Masturbation Quiz!
Over the last several years of being a part of MarriageHeat, my wife and I have enjoyed many of the posts here. We love the epic, steamy stories that so many of you write. Some of them have really encouraged us to be more adventurous in our own sex life as a young, Christian married couple. Additionally, we like reading along with the commentary on the discussion posts—many of the discussions turn out to be as hot as the sex stories, which brings me to this post.
We thought it might be fun to hear about some of your solo habits! Julie and I enjoy masturbation, together as well as on our own. We’ve made solo play a part of our lives in addition to sex since the beginning of our marriage. So, here are some questions that we think might be fun to answer as well as provide helpful suggestions to others in this anonymous, sex-positive group of believers:
- Gender?
- Age?
- How often do you masturbate? Has this changed throughout your life?
- How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day?
- For ladies: do you prefer clit stimulation, vaginal penetration, and/or anal stimulation?
- For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions?
- Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices?
- Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session?
- Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse?
- Do you use toys? If so, which are your favorites?
- Do you have a go-to position for solo play?
- Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself?
- What new ways of jacking/jilling off do you want to try?
Looking forward to your responses!
A lot of questions!
Male, 58, once or twice per week.
No anal play.
Only taste cum with wife involved.
Prefer to masturbate with wife but usually alone.
No toys.
No risky place.
I just stroke my cock.
Nice! Sometimes the simple way is the best. Definitely fun to do it with a spouse!
I must admit that while I love masturbating, I don't have much variety. But let me answer the questions in order.
Gender: female
Age: late 20s
How often: depends on the time of month, but usually a lot during ovulatory and luteal phases, and sometimes during menstruation. I think I do it more overall as my libido seems to have increased.
Number of orgasms in one day: I think it was three times. I'm assuming that what I experience is an orgasm. It's very quick and not earth-shattering, and I don't make noises since I live at home with family, but it feels good and satisfying.
Types of stimulation: I like pressure and rubbing on the entire vulva, and the wetter the better. Vaginal penetration doesn't do much for me, though sometimes right at the opening it's really sensational. I've never tried anal. Directly touching the clit is not enjoyable, but rubbing around it and trying to stimulate the parts that are deep inside is pleasant.
Tasting my juices: it took a long time to even touch myself down there or stick my fingers into my wetness because it seemed so unhygienic. But as I've learned to love my body, I'm seeing it as more erotic and not disgusting. I am getting used to my scent and enjoy smelling it on my fingers but haven't gotten the courage to actually lick them.
Multiple orgasms in a single session: it's very rare and only if I'm really, really aroused and insatiable. I've had a couple of times where I masturbated, orgasmed, rested a few minutes, and then had another go. But again, that's rare.
Masturbating alone or with spouse: well, I'm single, so obviously I'm by myself! But I often imagine my future husband is with me, so I guess in a way I am doing it with him!
Toys: I've never used toys. I might someday.
Go-to position: oh yes. Always face-down, humping a bunched-up bath towel. Usually in bed or on the floor.
Riskiest place: I'm always pretty careful since I think I would die of embarrassment if anyone caught me. Usually, the risk lies in me doing it in my room and someone knocking at the door for something and me not having a plausible excuse to keep them out. However, we're a very respectful family, and no one opens a closed door without permission.
New ways to self-pleasure: I don't know! What I do works well. I would like to try touching my breasts more and seeing what other areas may be erogenous. For years, I couldn't touch my breasts; I was too shy to even look at them in the mirror! I still am very gentle about touching my nipples because they're really sensitive. But I think it would feel good to have a man's mouth on them, lol. Waiting for my future husband to try it! I like kneading and massaging my butt cheeks too. In fact, whenever I get a full-body massage, that's my favorite place to be worked on. I hope to exchange massages with my man someday.
Great description–I hope your comment inspires others! I think continuing to learn to appreciate the wonders of your own body is an awesome goal.
LovelyLonelyLady, with the openness, sensitivity and passion you wrote, you will make a wonderful wife and mother.
Keep up the good work (wank) – by that, I mean your self-masturbation. Cheers.
Male
Over 70
How often do you masturbate? 1-2 times per week
Has this changed throughout your life? Every day from teen years to age 35
How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day? 5
For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions? See Hands off Ecstasy on MH
Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices? Yes
Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session? Yes – often I’m able to double orgasm
Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse? Both – she loves to watch me, mutually masturbate, and know that I’m soloing
Do you use toys? If so, which are your favorites? Aneros
Do you have a go-to position for solo play? Standing in front of a mirror – love to watch myself and so does my wife
Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself? In my work office
What new ways of jacking/jilling off do you want to try? Not many that I haven’t tried!
"She loves to watch me, mutually masturbate, and know that I’m soloing"–I love this, we feel the same way at our house. I have read your story"Hands off Ecstasy," which is the main reason I want to try a prostate massager–it sounds like a next-level experience.
