Natural is Intoxicating
I’m new here and was just curious to ask a question: how many others out there find their spouse to be extremely attractive being hairy and natural? (Especially regarding the genital area.)
Me and my wife have been married for almost 10 years, and ever since I have known her, she has always kept well-groomed. She will occasionally trim, and sometimes shave her bikini area during summer months. The most she has shaved is her labia, which looks sexy, especially leaving the patch on top.
She thinks I’m crazy for this. For some reason, I have an extreme obsession with her having it all hairy. I’m cool even with her never trimming it on the regular. I really love going down on my wife, especially when she hasn’t trimmed. She has the most intoxicating scent from her pheromones that is hypnotizing. I almost prefer to give her oral after we been out for the day or night. Her scent gets trapped in her pubic hair and I just can’t get enough.
Not a fan of hairy armpits and legs but year, I too prefer a natural looking vagina.
I think it goes back to the fact the very first pictures of naked women + the very first porno I saw were from the very early 80's so it was just burned into my brain.
I also think, that's how it's SUPPOSED to look.
Lowy_007 , I may have worded that misleading. I myself don’t care for legs and arm pits to grow wild on my wife. Her stubble is fine though I don’t mind that. Just her vagina and ass don’t bother me hairy. But same here about first naked woman I saw was actually my friends mom by accident when I was prob 12 and she had a full bush. Then my friends and I found his dad’s old playboy stack from the 70’s and all the women had bushes. I think that just stuck with me and is very erotic to see my wife natural how God made her.
Correction, vagina is the internal canal going to the womb, it never has hair, ever!
Vulva is the external genitalia.
Lexus, I think your piece here is thoughtful and sweet. All I. would encourage her to do is explore other "looks." She should stick with the one that makes her feel sexiest without sacrificing comfort.
As for me, I'm shaven because it makes me feel far more sensitive down there and I find myself in a constant state of "Creaminess" due to the fact that the panties I (sometimes ;)) wear just glide softly over my clit, and frequently begs for attention from my fingers, a toy, OR, most desirably, Jim's mouth and rock hard cock!
Amen to that same here!
Creamy patty, Btw I admire your stories and the chemistry and passion you and Jim Share. BTW hope you and Jim got to enjoy reading and replaying out my story “Cumming Together In Deep Lust and Passion”. But to get back to your comment. I can understand where you’re “cumming” from…… pun intended, about the more heightened sensitive feelings without hair. When I shave my balls and taint and my wife sucks on them, touches them, licks them or even during my hard thrusts when my balls can be slapping her clit or butt the feeling I can feel versus when I have them hairy/trimmed is a huge difference. I think for my wife it’s a comfort thing liking how she looks natural with hair versus if she removed everything. Though sometimes during intercourse if she has her lips shaved and she didn’t shave them for three or four days my member being as thick as it is I feel her stubble poking me when I spread her wide. Or when she likes me to rub my dick all over her lips and clit as a build up before putting it back in feels like sandpaper. But for the times she does shave just her lips and butt hole I think she can notice her sensitivity heightened as well.
For my wife n I it’s kind of a moot point. When she shaves she about goes crazy from the itching! So she won’t shave her bush. Plus she has incredibly soft pubes and like you, I’m into it! I’ve told her during sex that her pubic hair is so fucking soft. (I tell her this only while we ARE fucking!) I know it’s popular to shave the bush but it’s not happening with us. I love her pheromones too and her incredibly soft bush seems to enhance the scent. But I prefer giving her cunnilingus after a shower.
LovingMan, I agree about the hair trapping in the pheromones. And I too also enjoy performing cunnilingus after she’s had a shower. But the scent she creates that gets trapped her her hair from between a shower to going out walking on a date night somewhere to then getting home and getting to preform cunnilingus on her sends me over the edge when her intoxicating beautifully strong scent just takes over me like a primal wild animal or something.
My wife and I are teens from the 80’s so it was in style then. I love her unshaved and natural and she does too except in summer. Natural is beautiful for her and I love it, we are in our late fifties so probably not the popular in thing, but is the way we both love it. The first one I saw was natural and furry so I have always preferred it to shaved but my personal preference.
