Masturbation Enjoyment
Many of the stories I’ve read here deal with masturbation and becoming comfortable with it, and I thought it would be fun to share our masturbation techniques with each other. Whether you’re male or female, married or single, please consider sharing if you’d like to explain to others what you’ve discovered about your body and your solo sexual pleasure.
I’ll go first: My routine lately is to strip off all my clothes and lay face down on my bed. I love being nude and feeling the air on my bare skin. I use a hand as a pretend pussy which is surprisingly similar to the real thing, and I can control the pressure around my cock during thrusting. A few quick pushes and I’m erect and then I either fantasize about a totally fictional woman or remember the sexual experiences I’ve had over the years now that I’m single again. Nipple sucking is often my favorite fantasy and I love remembering the texture and feeling of my tongue on a hard nipple. I have a washcloth underneath my cock to catch my cum so I don’t worry about staining bed sheets and it’s easier to wash out afterward. Of course, it would be better with a woman, but I look at this time alone as a time of preparation for the right woman the Lord will send my way in His time. I love the feeling of my approaching orgasm and I’ve learned to gauge and delay my coming for maximum enjoyment. Afterward, I can get up and be productive with other things and not worry about pent-up sexual urges intruding into my daily thoughts.
That’s basically how I do it now. I hope others will describe their routine and we can share a sense of community by doing so.
Beachlover,
I really like this question – because when I masturbate, it is almost always a positive experience.
I actually have changed my method of masturbating in recent years. From my teenage years until a few years ago – I too would want to be laying face down – and get stimulated by the friction I felt on my cock by the wash rag or some kind of towel.
But, my preference now is to be laying on my back or standing in the shower (or wherever) – and not using a towel – but just pump with my hand on my shaft while my other hand cups my balls. If I'm laying down – I have a towel ready but I like my cum to shoot out onto my stomach and chest (sometimes hitting my chin!). I actually enjoy seeing how much comes out. But, I love the feeling of pumping and the freedom to let it fly out and not into some towel.
One exception. If it is the middle of the night – and I wake up – and it is not an opportune time with my wife – I altar this slightly to not wake her.
I will pull down my pj's or underwear – and laying on my back – I'll put a towel under my shaft and it lays on my abdominal area and chest. I pump less ferociously until I cum – but at the moment I cum I raise the towel from my chest area to catch the cum. I fold it up and feel the warm wetness – and put it on the floor until morning .
So, my preference is to pump and let it all just freely shoot out – seeing it.
By the way, I love it when my wife and I masturbate together – after she is done – she lays right next to me – her eyes fixated on my cock at the moment my creamy white volcano erupts. It turns me on that she is watching and waiting – usually with a hand cupping my balls – or a finger toying with my ass hole.
You asked – so I wrote a book?
I'm grateful for all these fun ways to enjoy our sexual bond. LH
Thanks for posting this. Marriageheat is a great place to go for erotic stories that quickly arouse. I love to fantasize about my wife and I in the various encounters that are described. My wife knows I edge and do blow if she is on her period. She doesn't mind it. I wish she was into masturbation but has always been very conservative. For many years, part of our lovemaking is my laying back next to her with her stroking my chest hair, stomach hair and nipples while I edge my cock for a while. Once I am ready to mount she lovingly gives her body to me. Coconut oil is my preferred lube when alone or next to her. I am very well endowed and HAVE to have lots of it or penetration is just not possible. When alone, I fantasize about my wife and I making love, her masturbating, watch myself in a mirror on occasion and just enjoy being male. We are wonderfully and fearfully made. I think about how God designed me. My cock/balls, strength, body hair, being the defender and provider for my family, etc. as I want to give God honor for how wonderfully my male body is made and the desire I have for my wife and the long to share my cream with her. I will caress and manipulate my nipples (like she does when she is with me) and play with my cock and balls as well. I have edged for hours on the rare occasion I have the house to myself. It's a wonderful way of sinking deep into that manly state of mind and pleasure when sex is not available or to prepare for a wonderful lovemaking session. I focus only on her and the husband and wife relationship. .
Hi Texasman,
After reading your comment – I never knew what "edging" meant before. I too on rare occasion – very rare – have done it while watching myself in the mirror. It wasn't by design – I happened to be in the bathroom at the time. The mirror was low enough to see the pumping action. I have to admit that it was kind of a turn on. I just let all the cum land on the floor – and their was a lot. I guess I was on the edge? LH
I just looked at the definition of edging – I now see what you meant. So, it is not a synonym for masturbating. I stand corrected.
Lovinghusband, you are correct. Edging is taking oneself to the "edge" of orgasm and backing off. Then starting over again and doing so for as long as one wants. It is a learned skill. I have male multiple orgasms from this exercise. They are different from normal orgasms in that it is like a wave of pleasure that washes over you yet you retain your erection and your semen. One tip for fellas who are new to it – gently pull down on your balls when you feel near the point of no return. The feeling will pass and you can start stroking again. Once you get the hang of it you won't have to do that anymore.
I for the most part like the basic hand stroke when I masturbate, whether it be in the shower or laying down. I generally have a hand towel handy to clean up the mess, but enjoy the feeling of my cum landing on my bare skin. I also enjoy fondling and tickling my balls as I stroke which to me is very pleasurable.
Gina purchased me a couple of masturbator's ( Fleshlight & Pocket Pussy) that I enjoy using on occasion. They are quite pleasurable, plus she enjoys watching me use them. In general I just enjoy jacking off and have since I was a teenager. Of course it doesn't compare to the joy of making love to my sexy and beautiful wife. God bless.
Thanks for the feedback! It's reasurring to know that others enjoy masturbation as much as I do, whether we're married or single.
Recently, I've changed my routine so that I can view my cum when I shoot my load. I do it in the bathtub when I want to enjoy the experience of soaking naked instead of a quick shower. As soon as I'm erect and pre-cum appears, I spread it over the head of my cock and around the ridge which gets me to orgasm quickly. That virtually guarantees a massive sperm spurt, which flows down my hand onto my stomach. I've shot a few photos of the aftermath, just for my enjoyment, and I love seeing how much cum I produce, especially if I haven't jerked off in a while.