Gender? – Male
Age? – 46
How often do you masturbate? – 1/week
Has this changed throughout your life? – I'm recently divorced, so my masturbation frequency has increased!
How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day? – Twice
For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions? – I have tried prostrate stimulation however I don't have any toys so it hasn't really worked well. As for the testicles, not much, mine are very tight and always have been.
Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices? – No
Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session? – occasionally
Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse? – Both (when it was an option.)
Do you use toys? If so, which are your favorites? – I've had a sleeve but didn't really like it.
Do you have a go-to position for solo play? – Simply laying in bed (probably b/c as a teen it was typically in the shower & now that I don't have to worry about intrusions, I prefer to be able to relax.)
Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself? – In my car, in the parking lot at work.
What new ways of jacking/jilling off do you want to try? – I'd love suggestions…
–Unfortunately with my recent divorce it's been over 2 years without the real thing. And since I truly do not believe in sex outside of marriage, it may be a long time before/if it happens again. Which is why this site is nice b/c it keeps things all in my mind & not looking at other crap!
My ex was absolutely against solo masturbation, but b/c she didn't have much of a drive, she accepted that I did it as long as she didn't know the details. We did enjoy mutual (on the rare occasion).
That's a lot of info..!
Sorry to hear about your divorce–I'm sure that is difficult on a variety of levels. I think it's good to have masturbation as a healthy outlet for sexual tension. Maybe others can offer advice for new techniques to try!
I will answer some of the questions but not all of them.
Gender? Male
Age? Early 60s
How often do you masturbate? Daily with wife’s assistance – but the masturbation is part of our sex sessions every 3 or 4 days.
Has this changed throughout your life?
Yes. She used to help me orgasm with masturbation n nipple play twice – on non full sex session days. (a.m. & p.m.)
How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day? 9 or 10 times on epic Saturday years ago – during an all day lovemaking session
For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions? Wife gently squeezes my testes, no anal.
Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices? Yes, when scooped or licked from wife’s pussy. We often use flavored lube and when mixed with our natural sexual fluids it’s a great protein shake. I will also put the flavored lube on her nips and do tip on nip where I masturbate while rubbing my tip on her nipple. This often makes her cum (she’s also buzzing her clit w/ vibe). Sometimes I cum on her titties and she rubs it all over her big beautiful breasts and I will lick some of it off.
Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session? Nearly always. When younger 4 to 5+ orgasms in a sex session. Now usually 2 and sometimes 3 orgasms in a sex session
Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse? W/ spouse
Do you use toys? If so, which are your favorites? We use vibrators for her during lovemaking sessions. Sometimes I use a male masturbator but only rarely.
Do you have a go-to position for solo play? No, just for couple’s play. She licks my left nipple as I pump my rod.
What new ways of jacking/jilling off do you want to try? Together outside- we’ve already done it in the car. I want to add that recently she often lets me suckle her breasts before she licks my man nips. We always have any kind of sex or masturbation in the a.m.
This is awesome–so cool that you can have multiple orgasms in a session. Sounds like that has been the case your whole life and not something you trained yourself to do? Can confirm from experience that mutual masturbation outside is a blast 😉
I am early fourties, masturbation is on an as needed basis, way more when James is away. Fav position is usually face down on bed, humping my right hand while caressing one or both breasts. I also enjoy stretching out on our couch sideways while fingering my entire pussy with one hand and fingering my asshole with the other. The anal play can add more intensity.
I almost always try for a second orgasm 20 minutes after the first. Jim away days might bring 3-4 orgasms daily.
Patty–I think it is really cool that you and Jim both enjoy anal stimulation while masturbating. So many sensitive nerve endings in the area–definitely worth exploring for anyone who hasn't tried it (male or female!). I've walked in on Julie before in the position you describe–face down grinding/humping–so hot!
Great topic. I am enjoying reading the responses. Very sexy. Nice to know how people are having fun. I always assumed all boys masturbated and some girls do. I wonder if those that don’t, feel it’s wrong for religious belief reasons. Interesting how some kept masturbating even after they got a partner, and others no longer have solo fun.
Does rubbing myself during PIV count as masturbating? I would say it isn’t.
Is mutual masturbation doing each other manually or doing yourselves while watching each other? Pardon my naivety.
We used to have people reviewing sex toys. Might be interesting to look back at those as we discuss this subject. Also I think one gentlemen wrote he stroked himself while his wife pegged him. Would that be included in this topic?
In our case, we often lay side by side and masturbate without touching each other. We enjoy listening and watching each other as we ramp up to our O. The watching and listening turns each other on as it takes us to our solo orgasm!
Great questions!
Male
64
Next to no masturbation now that I have a consistent and incredibly satisfying sex life.
These days, I'd say multiple O's are the norm, for both of us.
No anal. That doesn't turn me on at all. I like orange juice. I'll leave it at that. (In other words, own juices, nah.)
If we do pleasure ourselves, it's together. When I do, it's when…..
