How To Introduce This site to Others in Africa?
Hello MH Family,
I am a single male living in tropical Africa with a great desire for such marriage heat as I have read on this site. I have been reading a couple of stories on this site for close to a year now and have been very inspired to abstain and wait until the day I walk down the aisle with the one I will have so many fantasies to fulfill and many years of joy and worship through the sacred gift of sex. Having been brought up in an environment where the mention of the word sex is an “abomination”, it has been a challenge getting to know the proper bounds for sex. The missionaries brought a very guilt driven idea about sex even in marriage. This site is crucial for Africans.
I have a very close friend that recently got married and would like to introduce her and her hubby {now a close friend too} to this site, but I do not know how best to do so. We have talked freely about ideas, and she needs a positive message about sexuality. What advice would you give me to be able to help her especially given that all her life she has grown up knowing sex is an “abomination”?
Thanks a lot.
Loveboy
It may be best to have patience with this to bring up the subject. Why would you even need to, it’s something they as a married couple need to figure out. Of course you can ask them questions about transitioning into marriage and about the freedom they now have. Also consider writing somewhere about the guilt driven ideas from missionaries. They may be able to help with the subject.