOL, Who could possibly notice us “in the dark”?🤪 We never got caught, and don’t know if anyone actually saw us, but wetried to be a little more careful after we came down from our hormone driven risky high! We once slept on a beach, making love under a blanket when a man and his dog almost ran right over us. We made love by a secluded stream, and barely? got some clothes on when an acquaintance trekked through! We got down and “dirty” far off a trail in a high mountain meadow, finishing up when a ranger walked through! We once stopped to sleep exhausted at about 2 AM on a deserted road in front of a locked gate on a holiday weekend when we couldn’t find any motels with a vacancy, and we had quickie sleeping pill sex before falling asleep-only to be awakened by a security guard knocking on our window (fortunately he let us go back to sleep in our exhausted state when we promised to leave at daybreak). We often look back at those experiences and laugh, but as enjoyable as the preamble was, the almost getting caught never made us want to actually get caught by strangers!
On the other hand, on the same trip when we were awakened with a knock on our window, we were exploring another remote location, hoping for some private sexy time when we saw another couple making love outdoors, and backed quietly away in hopes that they weren’t disturbed by our presence, but oh boy did that get us turned on, and it has been a go to memory for years, whenever we reminisce about great sexy times! Another great memory came when we observed a couple who were at least partially undressed, in an open park in a Scandinavian country, obviously stimulating each other to a toe curling orgasm! We were so turned on we looked for an opportunity to pass on the joy, but never quite got over our American mindset of Puritanism or found the right place, so we lived out that fantasy in our hotel room! Again, a recurring memory we retell ourselves often!! We have occasionally heard subtle sounds of lovemaking when staying in hotels, but one exceptionally memorable night my wife woke me up saying. “you’ve got to come listen! Our neighbors are making love next door !!!” I couldn’t hear too much at first, but she pulled me into the bathroom where the sounds were unmistakable!! We stood there holding each other and listening intently!! I became rock hard, and my wife was wetter than I had ever seen her, and actually dripping onto the floor! After the couple next door came, and quieted down to cuddly murmurs, we returned to bed and made loud passionate love to return the favor!! We halfway hoped we might see them come out of their room in the morning so that we could tell them how much we appreciated them.
Through these experiences we realized that being caught by random people is not a turn on for us, but hearing and being heard, or seeing and being seen by people who would not be embarrassed, but rather appreciate the extra spark that can bring to their relationship, really lights our fire! With that, we have enjoyed one small (in accommodations) clothing optional resort that had a lot of outdoor space where we took full advantage of the romantic energy and made love in our ground floor room with the curtains open, and on beach lounge chairs at the far end of one of three available beaches. Finding locations that are personally comfortable and safe emotionally, professionally, and spiritually has been challenging. We have both agreed that we were well within the bounds of our marriage, even when we once experienced making love outdoors in the proximity of others even though we were close enough to see and hear each other more clearly. My fantasy stories have been those Marriage Heat stories like “Camping with Friends “ where two couples that know and trust each other actually end up having sex in the intimate privacy of one couple’s tent, or as another story suggested in a shared hotel room at a marriage enrichment weekend, or like Creamy Patty’s boldness with friends in a resort jacuzzi!
After experiencing the compact living in other countries and as is obvious in ancient cities of the middle or near east, and when reading the matter of fact report of Abraham and Sarah being seen sporting in the field, it seems clear to me that the anomaly in being heard or seen in the joys of married sex is in our modern puritanical upbringing, and not in the safe (for our time/legal environment/and church culture) privately shared intimacy of same room sexuality with open minded married and trusted friends, (Christian or otherwise)!
The difficulty for me of ever having such a fantasy become a reality is not the morality, but in actually being able to find or develop just such a trusting friendship.
Stay loving and adventurous!
Those sound like some awesome memories ALC. I’m happy that you and your wife have enjoyed so many sexy times.
As far as your general comment is concerned, I think your last paragraph sums it up pretty well.
I think it’s pretty rare to find people who are fully committed to their own spouse and are trustworthy enough to enjoy such a friendship. It happens, I’m sure, and although I would love to experience observing and being observed, I don’t know anyone personally who would fit the bill.
Thank you ALC for this great, well-written post. I agree with you, and KM is right: you do sum it up very well. Better than I could have said it!
I especially relate to the challenge of who would be willing to do that? Most people in the world who would go that far (sex in proximity to each other, watching, etc.) would want to go further and swing as well or engage in other orgiastic behaviors, which I would not be okay with as a Christian, nor do I really have any desire for it.
Also I am glad you can appreciate the professional and social considerations as well. If I went up to friends, even close friends, and invited them to watch me make love to my Vanessa, it could have very negative ramifications on my social standing and reputation if the request was not well-received. So, like I said, it’s a fun fantasy and probably nothing more 😄
If ever on the off chance it happens, though, I will definitely make sure to write up a good story post about it! 🥵 😄
Although I wouldn't call us exhibitionists my husband and I are not shy in the right context. For one anniversary we went to a couples only resort which had a topless section. I liked that because they had a separate area and signs declaring the expectation of partial nudity. I wouldn't want to offend someone who didn't consent to seeing something they weren't comfortable with. I love my husband that he has encouraged me to be more confident in my body under the right circumstances.
We only go to private resorts, sometimes with our friends, where nudity is permitted in certain areas and feel comfortable enough to partake. It kinda takes away from the excitement of getting caught but I just can't relax enough to enjoy nudity or sex knowing somebody I don't trust could take pictures or be offended.
I also wouldn't want to be intimate with my husband in front of strangers. We do that with very close friends on rare occasions. For me it's not the exhibitionism but just sharing a part of my life with people I deeply care about. We don't ever swap with our friends but we have made love to our respective spouses in the same room. It's nice not having any taboo subjects between our close friends.
Thanks for your reply that is well said. Yes I’d love to have sex with my wife in the same room as another couple, no swapping. As I said before, she’s the one who introduced me to the idea that that’s something people do. She had friends who she knew did that. Sounds really hot 🥵
wow! that's been a recent fantasy of mine. having sex with my wife in the same room as some of our married Christian friends. could you share how that played out for you and especially the first time it happened
I agree with @bulaman. We’d love to hear the story of how that happened for you. Maybe it can give us who have that fantasy ideas of how it might become a fantasy fulfilled for us, as well! 🔥
Very hot hearing and maybe seeing a couple in the next bed having sex.
I’m with @bulaman on this one too! I’ve had the same fantasy lately of making love in the same room as a close married couple we know. It’s a fantasy I revisit very often! 🥵 @RedHotKaren – do you have more to share on that story?
@bulaman
We have a close couple we have done it with many times. It started as an accident when we all shared a hotel room but have since done it just for the fun and thrill. It’s a good time and with the right couple and understood boundaries it’s a good time.