She has a long scarf that she keeps in a drawer, near the bed. When she puts it on, over her mouth, my hardness and wetness shoots up about 10 levels. It is our favorite, and only, toy.
As for the rest, it feels risky, yet in complete safety — and new — each and every time. I think some things are best left for our eyes, ears, and info only — but I think we're both okay sharing some.
Male, 59. I have tasted my cum. Wife and I both like the mixed juices taste. My precum is okay. I love to put it on my nipps for the wife to lick off. Many years ago in my very flexible days, I was able to get curled up enough to lick and for a short time suck the tip of my cock…about half of the head. Was able to get precum. I also got into a curled position a couple times with feet over head while lower back supported on wall. In this position, was able to shoot my cum into my mouth.
Favorite position when J-O is reclining with feet up like in an office chair and feet on the desk, arms of chair supporting my arms as I play with my nipples!
J-O solo or mutual….love variety.
Anal is not always a part, but anal with solo j-o has made for some extremely powerful ejaculations! Finger and toys.
I am multi-orgasmic—he kind of orgasms without ejaculation. Read about it many years ago. Tried the basic ideas in the article and learned how to achieve dry orgasms. Dry orgasms are AMAZING! Have had at least 5 with wife and maybe 2-3 solo before cumming. As far as shooting a load….have cummed twice in recent sessions with wife. Have solo masturbated in back-to-back j-o sessions where I cummed each time.
Love toys. Masturbation sleeves and anal toys….nipple clamps are hot as well!
In another post, someone mentioned being watched. That is hot! And pegging was also mentioned. Would love to be pegged while jacking off!
Very hot and fascinating. I would love to watch someone sucking and cuming in his own mouth. Sure seems so many people are multi-orgasmic.
Hey 1blessedman,
I have tried many times to suck my own cock without success. Closest I've managed to get is within 3 inches or so. Guess I need to keep working on my flexibility! Would be interested to hear more about how you trained yourself to be multi-orgasmic. That is a skill that I would like to work toward in the future! I've just gotten into prostate play recently and have really been enjoying it–definitely makes traditional masturbation sessions more intense.
YoungCouple69, so good to see you and Julie enjoy solo-sexual time both together and alone.
My kind of questionnaire
Female
52
Varies, 2-5 times a day. Goes up and down with health, stress, and what is going on around me.
7 orgasms, I think I had anything else to do that day and had the day to myself.
Clit.
Don't mind my own juices.
Multiple orgasms rarely happen, but if I've cum once, I can get aroused for a second and third time, then I need a break.
I like to both masturbate by myself and with hubby.
No toys, I like using my fingers.
The last three questions, nah, I'll keep some things to myself. Those who know me know I like making myself cum in my knickers by rubbing myself through them.
2-5 times per day! Wow! I respect keeping the last three answers to yourself–I can think of some locations I pleasured myself as a horny teenager/college student that were probably more risky than I care to admit LOL!
I have enjoyed this discussion. I wonder how many of us are masturbating as we read and comment?
Gender? Male
Age? 66
How often do you masturbate? (Every day, but not always to orgasm.)
Has this changed throughout your life? (The ejaculation part has, as it takes me longer now to cum.)
How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day? (Twice)
For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions? (A little testicle, a little anal.)
Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices? (Tasted, yes. Enjoyed, no).
Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session? (No…I wish. LOL)
Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse? (Both!!!!)
Do you use toys? If so, which are your favorites? (My wife enjoys several types of vibrators.)
Do you have a go-to position for solo play? (I like to be completely naked and lying on my side.)
Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself? (Probably while in my office at church).
What new ways of jacking/jilling off do you want to try? (I am open to suggestions).
My wife and I enjoy watching each other. She likes to watch me cum on her breasts. She often asks me to cum on her ass. And I love to watch her on her belly in bed, masturbating while I lie on my side jacking and then cumming on her ass. She always moans and tells me how she loves the feel of my hot cum.
I'm definitely doing it as I read the comments.
Hey LoveMyWife!
Love your take on these questions. I agree that being completely naked for a solo session just seems to make it better!
LoveMyWife56 asked – "….I wonder how many of us are masturbating as we read and comment." I have been playing with myself since logging on to MarriageHeat
Gender? – male
Age? – 67 in two weeks
How often do you masturbate? – to a happy ending, not very often now, mainly just rubbing and playing with myself
Has this changed throughout your life? – when younger every day (solo or by wife) plus PIV weekly
How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day? – 2, maybe 3
For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions? – Testicle play all the time
Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices? – yes, enjoy mine, but I much prefer her juices
Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session? – only one
Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse? – prefer with spouse, but only by myself now
Do you use toys? – Penis pump, cock rings, weights, urethral sounding with hollow tubes
If so, which are your favorites? – I have a lot of cock rings and scrotum stretching weights, that I use most days; penis pump and urethral-sounding hollow tubes a few times a month.