Victor0884, Same for us except it is def not popular for us to be natural and hairy as we’re both a few decades behind you and your wife. But for me my earliest memories of seeing a nude women was accidentally seeing my friends mom naked at 12 and she had a full bush. And also from the 70’s Playboy collection my friends dad had that we found in his shed one day being nosy kids.
My spouse and I shaved regularly we both like the clean look and soft skin. We do mutual masturbation almost every night when we laid in bed together and watch a show before bed so we noticed that it is way easier to clean up if we are shaved.
erotic believer, I will agree ejaculating into her pubic hair or if I lay on my back and cum gets on my pubic hair it def takes some effort to wipe out versus smooth skin.
We have gone through all the variations relating to my wife’s pubic hair, from full untouched bushy, to trimmed, to shaping a patch to full bare. We both find full bare more sensitive and sensual . We’ve tried hair chemical removers, which was irritating for her, and waxing once- she said, “never again “ and settled on shaving. As part of our intimate practice, I shave her on an average about every second or third day, depending on her. This adds to our erotic connection.
As far as me, I’m completely shaved. It came about in the early 80’s when I was shaved for a medical procedure. My wife liked the look and feel, and so I shave almost daily, as it is part of my showering routine.
Smooth skin to skin, in intimate contact is very sensual, and it eliminated hair in our mouths during oral sex.
My wife Vanessa likes to go natural. Her pubic hair is very coarse and rough and is the color of chocolate-caramel. I like it because it makes her look like a cavewoman. Very powerful and beautiful.
NorthernSky, I agree with you on the cavewoman and very powerful woman look being natural. I love it!!!
Julia has hers shaved right now with a trimmed patch on top as many younger Latinas do, but to be honest yeah I prefer it natural bush cavewoman style as well. I can't explain why I like it natural though.
Great question, and I hope a single gal can answer! I did a post on body hair before entitled "Hair Question", so my in-depth thoughts can be found there. I shave my vulva now because I found I can feel so much more, whereas if I let the hair grow back, it literally deadens sensation. I have been leaving a landing strip so I still have some hair to make me feel more adult-like (since I am almost 29!), and have even tried to shave it into a heart shape!
I would like to suggest the opposite of a "landing strip". I call it "the frame".
Shave the immediate area of your labia, and leave the rest hairy.
For the man, it works like a "picture frame" that highlights your pussy. It also limits the amount of pubic hair that goes into hubby's mouth.
For the woman, you still get that sensation that you mentioned, but with less work (if you use the right type of trimmer, such as a "micro-trimmer"). It's even less work if you let hubby do it for you — a task that can be enjoyed together.
LovelyLonelyLady, I am a fan of your stories btw. I have read your post “Hair Question” I made a comment to “She Calls Me Mister” comment……. I will have to agree with you on the sensation. Just as I replied to CreamyPatty I feel much more sensation on my balls when I shave them and my wife has her way with them after doing so. Landing strips look nice as my wife has had them before as well. But I also think the sensitivity part varies from women. Meaning some women have labias that show more and others are more tucked away.
landing strips are so hot and sexy!! they add an erotic touch to the vagina.
Is your story 'Hair question' still here to be found? Love to see some hair on a woman. With that, it is of course always a woman's personal taste and choice whether to shave or not.
My wife tends to go closely trimmed. She has the normal complaints about itching and razor burn. I do love her pussy hair-free, I think her exposed fleshy little flower petal lips are sexy as hell and feel great against my tongue, even better when I'm giving them a good stretch. I get myself waxed to avoid all that and she enjoys my hair-free, cock and balls. Although I like her hair-free, her neatly trimmed bush makes her feel sexy and that 's fine by me. I even trim it for her, which usually leads to an "oral check."
My wife and I are both natural. She shaves her arm pits and legs (which I love) but her pubic hairs are natural. I am a hairy guy so I have it everywhere except my palms and the soles of my feet haha. It's not like a gorilla but it's everywhere and feels wonderfully masculine.
My wife stays pretty clean shaven down there. I never tell her what to do or make any special requests either. I prefer she's showered within a few hours when performing oral on her.
