One way she can get me in the mood – the massage

Like most men, I love sex.. I guess if I had my way I would have sex a minimum of 3 times a week, and would really prefer as much as 5 times a week.   But, it rarely happens that often.

As much as I love sex, I do admit there are times that I am tired, or not in the mood. One of the things that I love is when she is in the mood for sex and she uses a technique that can snap me back to where I am also in the mood. Keep in mind that this may work for a woman to do to a man, or vice versa – the man to do to a woman. Of course, different things work for different people. Each of us have our own turn ons, and our job is to find out what those turn ons are. This is one idea that may or may not work for you.

Almost every time she will go change into clothes that she knows I like seeing her wear, but she does this in a subtle manner. What I mean is she is smart enough to know to not dress in anything too obvious. Here is an example of something hot but not too obvious.  She has a pair of jean cut off shorts that look very hot on her. The waist of the shorts do not ride up real high on her, and they are fairly loose around her waist. One of the things that makes these shorts look hot on her is it allows me to see her thong panties from the waist area. She knows I love seeing a woman in a thong – either black ones or red ones. So, she will have those on and a non see through top with no bra. It is casual wear for around the house and not too conspicuous of her intentions. (By the way, she only wears these shorts when around me)

Note: I get very explicit in this story description because it shows what works for me. The story would not have near the effect without it. If that may bother you, you may want to read a different story.

She will say “You look tired. Would you like me to massage your back for you? Would that feel good?”

I gladly say “Yes, I would love that.” (as if I would ever say “No” to that request)

She says “Here, let me take your shirt off and then you can lay down on the carpet.”

She then straddles my butt and starts the massage as she leans her body forward to create more pressure with her hands. She will work on my shoulders, down my arms, and eventually down my back toward my ass. As she does so, she will slide her body down toward my thighs so she can reach better.

Then she will say “Want me to do your legs, too?”

I always say “Sure! That would be great.”

Then she says “Let me slide your jeans off,” as she reaches under me to unsnap and unzip them. I always help her by lifting up my body so she can easily do this. (By the way, I love being stripped. There is no way it would be near the “turn on” for me to take off my own clothes)

It’s funny because I know what she is doing and where this is going, but I love the attention so much that it overrides my caring about how predictable this is. She is a master at this technique and it turns me on greatly.

So, she will start massaging my legs, working her way up from my feet, to my calves, then to my thighs and even very close to my crotch area. Up and down, back and forth and even occasionally bumping accidentally (but really on purpose) against my balls. After she works both legs she always asks “Want me to massage your ass? You always love that.”

I say “Yes, that would be wonderful.”

She will start massaging on top of my undies for a few minutes then say “Let me just slide these down some so I can massage it better,” as she takes her fingers and grabs the sides of my undies and slides them down to my knees.

She knows full well that it is better for her to not take them off of me yet because she knows it is a turn on for me to feel exposed. She knows that me laying there with my undies down to my knees is more sexy (at first) then if she took them all the way off.

She continues massaging my ass. She knows my ass being massaged is an extreme turn on to me. I love how her hands feel on it, and she knows how to stir my desires by how she plays with it.

At first she just lightly glides her hands over it. Next, she starts pulling on the muscles of my ass, which opens up the (Sorry to be blunt) asshole area. The temperature of the room hitting that area sends tingles to my groin area. After several minutes of this, my mind is already wondering and hoping this leads to more. She takes her time and is not obvious about what she is going to do next. She is succeeding in not only turning me on physically, but also turning on my mind as well.

She continues working the ass muscles, pulling them apart and massaging them well. Each time she does so, her fingers or thumb goes nearer and nearer to my asshole. After several minutes of this, she uses one hand to keep my ass cheeks open, while the she takes a finger of her other hand and runs it from my asshole down towards my groin. I cannot resist a moan coming from my mouth. I know she is loving what she is doing, knowing that this massage is accomplishing exactly what she wanted. Even though I cannot see her, I am betting she has a smile on her face.

She continues running her finger slowly and senaually up and down that area, which causes the tingles to increase in my groin area. It is like there is a direct line between that area and my cock, just like some women have a direct line between their breasts being played with and their pussy.

She then slowly presses down further into my asshole so that her finger goes barely inside, and then she will pull it out,  to again, slide her finger down toward my balls. My mind is hooked. She has me hoping for more.

She continues working that area, and each time sliding her finger in a little more, hesitating longer, until she is massaging my asshole about an inch or two inside, rubbing it in and out, and even in small circles.

After a few minutes, she spreads my legs wider and takes the palm of her hand and slides it down to my balls, grabbing them tenderly and massaging them..

She has mastered the art of the slow tease. She knows how to take her time. She knows sex is a physical thing and it is also a thing of the mind. She is making sure she is effecting both parts of me- the physical and the mind.