Do you have a go-to position for solo play? – No, must be naked, just rubbing and playing while reading on MarriageHeat
Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself? – beach
What new ways of jacking/jilling off do you want to try? – happy with what I do now
Male
59
Almost everyday
More frequent now than ever
Most orgasms in one day is probably like 6 or 7 (lazy day in a hotel on vacation)
Yes I can have multiple but must be super aroused
Love both – but must say I really enjoy the peace of solo times and the control I have over it
No toys for me
Favorite position is on my back – gives maximum freedom to handle and pump my cock. Also enjoy standing up and occasionally watching in a mirror for a change.
I like to move my hand up and down on my shaft – while cupping my balls and intermittently touching my asshole on some occasions.
I have tried my cum and enjoy it. Love the mixture with pussy juices!! Love the smell and taste of sex.
Riskiest places: I've masturbated and cum in bumper to bumper freeway traffic, in dining area with potential to be seen, in backyard, in my office, and more.
We've tried most of what I can imagine – except I wish I had the ability to stare at everything at once (meaning to be able to watch her facial expressions, whatever she is touching with her hands [pussy, boobs, asshole], and even myself). So, my eyes dart everywhere not wanting to miss anything. I love the face at orgasm as well as the pulsations of the pussy and anus.
I enjoyed seeing the results of this quiz. Thank you for doing it.
I haven't been here for a while and want to mention that I am thankful for the leadership of MH.
Happy Thanksgiving
LH
Female
Early 40s
I masturbate several times a week. I'm perimenopausal but I find I'm hornier now, so at this point, almost daily. Insatiable.
8 orgasms in one day is my top count.
I love clitoral stimulation. My clit is big & sensitive, so watching it get engorged & throbbing is something I enjoy. I use 2 fingers to jerk it. I rub it, sometimes with my palm. I also like to hump a pillow or furniture. . I love fingers inside me because of how wet & creamy I get & how it sounds. By the time im touching myself, I'm soaked. I play with my nipples too.
I love tasting my juice. Huge turn on.
I like to have 3-4 orgasms in one session.
I don't have a preference. I will masturbate solo & with my husband. I find I masturbate solo more because when he's with me, I want him inside me.
I use toys. I'm partial to clit suckers and dildos. I have also used cucumbers.
I love to spread my wet lips & masturbate while I watch myself propped up on pillows in front of a mirror. Or lie flat on my back or reclining on pillows in bed. In my office, I may stand to hump the table through wet panties or hike up my skirt and sit pantiless on a towel to rub & finger. Sometimes, I have one leg on the desk when sitting, especially if working very early or late or on a Saturday.
My office is risky. I have a private office on a quieter floor away from the open plan section. I can lock the door, but there's a small window on it. People are always passing outside. My assistant saw me once. I may also do it in the office bathroom, but rarely. I get very wet, so rubbing & fingering are audible. I also moan. I have heard other women do it, so I know I can also be heard.
I want to try A stimulation. Light rubbing on the outside. Also, I want to try a Fleshlight on my clit. A friend who also has a large clit says the sensations are electric.
Awesome! The way you describe working your clit is amazingly hot! When my wife’s clit is fully engorged, I like to pull her hood back with one hand, then hold my cock tip with the other hand and fuck her clit. Love for her clit to penetrate my cock! That frequently gives me dry orgasms!
WOH, You are a highly sexually charged woman, very hot! I'm guessing your hubby spends a great deal of time tasting that wet pussy of yours. Hopefully for him you enjoy returning the favor 🙂
WifeOnHeat, watching yourself in a mirror can be so hot! Really interesting that you can use a couple fingers to jerk off your clit–I've never heard of that–pretty cool if you ask me! Very hot that you masturbate at your office, and that others do as well–I've definitely jacked off at work before too!
Never heard of a clit even remotely that large. We are all unique, and good for you. Must be fun.
WifeOnHeat, I just saw your comment now. Wow! Super hot! Able to jack it like a little cock? Big enough to use a Fleshlight on it? Very Awesome!! I've always wondered if a bigger clit gave more pleasure. Sounds like yours gives you hours and hours of enjoyment!
Gender?
– male
Age?
-29
How often do you masturbate?
– solo, once a week
Has this changed throughout your life?
– I used to masturbate everyday to porn, realized I had an issue. Repented but sometimes struggle with porn. Got married. Sometimes I masturbate in front of my wife on occasion, and sometimes we simply masturbate together.
How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day?
– at least 6 times
For ladies: do you prefer clit stimulation, vaginal penetration, and/or anal stimulation?
For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions?
– both. My wife and I ok'd me getting a realistic 7 inch vibrating dildo. Sometimes she pegs me.
Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices?
– rarely. When I'm getting anal, I like licking up my precum.
Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session.
–
Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse?
– I like her watching, but also I have a need to enjoy it by myself.
Do you use toys? If so, which are your favorites?