We’ve done it a few times where one couple “directs” the other. They pick the position or scenario and the other performs it while they watch. It’s a good way to learn new techniques and super erotic fun!
Watching another married couple is a top fantasy of mine. I've stopped trying to be quiet in a hotel room and I always hope for a loud couple next door.
Well, if I had anything to say about it, you could always he our guest! 😜
I’ll try to write some good stories about me and Vanessa so you can at least picture it in your mind! 😉
Realman,
I refer to that as "AURAL sex". 😉 I just posted a story about that. (It's still awaiting publication.)
MMMMM, Hey NS…. I spent a delicious 45 minutes reading your story, as well as the many hot responses herein – and I came very hard twice using [every] kind of masturbation technique you can imagine – and with Jim's huge tool away from home again, [I'm] still [so] fucking horny I can't believe it! ;0
Especially so as I have read this story several times and recalled some of Jim and my hottest public displays leading to incredible orgasms (and one 45 second long orgasm I had about a year ago when he slipped two fingers in my "other hole" at the very [beginning] of an especially intense pounding) and I thank you for keeping me super creamy all afternoon. I'm almost hoping my sis Barb shows up this afternoon so we can [read together and play].
Thanks again for your HOT motivation!!
[From MH: small edits made for readability and clarity.]
Wow CP, I’m really flattered!!
I’m unclear on what you particularly are referring to enjoying so much. Was it the original post about my fantasy? Or my story in the comments section about my silhouette being visible on occasion, unbeknownst to me, while I was masturbating as a college student? If so, I hope you enjoy the actual post about that when it goes live in February! I made minor artistic adjustments to the actual story, for readability and flow. But it is based on a true story. I initially had plans to turn it into a fictitious erotica series, but I ended up scrapping that idea in the end.
I have a lot of great stories about Vanessa as well. I feel really happy that you think she sounds hot! Please let me know any ideas you’d like to hear about us? Whatever your interests, chances are I have a good true story I can post.
Cheers!
CreamyPatty,
Your graphic descriptions of yourself "in action" are among my favorites!
I love that you are "comfortable in your own skin". (So is HornyGG, who is my #1 favorite — although it's a close race.) 😉
One of my favorite exhib/voy fantasies involves being on a hotel balcony that overlooks the ocean. This falls into the "accidental" category that the MH admin mentioned in a comment.
So, there I am, sitting on the balcony, minding my own business and enjoying the view of the ocean. We are about 12 floors up, but the constant sounds of the waves is carried in by the gentle breeze.
I hear the sliding door of the room next door. The balcony is maybe 10 or 12 feet away from mine, and so it would be nearly impossible for someone (other than Agent Ethan Hunt from "Mission: Impossible") to go from one balcony to the next. My wet beach towel is drying on the back of the other big outdoor chair, and so the couple next door does not see me at first as they step out onto their balcony.
Without a care, they begin having sex. I can see a glimpse over the top of my beach towel, but don't have a full view. As they are going at it, I reach across, grab the bottom of my beach towel, and quietly slide it off the other chair to improve my view. Then, using the towel as a covering, I slide out of my swimsuit and begin jacking off while watching them.
The wife is a real hottie, and so she wants it in every possible position. At some point, they turn and notice me. "How long have you been sitting there watching us?", the husband demands. "Well, I was here first," I reply. "I didn't want to get up out of my chair, as the noise my startle you and ruin the moment. So, I just sat here and quietly enjoyed the show."
The wife says, "Well… we have fantasized about being watched from another balcony, but never thought it would be the one right next door." The husband starts to pull out, but the wife demands, "No, honey, keep on fucking me! We wanted to be watched, and so here we are." Eventually, casual conversation and some "narration" make the encounter even hotter.
I'll stop here, to avoid this becoming a full-blown "story", but you get the idea. Friendly, accidental, no touching, and yet some really hot sex.
I can not imagine not being turned on watching others. He loves others watching me/us but took a long time to sometimes enjoying others seeing me. But if it clearly excites them it is a bit of a turn on.
I’ve got several stories in the works with graphic depictions of our sex life, and particularly how Vanessa’s body looks and responds when aroused. I know it’s not the same as really seeing something in person, but I hope it helps you imagine us having sex and can be pleasurable to read.
Cheers!
I just wanted to thank all of you who have given me positive feedback about my fantasy, and well-written comments as well.
I am honestly quite surprised at how positive this all has been, and I wish I could make love to Vanessa in front of all of you who have responded so positively, as a way of saying thank-you! 🥵 😫 💓 😜
Hopefully, my stories in the works about our sex life will be a treat for all of you who have a voyeuristic personality. I’ve worked hard to make them as descriptive as possible, so that you will be able to actively imagine our bodies during lovemaking, and hopefully play along as you read as well.
Cheers!
How about this little story. Will write a longer one later. […]
[Summary by MH: I have a story idea about a husband, his wife, and his close friend who are traveling together. Due to a booking error, they have to stay in the same hotel room. They play a spicy game of Truth or Dare, which leads to the husband and wife having sex as their friend watches.]
[From MH: If you would like to post a brief summary of a story idea you have, like the example we wrote above, that's fine. But in accordance with the guidelines, please submit full stories for publication instead of posting them as comments. Also, intentional exhibitionist encounters are still not generally accepted as stories on MH. We allow open discussion of such topics, but as stories, we feel that intentional exhibitionist encounters stray too far from our intended mission of promoting the beauty and pleasure of marital sex that is focused only between the husband and wife.]
@HornDog that sounds awesome!
Did the winner get to watch or have to be watched,
My only post on this site was a story prompt for this kind of thing (bedding ceremony)!
Vanessa and I have sometimes fantasized about being in a bedding ceremony during sex (she actually suggested it, knowing my exhibitionist personality) 😄
Lots of fun!!
@BlessedHubby, could you please link the story? I tried to search for it, but couldn’t find it. Thanks!
Oh it wasn’t a story, it was a writing prompt. My idea was something like two newlyweds who are history nerds are whisked away by the wedding party for a surprise bedding ceremony.
@BlessedHubby
Never mind, I found it and replied!
NorthernSky,
WOW, fascinating thoughts. Some of them are "close to the edge", regarding sin. But, I think that most of them, and most of the comments, stay on the right side of the line. Ancient cultures sometimes had songs that they would sing to encourage a couple that was fucking in a nearby tent. Even in the Song of Solomon, there is a very brief example of something like that. (I can't remember the specifics right now, though.)
By the way, the girl in the photo on this page is quite hot. Curvy, but not fat. Yum!
All of that foundation to say this.
