Where and How We Like to Cum?

I’m sure for most couples, like ourselves, orgasms and cumming are the ultimate in sexual passion, fulfillment, and enjoyment. Most of the time when my wife gets close to, and eventually reaches her orgasms, I can feel her cum releasing and freely flowing over my cock or fingers whichever is in her pussy. I love it best when I can feel her juices starting to flow and soaking all over my cock, it feels like her cum and orgasms are released, making us both wet. It makes me feel like I’ve completely satisfied her sexual needs, and our intimacy and closeness are at it’s peak !

On the other hand, when I cum, we normally alternate, sometimes I’ll pull my cock out at the last second, she grabs it and direct the flying cum wherever she wants it on her body, or I’ll stroke off over her tits, or across (not directly in) her face, or shoot all over her ass and back if I’m taking her from behind. On other occasions I enjoy just fucking her hard and cumming deep inside her pussy, where after the cum normally oozes out of her vagina.

When I masturbate my wife loves to watch my cock closely until the cum squirts out (to quote her). This brings me to a question for our MH ladies and gentleman out there, I realize that anything and everything goes between husband and wife, so where or how do you like to cum, do you like to see the cum flowing, shooting, etc., or what and where do you find most enjoyable and erotic ?

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60 replies
  1. Art R. says:

    I like to shoot my cum in her mouth. Sometimes she spits and sometimes she swallows.

    And, when we have intercourse, I masturbate and just when I'm about to cum, put my penis in her vagina to keep it from getting all over the bed. She has to use a "marital aid" to orgasm and I need to stroke faster that I can thrust.

    I love your question OneCouple. Thanks. May the Lord bless your marriage and wherever you cum. 🙂

  2. OneCouple says:

    Thanks Art R, that sounds awesome, glad you loved the question, God bless you and your marriage !

  3. Lovinghusband says:

    OneCouple,

    I think what you wrote was very enjoyable to ponder – both in what you describe you two do and enjoy – and to think about our situation.

    We like much of what you like. I must say that variety is fun. If I had to pick, I love the thought of my cum being deep inside her, then oozing out. Especially because that was preceded by her pussy grabbing my shaft and gripping it as she came. Over time, the places I like to cum on her (one the outside) are also varied.

    In no certain order: I love my cum ON HER TITS – seeing it just stuck there and white. Then, as it begins to go clear after a few moments, rubbing it in (if we haven't chosen to just towel it off for not getting anything wet on the bed sake). Another favorite is to cum right IN HER BUTT CRACK or barely penetrating her ASS – so see a big sticky mess right there is so hot! The fact that it comes as a result of me cumming – I kind of wish I had the ability to cum twice – because that sight is breathtaking – especially with her gorgeous ass! In more recent times, we come to enjoy me cumming ON HER FACE AND NECK. So hot! A string over the bridge of her nose or on her forehead or cheeks. When I'm masturbating and she's watching – sometimes its just me cumming ON MY STOMACH. What I like about that is her being the interested voyeur. Her face is so close – I feel like I'm putting on a show for her. It is very erotic. But, honestly, I've cum on her back, butt cheeks, stomach, outside her pussy, and on rare occasions in her mouth and ass. The visual of cum on her is exciting me even as I'm typing this.

    None of this would be a lasting memory to me without our love for one another. Sex is awesome, love is transcendent. So, do I sound like a cum fanatic? Probably. But, that would only be knowing me and my wife in part. We come for the love – while staying to cum for the orgasms. Her cum and my cum mixed together is the frosting on our sex cake. And it is delicious. Low in calories and high in nutrition. How and where do we like to cum? I guess there is no one answer for us. Fucking is still the best – filling her full. But, we like it in so many ways! God is good. We are thankful for this gift. LH

  4. OneCouple says:

    Thanks for sharing Jerry@Large, I like shooting deep into my wife too, very intimate, God bless you !

  5. OneCouple says:

    Glad you enjoyed the post LH, you certainly are correct, we do like a lot of the same things ! Thank you for sharing your erotic moments, I'm grateful to God with you for the blessing of passionate marriage sex ! May He bless you and your wife with lots more erotic cum !

  6. Tulsa says:

    We are much like you two OneCouple!
    My wife has a thing for cum, and cum-play, mine and hers. Her favorite though, is for me to cum in her, or on her pussy, and then get down and do oral on her. She cums harder, longer, and better, than any other thing we have done or tried.
    So, her kink, is my kink! I love the big time orgasms!
    We do many other things too, like you two we also love variety, but if there is a 'go-to' thing, that's it!!

  7. "Beauty's" Man says:

    Great post "OneCouple". There is so much in the way of intimacy in marriage isn't there? On this topic I would have to say that cumming on my wife's large breasts' is my favorite place to deposit my cum. And the most pleasing situation of all, is for her to jack me off and then intentionally direct my shots at her tits'. The sight of my cream on her nipples that are erect is so hot.

