Pillow Talk
My wife and I recently played a game called pillow talk, some of the questions had obvious answers, would you watch porn or would you have a threesome, obviously the answers were no for both of us. But one question in particular was very enlightening to both of us and I wanted to share it.
“do you think your sex lives are better than your friends.”
My wife answered first, she described some conversations that she had had with some of her friends without naming them to back up her answer that our sex lives were undoubtedly better than her friends.
I had no such conversations with my friends, but I told her that I knew my sex life was better than theirs based solely on how amazing our sex life was. Which produced chuckles from both of us.
My wife is amazing. She is not always up for sex. But she is always up for something. In fact we do something almost every night. Sometimes its sex, sometimes it’s a hand job, sometimes a blowjob, and other times she tells me a sexual story about the two of us while I masturbate. I honestly don’t know anyone else who has it as good as I do. But she always felt like it wasn’t enough. She thought my answer to the question would be no, that I thought my friends had it better than I do.
It made me realize how much my wife needs to know that I appreciate her and all that she does for me. And that I need to step up my game in showing her the appreciation she deserves for all that she does!
That's a lovely submission. I feel happy for both of you. Keep up to healthy loving.
I love pillow-talk! It's so beautiful, and it helps you to bond deeper with your spouse.
We've only played a couple times, but we have enjoyed it. It helps open up discussions on topics we might not normally discuss.
It does? We've never had that before, my husband and I usually talk about how much we love each other, and now that we're older we also talk about our younger days as you see in my writings.
that was our experience at least. We tend to be fairly open in our communication but while alot of the questions we have discussed or know each other enough to know what the other person would answer even without having discussed it, there were some that we never even really thought about, so it opened up discussions that wouldn't have taken place without the game. Just another way to get to learn something new about a person you thought you know so much about already!
I used to have pillow talk a ton with a friend of mine, I'm saving that sort of stuff for marriage now, but it's very enlightening to talk so freely about sexual topics.