Thanks guys for responding and I hope the ladies will weigh in too. Happy masturbating!
I usually lie on my back, legs spread slightly comfortably apart. I relax, laying there, eyes closed, feeling myself smoothly breathing in and out. When I started out, it was important for me to make sensuality a priority… to be mindful of how it feels to my body, mindful of the responses from my body… so I took time to feel how the excitement would build slowly with the touch and the caresses… my right hand usually begins to trace slowly over my chest and tummy. Gently, my fingers carress over my belly, moving upward, all so slowly, brushing lovingly against the underside of my breast, first left, then right, then moving upward in between them and back down to the softness of my belly… with every brush, I can feel sparks build up within my body… passion building at my very fingertips… sweet, sensual tickles at the point of touch, yet felt way beyond… then, my fingers would trace their way back up to my chest and my hand would now engulf my breast… sensing its softness, I gently knead it, fondle it and feel how the arousal would cause my nipples to get firm… at this point I imagine how it wouldn't be my hand that would love on my sweet breasts but my future beloved's… and Lord knows how I crave this to come true… the thought of my future beloved loving on my breasts out of his sheer passion for me – him fondling them, kissing them, kneading them, loving on them, desiring them – is one of the most beautiful things to imagine for me, and it is a huge turn on… then, my fingers trace their way back down and I lay my hand on my belly, at times pushing back a little against it… now, slowly, I inch forward down south… I do shave my pussy, then I like to let it grow back out a little, before shaving again… either way, I get to feel a sweet smoothness when my hand gets to explore the mysteries of my intimacy. While my left hand carresses the inside of my thigh, my right hand starts exploring my treasure cove. With my fingers, I gently stroke over my outer lips, up and down, slowly, delighting in the sensation it gives me. Then, I part my outer lips and feel up the outside of my inner lips. As my fingertips touch base with where the holy of holies of a woman's body would begin, they are greeted by the sweet wetness that has already built up. I juice up my first two fingers with the fruit of my arousal and head right up to my awaiting, yearning love button. It feels divine to begin rubbing my clit up in my juices – it gets beautifully smooth… I love to rub my clit in a circular motion – rhythmically, lovingly kneading away on it, occassionally stroking back down my outer and inner lips, dipping my fingers back into my juices, spreading my wetness all over my aroused, engorged folds… as I continue to love on my clit, the arousal builds more and more, the heat within my pussy does too… at some point, I feel the desire to have my pussy filled… in marriage, obviously my future beloved will be the one to satisfy this need of mine then… for now, my own fingers must suffice… at this point I am very aroused, full of sexual desire and more and more in need of release… so, as my right hand keeps rubbing my love button in well paced, rhythmic, circular motions, my left hand now strokes over my pussy lips, as it heads towards my vagina… once there, I shortly tease it with my index finger… then, I enter in with my finger and push it in and out a few times before keeping my finger in it and savoring the feeling of the amazing softness of the inner world it preserves for my future beloved's touch and delight only. My fingertip finds and begins to rub against the spongy area and I feel the passion build further… from there on it doesn't take long for me to make it over the edge and have a sweet sexual release, basking in the serenity of the afterglow. That is how I would usually partake of it when using my hands. I must say though that, instead of self-loving manually, I am pretty much always using my clit vibes since I've gotten myself my vibes – they provide a nicely warm and powerful build-up (a way better one to me than I could ever work up with my own hand)… it feels beautiful to me and I love it!
Wow, thanks for sharing! Sounds like a really beautiful experience! For me personally, I struggle to go slow and build up the tension in a sensual way like you did. I usually tend to grab my cock and start stroking lol. I’m single too right now, so I know how you feel. And I hope that you’ve found/ or will find that wonderful person to share these experiences with!
Thanks for posting and sharing your method of masturbation POC. It’s very erotic to read a woman’s perspective on self-pleasure, and it seems as though you know how to make love to your entire body. I believe that the man who is your future groom is in for a treat, not only sexually, but spiritually as well. The way you described how you caress your soft breasts and erect nipples, and explore your wet and waiting pussy were arousing and informative. I’m certain that your orgasms are rewards for all of the attention and time that you take to enjoy yourself, whether with your fingers or with your clit vibe. Your future husband will be a lucky man who fills your pussy (and perhaps mouth?) with his cock, his cum, and his love. Until then, I wish you happy climaxes!
Minor edit: I meant PFC, not POC. My error.