One of my long-time fantasies has been to find a couple with some exhibitionist tendencies, get to know them on a friendly level, and then become their video cameraman while they enjoy each other. There would be some discussion of boundaries beforehand, of course, and those boundaries are basically what you described above. Tempting thought it might be, no touching. However, "narrating" and conversation during the sex would be a real turn-on for me. Regarding the video itself, the couple would keep the video to watch. I would keep a copy to "enjoy" later — with the understanding that it would never be shared with anyone else.
(I can't believe that I'm actually expressing this — and, on a Christian site, no less!)
Back when I was watching porn on a regular basis, I made similar offers to a small handful of couples. But, in that hedonistic world, there was always the risk that the couple might have a hidden agenda (i.e.: they might be Satanists). On this site, where most of the boundaries are already established up-front by the admins, those risks are filtered out. Thus, what is left is "ideologically" no different from being able to hear one's neighbors fucking in a nearby tent in the Israelite camp.
(Can you tell that I've had a couple of decades to think about some of these details…??)
Here is another area where this community differs from society at-large. Most of the people on this site are intelligent and articulate. Although the topic of "let's fuck" is central to most of the discussions, everyone also examines the thoughts and emotions behind that — and all through the vital lens of the Holy Bible. So, the setting of boundaries is going to be a natural part of any such discussion.
One other area to mention. (Sorry that this is going on so long, but there are a lot of sub-topics to address on this one.) A lot of men in modern society are so insecure that they often get riled-up if a man looks at their wife. You seem to think a lot more like I do: a man should take it as a COMPLIMENT when another man finds his wife attractive. Most men — whether Christian or not — adhere to the basic rule of "look, but don't touch".
Along that same line, a woman should take it as a compliment, too. In the setting that you describe, I would hope that your wife would react positively if I were to say, "Wow! You look so hot. Would you mind if I jack off while watching you getting fucked by your husband?" And, again, the husband would view that as a compliment rather than a threat.
If such a ("hypothetical") couple were to ever contact me and want me to be their cameraman, then I might even agree to do it without keeping a copy of the video. I would still have some amazing visual memories. 🙂 And, it would be the closest thing to getting some "sympathy sex" that this very lonely man (that has not been laid in 14+ years!) could find "on this side of the line".
Your thoughts…??
PS: Perhaps some of the dear mature wives on this site, when they read this, might think of a female friend that they think might be compatible for me.
Glad someone is keeping this thread alive. Definitely interested in hearing more from folks that have shared this type of experience with close Christian friends. Not sure how to even broach the subject with our friends. I don’t know if my wife would be up for such an adventure, so that would be another hurdle.
TO47: “WOW, fascinating thoughts. Some of them are "close to the edge", regarding sin. But, I think that most of them, and most of the comments, stay on the right side of the line. Ancient cultures sometimes had songs that they would sing to encourage a couple that was fucking in a nearby tent. Even in the Song of Solomon, there is a very brief example of something like that. (I can't remember the specifics right now, though.)”
My response:
Yeah, I make no bones about it, this fantasy of mine certainly does toe the line a little bit.
TO47: “By the way, the girl in the photo on this page is quite hot. Curvy, but not fat. Yum!”
My response:
I agree with you. Vanessa has had every body type at some point in her life. As a youth who sometimes had to miss meals due to poverty, I’ve seen pictures from her late teens where she was very thin for her tall and broad frame. In college, before we met, her appearance from photos was very similar in build and weight to the woman in this picture. While she had gained weight by the time we met, and at some times during our marriage has been quite overweight, she is currently working at losing weight. Her goal is, essentially, the build and weight of the woman in this picture.
TO47: “One of my long-time fantasies has been to find a couple with some exhibitionist tendencies, get to know them on a friendly level, and then become their video cameraman while they enjoy each other. There would be some discussion of boundaries beforehand, of course, and those boundaries are basically what you described above. Tempting thought it might be, no touching. However, "narrating" and conversation during the sex would be a real turn-on for me. Regarding the video itself, the couple would keep the video to watch. I would keep a copy to "enjoy" later — with the understanding that it would never be shared with anyone else.”
My response:
Sounds fun. I’m not sure how the friendship dynamic would play out if we were the couple in question, since we are probably the age of your children (if you have any. I can’t remember if you said or not). Still it would not be a problem for me hypothetically speaking. Out of curiosity, I’d like to know what narration or conversation you have in mind for the hypothetical video? Would that be something you would do? I am intrigued. As a side note, a playful game I sometimes engage in with Vanessa is trying to have a friendly chat with her while stealthily beginning to sexually pleasure her (keep in mind we were close friends before romantic partners). It’s fun to just chat with her as my best friend while subtly beginning to pleasure her, and playing it off like it’s no big deal. I’ve found once she reaches a certain level of sexual tension, she can no longer speak except for one or two word gasps and various wordless sounds.
TO47: “(I can't believe that I'm actually expressing this — and, on a Christian site, no less!)”
My response:
It helps that they made an outlet like this. I consider myself more conservative and “vanilla” than many I’ve met on here, and would not feel comfortable talking about these things face-to-face with most people who know me. So this anonymous way is helpful.
You want to know something? It turns Vanessa on to know that people are reading about her on here (or at least will once the stories go up).
TO47: “When I was watching porn on a regular basis, I made similar offers to a small handful of couples. But, in that hedonistic world, there was always the risk that the couple might have a hidden agenda (i.e.: they might be Satanists). On this site, where most of the boundaries are already established up-front by the admins, those risks are filtered out. Thus, what is left is "ideologically" no different from being able to hear one's neighbors fucking in a nearby tent in the Israelite camp.”
My response:
I’ve never watched porn as extensively as you describe, so I’m not really sure I can fully appreciate the dynamic or what that hedonistic world is like. I have seen some soft porn photography when I was young, along the lines of a traditional Playboy spread from the 1950’s or ‘60s. I also saw some slightly edgier photos of men and women together, usually with the woman performing oral sex on the man. I didn’t particularly enjoy those, because I both felt jealous of the man being pleasured, and felt my penis appearance was never depicted in any of the photos I saw. While some of the men in the pictures were smaller than me (I’m above average, but not huge by any means), it seemed every man in those photos was either White or Black. There were no brown men like me (I’m a mix of European, Middle Eastern, and Hispanic). Because I was still fairly young when I encountered the pornography in question, I felt like something wasn’t desirable about me since brown penises weren’t really depicted. And ironically I sort of lost interest, and my porn phase ended up being short-lived. Probably for the better, I’d imagine!
TO47: “(Can you tell that I've had a couple of decades to think about some of these details…??)”
My response:
I believe that, as we age, we learn more about ourselves and what we particularly enjoy, and what we don’t enjoy. It is not limited to our sexual arousal and pleasure, either. My taste in music has developed similarly as I’ve aged.
