Another Great Site!
I’ve been reading and enjoying MarriageHeat for quite some time now. It has inspired me and has kept me going with hope for better things to come. I’ve been married for nearly 29 years, and over those years, my wife and I have enjoyed some wild, passionate, and incredible sex. (I do have a few stories started, just need to finish and submit.) However, over the past few years, we’ve been in a very dry, low season. Life, kids, and now grandkids seem to have taken over.
This site and another have been much-needed resources. Obviously, we are all familiar with the incredible authors and stories here on MH. The other site, while similar in purpose, offers the opportunity for discussion and conversation with other like-minded, sex-positive Christians who are looking to keep their marriages full of passion and enjoy all that God intended sex to be.
The site is Songs of the Believers.* I feel it is well-moderated; the Admin and Hosts do their best to weed out ‘lurkers’ and ‘trolls’. The site itself is a treasure trove of other users’ life experiences, wisdom, discussion, conversation, and encouragement.
I recommend you check it out!
-5Osromantic (Desiring What God Intended)
*MarriageHeat is not affiliated with the site mentioned, but we have reviewed the resource and find it compatible with our mission. This post is not sponsored, just a recommendation from one MH member to the rest. Of course, you should always be cautious in your online communications.




I have requested to join that website 2 or 3 times. I answer the questions and fill in all the other information, but I never get any reply from them. No reply that I am accepted and enrolled or that my request to join is declined. I obviously don’t know how to become a member at that website… Can anyone enlighten me?
they will review your profile and get back to you with email link.
That is what i understand
Thanks for sharing and glad it was a positive resource for your marriage. Would appreciate it if other members could chime in and give their thoughts/review of the site.
Nice Site. I recommend it.
Ive been a member of that site on 2 separate occasions. I'm still trying to figure out what I believe is ok as far as before marriage and masturbation/erotica/porn go. I really enjoyed the site. But due to my own hangups and weird guilt moments, I left it twice, so I doubt I'll ever be able to get in again. I wish there was another site that was similar to that but was a little more accessiable for when my brain screws me over.
Thank you for your comment. We have had many who have left and come back and vice versa. Our focus is on marriage and we try to keep it on that.
@songsofthebelievers So does that mean I should apply again?
Hey everyone, thanks to those who have joined. Know that we take our application process seriously, so we don't approve a lot of applications – only those that really show substance. We encourage anyone joining to really think through your answers. This is protect our members and stop trolls. Due to this post, we recently had a rush and are sorting through them all.
I’ve tried to sign up twice. If you are denied access, are you notified?
Ive decided to apply. Do you send any kind of email to confirm that you even received an application? I haven't received any emails at all.
I signed up twice. It’s been months since the first attempt and weeks since the second. I never received anything either way, confirming or denying access.
Greetings. Are you still re-admitting members?
I would love to join, but I cannot find a way to sign up. Can you help?
Hi, I tried to join that same website, twice, and got nothing but crickets. I answered all the questions thoroughly and I believe I did everything right…and got nothing. What is the deal?
I’m not an admin at SoTB, but I’ve been a member there for 9 months. From what I hear, they got flooded with new applications in June & July. It’s a manual process, which creates a bottleneck, and the possibility for human error. I’ve heard some people getting approved in 2-4 days, and others taking 4-6 weeks. It’s likely NOT anything personal about you, it’s just a classic backlog during a more relaxed summer season. PM me when you arrive!!
Not sure if this is still an active discussion. I would like to join the Songs of the believers site, but I can't find a way to sign up. I can get to the sign in page, but nowhere for a new sign up. Can anybody help?