I'm so glad you feel free to enjoy it! Keep enjoying! 😀
Thanks Beachlover guy!! Such compliments are incredibly encouraging to me and they fill my heart with hope! 🙂 <3 I believe I'm not the most creative in terms of exploration and discovery but I have grown into this way of giving myself pleasure and I am very grateful to Jesus for this! The place I started out in on my sexual journey, I had no awareness whatsoever of sensual touch and the sensations it could produce in me, I had no clue that if I would caress parts of my body, it would give me a warm and cozy feeling beyond where I touched and build arousal, I had no clue what arousal was… so, when God began to set me free in Christ to explore myself and gently led and encouraged me to discover myself bit by bit, I set apart time to discover my body with sensual touches… I remember how once I sat in my bathtub (I love my tub times 😀 ) and mindfully I started to lovingly brush with my right hand slowly up my left arm and back down again, I gently caressed around the inside of my elbow and and let my nails slightly tickle against it as I brushed over it and it felt good… I felt something and it was beautiful… for real… and I was within me excited about this… I paid attention to the sensations my body would give me back, its responses to my touches… I studied myself… I found out that my left arm is slightly more responsive to the sensual touch than the right arm… I found out that caressing my breasts and belly can build excitement in me… a sweet anticipation to the more that awaits as one proceeds… as I continued to explore my own body, I took time to discover what sensations caressing the lips of my pussy would give me… and so the growth journey continued bit by bit and I came to find my way to self-pleasure myself and have it be a most beautiful experience to me. Due to the circumstances I still live in, I don't always have the uninterrupted time and privacy to enjoy myself this thoroughly, which is why the vibe comes in very handy and is way helpful… I love my vibes 🙂 … but I am deeply grateful to God that He made me discover it in such depth, so I know I have it in me and will be able to build extensively upon this foundation He has laid in me with my future beloved in the privacy of our intimacy and relationship 🙂 And I am very very much looking forward to this day and envision spending lots of time partaking of what we will be able to partake of! haha 🙂 I hope he will be up for it – I hope I will be up for it lol 😀 I got myself a special Christmas present this year – an anal plug (beginner's size)… now before anyone gets wrong ideas, I'm not gonna use it on the back door… I bought it with another purpose in mind… I like to be prepared well for my married life, my first time (God-willing that I would see it come to be) and I have observed that i just don't get around to relaxing enough to get to stretching the entrance to my treasure cove open a bit more – all I get to fit in there is 1 finger, and in light of what will have to fit in there (even if under-average-sized) I am mindful that I will have to prepare myself in the privacy of myself, with no stress and no one around… the anal plug I found and chose is like a mini dildo – the material feels so sweet and soft and its shape is perfect to practice gently widening my vaginal entrance a bit (without damaging anything)… I haven't put it to use yet, I'm waiting for the right time to try it out but I am looking forward to it and excited how it will wrk out 🙂 … I want my first time to be an all in all beautiful experience – physically, emotionally, experientially, spiritually – for my future hubby and myself… so, the journey of growth continues. And… to your question… yes, I am excited to explore and discover oral pleasures with my future beloved – provided that he would be open for it too. 🙂 Thank you MH for the support and company on my journey, for the encouragement and sparks of ideas given and shared!! God bless y'all!! <3
The overwhelming majority of the time when I masturbate it is in the shower. I have been shaving my cock and balls for years, with my degree of grooming elsewhere varying from total smooth in my entire region to just my cock and balls. My wife loves to suck my cock and she doesn't like hair on the shaft! Anyway, the process of shaving is usually easier with a hard on, so I will almost daily stimulate my cock to hardness while I soap up for the razor. If my wife and I have not been together for a few days and sex does not seem certain for that day, often I will just keep it going and stroke myself to a tension relieving orgasm. On a few occasions I have done with with my wife standing there shaving her legs and her pussy, or just finishing up. We probably shower together 80% of our mornings, so this process has become very open between us. Candidly, I shave her pussy (which has been totally bare for 6 months) at least once a week, while she does it herself the rest of the time. No need for waxing! All in all, my masturbation to orgasm is usually anywhere from twice a week to once every other week, depending on how connected my wife and I are. If she is out of town, I usually have trouble sleeping, so to help the effort I normally will lie on the bed, look at pictures or videos of her, and lube up my cock and stroke away! I then sleep like a baby!
Love your description PfC!! You should do a post soon!!
Thanks Harper and Amy!! 🙂 One day I may. 😉 God bless!!
New here! PassionateForChrist, thank you so much for that amazing description. From your perfect post, I can actually feel what it would be like to be slid deep inside a beautiful girl, probably like yourself, and just let go of everything inside me. I can feel those inner and outer lips you talked about embracing me, encouraging me to let go. I can feel the sweet wetness you mentioned, helping us to move together. What a feeling that must be to be 6 or 7 inches inside someone you love so much and, with total oneness, release inside her. Passionate, I have no doubt that once a man is inside you, you'll give him such a good home, he'll never want to release anywhere else! I almost feel as if I'm intruding on your special time, but your description is so vivid, I have the strong urge to read it again and use your imagery to help push me over the edge – way over the edge I'm sure. I'm almost afraid of what an orgasm would be like with as much imagery as you provide! The scene of your future husband loving and fondling your breasts as he's inside you – wow! I ache to hold my wife's breasts as I press my hips into her and cum inside her. I'm truly not certain if it's an okay thing to have an orgasm directly from a post like yours, but I'm really thankful for it, either way! You really show what it should be like between a married couple.
masturbation is so important for christians. It is a way of keeping our bodies in tune with our sexuality and spirituality. So many good descriptions and ideas from men and women. For singles important to know and prepare yourself. POC that is a beautiful description and Im sure the preparation will reward you with your future husband. You are a great example to christian women. Blesz you. One method I like is to worship with my self pleasure. Pray praise before and during dedicate that session to Jesus. we do it for our partners. how much more for the Lord. Next time you stroke your rock hard cock or finger your willing wet pussy. remember who made it and the sensations. cum hard for the Lord. When i have done this I have had powerful spiritual orgasms. Amazing.
Dear PassionatelyHopeful, first of all, welcome to MH! We are certainly glad you're here! Your comment blessed me! Thank you so much for your own beautifully hearty description!! Your words are filled with such wonderful, tangible love and passion that the oneness we all yearn and envision to behold one fine day could be sensed close at heart. I love how you conveyed how it would feel to you and how encouraged you would be to merge into this oneness, giving yourself over wholeheartedly into the beauty of each other's wonder of love. Thank you so much for your encouragement!! I cherish it a lot! I sure hope that my future hubby would feel so at home, so blessed inside me that he wouldn't wanna be anywhere else – and I surely wouldn't let him go… I love the thought of having him inside me and if it were only possible I would just have us stay merged in oneness each and every given moment… like taking up residence in me – haha! 😉 Dear PassionatelyHopeful, you can feel free to let my imagery inspire your fantasy of how you would love to be intimate with your future wife and let it give you beautiful orgasms. You can read it as often as you like and be blessed by it. I'm glad and grateful to be able to be a blessing in such a way through what I can share. 🙂 Thank you for the love and encouragement! You're a blessing! God bless you!!
Thanks so much, sandsj! I wanna second what you shared – at times I have found myself praying through my self-pleasure time, just talking to God, thanking Him for all the amazing things He has given into my body, the sweet sensations He sparks to life and all, and these times have always stood out to me in depth of sensation and tangibly feeling fellowship… a spiritual orgasm, as you've wonderfully expressed.