TO47: “Here is another area where this community differs from society at-large. Most of the people on this site are intelligent and articulate. Although the topic of "let's fuck" is central to most of the discussions, everyone also examines the thoughts and emotions behind that — and all through the vital lens of the Holy Bible. So, the setting of boundaries is going to be a natural part of any such discussion.”
My response:
I am very interested in philosophy, psychology, and theology. I too, want to know WHY I find something interesting or enjoyable. I am currently trying to figure out the exhibition fantasy (which believe me, I really have not acted on except for role play or the sense that some of these stories I write are a sort of “exhibition” in a non-visual way). But I believe it’s a combination of two things; namely, I had very little contact with the opposite sex growing up, even in a friendship or church-type setting. My first date was in my late 20s and was a very laid-back affair. It wasn’t so much my parents’ doing as due to other factors which prevented me from really having the opportunities to cultivate friendships and explore romance. I did suffer from a severe form of social anxiety which didn’t help, either. So I think a part of my more naughty fantasies are really actually reactionary to my extreme shyness. Secondly, my wife Vanessa grew up in a very Christian household and loved the Lord, but her weakness was sexual pleasure and bending rules (regarding doing sexual things that aren’t actual penetrative intercourse). While I waited in every sense, and I forgive her for not quite waiting, I know I’m not the only one to physically experience her beautiful body in the way my father can say about my mother, or my brother-in-law can say about my sister, or my… well, you get the picture. I also think I sometimes struggle with a sense that I missed out on some of her hottest, most sexually-energetic years. There’s a part of me that wants to spice things up, make up for lost time, and express my love to her in front of others to show them I have her now, she’s all mine to enjoy in the special physical ways that God intends for marriage, and I bring her pleasure with a fingerprint-like uniqueness that no one else ever has or ever will.
TO47: “One other area to mention. (Sorry that this is going on so long, but there are a lot of sub-topics to address on this one.) A lot of men in modern society are so insecure that they often get riled-up if a man looks at their wife. You seem to think a lot more like I do: a man should take it as a COMPLIMENT when another man finds his wife attractive. Most men — whether Christian or not — adhere to the basic rule of "look, but don't touch".”
My response:
While I definitely would get “dangerous” if another person tried to touch my wife in either a sexual or a violent manner, on the contrary, I would actually feel PROUD of someone noticing and appreciating her physical and sexual beauty in a visual-only, non-threatening way. I’ve never been one for the “sharing” fantasies, although I know it turns some men (and women) on very much. Both in regard to my Christian faith, and in regard to my personality, I would not want any sexual contact with anyone else but my wife, nor her with anyone else but me. The thought of being watched though? That’s EXTREMELY arousing.
TO47: “Along that same line, a woman should take it as a compliment, too. In the setting that you describe, I would hope that your wife would react positively if I were to say, "Wow! You look so hot. Would you mind if I jack off while watching you getting fucked by your husband?" And, again, the husband would view that as a compliment rather than a threat.”
My response:
While Vanessa is somewhat prim, proper, and reserved under normal circumstances, once she gets extremely aroused, she loses her inhibitions. I personally think she’d blush if she heard you say that out of the blue, under normal circumstances, and maybe do a bit of pearl-clutching while telling you she’s flattered, but wouldn’t feel comfortable with that. However, if I was in the MIDST of playing with her huge boobs, kissing her neck, and pulling off her panties, she’d probably moan in response to you saying that, and angle her body to give you a better look! 😏
As for me, I wouldn’t feel threatened or offended by you making that comment about her at all, but rather, I would feel complimented, honored, and proud.
TO47: “If such a ("hypothetical") couple were to ever contact me and want me to be their cameraman, then I might even agree to do it without keeping a copy of the video. I would still have some amazing visual memories. 🙂 And, it would be the closest thing to getting some "sympathy sex" that this very lonely man (that has not been laid in 14+ years!) could find "on this side of the line".”
My response:
Under the right circumstances, I would definitely consider being “that couple”. But I’m not sure if it’s something Vanessa would agree to, in all honesty. While she does have a bit of an exhibition streak (pun DEFINITELY intended), it’s very much rooted in spontaneity, and unlikely to be as planned out as your and my fantasies are.
@Loving Fun,
Thanks for your comment. I too would love to hear more “success stories” if anyone’s tried this on MH. Or, conversely if they tried it and regretted it.
Like I said to Turned On 47, while I am game for play like this, Vanessa currently seems to not be up for it, so I’d never pressure her and as such, we probably will never be “that couple”.
She has told me she wouldn’t mind some more spontaneous exhibition, though, and I admit I’ve been thinking long and hard (pun intended!) about it! 😂
@Northernsky
I have no issue with your idea. I don’t see watching (and masturbating to) a married couples love and sex as an issue at all especially in a well defined circumstance and relationship. Sex is a beautiful thing when performed between married individuals, and to me it’s a look and not (sexually) touch. Why not share it?
I had never heard on Mandisa.
(Of course I searched the internet)
First picture that came up was a pic from an article on faithwire, "Mandisa Opens Up About Being Single in Her 40s".
I see she had struggled with her weight when she began depressed because of cancer.
"died of complications of class III obesity at age 47".
I can't find she ever spoke about sex, other than to say she wanted to get married, nor ever a mention of masturbation.
Our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, we need to be looking after them, I even said that on my article on sexual purity: https://marriageheat.com/2024/06/02/masturbation-as-sexual-purity/
(Shameless plug for my own writing).
I wish for well known Christian celebrities to speak of sex, including masturbation for singles and in marriage in a positive way.
What I have read on the Middle ages about sex is that it was more open. Medieval Christian Europe had, "As with sexual intercourse, masturbation was to be enjoyed in moderation" historian Katherine Harvey.
"I would love to express our love mutually in the most intimate ways as others watched. It would only add to the fire if those watching began masturbating and having their own orgasms, or else having sex with their own spouses. I would not want any “swinging” or orgies to occur. Just enjoying the effects of the erotic sights, sounds, and sexual energy on our bodies and appreciating the results."
That is the way it used to be when Christianity was at it's height. I long for its return. Our bodies are from God, our sexuality is from God. It is unique to humans, angels don't have bodies, for animals it is just about reproduction.
I believe it is Christian to be open about sex, including being see fucking (for marrieds) and masturbation for all.
1 Cor 6:20, glorify God in your body
PS, when I looked up Mandisa, the very first pic is the one on livewire, Mandisa has visible nipple bumps (I like that, it is feminine.) It is also the pic I found where the bumps of her nipples are visible.
Typo in last sentence. should be.
"It is also the only pic I found where the bumps of her nipples are visible."
Missed the word, "only".
NorthernSky,
A few months ago, I got kicked off of Facebook for posting so many Bible quotes. (They said that it "violated copyright laws". That is not true, but "any excuse will do…".)
