Entries by No Longer With Us

Newlywed Nerves

Newlywed Nerves – I pull the car away from the Wendy’s drive-thru window, double checking the flow of traffic. “Mmm. Fries and Frosty.” “I can’t believe that I married you without knowing you had such a weird tendency,” I say around my smile. “Who dips french fries in ice cream?” “It’s not ice cream – […]

In Praise of My Wife

Despite her rather infrequent desire for sex, my wife has lately been trying very hard to make me feel desired and loved.  While I know she loves me, it is still hard to not feel hurt when she doesn’t desire me.  Of late, she has been more present, putting in the effort – and that […]

Our First Vibrator Experience

Not too long after our oldest daughter was born, after my body parts were no longer so sore and all trace of post-partum bleeding was gone, and after several weeks of having to put up with my husband fighting for his share of my engorged boobs, I was definitely feeling the need for some intense […]