PassionateForChrist, thank you again! Admittedly, I did allow your imagery to push me over the edge, twice. Sorry! Thank you so much for that! I let go of a lot, in more ways than one, and I really appreciate your support. What an amazing thought of being filled up with your husband at every moment! I'm positive that beautiful place between your legs will be an amazing home for a man someday! I love the thought of, on a bad day, putting myself in her, sort of hiding myself inside her, literally and figuratively. Your description helps me think of the warmth and tightness that will surround me as I pulse and spasm inside her. I imagine being able to look down, watching myself disappear inside her, hardly being able to tell where I stop and she begins! I'm sure you've thought of the sudden rush of warmth when your man releases into you. I think of the tightening of her body on me, just encouraging me to let go of even more. This idea of oneness you've brought to light is amazing! Just think, your little body is made to draw out and hold everything that's inside of your future husband. Imagine the erections your beauty and sincerity will cause for him; consider that every drop he produces will be meant for you and you alone! Even each thrust and stroke he makes into you – you'll be responsible for those as well! I've gone on way too long, but just realize you're an amazing writer who is very in touch with her feelings and her body. It's your thoughtfulness and honesty that allowed me to finish so intensely earlier. By the way, standing while reading your posts is not recommended! Neither is being armed with only one Kleenex, lol.
PassionatelyHopeful, I can't even begin to express how much of a blessing the words you've just spoken over me are to me! And they couldn't have come at a better moment in time… Wow, God is so good and faithful!! I have run out of hope lately and ended up pretty disheartened these days, so the encouragement and loving kindness you've showered me with here came as such a timely blessing. Thank you so much!!
"I love the thought of, on a bad day, putting myself in her, sort of hiding myself inside her, literally and figuratively." – This is such a beautiful thought! So romantic! I love to think of how, in marriage, God made me to be a safe shore, a place of refuge, a place of rest to my future hubby… how my embrace will be the warmth that will be able to comfort him, that can replenish him, that can give him strength. I love that thought! To have my future hubby close is the coziest thing I can think of. I love how you perceive and imagine to experience the oneness – "watching myself disappear inside her, hardly being able to tell where I stop and she begins" – what a beautiful picture you've painted there! Yes, I have imagined how my hubby would bless me with his release… surprisingly, I have missed to think about it being warm lol… whenever I have so far envisioned it, my thoughts swirled around imagining how the rush of his release would explode within me and gush into and cover our most secret places, amidst the tightness and the heat between us, the firmness and the softness, the wetness and the loving affection all so gently given to each other on every level. You are capturing the idea of oneness way beautifully yourself, dear PassionatelyHopeful! Love it!!
Thank you so much for having spoken life over me here!! Each of those pictures you've painted with love are ravishingly beautiful, amazing and speak to the glory of God. How wonderful the day will be when we will see this gift of God given into our care! I'm grateful to have been blessed to enable you to finish strong. Thank you so so much for having honored me, cherished and valued me through all of what you've shared!! May God bless you for it in special ways! 🙂 And lol! 😉 You're sweet! Have a fabulous Sunday, my friend!
PassionateForChrist, thank you again for another amazing comment. You just get it! You have to know about the warmth though, lol! If you think about pleasuring your future husband in such a perfect way – with your affection, your breasts, your special place – that his love for you actually bursts out, overflowing from his body in the form life-producing semen, how could it be anything other than warm? I wish that you experience this sooner than later! I'm sure any overflow of love a man has for you will be exceptionally warm! I hope to make eye contact with my future wife, through each warm, throbbing pulse of warmth that leaves my body, until I just collapse! You spoke about firmness and softness – what a vivid picture! A man's firmest place, buried inside a woman's softest place…how awesomely made, right? I also hope things are going well with you preparing for having your husband inside you. Just remember, it's going to go perfectly. I'm sure you'll create the perfect amount of wetness for him to slip in and lose himself completely inside. He'll just want to press himself deeper and deeper to be sure he touches every part of you, pushing himself toward your belly. Then, you'll get your rush of pleasure you've been waiting for! Thank you for another strong finish! I'm normally fairly reserved, but these last few days, it's been hard not to gasp and moan as I pour out, thinking of my future wife. Before your posts, I'm learning to sit down first and take the necessary precautionary measures! Thank you for all your honesty and being so in touch!!
Hey PassionateForChrist, sorry to send you one more. Just a thought I had. I know we've been talking about your husband finishing inside you, but what about the occasional finish on your tummy? Do you think that's bad? I see a lot of intimacy in being able to see your husband's love and affection for you, sort of painted on your belly. Can you imagine you and your man perfectly in rhythm together, bodies tightening, breath shortening, and then suddenly, he pulls himself from your soft opening, his penis glistening with your wetness, and you watch him let go on your stomach, one pulse at a time, every thick stream full of love for you? Imagine the warmth you'd feel from that white puddle! I don't know if you see that as a waste of semen, but you could literally see his love all over you. If I do that to my future wife, I don't mean it as a sign of disrespect. I just think I'd like to see it happen – maybe that just makes me visual? I think it's the intimacy I'd like, perhaps? Well, at any rate, I hope you're having great visions of your future where every thrust isn't furiously done, but the goal being reaching you deeper and in some way he never has before.
Thank YOU, my friend, for your wonderful comments! There is so much in them that I love and appreciate – you are my kind of communicator, haha. You have a way of capturing the preciousness and beauty of this gift of intimacy and oneness, which spouses are blessed to behold together, that speaks to my heart and has it amazed and inspired and actually has blessed me to have myself some very satisfying, passionate hours of enjoyment over the course of these past days. So, thank you!!
You paint the vision with so much love and passion, it's beautiful! That love-drenched warmth will surely be amazing to receive. I too hope to get blessed to experience it in all its fullness and glory one day – I don't think I'll be able to ever thank God enough for making it happen for me if I should ever really come to find myself in my beloved's arms. I love the thought of the eye contact… What a special bond that will create! The love that will exude from it and fill the atmosphere and the hearts!