As a result, I do not know how we could message each other in real-time — without openly posting information that would make us vulnerable to trolls, etc. (e.g.: my Twitter handle includes my last name). If you know of such a chat space available, then I'm curious.
We seem to be on the same page. Nonetheless, I think that a lot of back-and-forth discussion would be needed before arranging any in-person meeting — even if it turned out that we live down the street from each other.
When you mentioned an "example", here is one. My favorite porn video was of a married couple. She imagined herself as a "porn star", and thus liked to be watched during sex. They had posted a dozen or videos online. They just set up a camera in the corner of the room and go at it — no script, no role-play, no editing. In the very opening shot of my favorite video, she is lying on her back on the couch. She calmly turns her head toward the camera, looks directly into it (with an expression as if she had just opened the front door for a dinner guest), calmly smiles, and say with a lilting greeting, "Hi…. I'm about to have a cock in my mouth." That is what I call "narrating" during sex. I have an aching hard-on while typing this. I would really enjoy woman looking at me and saying things such as, "Oh…. My husband's dick feels so good in my pussy right now," or, "I'm about to cum," would turn me on in a major way. The next-best is if she looks at her husband and asks him to do specific things, such as, "When you're ready to cum, pull out and shoot it all over my big tits!" WOW!! Extra points if she looks directly at me and says, "Wow, I'm so flattered by watching you jack off right now and knowing that it's because you're watching me getting fucked by my husband." Over the moon!!
In real life, I'm very cautious and conservative. But, on this topic, and in a safe forum such as this, I'm almost ready to just post my phone number right here. 😮
By the way, you said that you are not sure how to have such a discussion with your wife. Does she not read this site?
PS: If you are on Twitter (I still don't like calling it "X"), and if your handle is "safe", then post it in a reply, and then I will message you from there.
[From MH: Sorry to burst any bubbles here, but as a policy, MH does not facilitate the exchange of personal contact information.]
Hi! Thanks for the comment; I agree, it would take a lot of time to feel that close with anyone, for me, not to mention Vanessa. So I sorry if falsely got your hopes up. While I am very comfortable discussing anonymously, I am not sure even I would be comfortable beyond hypotheticals to arrange a meeting through MH (and obviously they don’t allow and I respect that).
To clarify, I didn’t mean I didn’t know how to broach the subject with my wife. I actually have discussed my fantasies extensively with her. She doesn’t think my fantasies are wrong per se, only that she doesn’t think planning such an experience is something she’d be comfortable with, at least at this time. So that’s what I was referring to when I was saying, I’d be open to this, but it’s not something I would pressure her about.
We have discussed sex in front of another Christian couple, but we agree in her case it would likely need to be a couple our age and sort of happen spontaneously. As for me though, what I was trying to say was I would be fine with you filming us in theory. The idea does turn me on. I’m just not sure it’s something that could ever happen, because I would want Vanessa to be onboard with anything first. And obviously you’d need to be someone I knew very well. So I respect MH not facilitating such interactions, as the internet can be not the safest place at times. Still, I hope we can continue to talk on MH (anonymously) and compare notes. I really enjoy your posts.
Social media can be frustrating sorry you had that experience. I don’t do x/Twitter simply because I work a lot; Vanessa is on there though and believe it or not she has a lot of followers. She talks about God, her journey with weight loss and healthy lifestyle, being a young mother, politics, church, her hobbies and interests, etc.
Her handle has her (real) full name in it and so I don’t think she’d feel comfortable giving it out on here nor would it be allowed. But the irony is she has enough followers and post engagement there’s a small chance you may have seen her already. Even she was surprised how her profile got so much views. Wouldn’t that be funny if you are already a follower of hers? She’s even had a few somewhat well-known people engage with her posts from time to time.
She has told me, however, that rather than planning something like you and I talked about, where it’s a sort of planned event, that she thinks she would be more comfortable and interested potentially in exhibitionistic performances that, while consensual, would fall into a more spontaneous spur of the moment sort of category, similar to what I described regarding another married Christian couple our age, or the balcony scene you describe above. So I respect that. There have been a few times she’s done things like letting me motorboat her cleavage on a balcony, or when she had me leave the blinds turned slightly so if someone was directly outside, they could see, and then she talked to me as I undressed her on the bed and asked me if I thought anyone could see? If they felt aroused? Etc.
So it’s definitely an area we’ve “flirted” with, and I feel like we’ve explored it a bit more recently since I’ve joined MH. I even have a couple stories along those lines scheduled to post. I just meant something as planned out as you or I would be okay with, I’m not sure she’s ever going to quite be there.
As for Vanessa being on MH, you’ll occasionally see comments by her through this profile or I will write down her thoughts on a topic per her dictation (I will make a note of it so the reader knows). This has already happened a couple of times. I’m trying to see if she wants to write her own story; we’ll see.
Hi Northern, great subject and one which my husband and I have talked about.
A few years back we went to Spain. We thought about taking a walk on the beach not realizing the entire makeup of it.
The one we first entered that was a family-oriented beach with children on it and everybody had their bathing suits on then there was a divider and another beach, we noticed that some of the women were topless now. We were just walking and still fully clothed.
Another separation and another Beach. Here they were completely naked. Walking all the way down to the end of it we noticed our share of hard ons and some intimate touching. A little stroking here or breast grab there.
We did enjoy the vibe of freedom.
The next day we went back. Finding a spot out of the open near the back. We stripped and laid down, and people watched. It wasn't long before I noticed that M. Had an erection.
Not really all that unusual because there were a number of men and women both laying and walking with erections, which were people watching as well, including us.
Not gonna lie.. it was exciting! While applying sunscreen to one another our hands may have spread it liberally on one another. M. made sure my breasts were covered well and of course I had to cover his sac and hold his erection during. 😉
That evening in the hotel was one to remember. 💋
🔥❤️L.&M. ❤️🔥
Sounds very thrilling!
N.S. To be honest Sky, I would really like to read more about Vanessa and her sexual desires. I have been extremely aroused just thinking about her – and you guys together. Hope it's okay to express that here. The key is, I am able to draw on the sexual energy of Vanessa to better service (and be serviced) Jim boundless desires.
I'm anxious to hear more …
Thanks for the comment! Please let me know in detail what is particularly arousing for you, and what you’d like me to write more of, specifically.
CP, to clarify, what exactly about Vanessa do you most enjoy reading about? Her body? Her playful personality? Something else?
And us together – what do you specifically enjoy reading about? Our playful friendship and romance? Or maybe a specific sex act?
The reason I ask is so I can better understand your request so I can focus on writing stories my readers get the most enjoyment from.
And thanks for the compliments and kind words!
-NorthernSky
Ditto Sky! Anxious to read more about Vanessa and the two of you together!
Agreed Patty💋
Watching and being watched, things almost everyone enjoys fantasizing about. Always love reading about how others feel about it. Especially other women. Makes me feel alright about getting excited
Right there with you Second Marge!