  8. OneCouple says:

    'Beauty's Man' , I'm definitely with you on that one, my wife has very large breasts as well and I love covering them with my cum too, thanks for sharing and.may God bless your marriage and sex !

  9. Art R. says:

    LovingHusband – I guess I'm a cum fanatic too then. I love to shoot my cum anywhere and to see it is even more of a treat.

    My wife swallows when I deep tongue kiss her. She is really turned on by that. May the Lord bless your marriage and all of your cumming. 🙂

  10. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    What usually happens is I usually come first, and my husband cums right after. I love cumming in his arms while he's thrusting inside of me, feeling his closeness then I like to feel & listen to him cum & feel him jerk inside of me. My husband also loves it when I give him those "wet massages" where I stroke his back & butt with my wet vagina 😉 Also, when we would have sex in the sitting position, I'd come while my husband would embrace me and/or play with my breasts!

  11. OneCouple says:

    Thank you for sharing these super hot and erotic moments Mrs Harper ! I also like to make my wife cum first, we haven't had sex in the sitting position for so many years, I can't even remember, but I'm now thinking this week we should so we can enjoy the closeness and I can massage my wife's big tits. ! I love how you rub your wet pussy on your husband, such a turn-on and so erotic ! God bless you two as you cum together many more times.

  12. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    OneCouple thank you! Should you try it, I'd love to know how it goes! This is so beautiful and so erotic how the men are hot for their wives & vice versa 🙂 I love how ur hot for your wife. Btw, very soon you can expect a two-art story on our Icelandic vacation! 😀

  13. OneCouple says:

    I know it will be worth it, hot and special Mrs Harper ! Honestly, and since you asked, I need your prayers, if you don't mind me asking ? Need a breakthrough in a desperate situation, not in our marriage or sex life, that is always solid, just something else, forgive me for asking here ! God bless you.

  14. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    Not a problem! Request me for prayers anytime, I don't mind at all, nothing to forgive. My apologies if I'm a little "out of whack" though, so to speak, because as you saw from my bad typing, I am SO tired, and so exhausted right now. We just got back from our trip, and we're practically half-asleep! Anyway, whatever the situation, God will bring you through it, OneCouple. Can I request some prayers from you too? Please? God bless you too <3 Love you guys. Hopefully I'll be better and more energetic when I next come on here!

  15. OneCouple says:

    I so appreciate you Mrs Harper and LH, what a blessing to be able to call on you, you've become trusted Christian friends ! I'll be praying for you too Mrs Harper, thank you and God bless you both !

  16. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    Thank you so much, OneCouple. I'll be needing that at this time. God bless you too, dears

  17. MajorMajor says:

    I love to come all over my wife's pussy and I am blessed with a woman who likes it too. She pulls her pussy lips apart and I shoot over her clitoris and watch it run down on her. She says it feels very "intimate" – her words.

    A sweet little memory I have: some years ago I went on a business trip and by the time I got home I was desperate. My wife was already in bed, and I said to her that I was so horny it almost hurt and I didn't think I would last more than a few seconds! She just smiled, pulled her nightie off and said 'Come all over me, sweetie! Come on, shoot it all over me!' What a lovely homecoming.

  18. OneCouple says:

    Thank you for sharing MajorMajor, my wife also on occasion pulled her pussy lips apart for me to shoot my hot cum all over her, I used it as lubrication to rub her clit until she orgasmed. Hope to hear more from you and may God bless your marriage sex !

  19. MajorMajor says:

    Thank you, OneCouple. I find the sight of my wife pulling her pussy lips apart and "offering" herself to me, coupled with the sight of my own climax a fantastically loving experience. Another place – and occasion – I have fond memories of is when she was 8 months' pregnant with our first child, and as we were just fooling around in bed she asked me if I wanted to shoot over her big belly. That probably falls under at least three Marriage Heat categories: pregnancy sex, masturbation and kink… haha! God bless.

  20. OneCouple says:

    I agree MajorMajor, I love the sight of my wife's exposed pussy, so erotic, the big pregnant belly sounds like fun, unfortunately we're to old for that one now, thanks for sharing, blessings to you and your wife !

  21. Old Lover says:

    As Mrs. Thornton and her hubby, we practice she cums first. My Anne loves to feel the release of my cum deep in her wet, tight pussy after she orgasms, filling her love hole with female ejaculate. Both of us love the warmth of our mixed juices oozing out of her pussy.

    If I'm really horny, and she's not, she joins me as I jack-off and loves me to cum all over the two of us – my stomach, her tits, and our faces – anything goes!

    At times, if I'm have trouble cumming in her pussy after she cums first, she'll invite me to cum all over her wet pussy and on her tummy. Then, she loves it when I use her sexy lingerie to gently, work my cum all over her pussy and tummy.