She varies her technique from a light touch at times, to a firmer touch as she listens and watches my body respond to her. She pays attention to how it is effecting me as she listens for my breathing change, listens to the moans, and even notices me wiggling my ass around slowly. It is like she is loving the fact that she is doing this to me. I am sure if I could read her mind there is a great feeling of satisfaction inside of her.

And for me, that is a huge turn on.

She knows I want it now. She knows she has taken me from not being in the mood, to totally being in the mood, yet, she is not going to hurry it. I know where this is going and she knows where this is going, yet she is going to make sure we take our time getting there. She is going to make sure that the pleasures last as long as possible. She knows this is the point that every touch feels wonderful. She knows that there is no worldly sex that can match what she is able to do to me as my wife. She knows my body well, and she is making sure that she does to me what no other woman could do. She is loving me in a way that only a wonderful christian wife can do. At this point, for her, the goal is not to get me to cum, but to keep the pleasures going for awhile.

She now grabs the sides of my waist and pulls me up and onto my hands and knees. She is behind me still and reaches her hand in between my legs and begins to very lightly slide her palm up and down my cock and balls.

I am now dripping precum, and she starts using the precum to stroke my cock from behind. She pulls my cock backwards, through my legs, and is stroking it up and down with one hand ,while the palm of her other hand is massaging my balls. As she massages my balls, her finger tips keeps getting closer and closer to my asshole, and eventually starts brushing against it. This combination of both of her hands playing with me feels incredible.

It has always amazed me as to how different angles of being stroked, or even sucked, feel totally different. The pleasures of the different angles are different. Laurie has told me that is the case on her as well when we have intercourse. Different positions (angles) feel different on her. Well, for me, being stroked is just like that. I love all the different angles but NOTHING feels like it does when I am stroked from behind, when my cock is pulled backwards through my legs and stroked.  It is totally different than any other angle. Again,  I love all angles of being stroked, but each one is different and nice for a change.

She has now unbuttoned her shirt. I am not sure when she did it because I was so caught up in what she was doing to me. It must have been when she removed one hand from my balls and was just stroking me with her other hand. Regardless, she is now rubbing her breasts on my ass. I am so caught up in the moment that I am wanting to just turn around, strip her naked and go at it. But, I know that slow and easy is better for us both.

She is now stroking my cock downward. Some people call that being milked. I don’t care what you call it, it feels great.

Eventually she says “Well, are you ready to play with me now?”

I don’t even answer her. Instead, I show her by turning around, taking off her shirt, and laying her down on the carpet. I, then, start unbuttoning her jean shorts. She is laying there with a smile on her face as I slide her shorts down her legs, then slide off her thong.

She is not like me, in that feeling exposed with her panties down, doea anything for her. She is fine with just being stripped naked. So, I just strip her naked, spread her legs, and start licking and fingering her pussy.

The entire process of what she has done to me has already excited her, as she waited her turn to be pleased. She is so excited that she has her first orgasm in about 5 minutes. I stopped and just watched her shake from it and made sure I stayed clear of her knees, as she always pulls them upward when she cums. After a couple of minutes, she opens her eyes and smiles. I lean forward and kiss her and say “Round two.”

I go back down, spread her legs again, and start the process off slowly because she is more sensitive now. I find the spots that please her the most and take my time in bringing her to her second orgasm. When that happens, I again, wait and watch her body as she enjoys cumming. When she finallyopens her eyes and smiles, I say “Round three?”

This time she surprises me and says “No, I’m good. It’s time to for you to cum in me.”

I line up my cock and slowly slide into her and start the process of going in and out. But, unfortunately, all this playing around has made me get to the point where I cannot make it for 5 more minutes until I had the most wonderful orgasm. Her little sensual massage game has, once again, turned out to be an incredible time.

It is always better when we take our time. I do not understand when I have counseled couples in the past and the wife says that all the husband wants to do is hurry, and get off. The guy has no idea what he is missing for himself and for his wife.   Or, I have even heard of how the woman wants to do nothing but lay there until he is done. I do not get it. Sex that way is so self-centered. That has to be an insult to the woman or the man.

I love these sensual massages that she has mastered. It always gets me in the mood. And, I never take our sensual times for granted. I respect what she does for me. It is a very satisfying sexual time, and is something that I wish all christian couples could experience.

I believe christian couples should be the greatest examples of what its like to have a great sex life. I have to admit that it always irritates me a little when I hear that christian couples, who are supposedly great christians, do not take care of each other sexually. I just do not get it. Part of being a great Christian should be taking care of your spouse, sexually.  And, I definitely do not get it when they do not treat each other well when they are not having sexual times. A great sex life should come as a result from treating each other with great respect. We should be sweeter to our spouses than we are to anyone else. To me, it makes you want to spend the time to please each other in the sexual times.