Everyone's different insofar as their likes. To me, her juicy wetness is what I like.
For us we like it both ways. My wife likes to surprise me to a clean shaven pussy every couple of months, and it never fails to get me excited. She also knows I love to look at her natural hairy pussy, so she shows it to me often.
Yes! I do love the natural hairy look, and still do, but now & then, although not near as often as your wife at a couple of months, she has clear cut the whole forest!
She does it with a something in mind……and a very clear cut plan!
Every time she does it, I pull out when I start cumming, and blow my load on her bald pussy & clit, instead of cumming in her, and when I'm done, I go down and lick her into a total hip bucking face humping wild-ass orgasm!
Your results may vary……
Just seeing pubic hair through knickers turns me on, plus knowing that if you looked up my skirt, you would also be able to see my pubic hair through my knickers or/and pantyhose.
https://marriageheat.com/2024/08/18/what-underwear-do-you-like/
Having pubic hair I believe is more feminine than removing it all. It does trap ones pheromones and that aids sexual arousal.
If a girls wants to shave her vulva (because it feels better that way), that is up to you, I do suggest keeping much of the hair on your mons.
I have read reports that shaving one vulva can cause micro tears that cause an increased risk of infection, so particular care needs to be taken with hygiene.
sarah K, I enjoyed your article about underwear. Vulva and Mons is definitely the right terms to use in describing what we’re talking about. Thank you for that. I agree with you on the pubic hair being visible. Anytime I ever notice my wife wearing her tight underwear with her pubic hair sticking out the side, I just instantly get rock hard by the sight of it. Makes me wanna lay her down on the bed, take them off and rub my cock all over her hairy vulva. The feeling of her creamy juices and hair gliding against the underside of my cock is a masculine primal feeling like no other. Your husband is a lucky man like me to have a wife also to leave such natural intoxicating beauty.
Thank you LexusWillXxX.
Good on your wife. I know hubby enjoys looking up my skirt, and it turns me on to allow him to do so. I is not unusual for me wearing a longer skirt or dress to sit with it pulled almost up to my waist and have my legs apart, encouraging him to see…
Arousing 😀
Sarah K
Sarah, I will hardly agree with what you've written. When I catch a glimpse of another woman with full bush and sheer panties it does something to me. I find myself so attracted to that.
Besides that what you say about the pheromones is incredibly sexy.
Ultimately when I catch a glimpse of another woman like that eventually I wind up masturbating about it […]
Lady L. 💋
[Edited by MH: While we allow transparent discussions about people's experiences, including dealing with same-sex attraction, we will not publish eroticized details or fantasies about such topics.]
We have been married 40 years. My wife trimmed hers short even before that was a thing, she played sports and said all the girls trimmed. Later, she started shaving, said it was easier. I like it smooth.
But in the past few years, she went all natural pubic hair and I love it! It feels amazing! She now has a nice thick full bush.
I would like to comment on the PHOTO that graces this post.
I'm a lifelong "thigh guy". I have enjoyed a girl's thighs since about the sixth grade — long before I knew what a pussy even looked like. At age 66, I'm still that way.
I also like plump women. Not fat, just plump. And, the plumpness increases the chance that she will have nice, full thighs. (I guess it's a "chicken or the egg scenario….) 😉
Anyway, the photo looks a lot like my first wife looked when we were first married. She even had a pair of lacy panties like that — even the same color. So, when I see that photo of that bush through those lacy panties, framed by those luscious thighs — MMMMMMMmmmmmmm!! Instant hard-on, every time.
Ladies, are you proud of your thighs? Are you proud of your bush?
I've always shaved since puberty. My friends and I never understood why women would shave their under arms and legs but not their pubic area. Being in sports and enjoying bikini season without worrying about spider legs sticking out is nice.
I've noticed if I go more than a few days without shaving the next time I shave I get the red bumps. Sticking with it at least every other day leaves me smooth without the bumps. Hubby joked about having a line item in our budget for expensive razors for me.
We also do some social nudism where the majority are either very neatly shaved or bare, even the older ladies. My inner labia is quite pronounced and sticks out unless I remember to tuck it in. Pubic hair would help conceal that but I kinda enjoy the attention it brings.