Well, actually, I haven't come around to using my soft and sexy little helper yet to practice stretching my girl down south… when I enjoy myself and am deep within passionately imagining how my hubby would love on me and I on him and how we would share these matchless sensations and the love and be merged, the arousal builds within me with beautiful intensity, and then I imagine how my hubby would stroke into me lovingly and then I'd think of how my soft little helper would do that and I get so aroused about that thought that for now I cherish just savoring the sheer beautiful orgasms I get from the thought of it alone 🙂 Thus far, I'm in no hurry to have to get her ready since the prospect of a husband, the blessing of being one man's one and only, is sadly nowhere in reach or in sight for me… every attempt I took in good hope and faith has failed before anything could come to any fruition… I must admit that I am not very hopeful about my chances to coming to see this gift of marriage be given into my care. But this girl can still dream 🙂 And my soft and sexy little helper will for sure be put to good use nonetheless… I'll certainly enjoy the pleasure it will give me.
"Just remember, it's going to go perfectly. I'm sure you'll create the perfect amount of wetness for him to slip in and lose himself completely inside. He'll just want to press himself deeper and deeper to be sure he touches every part of you, pushing himself toward your belly. Then, you'll get your rush of pleasure you've been waiting for! " – That is a beautiful picture to catch and behold. Thank you!!
I'm glad you get blessed with wonderfully pleasurable releases and that you get to enjoy them in depth and thoroughly! You're welcome! Thank you for your heartfelt encouragement and wonderful comments!! Such a blessing!!
No, I don't see him finishing on me as something bad at all. I love how you described this! And, yes, I sure can imagine this. What a beautiful vision you are blessed with! Beautiful choice of words also: "my husband's love and affection sort of painted on my belly" – wow!! I certainly don't see that as a waste of semen or a sign of disrespect – how could I? My hubby's juice is the treasure God gave into his body for me – not just for the wonder of life it can produce but just as much for the wonder of our love for each other, for our pleasure, for our passionate enjoyment… I can imagine being covered with the juice of his love for me, I can imagine my beloved and I lying there together in the beauty of the afterglow, hearts, hands and bodies closely intertwined, softly roaming my fingers through that white puddle, maybe rubbing it over the softness of my tummy, while hopefully my hubby would crown our gift of love off with a handsome kiss and us cuddling… just basking in our oneness.
"Well, at any rate, I hope you're having great visions of your future where every thrust isn't furiously done, but the goal being reaching you deeper and in some way he never has before." – This is the kind of romance I'd be looking for! You're awesome! Thank you!!
Recently, I rediscovered the benefit of refraining from masturbating for a while. It wasn’t a deliberate choice. I’m single and was busy with work and other household chores, and didn’t think about it for a few days. It wasn’t until I was in the shower the other day that I found myself enjoying the feeling of the water on my body when my cock responded with a respectable erection. My hand went down to massage my balls while I fantasized about my future wife and the pleasure I would experience from thrusting my sensitive cockhead into her warm mouth. Precum formed and I spread it over the head as I imagined feeling her full tits and hard nipples. It wasn’t long before I shot my load, picturing it going into her mouth, and I actually had to hold onto to the shower rail because I became light-headed while I came. My orgasm was more powerful than usual and my cumshot was larger too because I’d held off masturbating for a few days. I’d forgotten how delayed gratification can be a good thing, and I want to pass my recent experience along and ask if others have avoided masturbating for a while in order to have a more robust orgasm.
@PFC
Make sure you guide your future husband every step of the way in his exploration of your body so that he will become the expert at making you orgasm that you are! Also, if you think your fingers feel good, just imagine what a skilled, warm, loving mouth would do to your beautiful, shaved little pussy! Mmm! 🙂
Thanks for the kind words cowboybiker! ? Yes, I'll make sure that my future hubby and I would spend lots of quality playtime together, with no pressure while we would explore each other, good and open communication and hopefully fun fun fun – provided, of course, that I would actually someday make it to having a husband, finding that love of my own and not losing the man again. I would surely hope that my future husband would be generous and gentle as well in lovingly guiding me around his body while we would discover each other.
Oh, cowboybiker, what a tease! It is hard, if not impossible, for me to imagine the sensation of this special treat… the man who would love me lavishing me with his desire for me by partaking of me with his mouth, enjoying me to the full… that would surely feel indescribable! "Mmm!" indeed, I'm sure.
Maybe I'll get to know someday how such a love feels like for real. If not, then at least the wonderland given into my body hasn't gone completely to waste, since I, at least, got to explore it a bit. ?
@PFC
I can't help but imagine that you, because of your skillful word choices and seemingly uninhibited imagination, are an extremely sexy and giving woman who will be a real catch for some lucky guy some day. You seem to have a passion for excitement (especially sexually) which will serve your future man greatly! I can also imagine that your incredibly soft and smooth body will be a blessing to him and that you will use what you have learned about it to cause him to ache for you…to long to be deeeep inside you for hours at a time. Can't you just imagine his throbbing hardness filling you to the point where you feel like there isn't enough oxygen in the room, as your body shudders and you cover him with your silky juices…two hearts, beating as one?! Wow!
PFC and BG, hold on to your respective desire to enjoy cum on your tummy and breast from your future husband and to liberally jettison your cum on the soft beautiful body of your future wife, respectively. In our 5th decade of holy, intimate marriage my dear Anne loves it when I pulse my cum generously on her wet pussy, tummy, and beautiful perky breasts. She also enjoys the view and warmth of my cum spurting all over my stomach, her tummy, my chest, her breasts, and sometimes our faces when she lies beside me, assisting me as I jack-off in ecstasy. Do prepare well in your fantasy of masturbation delight for your future mates, PFC and BG! God bless each of you!
Correction. I meant to encourage PH and PFC with my previous comment. Sorry to have confused you, BG.
No worries OL. That's a great visual that I hope to share with my future wife someday. I loved sharing my cum with my ex, and it's great that now more women appear to enjoy tasting, sharing, and wearing their husband's cum as well. Meanwhile, it's fun to masturbate and shoot my load even if it's just for me. To paraphrase PFC a bit, it's fun to explore our own bodies!