– strap-ons, butt plugs, dildo, vibrating dildo, cock ring, a simple rubber band around my cock and balls
Do you have a go-to position for solo play?
– casually laying down. Or I use (bounce on) my dildo in front of a mirror.
Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself?
– at the doctor's office when I was younger
What new ways of jacking/jilling off do you want to try?
– video recorded for private use, or audio recording for public use.
What's up Lingre0nn!
Appreciate your response. We are about the same age and I too have found that I masturbate to orgasm much less frequently than I did before getting married. I just recently bought an inexpensive vibrating prostate massager and have really been enjoying it–thinking about upgrading and investing in a nice Aneros. Prostate massage while wearing a combined cock and ball ring feels great–ejaculation is much more intense. I haven't tried plugs or dildos.
Julie and I have been talking about making more videos this year for our own enjoyment too. Hadn't considered audio.
I'm curious how often people do not orgasm when masturbating? I understand girls not always finishing because it’s more difficult. But I assumed guys always shot their load easily and fairly quickly.
Marge,
When I was in my teens I would pretty much always masturbate to orgasm, but more recently (now in my late 20s) I've found I enjoy edging without ejaculating a lot more. Plus, I've found my loads are bigger and orgasms are more intense when I eventually do let myself cum (either alone or during sex with Julie) because of edging.
That doesn't mean they automatically orgasmed.
It depends on the man – some men enjoy ejaculation with each orgasm, and some men have developed the practice of dry orgasms in which orgasm and ejaculation are separate.
Just noticed I didn’t respond to this, Patty did.
So, I’m 46, masturbate at least once daily, with Patty frequently in many venues, the car is most frequent. I always include anal stimulation and playing with my heavy balls when jacking.
On an office day last year, Patty did FIVE FaceTime calls in assorted hot outfits and I came big each time as did she.
We still read MH stories together in bed while Jack and Jilling, and we save our two favorites for when we are eating each other (one reads while the other is, uh, eating.)
Jim thanks for the comment–I'm just getting around to reading some of these!
I think testicle tugging and squeezing feels great while jacking off or during sex for that matter. Five FaceTime cumshots in a day–that is intense! Speaking from experience, that is impressive–I tend to start running out of cum after 3-4.
Male (single)
20s
How often do you masturbate? Almost every day
How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day? Not normal but most would probably be 4-5 times as a late teen.
For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions? Yes I guess it’s prostate, but I love massaging my taint area and especially hitting that spot right during an orgasm creates such an intoxicating feeling.
Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session? Rarely, but when I’m really horny I can get back at it within 10 min or so
Do you have a go-to position for solo play? On the back with some lube or teasing my frenulum. Also enjoy shower stimulation
Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself? Probably in the car while driving
What new ways of jacking/jilling off do you want to try? Some kind of pocket pussy or sex toy would be fun
What's up big D!
Thanks for the comment! You are right about "taint" stimulation–definitely adds a different dimension when you press that spot during ejaculation. You might consider trying a prostate stimulator since you enjoy that taint massage feeling. I wasn't sure about trying one for a long time, but I finally bought one and it has been awesome. I definitely don't use it all the time, but it is intense if you use it after you are already really worked up.
I've never been caught masturbating, but I've certainly done it in some places that make me surprised I didn't get caught LOL!
Interesting! I’ll have to look into that, thanks!
Gender? Male
Age? 56
How often do you masturbate? Has this changed throughout your life? several times daily — edging
How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day? 12 when I was 6. [We believe there was a typo here, but we aren't sure how to fix it. – MH] Needless to say, I have always used lube.
For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions? I like to play with my balls sometimes. Have tried anal but never has done much for me. LOVE playing with my nipples and body hair.
Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices? Absolutely. Precum and cum. Love my wife's pussy juice as well.
Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session? Dozens. I learned how to have male multiples with edging.
Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse? I would love to do it with her. She just has no interest.
Do you use toys? If so, which are your favorites? I have purchased so many sleeves and masturbators only to shred them within a few days. My girth is over 6" and I am 8" when hard (hang at 6.5" flaccid). I am open to another one if someone knows of one specifically made for large girth. The last one – Max2 was awesome for 3 days and then it ripped.
Do you have a go-to position for solo play? I like to recline in my office chair or the old standby of squatting on the floor or laying down. I always use coconut oil.
Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself? Gee, where do I begin. Jacking to orgasm on the Atchafalaya Swamp Freeway while traveling on business. Jacking in a urinal at a department store I worked at in college (there was no one else in there obviously). Edged in a stockroom many times at another department store I worked at in high school. Jacked in my parent's van in a parking lot of busy shoppers. Jacked in the backyard on the deck at night.
What new ways of jacking/jilling off do you want to try? Would LOVE to do it with my wife. Like a few guys mentioned above, I used to be able to shimmy up the wall and flip my legs over and shoot in my mouth when I was younger. That was really fun for something different. Would love my wife to do it with me and watch each other taste our own juices. Perhaps have her jack me and feed me my cum while she is jilling off. Cum on her tits and lick it off.