NS, last night I read this story to Jim while he was feasting between my legs. We discussed Vanessa watching us while masturbating, then joining in. Let’s just say that her taste for life is exquisite!
We love talking about a hot girl watching us have sex then joining in and ask me which of them I am enjoying more.
Isn't that a naughty hot picture you painted CP! Hope your husband made you cum multiple times with his mouth and his big dick!
Guess I'm just missing dick too much! 😆
A woman my age should be ashamed. NOT!
Stay horny and God bless!
Once again my dear patty.
We find another common area.
M. and I have read the stories while pleasuring one another and have had similar roleplays and fantasies.
Although we wouldn't carry it out, we do have open, honest and very candid conversations about our attractions and resulting fantasies. 💋
Vanessa is truly unforgettable. I must be doing something right in my writing if you are getting a good picture of just how beautiful and arousing a woman she can be.
Once again, please feel free to let me know what exactly you enjoy the most about my stories. Are there any specific details about Vanessa and my relationship with her that you particularly enjoy reading about?
I’m honored that you like the stories about Vanessa, @HornyGG!
Vanessa is flattered by all the appreciation, and said with a laugh that her only regret is that we can’t make money off of all this somehow 😂
She always makes me laugh and smile with her playful humor. 🥰
Agreed Patty💋
I’m so glad to hear that other women fantasize (and get turned on) about getting caught and then watched either masturbating or having sex. It’s one of my favorite fantasies! Of course, the person that catches me, ends up masturbating too. My fav fantasy is getting caught by another woman… maybe even another family member. 😳
I wonder if women particularly tend towards arousal at being “caught” or “accidentally” seen and watched – rather than a more planned and vetted setting such as I, and TurnedOn47 described above?
I know Vanessa seems to shy away from a planned setting like I described above in my original post, while yet admitting on several occasions that the thought of being caught and seen in the heat of the moment is quite agreeable to her. I have noticed her on several occasions looking with a naughty and sensual expression towards our partially open blinds while undressing, almost like she wondered or maybe hoped that someone might accidentally catch a glimpse.
On another occasion, she once started undressing while walking to the shower while our floor-to-ceiling window had the curtains wide open. I asked her later about it and said that I wondered if I had married an exhibitionist?
In response, she smirked and said “if I am, what are you gonna do about it?” I admit it turned me on so bad, and I absolutely drilled her that night.
She loved every minute of it, and so did I 😉
Laadddiiieeees,
Why arent we neighbors.
… Just dreaming
Love your comments Toutch, they always keep it spicy! 🥵
I will add. As a man, what is it about multiple hot women stripping naked together (and maybe even touching themselves) that turns a guy on so much. 🥵
I admit, there is a story Vanessa has shared with me, that gets me so hard whenever I remember it. Once in college, her roommates were naked, and they pressured her to strip because they wanted to know if her very large breasts were real (she did, and they were impressed). I find the thought of several young women together, naked, Vanessa’s bust standing out as the largest among them, as such a sexy and arousing thought. I have even cum in my shorts just THINKING about it…not to mention all of the times I have masturbated about it.
Sorry, but that’s my dark fantasy for the day. 😬
Northern that reminds me of middle school gym. Changing with the other girls and looking to see who had developed. Then when I finally had boobs wanting them to notice and in a way I did not understand enjoying looking and being seen. I hope that is not too strange. I probably should not mention sleep over parties.
I might add Northern.
Unless I'm mistaken I think the GG would be joining a few of us other ladies enjoying seeing you and the very sexy Vanessa in action.
😘💋
Lady L.
Thank you, it would definitely be my honor (not to mention my pleasure)!
Amen sister! I'm with you on that!
😉💋GG
Okay, Northern, since you asked, I'll elaborate – but it may not be what you expected …
Just so happened that recently my sister Barb was over for the weekend to keep me busy while Jim was away. After a couple glasses we started discussing our Sex lives and some fantasies. I shared with her one of my "wild ones," which involves having Vanessa watch and masturbate while I suck on Jim's cock. At one point I tell her "I'm willing to share," and, of course being the hottie she is, she takes on his cock with a vengeance!
I should point out at this point that my sis and I have masturbated openly together since we were in junior high school – never touching each other mind you, just enjoying this sight of each other building to climaxes…
And you may tell Vanessa that she put on quite as show for us!!
CP, thanks for sharing!
I admit, it thrills me that my hot wife is considered a fantasy girl by some of the readers here 😉
It’s flattering to me, both that I’m married to a hottie, AND that my erotic writing is satisfying my readers.
I totally get what you say about you and your sister. Vanessa is one of four daughters and they are all very close, often didn’t wear clothing around each other, did each other’s hair, etc. but like you said, no physical sexual contact although they did occasionally explore their own bodies in each other’s company (partly because they grew up poor and lived in very close quarters), and even now in their twenties and thirties still do talk openly about their sex lives.
Let me tell you this, as I began to fall for Vanessa and we became more than friends, and I spent a lot of time around her and her sisters I got many an erection not only because of Vanessa’s looks but also because of each of her sisters too. As a Christian, I didn’t do anything inappropriate, but that’s the effect they all have on me. Hope that isn’t inappropriate to share. But you’d totally get it if you saw them. They all have larger breasts and wide hips, a bit of an ethnically ambiguous, if I may say, exotic look, and varying shapes from curvy vixen to the athletic punk-rock chick look. They’ve definitely got great genetics.
Hugs CreamyPatty,
My sister and I have also masturbated together many times, we still do on the occasion.
We appreciated very much that our parents knew that masturbation is from God – good and healthy.
And I have three grown daughters! 🙂
God is good.
I totally get it. When Jim and I first met, it was by introduction by my roomie, who I was VERY close with. Jim would get an erection at the slightest provocation, including when Jan and I would jog on campus with our ample breasts swaying under tight tank tops. Sometimes we would shower together (again, no touching, but lots of looking) and laugh about who had the biggest noticeable hardons. Clean, very cream producing old times!
Patty, I believe that there is quite a few years between you and I being that I'm in my 60s. But I can tell you that reading all of your comments. Your story is about growing up and you and your sister masturbating together or taking showers with your friends, or the fantasy Life you share with your husband including Vanessa in your story. Or even your flirty comments with Patty that we do share much in common.
Thank you so much for sharing personal things like this about yourself.
I can tell you that you Nortern as well as others have caused my mind to fantasize my fingers to take enjoyable excursions. ,❤️💦
Lady L. 💋
….mmmm, so nice Tutchh, just let those fingers move freely […]
💦❤️💦
I don’t always comment on your comments CP, but they are always 🥵🍆
Well KM, I would like you to comment about ow you might fantasize about me, in the meantime, I’ll be thinking about the hardon you are getting
Well, let’s just say that my two favorite stories of yours are “Close friends, best sex”, and “ My kind of facial recognition.” 😉
Well, KM, glad I was able to get your attention, now go and give Vanessa everything she wants – and I hope you don't mind if I watch …
Hi NS, sorry, a bit late to the discussion.