@cowboybiker
Thank you so much for all your words!! These were honey and balm to my lonesome heart and soul. I can't even begin to tell you how greatly I desire to love the man that would be mine for life with all I am – to spoil him with all my heart and indulge with him in our love for each other. When my hopes for finding him, for holding him, for being his one day and forevermore, when these hopes get dashed, I find myself trying to make myself believe that I just shouldn't keep holding on to all these desires for intimacy, these excitements for love, these passions for my beloved and the fantasies for our intimacy… it just hurts to hope for something that keeps evading me, that keeps slipping right out of my hands… and yet still, when I go over everything I've shared here and in the mails I was blessed to exchange with a prospect for relationship, when I go over what my heart has expressed as love had begun to sprout in me for someone (or the dream of someone), I can't help but realize that I'd be only fooling myself with trying to make myself believe that I wouldn't desire love anymore, that I wouldn't want a man anymore to love and do life with through every season given unto me/us. I would be fooling myself. The truth inside remains that I crave finding him, taking that leap into relationship with him, becoming one with him. I crave to be blessed to experience how a man would love me… how he would love to hold me, to kiss me, to feel up my body, to have me be his… how his desire would be for me… for my heart, my spirit, my neck, my lips, my breasts, thighs, butt cheeks and belly… everything would be his. The thought you shared is way beautiful to me, cowboybiker – surely, my beloved wouldn't be the only one aching… I would ache to satisfy him too… I would delight in being all juicy just for him… more than I would probably dare to admit, I would long to have him be deep within me for hours on end, catching a glimpse of eternity and beholding it together – how beautiful that must be… to be in his arms, to see and feel his love for me; in his eyes, in his breathing, in his body! How beautiful it must be to be able to give him love that makes his heart melt, just as mine would melt in his arms! I can't imagine it to be any other way if love would truly find me someday and choose to stay and journey with me. I am not perfect. I have the common fears that most women have (like, I will certainly feel nervous when my man would go down on me for the first few times because I will secretly fear that and wonder about whether what I have to offer down there (my shape, my smell and all) would be truly pleasing to him…) but I know that I know that I know that with the man who would really love me right by my side, I can rest assured and be bold at heart, for I would be safe in his care. I can tackle those fears and steadily grow and richly flourish with my beloved. I know we could take leaps together. Thank you for the sparks, cowboybiker! The pictures you painted blessed me! Hopefully, all those dreams and fantasies may become reality someday by His Grace.
@Old Lover
Thanks so much for your encouragement! It is always awesome and inspiring to hear from a love that has prevailed and prospered through the decades of life. God bless you and your dear Anne greatly!
Beachlover guy,
I so enjoyed your story. It is a wonderful testiment to the pleasures of self love. Plus, it made my pulse race a bit. Thank you for sharing this. God bless and stay horny!
PFC,
How are you darlin? So glad to see you are still passionate and sweet. God bless you dear and stay horny always!
@PFC
He's out there. He may not recognize you at the moment, but he's there. Have you done any self reflection to consider if there is anything you could do differently (maybe doing wrong) to attract him to you? I firmly believe that God put a partner of the opposite sex in this world for everyone, but that doesn't mean that he/she is going to be exactly in the place you're looking for him/her. It's okay to step outside of your comfort zone and look in places that you ordinarily wouldn't. I found my girl while simply driving down the street. She happened to have her windows down when we both stopped at the intersection and even though I wasn't looking or expecting to find her there…there she was! 🙂 Your guy could very well be right there, but if you don't take a chance or go out on that limb and start the conversation, you may never know. Also, I'm certain that when you find him, you won't need to worry if he'll like your lady parts. Pretty sure it's hard wired into guys to LOVE all the parts of the woman he's in love with! 🙂 As far as taste and smell are concerned, it's all about hygiene. Take good care of her…and he'll take GOOD care of her! 😉 Mmm…yummy!
@HornyGG
You're very welcome! Glad you liked my description and that you found it stimulating. I love being able to share my experiences here with other Christians who enjoy and unsderstand the gift of masturbation.
Oh PFC, I do hope you find the man of your dreams and you share all the intimacies that you crave to become as one. I look forward to the day when you describe in great detail how you and your husband are fulfilling each other. My wife and I have been together for a long time and hope you enjoy each other as we do. The foreplay, masturbation, oral, french kissing the beautiful deep fucking as my cock thrusts with varying strokes into her very juicy cunt, the eye contact at various stages during all this and the finale as we reach our orgasms drenching each other with our love juices is truly excillerating.It is wonderful to get so lost in each other during the God given joy of sex. Pray and watch for the right man. I hope you don't have to wait too long. God bless you.
Hi GG! ? So great to hear from you again! Thanks for your hearty support, dear friend!! Sorry for the slightly belated reply – times have been a bit busy lately because we've been moving over the past few months but otherwise I'm alright. I had been in written conversation with a good guy (PH) for a while this year (before all the moving busyness started for me) but we lost touch abruptly, apparently due to technical difficulties, unfortunately before I had the chance to get to know him further… I haven't heard from him again since… I miss him. We seemed to go well together. I liked him and he seemed to like me too. Losing this potential opportunity at relationship has been weighing heavy on my heart on and off lately. Anyways, hope you are doing great! ? God bless you, dear!! ? ?
@cowboybiker
I appreciate your encouragement – my MH family is a cherished beacon of love and support to me! To your question, yes, I have done some self-reflection… I pretty constantly try to figure out what I may have done wrong when something didn't prosper as I had hoped or as it seemed to develop – like, PH and I, we hit it off well and chose to take the leap to be in touch with each other, a possibility to get to know each other further… we shared a lot of hopes and desires in common and we understood each other beautifully… it felt good and right and I definitely wanted to explore this further and PH was positive towards me throughout our convos – he knew a lot about me from all I have shared on here throughout the years and he loved the woman PfC is – or so it seemed through what he communicated – he loved my openness and honesty, my physique, and I so loved to have finally found a man who would delight in the woman I am, as I am. Our connection got cut off abruptly because his email suddenly jammed up. I have tried to reach out to him anew but the connection seems to be lost. I haven't heard from him again and my heart weeps about that – I felt like I had found someone who seemed to fit so well, a connection I would have loved to explore further, I took the leap of getting personal but I didn't expect any commitment of any sort from PH, we were only in the beginnings. Losing him for unknown reasons had me self-reflect, wondering what I may have done wrong, wondering what happened to him, wondering what keeps him from seeking to reconnect with me… I wondered if I make it too easy for guys in the getting to know… I do not play hard to get but am open and willing to take leaps of faith and to be bold and give myself into the endeavor towards a potential relationship when it seems to fit well together… maybe this easy flow is too scary for guys, maybe it makes them second guess and doubt and wonder… I make mistakes – I get carried away in the throws of the love my heart feels when something like this develops and I can get too open in my sharing… it hurts my heart to see that when I make mistakes I lose the one who liked me… I believe it shouldn't be this way – and I can't believe that this mistake of mine may have been the reason for our lost connection (at least not in the natural… maybe in the spiritual – God seems to be pretty strict with me in the relationship area as far as it concerns me)… I mean, PH believed that no one is perfect and made sure I knew he'd love me the way I am and I did not expect him to be perfect – I desired to love him the way he is.