Hey TexasMan!
I also edge more now than I actually masturbate to ejaculation. One of my goals is to learn how to have multiple dry orgasms–haven't got the hang of separating orgasm from ejaculation yet.
Gender? Male
Age? Early 30s
How often do you masturbate? Has this changed throughout your life? A few times a week. As a teen, I shot usually two loads a day. Now that I’m a bit older and have more discipline, I like to save my cum and shoot big loads.
How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day? Probably 4-5 times.
For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions? I usually fondle my balls, sometimes I pull on my nut sack as my hardened cock strains. I love how heavy it makes my dick feel, if that makes sense? And when I’m super horny, my throbbing cock head is deep purple.
Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices? I have and I don’t mind it.
Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session? I have about a 10 minute recovery time, then I can go again for a second load.
Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse? I’m single, so I just stroke alone right now!
Do you use toys? If so, which are your favorites? I have never used toys, but I would really like a Fleshlight.
Do you have a go-to position for solo play? I usually sit, sometimes I lay down and spread my legs as far as I can. Other times, I squat in a bull frog position and l use my heels to spread my ass cheeks apart, if that makes sense? The feeling of my full balls dangling and heavy cock swinging between my legs is intense.
Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself?
While driving down the road in my car in daylight. I also jacked off in my family pool growing up. I stripped and just let the jet stream pummel my cock head until I shot a huge load.
What new ways of jacking/jilling off do you want to try? I’m interested in trying more prostate stimulation.
Tinwaiting, oh boy, your response left me with no other choice but to masturbate, lol. I love the way you described your cock and the way it makes you feel with your balls being full and heavy between your legs. It totally got me wet, haha.
Also, it makes a lot of sense that, as a teen boy, you were cumming more often. (We all know what it’s like being a curious hormone-raged teen, lol). I'm curious, though: do you (and any others who do this) find that, because you like to save your load to shoot bigger ones, you get many erections in between? I see why you would want to save your ejaculate and have more at once, but if you get horny, do you find you’re getting really strong erections throughout the week when you’re trying not to masturbate and ejaculate to save your load?
Thanks again for inspiring my little solo sesh between my legs this a.m.! 😉
Hey tinwaiting!
Totally get enjoying saving up your loads for bigger cumshots later–I do the same thing. I probably only jack off to orgasm once or twice per week now–so much more cum than when you are doing it everyday!
Would definitely recommend trying more prostate stimulation. I just bought a prostate massager recently, and that thing is wild! Never thought much about it until I saw a few people write about them on here, so I thought I'd give it a try. Totally worth the investment in my opinion.
Hi alwayswet! Thanks for your comment, and I’m glad I could inspire (hopefully) a successful solo session!
And yes, I do. I will get semi-hard ons quite often throughout the day and, if I get the chance, will stroke myself to a rock hard erection, just as a way to relax, without ejaculating. It will give me blue balls after a while, but I like having my sac full before I shoot, because it not only makes my load bigger, but I also shoot it more forcefully, which just feels more intense. Also, as a single guy, delaying my orgasm helps me to build stamina so I can last longer for my wife one day.
As you might imagine, I now have a boner from responding to your comment!
• Gender? – Male
• Age? – Mid 40s
• How often? – 3-6x per week
• Has this changed throughout your life? – Not really. I think it’s been this frequency since I started j/o at age 14
• How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day? – I think 5 was the most (in one 24 hr period)
• For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate? – Only rarely
• Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices? – Yes, occasionally (started 5 yrs ago with MH’s encouragement!)
• Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session? – Mostly no. Maybe a rare 1 or 2x a year.
• Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse? – Definitely together… because my wife is so f'ing hot when she jills!
• Do you use toys? – I've tried 2 of my wife’s vibrators, but rare for me to want or use toys on myself.
• Do you have a go-to position? – Yes! Laying on back, cock pointed up, Stroke with right hand
• Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself? – Over my wife’s face (that was our first “accidental” facial). Also, I secretly jacked about 4 feet from my not-sleeping college roommate while my GF and I had phone sex!
• What new ways of jacking/jilling off do you want to try? – I'd love to j/o with another couple (all 4 of us). And more facials on my wife.
• I am a big fan of masturbation. I think it’s great for teens, singles, marrieds, widows… everyone. It’s amazing that God created our bodies with self-pleasure capabilities!
Hey Fearless!
Love that you prefer mutual masturbation–me too! I love watching Julie work her clit with one of her vibrators and turn into a screaming, writhing orgasm machine LOL!
I so agree guys with the mutual masturbation. We recently really are into watching each other and my wife is super hot when she jills for sure
-Gender? Male
-Age? Early 30s
-How often do you masturbate? Varies, but probably 3-4x per week.