RedHotKaren, That’s on my bucket list, is to do some kind of nudism with my beautiful wife one day.
HotKaren, I would love to hear more about your nudist adventures. My hubby would love for us to go to a nude beach but that would be a big step for me. You should write more about it in a new post (and any fun that might result😉). I had read that most nudists shave their public hair off. Does that include men too? Hubby and I are both baldies and love it that way. I’ve kept my pussy smooth for a long time and won’t ever go back to bush. Love being bald! And hubby LOVES it too! My inner lips stick out as well. Hubby finds that super sexy! I suspect most men do, so there’s no need for you to be tucking them in. Let it all hang out!😁
Tastes vary but it seems clean shaven or waxed pussyis what we and the majority of people seem to enjoy looking at or having sex. I have heard a few people that like a wild jungle and nothing wrong with being different.
Reading comments on other sites too, most men definitely prefer a bald pussy! And it would seem that most women prefer it over having bush as well. A bald pussy is very sexy IMHO. Question for the women: what do you prefer on your man? Natural or bald? (100% smooth).
@Hot Tamale
I like variety, but if I had to chose, a tidy bush any day!!!
A landing strip is the best of both worlds though, so if you had to pick one, pick that!
Wife here,
As for the question, hair or no hair down there.
I myself am not capable of growing a very thick bush it's rather sparse and is the reason why I do shave it just looks better.
My husband has at times left his thick. But he also has at times shaved.
Of course the drawbacks to shaving are the scratchy whiskers the wearer and for the partner. So it's a chore to keep up with.
We have discussed this a few times. And we both had opportunity to see men and women with a full plush bush. I have also had opportunity to talk with girlfriends about this.(I have girlfriends who are believers and some who are nominal as far as their belief. So the opinions vary in the freedom of expression and the amount of experience differs from person to person)
The visual is just one part of it. What goes along with it is the other senses. Taste, touch and scent.
There is a lot to be said for the smell of a person who is aroused. The release of hormones and fluids that come about in the height of anticipation and sexual arousal.
The feeling of having one's fingers or face Deep into it or feeling the dampness that remains within it.
A lot of it goes with the fads that are out there. And we all know, fads change all the time.
And we can say that within a marriage relationship, change at times is essential to avoid boredom and dissatisfaction. Introducing new things, new looks and new experiences.
The key here though, is what it is that each of you desire. And for each of you to be responsive to the others desires.
And the key to doing that,is having an open line of communication between the two of you. Being able to freely Express your thoughts and feelings and desires with one another without fear of judgment , rejection or loss.
Unfortunately given the pressures that are put upon us by those that we would learn from or worship with.
The freedom of speech and rejection and judgment are very real fears within a relationship.
We could go on and on but for the sake of space stop it here..
Curious question: how many of you started shaving everything off (completely bald) because your mom did or your sister did or a friend did and you just followed suit? How many were encouraged to shave by someone else, either family or friend? How many of you got another woman to try shaving her pussy bare because of your positive encouragement/reinforcement? How many moms encouraged their daughters to shave it all off? Or conversely, to keep their bush because you do and prefer it that way? It’s no secret that Sarah K is a strong advocate for full bush and her grown daughters sport a bush too. Just got me thinking. How old were you when you first started shaving and sporting a bald pussy and what made you do it? Or not do it? Personally, I’m a huge fan of having a bald/smooth pussy! Love It!!! Once I shaved it all off, I never looked back!🥰
Hot Tamale,
Relevant question, I pointed that out to a mum in a forum. Her daughter started shaving, why? Because it turned out that was all she saw, her mother and other women had modeled that women shaved. The girl never saw natural pubic hair, or even trimmed. Despite talk about freedom and choice, they modelled conformity.
That is not right.
Well you little hottie T.
You certainly do have an acquisitive nature about you. But I have to admit, I do as well!
I think I cleared this up once before when you asked me. But I'll repeat it for this thread.
I shave, but only because when I let it grow it does not look good because it's so sparse.
