Mature Sex -I really hope I do not offend you younger readers with a mature sex babyboomer post. I have been married to a wonderful man longer than many readers have been alive: forty-three years. My husband has worked many, many hours and put his family first for the forty-four years he spent with his job as a lineman for a utility company. He recently retired and seems to have a renewed interest in me both in life and in our intimate times together. I truly love my husband but sex does not appeal to me the same as it does to him.
One night after church choir practice some friends and I decided to stop at the local coffee shop on the way home. During our chatting one of my lifelong friends laughed and said “Now that Dave is retired, I bet the honeymoon is on again!” I just smiled and murmured something about I’m too old for that to which she replied, “You’re never too old for that.” She then started to tell me about a site encouraging intimacy for Christian married couples called Marriage Heat, a site she thought I might like to visit. The conversation drifted to different topics, but her comment remained in my head. As I walked in the door to our home Dave hugged me, gave me a pat on my backside and, sensing my ho hum response, asked me if my day was good before he went out to his garage. As I sat there watching TV I wondered why I was so uninterested in Dave’s attention toward me. Then the Marriage Heat comment hit me and I decided to check it out. Soon I was on our computer searching for the site. I must admit I thought all the stories were for young married couples until I read some stories from couples around our age.
I still can’t believe I’m sharing this, but I started thinking about how well Dave treated me and the only thing he ever asked for was intimacy in our life. I also thought about how I avoided it whenever I could. I am a devout Christian and somehow I related being intimate with Dave as wrong. I became an “addict” for Marriage Heat and really liked the stories from older readers being able to relate better. I decided to improve that part of our life right now, and mused over where to start. Dave loves to cuddle naked while talking with me, he loves intimate talk from me, he is turned on by the thought of showering with me and loves doggystyle sex. I can’t believe I am sharing this, but I am.
A few days later Dave returned home from the mower repair shop and upon entering the back door I sniffed and asked him what smelled. He replied, “It must be the gas smell from the mower.” I told him he was stinking up the house and he needed to shower. I took him by the arm to the bathroom and undressed him, trying not to laugh at the look on his face. I turned on the shower, undressed and we both entered the shower while he still didnt say a word. I turned the hot water on as hot as we could stand it and lathered Dave’s body from top to bottom giving extra attention to his private parts, handed him the soap, looked him in the face and smiled. Without a word he did the same for me and covered every inch of my body with his loving hands. I thought about furthering the action in the shower but chickened out, so we dried off and went to the bedroom.
I then left a trail of kisses from his bald forehead (sorry Dave), down his body to his groin area, and then I kissed and licked his groin without touching his penis while fingering his testicles. I thought, “Here goes” and slid his penis into my mouth hoping I was doing it right (and by his reaction I was). I wasn’t sure about deepthroating, so I kept my attention on the head of his penis and I swear he was ready to come off the bed. Almost muttering he said, ” Jo, you better quit, he is gonna blow up.” He then rolled me over and licked my groin area before sliding his tongue into my privates, and I felt like never before in our married life. Soon I felt an orgasm coming and before I knew it I went over the top for only the third or fourth time in our married lives! Afterward we lay next to each other and talked like newlyweds and I swear the smile never left Dave’s face.
After about 15 minutes I rolled over and told my hubby he had business to finish, and then I kneeled down with my head on the bed and my bottom up high and smiled at my husband. Dave slid behind me and poked around untill he found the right angle and entered me slowly and tenderly. Soon Dave’s thrusting picked up he muttered for me to f— him and then kind of stopped as he did something wrong. I said, “That’s all right, lover, your wife wants you to f— her! She loves you.” That was enough to put Dave over the top, and even though he was super excited, he tried to thrust slowly until I told him, “Lover, you’re not hurting me give it to me.” Then the floodgates opened and we both let loose with lovers talk that seemed to further our excitement and intensify our finish. After the heavy breathing returned to normal, Dave thanked me several times until I told him that’s what loved wives do when they love their husband! Two things: I can’t believe I did this and really can’t believe I shared this! Thanks for the inspiration Marriage Heat!!
From Marriage Heat: This story inspires mature sex and intimacy can always be young at heart. We hope to inspire married couples of all ages so that mature sex is just as heated as newlywed sex. We hope that more baby boomers will tell their friends about MarriageHeat.com. And you babyboomers, maybe we need a new category called mature sex. This will be one of the posts.
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