-Has this changed throughout your life? Yes. As a horny teenager, I would usually rub one out daily, if not more. I do it less often since getting married, unless I am traveling and away from the wife.
-How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day? 5, I think. It was a long time ago.
-For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions? Not into anal/prostate. A little bit with the testes.
-Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices? I tried it before as a teenager, but haven't since.
-Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session? Not usually.
-Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse? Although not as common, mutual is way more fun.
-Do you use toys? If so, which are your favorites? I don't use toys, though I have used a diy pocket pussy made from a latex glove, washcloth, and rubber band.
-Do you have a go-to position for solo play?
Laying on the bed is my favorite, but I usually do it while sitting.
-Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself? In a stall in a busy public restroom where the door was just a raggedy curtain.
-What new ways of jacking off do you want to try? I am curious about how a vacuum would feel, but I was a little too girthy to fit in the tube of the last one I checked…
Interesting about the home made pocket pussy. I have gone through so many sleeves and masturbators only to shred them in just a few days. You sound like you may be girthy like me so maybe this home made one would work?
"I don't use toys, though I have used a diy pocket pussy made from a latex glove, washcloth, and rubber band."
Whaaaa?! Tutorial, please!
Yeah…so first you take a latex glove, fill it with lube, and slide it over your penis. Then for some cushion, you wrap the washcloth around it. Use a rubber band or 2 to hold it all together (and add some tightness), and you have a very cheap and very OK pocket pussy.
Hilarious!!
As I’ve gotten older, I have found I enjoy a long masturbation session – I’m talking an hour or more, just slowly stroking (using a lube and my pre-cum), and using visual stimulation, either videos or watching a loved one.
IndyDad, I'm doing this this morning! Stroking to MH stories and some visual erotica. What a relaxing way to spend an hour or so!
IndyDad and YoungCouple69,
I am the same way. Been an edger for years and it's nice just to stroke for long sessions and enjoy being a man. I love reading the stories here and thinking about my wife and I in them. Save the load for sex most of the time but sometimes shoot. My max is 4 hours straight when I had the place to myself on the weekend. My wife knows I edge and is totally cool with it.
These comments are so stimulating for a woman! We ladies love that man tool that you guys all use to edge with 😉 It’s so hot to think of a man standing there with a real erection just horny and turned on but edging and enjoying his body. I love when my man does this, and as a woman, I do it all the time with my lady parts!
I’ve been in a horny mood to masturbate this morning. Due to a crazy schedule it’s been a couple of weeks since my wife and I have had sex. Blue balls are kicking in. Reading here has increased the horniness. But hoping for some extended play time this evening with my wife so doing my best to not orgasm this morning. When I get real horny like this I get the urge to eat my cum. Any one else ever think about trying your cum? I’ve also been thinking about eating it from my wife after I cum in her. Am I weird?
Haha this is hot to hear! My hubby is like this after one night off because we didn’t have time last night. I can’t wait for tonight. You bet I am going to O town a couple times today with my toys though
Happyhusband, the urge to eat your cum is much more common than you think. I also do the same thing and do eat my loads sometimes solo or have some mixed with my wife's sweet nectar. You are not weird at all. I have read so many anonymous forums on men's sites that reflect that it is very common. Eating precum is nearly universal since we are so horny when we are stroking. After all, it's your OWN precum and jizz. It's not like you want someone else's. I think it's pretty clear in Song of Solomon that the marriage bed is pure and the sexual fluids of both husband and wife are pure and to be enjoyed without inhibition.
I’ve tried it. It’s not bad really. It’s hard to describe the flavor, though. I’ve also ate her out after cumming in her…that’s really good. The mixture of her flavor and mine is erotic beyond words. Then kissing her with it still in my mouth is even more amazing.
No, I do it fairly regularly when I masturbate. I highly recommend using coconut oil as lube…makes the come even tastier !!
I will shoot a load into my own mouth occasionally if I am feeling especially horny!
I was in my 30s before I started using lube when I masturbated. It sure made a big difference: it made it a lot more pleasurable.
I started buying lube when I was in college—was a big improvement over lotion, soap in the shower, etc. Good lube is a game changer if you’re circumcised.
YoungCouple69 – I just use cheap baby lotion, lol. But it works well. I like long masturbation sessions, to prolong that wonderful feeling.
I use Albolene
This is a great quiz question! I’ve enjoyed reading all of the 70 comments and have wanted to comment on it ever since it was posted six months ago. There’s a couple reasons why it’s taken me so long to comment…
First, I’ve been trying to make sure my heart is in the right place. There’s no question that writing about my/our sex life and masturbation sessions is a big turn on for me! I do enjoy masturbating and sharing about my love of silky, satin and lace lingerie and how it turns me on. And a part of that turn on is knowing others are reading it and being turned on by it too! But I want to make sure that it motivates both you and me towards greater sexual connection with our spouses and not creating distance between spouses because of too much focus on solo sessions. I wanted to share that before I went any further.