  22. OneCouple says:

    Thanks for sharing how you and Anne love to cum Old Lover, hot and erotic, may God bless you both with many more cum sessions !

  23. Sarge says:

    My late wife really didn't enjoy having me come in her mouth very often, but she loved to watch me mastubate and especially when I'd come on her breasts. Every so often when she gave me one of her mind blowing blow jobs, she'd do one of four things. 1. Come in her mouth, but again, very rarely. 2. Have me finish myself so she could see me shoot my load. 3. Use a condom, or 4. If I was sitting on the edge seat of our tub, she wanted to see me come in my hand. Okay one more. 5. She'd jump on top of me, plant my cock inside of her, and grind her pelvis against mine, causing us to both have earth shattering orgasms. I'm sure you felt them if you lived anywhere near Utah in the late 90's.

  24. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    @Old Lover that was hot! I was hoping to ask, when you said "if I'm have trouble cumming in her pussy" what did you mean by that? Just curious. God bless

  25. Sarge says:

    I've been hesitant to tell you all this because there are so many people in the Christian community that don't care for, or like my religion, but here goes. I'm an active member of the LDS faith, and I want you all too know, and understand that we Mormons love sex too. No, I don't have 40 wives. Just one who is now an angel.
    Many Mormons of the older generations differ in their ideas of acceptable sex acts, but let me tell you, this 60 year old, widowed, veteran loves sex and has many a found memory of outstanding, mind blowing sex with his late wife.
    There, I hope that doesn't turn anyone off of my comments or stories. God bless you.

  26. OneCouple says:

    Thank you so much for sharing the hot sex life you had with your wife Sarge, that's awesome, I love it, and no, unfortunately I lived on another continent in the 90's so I missed those earth shattering orgasms ! PS – whether I agree with you or not, I still prefer not to judge, Christianity is all about love, the way God loved us by sending our Saviour Jesus Christ ! Please write more about you and your late wife, God bless !!

  27. Juicy says:

    I am a little late to this and I will answer from my perspective. It is a toss up for me. I love when my husband cums inside of me and I feel his body jerk and release but I also really like him releasing his load on me. He has never done it on my face, but our game is to see if one day he can shoot it that far! I don't mind it anywhere else on my body though and I find it kind of hot to actually see what he built up.

  28. Sarge says:

    Thank you OneCouple. Too all on MH, love and cherish your spouse, your time with them can end in a blink of an eye. Live, love, and always seek out in your lives the blessing that our savior wants you too have.
    John 13:34 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.

  29. Beachlover Guy says:

    I'm single now, but my ex let me cum anywhere I wanted on her, with the understanding that she didn't want it in her eyes. I loved cumming in her pussy, but there was something more erotic watching my load spurt on her face, tits, tummy, and in her mouth. I hope that my future wife will be as accepting of my cum because I've grown to enjoy the idea of sharing it now that I masturbate and taste it myself.

  30. Old Lover says:

    Thanks Mrs. Thornton for your kind words. Remember I'm an Old Lover. ? Occasionally I will have difficulty cumming in my Anne's pussy when I am so enthralled with making her cum first that forget about myself. Even though she is incredibly sexy and skillfully slides me into her pussy whilst teasing my nipples and massaging my boys, I find myself so enraptured by her that simply enjoy the warmth of her pussy around my throbbing cock. Even though her orgasm tightens her pussy for me she generates so much delicious cum that my hard cock slides to freely in and out of her loving pussy. If my thrusting and her grinding begins to slow and I haven't unloaded my cum into her gorgeous pissy, she'll invite me to pull out and ask me to jack-off on her hot pussy and all over her tummy. We are so blessed with the joy of sexual freedom and delight with and for each other!

  31. OneCouple says:

    Thanks Juicy and Beachlover Guy for sharing your hot cum preferences, so hot and erotic, wishing you many more, God bless !

  32. OneCouple says:

    Mrs Harper !!! We tried the sitting position for the first time in a very long time today after your recent post, all I can say is WOW ! Without sharing to much detail, it ended with my hot wife having two orgasms and I shot my cum all over her face, actually making my cock hard just thinking back about it ! Thank you so, so much for the inspiration, prayers went your way yesterday, God bless you !

  33. Funny Christian says:

    My wife likes me to cum on her tits. My favourite is cumming inside her. Some people find a man cumming on their wife as degrading, but I think it's beautiful. I find it shows love, appreciation & gratitude. God bless.

  34. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    @Old Lover Ah, I see. It's really lovely how you care for your wife, and her sexual pleasure 🙂 my husband is the same way

  35. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    OneCouple WOW! I'm so happy for you! 😀 You are more than welcome, this is one of the aims of this blessed site <3 I'm so glad I inspired you. And thank you so very much for your prayers, my dear friend. That means so much to me, particularly at this time. God bless you too, OneCouple

  36. OneCouple says:

    Thank you for sharing Funny Christian, I agree with you, I will never do something to degrade my precious wife, she enjoys and frequently ask me to shoot my cum over her, it's part of our erotic sex and we both enjoy it, God bless you. !

