Wisdom, Resolution, and Passion – Part 1
The following is a fantasy.
Tyler and Madison had been married for two years, and were still in their early twenties and building their lives together. But there was one problem: their sex life had been in a serious rut over the last several months.
Life sometimes just got in the way. Between work, family matters, and just everyday life, sex had been sidelined for this young couple. Both of them had very high sex drives, and found each other very sexy, but somehow they hadn’t made the time to connect sexually. Neither of them had discussed this issue, but underneath the surface, it was clear that both of them had needs that had never been addressed.
One Saturday, Madison went to visit Tyler’s mother. They’d always been close, and spent a lot of time together. Tyler was busy this particular weekend, so Madison went by herself.
“How my favorite daughter in law doing?!” Rachel asked when Madison arrived.
“Oh I’m doing well! How are you?” Madison replied.
After some catching up over some sweet tea, Rachel asked Madison the important question.
“So when are you and my son going to give me some grandbabies?”
Madison laughed and tried to play it off. “Oh I don’t know, we aren’t trying that hard now. The time might not be right.”
Rachel looked almost confused. “Not trying? Honey, you’re still essentially newlyweds,” she said with a bit of innuendo, “that’s all y’all should be doing!”
Madison laughed it off again, but clearly had more thoughts about this that she wasn’t sharing. Rachel could tell there was something hurting there too.
Madison started to tear up. In a private, safe environment like this, she knew there would be no hiding her feelings.
“Sweetheart what’s wrong?” Rachel asked tenderly.
“It’s not appropriate for us to talk about, I’m sorry.”
“Madison you can tell me anything. What’s going on?”
“It’s just . . . We haven’t had sex in months.”
Rachel was silent for a moment. “I understand.” After another appropriate pause, she continued. “Is everything alright with you guys? Like, beyond sex?”
“Yeah we’re fine. We just haven’t had time, or even really talked about it. I feel like both of us are frustrated, but we haven’t had time or desire.”
“Madison, you aren’t alone. And this isn’t a new situation for couples. Tyler’s father and I had issues early in our marriage. This happens.”
Madison wiped the tears away. “I just don’t feel confident. I feel like a failure for him.”
“Madison, I promise you’re not a failure for him. He chose you to be his wife—YOU! He only wants you.”
Madison couldn’t help but smile a little. “I just want to fix this and spice it up.”
“Well I can I help you.”
“How?”
“You need to find out what pleases you, what gets you going. You need to know what he does that you like.”
She nodded.
“Madison do you masturbate?”
She shook her head no.
“Well maybe you should try. Follow me.”
Madison followed Rachel to her closet. Rachel grabbed a new bottle of lube and gave it to Madison. “I’m not going to tell what to do, but I’d recommend this. You pray for your sex life, and then consider trying.”
Madison took the lube. Yes, it was a bit weird getting lube and sex advice from her mother-in-law, but she sincerely appreciated Rachel’s help. Besides, Madison was willing to try just about anything at this point.
“It’s getting late,” Rachel said. “Why don’t you stay tonight, since Tyler is out?”
Madison agreed and texted Tyler, letting him know she was staying over.
That night, as Madison settled into the guest room, she locked the door. She prayed for guidance on how to go about resolving her sexless marriage. Then she looked at the bottle of lube her mother in law had given her.
She undressed, then lay her tense, naked body on the bed. She grabbed the bottle of lube and applied some to the top of her special place, and some to her hand. She began to slowly rub the lube over her vulva. She had to admit she was starting to enjoy this.
She thought of past experiences of her husband filling her with his manhood, and yearned to feel him like that again. She continued to masturbate, increasing her pace. With thoughts of her lover filling her mind, she brought herself to a fiery orgasm. It was the first time in a long time she had experienced such pleasure. She was happy, blessed, but . . . not completely satisfied. Only her husband could fully physically please her. Lord willing, they would come together again soon.
End of Part 1




Excellent story HVK! I’m really liking the premise here and I think you’re off to a great start.
I wish there were more women like Rachel who were comfortable in their own sex life and willing to share that knowledge in a safe setting.
I applaud Madison’s willingness to listen and take the advice of her MIL. I’m looking forward to the journey here!
This is going to be a great series. I felt such sympathy for Madison, knowing I would have been like her if I hadn't learned a healthy view of sexuality and masturbation. It's on my heart to help educate young women so they embrace their bodies and love sex with their husbands. Though being single, I feel just a little bit hypocritical! 😁🤪
by the grace of God hopefully we will find our partners one day! Thank you for the comment!
I have heard several times of the prospective mother-in-laws giving their son's fiancé a vibrator in preparation for marriage.
All my children are of marriageable age/young adults, all are positive on sexuality being from God. We do talk about sex at home. I intend to talk openly with their intended when the time comes.
I am looking forward to seeing how this series develops.
It is one of the reasons I wrote: https://marriageheat.com/2024/06/02/masturbation-as-sexual-purity/
so it could be used for education and discussion.
May God protect and bless this marriage & their intimacy. I am glad to know there is a safe space for both of them. I think women need to protect themselves from themselves (super-criticism against oneself/being to hard to themselves) & from toxic narratives inside & outside the Church. I do feel women are more sensitive, delicate & easily damageable without God's help, protection, guidance & love. I also feel that a man who has been lead by Christ to be patient, having understood female psychology (no need to be an expert) can better help his wife, having 1st been focused on her aid, rather than the thrill that comes automatically when all things regarding emotional connection is first attended too.
I wish them all the best. My heart hurts for Christian Marriages.