Thank you for sharing with me how you discovered your wife, cowboybiker! ? If you don't mind me asking – how did it proceed, that encounter at the intersection? I am a total failure at dating and all this stuff… I don't know how these things work… Who started the connection at that intersection? Were there looks, words? Who started the conversation? What was the motivation? How could she know you were still single? What made you be receptive to her? How did you show this in that conversation?
Lol! ? You make me hungry for pussy love. Oh, yeah, I like hygiene – of course, I would also like to get messy and sweaty with my man – but I'd make sure to enjoy quality bathtub time with him too.
@Possibility
Thank you so much for the love and support!! May the gift and joy of sex continue to beautifully and abundantly flourish for you and your beloved! Wonderful a gift, it is indeed! God bless you and your precious wife!!
Hi PFC, excuse me for jumping into the conversation uninvited here, just a thought I'd like to share if I may ? You sound like a wonderful lady and I wanted to let you know that as long as you put your focus on the Lord, seek His will first and foremost, if and when He wants to make it happen, nothing can stop Him. He doesn't need anybody or anything and will do it in a way that is bigger and better than you ever dreamed, don't worry too much about what you're doing right or wrong, just be yourself, I believe He will break open supernatural doors and send commanded blessings in the form of the suitable companion your way !
@PFC
The story of how I met my wife is fairly simple. I'm generally fairly reserved in public, though I'm a total cut-up once I get to know a person/group. I normally wouldn't have started a conversation with a complete stranger, but after driving along side of her for a couple of blocks (and totally hypnotized by her beauty), when the light turned red and left us sitting next to each other I decided to move beyond my comfort zone and say something before it was too late and she was gone forever. I noticed that she had a parking sticker on her car from the same college I was attending (first year, 19 years old), so I asked (knowing the answer) if I had seen her on campus. She replied that the sticker was on the car when she bought it and we both laughed at my obvious attempt at a "pick-up" line. lol 🙂 Apparently she liked that I was able to laugh at myself so when I asked where she was going and if we could stop to chat, she took me up on it and the rest is history (30 years later). I used to do a lot of things wrong before meeting her. I used to "fall" too easily and, maybe like yourself, scare girls away. I didn't realize it at the time, but looking back I realize that not everyone is as giving with their heart and for most (it seems), exposing your feelings too early in a relationship tends to step on the brakes rather than the gas. Fortunately, my wife was able to look around this flaw of mine and after telling her that she was in love with me but didn't know it for 6 months, she finally told me she loved me out of the blue when I least expected it. Yeah, God works in mysterious ways sometimes. Be patient and don't be afraid to make the first move, but remember…we are not normal when it comes to how easily we give our hearts away. Haha. I really shouldn't be giving you advise, but I see a lot of me in you and want you to have the love/relationship that you want so badly. Don't give up…he's out there…somewhere. <3
Yes Beachlover Guy, I too have refrained from masturbating on occasions only to find my cock bigger, harder and with a more generous amount of precum and much more actual spunk shooting further. I like to stand in front of a full size mirror completely naked admiring my 65 year old body which God gave me whilst masturbating and tickling my low hanging balls fantasising about my beloved and the sexual things we have done. I imagine her naked body, very big tits and her lovely open mouth as we french kiss sliding around tongue to tongue- oh how soft and wet! I go to her voluptuous breasts and kiss, fondle and suck and lick her generous aureoles. I imagine her cunt with that luxurious bush of natural hair – she never has shaved – just the way I like it, very natural- the way God intended! I visualise her sticky wet pussy and how warm and welcoming it always is. I then explode shooting my thick creamy cum all over a large towel spread on the bedroom carpet. Writing this has made me horney so I am soon going to take myself in hand! Keep enjoying. It's a wonderful release.
Thanks so much for the encouragement, OneCouple!! Know that you can always jump into a convo uninvited with me – whoever of the MH fam feels it in their heart to share a thought, a word, some love is always welcome and greatly cherished ? Thank you for encouraging me in faith and at heart!! God bless you and your lovely wife!!
@cowboybiker
Thank you so much for sharing your story with me – wow! That's amazing! Of all the battles/challenges I have faced thus far, the love challenge has proven to be the one that gets to me the most. Surrendering this desire and area to God over and over again is the test and challenge. PH shared that he too is a guy who is more reserved in public – he took a beautiful leap in reaching out to me over here, giving us the chance to communicate in private, taking a chance on me/us… I've been so proud of the man he is and the heart he has shown. I hope the one I'd meet will be willing to overlook, or maybe will even love, this overflowing heart of mine… someone who will overlook when I'd go overboard, out of my love for him, and help me to keep proper course, in order for the relationship to keep flourishing beautifully. I am convinced that PH did love my heart – I believe him and had begun to give him my trust. Faith and patience. So simple yet at times so hard to walk out on the journey. I understand that for most people the norm is to not give away one's hearts so easily, to not share so openly about how they feel about the other person, what the other means to them, how awesome the other is in their eyes… for me, it is hard not to share about what I find in my heart for someone when I find love and affection there for him… I wanna be good to the man. If I may ask… if exposing one's feelings is rather counterproductive with most people, what do people talk about then in the process of getting to know each other? Thank you so much for your support and for believing with me for my love!! Your advice is cherished greatly. God bless you and your dearest!! ? ?