Over the years I have seen other women naked both with bush and without. I do love a woman with a very nice bush. I have to imagine what it's like to bury my face in something like that. I IMAGINE, I never have had the privilege of doing it. And don't get me wrong I really really want to. Although having had the chance multiple times, for various reasons namely my faith and my monogamous marriage I haven't.
I didn't start shaving until I was in my late twenties.
I've never made a secret over the fact that I'm attracted to women and that may husband's sister and I both in our 60s do you have an attraction for one another. My husband's sister and I have always had an open conversation about sex and sexuality.
And although we've never had sex we have been naked at the same time together multiple times over the years.
She is one of those that has a very nice bush although it's graying now. It's still looks beautiful..
Being that back in the seventies everything was wild and Free and hair down there was totally fine.
It was it when I was around 29 and she was 27 that we were trying on clothes in her department store in the same changing room.
When she shut her panties I saw that she had shaved her bush.
I remarked at how beautiful it was, because she really does have a beautiful vagina.
She thought she would just try it for a change because she had a girlfriend who had done it.
I ended up doing it after that and surprising her brother, my husband with it.
He enjoyed it, he loved going down on me and I loved the smooth feeling.
Over the years I have let it grown back and shaved it right back off because it just never has looked good.
She on the other hand does both and currently has a very full bush.
Her labia, in my view are amazing. They always show even with a full bush and when she has shaved it was a beautiful sight to see.
I on the other hand, have what we know as an innie. My labia are only visible by spreading.
…. Well now you've given me something else to imagine.
Hottie T prancing around with a beautiful bald pelvis.
Lady L.💋
Tutchh, thank you for sharing this, I think it is def natural for us as humans to admire others of the same sex to a certain point. I had a close friend growing up and we would mutually masturbate together. We both had very nice but different cocks. I was jerking my nice thick 6” cock while he was jerking his much less thick almost 7” cock. But I always admired how dark his bush was compared to mine. And he had much darker colored balls and head. Where I had a more pinkish head and lighter balls and lighter black/brown pubes. But God made each and everyone of us to have our own beautiful differences. How boring would it be if we was all the same. I love my wife’s labias. Can’t get enough of them. I love watching them get engorged as she gets turned on.
Lady L. Is your husband's sister a lesbian?
I don't believe there is sin in you thinking sexually of another woman, as it is clear that you remain sexually faithful to your husband and God.
I think you can even masturbate yourself to those lesbian fantasies, because that is as far as you intend it.
I think you could even have your sister-in-law in the "top bunk".
https://marriageheat.com/2025/05/10/and-the-two-shall-become-one-flesh/
I agree same sex attraction is natural then we decide if we are going to act on it. When young my husband also was with another boy watching each other masturbate. And I have looked at and thought about women sexually but don’t think it makes me bi. I can see how I could be attracted to my husband sister because she reminds me of him. It’s ok if we discuss how attractive she is as long as neither of us takes it further. I think we are taught to ignore or feel guilty about same sex arousal. Not sure that is necessary. As thoughts are not sins only actions can be. Like the song, I kissed a girl and I liked it. Does not mean you can’t resist being sexual.
Lexus,
Like you, my brother and I jacked with neighborhood friends and it was interesting comparing cocks, pubic hair and such. It's natural to do that. I still check out other men's chest hair/body hair coverage and compare it to my own. There is nothing wrong with admiring another fella. We are not sexually attracted to them. I love my own body hair and my wife's wonderful bush. I want to look like a MAN and not a prepubescent boy. I remember how I couldn't wait to get chest and other body hair. Tom Selleck and his rug was the epitome of masculinity for so many boys to look up to in my generation.
One more thing for me to confess here is how often I will wonder about both men and women.
( And it happens at the weirdest times)
What's they would look like naked and that includes whether or not I think they have a bush fo
Or are shaved.
I've done this while being in a waiting area the pass time.
As well as wondering what their sexual life is like.
Something that's very inconvenient is when I have met a client and these thought started intruding into my mind.
Since this has happened to me it's made me wonder how many other professional women have these thoughts happen to them.