My wife and I have had sex in front of other people. It was spontaneous (on a nude beach – Mexico) and had been prompted by another couple having sex which made us both pretty damn horny. Might be a story for this site? It had not necessarily been a fantasy of mine, both Sarah and I have fantasies we have shared with each other. Many of those will never get beyond that space between our ears as some involve a third person or orgy setting and we are fiercely monogamous. One specific fantasy involves another woman interrupting our sex to go down on the both of us. A large part of that fantasy to me is letting my wife control where I finish, her pussy or the other woman’s mouth (maybe another story)?
As for having sex in front of other people, a part of me is glad it wasn’t planned, I think planning that would involve a lot of logistics that might otherwise ruin the moment. It is a powerful fantasy and I understand the attraction of wanting to show others the intimacy of your sexual expressions. I can tell you it absolutely heightens the pleasure and intensity. I’ve thought about writing that story.
@CreamyPatty – that is one hell of a fantasy with your sister.
…who said it was a fantasy, CA … 😉
Mmmm, tell me more about that creamy adventure…
That’s an amazing experience you had with your wife, Artist.
Would love to one day experience something similar.
Vanessa agrees with you that a situation as planned out as mine takes away a lot of the fun and adds a bit of what she’d call “ick” as well. So maybe you’re right about the spontaneous setting being a major part of the fun.
Thanks for commenting!
And yes, please write it out as a story! I’d love to read it.
Hi NS,
I hope you and Vanessa get your chance sometime. It is quite an experience and whether you plan it or just go for it when the opportunity arises, there are pros and cons. We'd love to replicate the experience in the future, but a lot of that is chance. Aside from the obvious logistics issues, nude resorts in Mexico at least, frown on public sex, though at times they might look the other way. It can get you kicked out.
We had a small audience, all younger than us and a passersby or two. We were also fairly secluded at that moment. Maybe I will write that one down.
Sarah and Patty,
Not having siblings I always wondered what it would be like with a sister.
And hearing that both of you were that open with your sisters that you would masturbate together. I have to admit, I do find that a turn on!!
My imagination went into overdrive seeing you with your sisters and what circumstances would have come about.
In high school I had a best friend. We met on orientation day and went all the way through high School. I was there shorter blonde Norwegian type.
She was the taller slimmer red haired Irish type. I always thought she was fun and cute with all of her freckles and blue eyes..
like me she was an only child and born to an unmarried teenage mother. The first time I met her it was no question as to where she got her red hair from. Her mother had a thick shoulder length and very red head full of hair.
… Overtime we would sleep over at each other's house and it's like we were stuck side by side.
At my house it was more conservative. My father being a salesman and I'm the road a lot my mother very conservative always or address and presented herself in full makeup and hair.
Her mother, was more of a free spirit. Only being 18 years older than us, it was more like she was her big sister than her mother.
On sleepovers it was not uncommon to see her mother walking around in bra and panties and sometimes with no bra on it all.
Very unlike my mother who was always wrapped in a robe if she wasn't fully clothed.
And consequently my friend thought nothing of being completely naked in front of me.
While there I relaxed and it wasn't unusual for me to be naked as well.
I always marveled at her thick red patch of hair.
I had started developing early. And she would always make comments about my breasts. At that point she didn't even have to wear a bra, it fit in with her figure tall and slender.
Quite a few times we had shower together at her house in order to save time. And although it was never in a sexual way we would at times wash one another.
In high school she always enjoyed photography.
She stood up in our wedding when we got married and after I started having children we lost contact.
Just randomly I ran across her at a restaurant one day and we exchanged phone numbers and got together. She had changed so much. Her whole appearance was so much more mature now.
We got together a number of times. Finding out that she had been married briefly and that she had started her own photography business doing wedding photos.
After a few requests she also started doing boudoir shots for the brides to be.
She was hired to photograph a wedding in Chicago by the mother who was well to do.
And she relayed the story how when the night was almost over the bride's mother asked if she would take some business photos of her up in her room..
She did so and the photo shoot went from one of looking professional to one where more and more clothing was being shed and moved from chair and table she started at to the bed.
She wound up seducing my friend.
Since that time, she had a number of times doing boudoir shots where things happened.
Nothing ever happened between my friend and I. Not that I hadn't thought about it or fantasized about it. But I was married with children and realized the importance of being true to my calling.
Anybody who has read what I have written before knows that I would probably consider myself bisexual although I've never actually had any kind of sex with a woman, I do find myself attracted to women for various things. Sometimes because of their strong and confident personalities, sometimes for a soft vulnerable persona. And a Slew of other things.
Anyways, I paid very close attention when I saw the words that you growing up had masturbated with your sisters. And wondered how common things like this were.
All of that being said.
And porn producers always looking to expand their audience are taking a number of taboo subjects and putting them to film. Pushing the envelope beyond acceptability.
Although I know that you haven't actually done anything with a family member.
It scares me to think about the generation that's growing up with such availability of taboo subjects and how their minds are developing concerning their attitudes towards sex.
At the same time, I am so very thankful for who I am and who we as a married couple are.
That we have faith at the center of our relationship and have the full realization that that the sex life which we enjoy together with all of its experiences and explorations is a wonderful and satisfying gift.
lady L.💋
Thank you so much Tutch and creamy for bravely revealing actions and desires I have felt alone in having for years. Having close friends for years and sleepovers then college dorm times did not make me want my husband less. But I did feel I could not reveal things as you both have. A woman’s body is a beautiful thing. I remember my aunt making sure we had everything we needed for the night and seeing her beautiful breasts. I think it’s great you both can be so open about the subject that I have hidden even from myself for decades.
Not sure MH will allow a recap of my college roommate experience, as beautiful and inspiring as it was I’m.certain that my relationship with her breaks the rules here. Suffice to say that without physically touching me, she brought me to orgasms I hadn’t experienced in my earlier dating years….
My masturbation dates with my sister are still frequent, we just get each other. And we both chipped in to buy a toy online!
[From MH: Based on what we've heard in the past, yes, it would be out of bounds for MH, especially considering the way you describe it as "she brought me to orgasms," with her actions being the cause of sexual stimulation. Regardless of whether physical touch was involved, that almost certainly involves what MH would consider inappropriate sexual behavior for two unmarried people, especially people
of the same sex.]
That actually reminds me of a time when my roommate in college received a pocket pussy as a gag gift in at a dirty Santa party. He came back to our room and jokingly told he me got it and didn’t know what to do with it and hadn’t even opened the box.