By the way, I did the painting that is attached as a picture to the story.

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24 replies
  1. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    Massages, I love them! And so does my husband. If I may be so forward as to ask if your wife ever massaged your bum with her ladyplace? I did that many times for my husband as you probably read, I did his bum and lower back mostly. A lot of times I even came, and he loves that too.

    I agree, taking your time makes it best! You speak for many of us here, and you say a lot of things that are very true. God bless you, and that's a cool paining, by the way!

    • Mike says:

      She has used a vibrator on my asshole, but not inside of it. It feels awesome ! I would love to have it inside of me, going in and out, but she has not reached the level of doing that yet.

      I wonder how many guys realize how sexual the asshole area is? For me, it is highly sexual.

    • Bootylicious says:

      Hi Harper,

      Would you be willing to elaborate a bit more for me please? (The mechanics of it). Are you kinda sitting on his bum but off to the side with your pussy making contact with just one cheek? And then are you just rubbing back and forth? I just thought of something: a husband's thigh would be good to straddle and rub up and down on too! 🙂

    • BachelorGent says:

      How neat it is to see you ladies discussing this! As a single man, I thought this was just some bizarre fantasy I'd concocted, the idea of my wife stimulating herself on ALL of my body. Love this idea, and glad I'm not the only one thinking of it.

    • Harper Shelby Thornton says:

      Of course! What I do is I simply "run" my wet ladyplace over his butt and lower back, if that makes sense. Yes, it's one cheek, then the next! And I usually massage side to side, rather then back and forth, I guess that's just how I've always done it, that's all 🙂

    • gcms says:

      She has not massaged me with her "ladyplace", as you call it. I HAVE felt it on my thigh, which was very sexy, buy not as a passage in and of itself.

    • Harper Shelby Thornton says:

      Maybe I used the term "massage" a little too loosely, but I just meant like has she rubbed it on you or something like that. But I can imagine that her doing it on your thigh must be a major turn-on for you! Certainly is for my sweet husband when I polish his bum and other areas of his hot body with my wetness from arousal!

  2. KleinRodgers says:

    Tremendous sharing, bro.

    You and she are in heaven. Thanks for leading the way in deep deep intimacy. This is one of the best posts I have read on this site and I am so happy for both you and your sweetie.

    Would you be so kind as a master of love making to share with us what your techniques might be for what you do in Round 2 and Round 3 with your wife prior to intercourse. My wife is like yours. When she orgasms from oral, she is finished and done with, but I know that she could probably have more orgasms if I were educated on what to do (like you) to get her there.

    Thanks for this magnificent sharing.

    • gcms says:

      With her, round two and three are pretty much the same as round one. I use a vibrator on her pussy but start with the areas that are about an inch away. Her pussy is very sensitive right after the orgasm, so i work my way toward it slowly. In less than 3-4 minutes I am pressing the vibrator against her pussy. Also, sometimesi have to use it in slightly different areas than the first orgasm. I just watch and listen to her to see what works for the 2nd and 3rd orgasms.

  3. Klein Rodgers says:

    Wow, Wow, and Wow

    You and she are accomplished lovers devoted to deep intimacy. Congratulations. This is one of the best accounts of the undefiled bed I have read on this site. Amazing intimacy and thanks for sharing some portion of your great lovemaking we can all try to attain in some manner.

    Would you be so kind as to tell me what techniques you use for your sweetie to bring her to further orgasms in Round 2 and Round 3. My sweetie is like yours. She has a tremendous orgasm from oral or intercourse, and seems to be done. I know she could be up for more orgasm if only I knew what to do. You seem to be a master at the female body, so would you please share in these comments or another story, what you do in Rounds 2 and 3.

    Thanks bro. I am happy for both you and your sweetie

    • gcms says:

      Oh, and I am by no means a master of the female body. I just love pleasure for me and for her. Plus, I just try to pay attention to what turns her on. To me, sex is all about giving lots of pleasure as long as possible.

  4. HornyHubby says:

    Great story….and not to rock the boat or anything but I just couldn't help but notice that the picture displays a woman's breasts in full view with nothing hidden. I'm just wondering why nobody has a problem with this but there was such a reaction to a similar picture in the story "Outdoor fun in a tropical paradise" that they altered the picture. To me this just shows the inconsistencies people use when it comes to nudity. So it's okay to see a painting but not an actual picture? Even if it's the same thing? Just wondering why that is…

    • gcms says:

      I think marriage heat has loosened up a little on the tight reins of pictures. (Within reason) They are allowing a little more exposure because they also have the option for each person to shut off the pics for themselves if they do not want to see it. Personally I think it adds a little more sexiness to the stories.

      But, nude paintings have long been accepted with society in general in places that regular pictures would not be accepted. There are a few of my paintings I will never submit on MH because they go too far.

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