For me I used to feel this way at the beach in my young 20’s before I ever met my wife. While all my guy friends was drooling over the small fit surfer girls in their 20’s rocking their skimpy thong style bikinis that barely covered much of anything I was not intrigued. For me I noticed all the attractive older women from their late 20’s to even 60’s in their more modestly covering swimsuit bottoms. Why you may think? It was bc the more modestly dressed women left a mystery. Are they bald, or natural but with a neat trim which is my personal favorite on my wife. Are they a little hairy? extremely jungle bush hairy??
But the more revealing thongs wasn’t interesting bc you would have to be completely bald to pull it off so it gave it away. I love that my wife dresses in modest swim suits bc I admire her amazing beautiful body even though I have seen her naked a million times those more covering swimsuit bottoms she wears allows my mind to wander and just soak up her beauty knowing only I know what she looks like under it all.
I'm the exact same way, and agree with LexusWill's comments too.
When I became aware of my sexuality, I was always so curious about women's different body types and that extended to pubic grooming styles. I too, wasn't as intrigued by the "athletic" women though they were attractive, but was more drawn to the "mom bods" and more mature ladies and what they wore was generally less revealing but that created an air of mystery.
I would often speculate based on their overall look and attire what they might prefer "down there." While I appreciate a variety of types and styles, I can appreciate a natural beautiful bush. It was the first sight I had of female nudity, and my first "celebrity" crush was Bettie Page, a vintage pinup that always kept it natural.
I associated having a bush with maturity and sexuality and comfort, since that was how my mother kept it, and to me, it can be an absolutely beautiful choice for a woman. There's no shame in shaving but keeping it natural is also something special, and I also agree with Sarah that women should be brought up knowing their options!
Sarah k,
No shes not lesbian, shes married as well, and yes I have both fantasized and masturbated about she and I.
Lady L. 💋💦💦💦
ifeelmyself101, I was the same way. I remember my first nude women I seen in magazines as a young kid from my friend and I finding his Dads vintage stack of Playboys. I remember seeing a bush and thought wow that is a woman. Then some time later when I was in middle school I accidentally walked in on my mom full spread on her back masturbating with a dildo just thrusting away. Luckily she didn’t see me and quickly and quietly shut door. But she had a massive bush with what had to be just bikini line shaved bc it never popped out of her swim wear which is probably why she wore more modest covering swim suit bottoms. But that was my first sight of a real nude women was my mom. That thought of a bush never left my mind not bc it was my mom but bc it felt feminine and natural. Later in high school and after high school I dated and even participated in one night stands and every single woman was shaved bare and disgusted by pubic hair. Later I would find they were body shamed by other boys at a young age or always taught to shave. When I met my wife we vowed to stay abstinent until marriage which I was thankful for. She was a virgin and unfortunately I wasn’t but I was glad to not have sex until marriage. We did do oral or mutual masturbation but I will never forget the first time I seen her pussy. It was the most beautiful thing. It was hairy all over but well trimmed. The excitement I felt was unexplainable i was so turned on. I have been in love with her natural beauty ever since and cant get enough of it. I too agree with Sarah.
Thanks for being open about your desires and willingness to masturbate to thoughts of another woman. Not only do I don’t think it is a sin, I think it is very exciting to picture my sister in law and wish she would do it with me.
When I was much, much younger, I overheard some of the “older” women in my family discussing the need to shave down there in order to keep the hair from poking out around their swimsuits.
It gave me the impression that pubic hair was undesirable, and it stuck. As I grew older, I learned that I didn’t really mind it, especially if it was trimmed. Having said that, though, my honest preference is bald. It’s absolutely more exposing, and I like that.
Also, I find that clit stimulation is easier, (for me), if there’s no hair. If there’s a lot of hair and it’s really wet, I have found it distracting.
Sarah K: “They modelled conformity. That is not right.”
Conformity works both ways. Your daughters don’t shave because you don’t shave. You are also a very strong advocate of full bush, so they’ve listened to their mama on that front.
I did not shave or trim for a long time. I finally got over my CofC guilt and trimmed. Charlie was fine with whatever I chose. He liked seeing my hair poke out of the sides of my panties or swimsuit. Then we found MH. And then my mom and daughter started talking more about sex when our daughter got married. So now we all shave. I probably my will let mine grow out in the winter
What is CofC guilt?