The other reason it took me so long to comment was that when I read this quiz question, I knew I wanted to wait till I had the time and space for a very nice long satin-stroking session so I could actually be masturbating while I comment! Which is what I’m doing!
I also wanted to say that I have appreciated some of the very nice comments about my openness to share on MH about my love of jacking-off on my wife’s lingerie from several of you, like this one from Sara K.: “It is beautiful to see that you as a Christian man are jacking off with your wife's panties. My compliments and encouragement to you!
I love hubby jacking off in my underwear. Semen in them is sexy and a sign of his love for me!”
So here are my answers:
Gender? Male
Age? Early 60’s
How often do you masturbate? Daily- several times a day! But not to orgasm. I only jack-off all the way to an orgasm about once a week But I find that I masturbate (touch and stroke my cock) for a few minutes or just seconds many many times a day—often with panties as I have some handy but sometimes just good old-fashioned hand stroking.
Has this changed throughout your life? Sure. I used to always get an orgasm and did once or twice a day when I was younger.
How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day? Just two.
For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions? No – nothing against it, just doesn’t trip my trigger!
Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices? Sometimes.
Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session? Rarely.
Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse? (I’ll answer the next three questions together)
Do you use toys? If so, which are your favorites? No toys – just lingerie!
Do you have a go-to position for solo play?
My favorite way to cum is whenever I am watching my wife masturbate and she is watching me! But when I’m enjoying a solo session this is my favorite …
Lying naked on the bed, I will start by reading some MH stories until I’m fully hard then I will select a very silky satin and lace-trimmed chemise and slowly drag it upwards across my erect cock again and again – letting the lace at the hem tickle my balls. Then after several minutes of that kind of intense cock teasing, I lay the silky lingerie on me covering both my cock and my nipples with the cool satin. I lightly caress my nipples through the luxurious fabric with one hand while stroking my rock hard member with the other hand, stopping when I get close to the edge. During those breaks I read more MH stories and type comments … then when I can take it no longer, I explode – pumping creamy white cum all over the sexy lingerie! So good!! (Which is what I’m doing right now …except I haven’t cum yet!)
Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself? At my now in-laws house when I was dating my wife. One afternoon I stopped by to fix a plumbing issue for my now mother-in-law. Nobody was home, so when I was done fixing the sink, I went into my fiancé's bedroom and got two pair of her panties. She’d jacked me off on dates many times with her satin panties, but I got her used panties and sniffed them, and I also got a clean pair out of her dresser drawer and wrapped them around my cock and stroked until I shot a big load of cum! Of course, I told her later during a date when we were masturbating together.
What new ways of jacking/jilling off do you want to try? Just more of the same, more often!
To me, jacking off on silky panties or on a satin slip or chemise feels over-the-top wonderful! it’s my very favorite way to enjoy a long stroking session and an exploding, panty-soaking orgasm! The only thing better is a wet pussy, IMHO!
I’ve written four stories on MH about my love of cumming on my wife’s silky lingerie that you might want to check out. (https://marriageheat.com/author/satin-king/) Hope you enjoy them and enjoy some sensational satin stroking!
Gender – Male
Age – 55
How often do you masturbate? 2 times a week
Has this changed throughout your life? Yes
How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day? 1
For ladies: do you prefer clit stimulation, vaginal penetration, and/or anal stimulation?
For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions? I don’t
Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices? Sometimes
Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session? No
Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse? Both
Do you use toys? No If so, which are your favorites?
Do you have a go-to position for solo play? Standing
Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself? Work
What new ways of jacking/jilling off do you want to try? A sleeve
Male
65
How often do you masturbate? 2x per week
Has this changed throughout your life? Was 3-5x per day for 11 or 12 years until married at 22.
How many times have you ever orgasmed in one day? 7 or more.
For men: do you incorporate anal/prostate or testicle play in your sessions? Testicles
Do you ever enjoy tasting your own juices? Not necessarily. When I used to shoot farther, it would often land in my open mouth.
Can you have multiple orgasms during a single session? Yes.
Do you prefer masturbating by yourself or with your spouse? Both. I masturbate alone 2x per week. The other three are either full-on sex or I masturbate next to her if she's not feeling well.
Do you use toys? If so, which are your favorites? A vibrator that stimulates my frenulum. Really nice. I also use a vacuum pump that causes me to have rapid dry orgasmic contractions. Feels tremendous!
Do you have a go-to position for solo play? Usually in the bed. I like humping pillows, too.
Where was the riskiest place you ever tried pleasuring yourself? Gym sauna on the way home after work. Was back in the days men were required to be naked in saunas and steam rooms. That day I was way too sexually charged. All I had to do was think about having sex with my wife and my dick hardened. Didn't even touch it. So, I didn't technically masturbate. But I did tell the guys it was obvious I had to get home.
What new ways of jacking off do you want to try? Not as flexible as I used to be and thus not as creative. I do like trying different types of lubes.