He pulled the box out and we both stood there anxiously waiting to see what it looked like. He opened it up and it was exactly what you think- tight fake pussy lips on a long silicone tube. We were both trying to be funny about it but next thing you know we both had visible erections pushing out of our shorts showing our clear interest in the toy. He was threatening to throw it away because he thought it was weird. After some curious prodding, he stuck a finger into it and said it seemed to small to actually use—- we weren’t shy about nudity so I just said heck give it to me and I yanked down my pants and stuck my hard cock in. He instantly was curious and snatched it back and stuck his dick in it and expressed hasty “relief” that it worked.
Needless to say he ran to the shower and gave it the good old college try then washed it out and gave it to me to test the same way. It worked quite well and milked both of our cocks fast that night so after a few days of finding enjoyment with it, I went and got one so we each had our own “shower buddy” from then on.
For any guy who hasn’t tried one—- do it! A good pocket pussy is great when your wife isn’t available!
Marg and Patty,
Having the type of relationship I do with my husband's sister and other friends who are more candid about their sex life.
It is not unusual for a woman to enjoy the femininity of another.
Among my friends and myself. We all take some pleasure out of receiving compliments from our girlfriends.
I'm on my friends and sister-in-law, which do not bite their tongue about saying anything. They have made sexual comments about me.
Usually I just kind of laugh it off. But the fact is both my sister-in-law and myself are attracted to one another and we both know it. I just haven't allowed anything to happen more than a hug. (Which I will admit have been sensually. Long.)
The fact is in life moments happen. And quite often moments leave impressions in our minds and memories.
A number of these things I have suppressed over the years but in accepting my own attraction to women and my bisexuality (which again, let me State I've never had any kind of sex with a woman)
A lot of those memories I've suppressed have come to the surface. And often during times of solo pleasure.
My husband M. Knows all about it and he also knows about the attraction I have to his sister.
He has come to accept these as being a part of who I am and at times used my own thoughts as stimulus as he worked his magic on me..
Lady L. 💦💋💦💦💦
Understood, appreciate your guidance.
❤️😊
GG, Sarah, Second Marge et al. I am very thankful to read your comments here and on other threads. I find female masturbation to be very hot and sexy! If I ever look up any porn vids (sometimes temptation gets the better of me), it’s usually of women masturbating. Gets me really hot and wet every time! Female orgasm is so hot to watch…especially when the woman is loud and vocal. And the thought of someone watching me pleasure myself always makes me cum really hard! And yes, I would love to get caught by my mom or sisters and, in my fantasies, they are totally cool with it, encourage me to continue, and then get naked and masturbate too. Hope that is okay to admit here.
I get the hint, H.T.
HI HT,
This seems fairly common among women. Over the years I've heard tales of my wife's time at college and the masturbation that took place between her and some of her close female friends. I don't know the details and I am pretty sure they did not pleasure each other directly, but they certainly masturbated in front of one another and enjoyed those experiences. She laughs it off and calls it youthful indiscretion. Exploring sex and sexual boundaries together seems somewhat common among women.
Within our marriage, mutual masturbation is a huge turn-on. I will say one thing, watching a woman masturbate is one of life's great pleasures. Seems like a lot of us agree on that.
@Hot Tamale
I think masturbating with friends at those ages is more common than not, and maybe even after. I always felt like it was a fun coming of age experience.
Someone should do a poll on here with it. I’ve never been shy about masturbating and don’t think it is something that should be taboo.
I did it many times through the years, especially in college. There were many times we’d sit on our beds talking (and fantasizing throughout) about girls we knew or looking at the old sports illustrated swimsuit magazines and masturbate together. We didn’t ever touch each other (neither of us are gay and both are happily married) but it was a fun thing to do, and when someone else is also horny it just makes the experience (and personal horniness) increase. My wife had similar experiences with her best friend. I think in some ways it develops a close friend bond.
I’d imagine there are plenty of others on here that have.
H. T.
While I have seen my share of movies that have had lesbian scenes.
I have always tried to refrain from actual porn.
It doesn't mean that I don't play out scenes in my mind during my personal times.
There have been many times with my eyes closed that I have actually seen women that I know or have been with women that I know in my mind.
When I have been around other women who have shared their experiences it seems that my senses are sharpened to listen to every word they're saying and it becomes ingrained in my memories.
When I was suppressing these things and feeling guilty about the attraction I have to other women I would look it up to see if it was uncommon and found out that it was indeed very common for married women and middle-aged women to have fantasies about other women or to even have lesbian affairs.
Knowing that one is in the company of others who are having the same sort of feelings is a bit of a relief I think for all of us.
Lady L. 💦💋💦💦💦
I fantasize about stripping my wife publicly and/or us having sex among a crowd, but it's purely fantasy. Irl, I would enjoy if she wore a thong bikini (even only the bottoms) at a public beach, but that's the extent of what I'd be comfortable with in public.
I would imagine that many of us love being naked at home. Are any of you completely comfortable being naked in front of others (other than spouse)? Family members? Friends? My mom and sisters have seen my hubby naked and don’t mind at all. They are comfortable being naked in front of him, too. Same goes for me.
@Hot Tamale
Plenty of times with certain friends. Everything from casual nudity to masturbating to seeing our friends have sex.
Both of us feel comfortable walking around our house naked. At our old house where we had a more private backyard with a pool it wasn't uncommon for us to be in the backyard naked. I've mentioned a few times about his sister and I being naked together and that we have been at nude beaches. For the most part we are mindful of who we are naked around. Although lust can be stirred just seeing certain people fully clothed. We feel that creating lust in another's mind by specifically going nude while not intended, to be against what we know through the word.
While M. And I have done some daring things,
Sex on a nude beach,( prompted by the fact that others were already and there were a number of people very engaged in Solo voyeurism, and given the fact that M. Had a raging erection)
Having sex on a hotel balcony on an upper floor. Also in a few hotel windows.
Sex in a county Park in the middle of tall grass with a walking path maybe a hundred feet away.
Just to mention a few. We were mindful that it wouldn't be easy to see us without really looking hard. It was that excitement that there was a possibility of being watched. And on a nude beach we definitely were being watched along with the others .
I wasn't always that way. I used to be insecure about my body.
But after the change in our marriage I became more confident and outgoing. And we realize that many of the things we've mentioned although risky and daring we're done with thought and deliberate precautions. With exception to the nude beach which we had not intended originally to have sex or do anything of the sort but we're stirred to .
Lady L.💋
@RevRoberto that’s a big fantasy of ours, being in the same room. Being in a similar denomination as you, my wife dresses conservative as well. If people only knew what was underneath those clothes! The only thing we have experienced is hearing our friends at our marriage retreat in the next room. Pretty hot though.