Beachlover Guy and Possibility, delayed masturbation truly enhances the orgasmic pleasure experience. As another mid-60s, fit guy that enjoys Godly marriage heat with my Anne, my horny spirit is far more willing these days to cum than my well-used prostate flesh can perform. Occasionally, we get busy and days pass without a glorious release of built up cum. Just the other day, my Anne knew I needed release, came to bed, pulled up her camisole, pressed her beautiful breasts against me, kissed and suckled my left nipple, and drove her wet pussy against my left leg in a straddle position. She brought a towel with her, and when I asked if she wanted me to cover up, she demurred and said, "You need to cum hard, first." As I eased into my masturbation routine, she deftly used her hand and fingers to massage my prostate until my well-honed cock stoking technique caused my cum laden prostate to explode in glorious spurts all over my stomach, my chest, her tits, and our faces. Best of all, in addition to an awesome orgasm, I experienced that wonderful, pleasureable ache deep inside, as my cum burst out of my prostate and through my love channels. In the afterglow, we whispered our love, I thanked her for the great fuck, wiped the cum off our bodies, and then snuggled together. Making love with my one and only never gets old, in fact, it gets better cumming time by cumming time.
@PFC
What do people talk about? Anything and everything at first…except expressions of love. 🙂 I think that for most people, they would rather your actions spoke for themselves early on in a "relationship". For some reason, it seems that the words that express those same feeling tend to scare some people away…like saying it is a "commitment" that they're just not ready for, even if they are showing you all the ways in which they agree with your feelings for them. I've never really met someone like myself before (truly wears their heart on their sleeves) and if I weren't already married, you can bet I would want to be talking all about it in private! haha I bet you have a real knack for creativity and exploration in the bedroom that will make some lucky guy really happy! 🙂
Aww, thank you so much, cowboybiker!! You are a blessing. I thank God for having given you and your dear wife unto each other! Y'all give me hope ? May He richly bless and prosper you in all His ways!!
Lol, yeah, I believe with the right man by my side, in the right relationship, there should be pretty much no limit to our passion – especially as we would grow and prosper together in our oneness over time ? I like the idea of exploration in the bedroom! I won't be able to know for sure how it will work out for me in practice until I'd be in my love relationship for real but I'm determined to follow my heart and desire to let my future beloved and I be sexy and playful together and open towards each other ☺️
"Anything and everything at first…except expressions of love." Haha, well, that pretty much takes the wind out of my sails ☺️ I've had conversations with guys on eHarmogny that were more 'normal' conversations, 'unemotional' so to speak, but these don't really work well for me… I mean, nothing moves or builds up in such convos… they remain fairly impersonal, rather superficial (as both parties refrain from truly engaging themselves in the possibility of relationship) and then they flicker out at some point. In such conversations, it always feels like people have nothing to talk about… I mean, for example, my life is fairly simple (to me) – when a guy asks me how I am doing and how my day was, then most of the time I got nothing fancy to share because I got nothing fancy going on… I mean, I have no problem with having nothing fancy going on in this season of my life – I am not a rolling stone type of person… I don't need to be out and about all the time… I'm a homely girl ☺️ – my passion is in my faith and in striving to be my best in this season and then my passion will be in my hubby and our relationship. I enjoyed the convos with PH… because we met through MH, the way of getting to know each other was not as usual and so were the conversations but I loved it – he never made me feel wrong or so… he was awesome and I loved the initial bond that was building in a way as we kept in touch. We were both set on wanting to keep in touch – he was looking forward to my mails, I was looking forward to his – but now it's been 2 months since I heard from him. I don't ever wanna expect a commitment from anyone because it's a big deal and should come freely out of one's own heart when they would be ready, when we would have met and things are still good, so I usually make sure at some point that the man knows I'm not expecting it and that I'm willing to wait for him. I wouldn't wanna pressure anyone and would wanna give us the time to discover how well it fits.
Recently, I discovered an interesting way to masturbate that helped me with cleaning up my cum afterward. I thought I'd share it and see if other guys have tried it, and ask both men and women what other things have been used to help when masturbating.
I was stroking my cock after I woke and was ready to cum, but I hadn't prepared by bringing a washcloth or tissues to cum in. I didn't want to get up because I didn't want to break the moment, when I noticed one of my athletic socks on the floor from my workout the night before. I'd never tried cuming in one before and figured I'd try it at least this time. It fit nicely over my hard cock and my precum lubed it perfectly. It wasn't as slippery as my hand, of course, but the texture of the material against my erection felt great. I shot my load and didn't worry about leaving a cum stain on my sheets. Clean up was easy and I added a new masturbation technique to my repertoire. Anyone else tried this or another novel way to masturbate?
Hi MH readers! I thought I'd bump this back to the top to see if any of the newer readers would like to share their masturbation experiences, or if some who read it before would like to add theirs. It's been a few years since I wrote this and some things have changed (I'm married now), but I still enjoy solo masturbation, although mutual with my wife is great too. I look forward to reading your stories.
Hey Beachlover Guy,
This is Ben. Having a little trouble logging in so I am using Gina's log in for now.
I just read your comment about using a sock during masturbation. I have never used a sock before, but have heard of guys using them.
When I was a teen I would get a wash or dish rag and keep under my bed. Whenever I would jerk off I would place the rag over the top of my dick and stroke. The friction from the rag felt great, plus when I would cum I didn't make a mess.
The downside was that I was always worried that my parents would discover the rag and the evidence therein. That is when I started eating my cum. No evidence left behind! A tissue would suffice in cleaning any remaining and I could just flush it.
Same concept. Just thought I would throw my two cents in! God bless you brother!
Glad you did. I enjoyed reading all the comments.
@ HornyGG Having a cloth to catch my cum really helps clean-up. Wish I'd discovered it years ago when I first started masturbating. I don't spurt as big a load as I used to, but it's considerable. Although I pump my cock with my fist, I know what you mean about the texture of cloth on the cockhead providing a nice amount of friction. Have fun with your routine!
@ SecondMarge. Thanks! I've enjoyed reading your comments too. Always nice to have women's perspectives about masturbation.