  37. OneCouple says:

    Mrs Harper, yes, we both came really hard, it felt like my cock exploded with cum, super hot and very special, thank you again ! You are more than welcome, I sense (like myself during this time), you need prayer, feel free to request any time, be blessed !

  38. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    Oh yes, please! That would be so wonderful! Thank you so much, you're very sweet. I'll keep praying for you too. Anytime you need it, just say the word. God bless you and your wife greatly, my friend. And I hope you continue to have sexy, erotic times with your wife, that result in you both cumming hard!

  39. Old Lover says:

    Mrs. Thornton, my apology for the typos in my most recent comment – I was late for an appointment and failed to proofread my comment. Also, I trust that I was not too graphic in my response to you. God bless!

  40. Troy Anderson says:

    I love to watch my wife cum while we masterbate together and when i go down on my wife. We both love cumming together when we make love feeling her cum on me.

  41. OneCouple says:

    Thanks for sharing Troy Anderson, yes we love masturbating together as well, very erotic to cum together like that ! Hope to read more from you two, God bless !

  42. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    Old Lover I didn't see any typos… and no, it wasn't too graphic at all 🙂 I hope your appointment went well. God bless

  43. Anonymous says:

    Very much enjoyed reading everyone's responses here and the topic was very hot! After years of frustration and lots of struggle and tears due to persistent ED, my wife and I now very much enjoy mutual masturbation. (First I bring her off to usually 2-3 really good multiple orgasms while telling her a fantasy story then she helps me get off.) This has become a godsend / lifesaver for us both. We both finally learned to love each other this way and we love doing it! (Although, I wish we did it more often and I would like to add oral once in a while!) Still, we've learned to really pleasure each other. Here's our tips: burts bees peppermint lip balm on the Clit! It has just enough peppermint to swell her clit and make her very sensitive and wet but it's not so much that it burns or is ever uncomfortable and it's lots cheaper than exotic oils! Pick some up at your next cash register! And as for me? I apply some to my the tips of my index and middle finger and pleasure her wet clit till she cums multiple times on my fingers. As fir me, l love to cum on silk and satin and my wife has stocked my bedside table with sexy panties, half slips and silky babydolls that she uses to stroke me with till I shoot my load. Other than cumming in her wet pussy that rarely happens, Jacking off into lingerie is my very favorite. The silky material feels awesome, removes friction issues and we both find it sexy and erotic! We love each other and mutual masturbation binds us together in a trusting intimacy. It's been a very hard road to get here but God has been faithful! Although I have to say right now we're stuck in a difficult season. But when it's working it usually goes something like this: She was sitting up in the bed reading her kindle. I touched her thigh with one hand and started stroking my penis with the other. She glanced over her reader and smiled. After a few more minutes of pleasuring, I applied some burts bees peppermint to my first and middle fingertips and began pleasuring her alternating between two fingered v on either side of her clit and her favorite middle finger deep and first finger on top of her clit. The peppermint makes her swollen sensitive and wet! So for about 30 minutes I continued pleasuring her until she closed her book and stood up and took off her robe: my cue to roll over and reapply some burts bees to my fingers and grab something silky for my cock out of my lingerie stocked nightstand. Tonight it's a black satin and lace trimmed half slip that I drape over my dick as she slips back into bed and spreads her legs. Her hand begins to stroke me with the slip as I reinsert my fingers into her pussy rubbing the peppermint lip balm generously over her clit. I begin to whisper a sexy fantasy story in her ear that ends with a description of me wildly banging her from behind. She shudders with one, two, then three orgasms. Then after another few minutes of pleasuring, she rolls over and finishes me with an expert silky handjob as I cum all over the ebony satin. Mmmm good!

  44. OneCouple says:

    Thank you so much for this awesome post Anonymous, glad you enjoyed the topic, and happy for you and your wife. I would love to get hold of the burts bees peppermint lip balm to try on my wife, where can I buy this ? God bless you two with many more mutual masturbating !

  45. Anonymous says:

    Any grocery store or drug store. Usually by the check out counter. In a yellow tube or tin.

  46. Old Lover says:

    My Anne slinked, naked into bed last evening and told me to come to bed with a towel. What an invitation! After a relaxing time of a mutual light, massage of each other's erogenous zones, we laid side-by-side to begin to delight each other with the sounds of self-pleasuring. Nothing works us up more than watching each other move in sexual pleasure and hearing our mounting moans of delight.

    Then Anne suddenly surprised me with a request for me to make myself cum. I protested, "No, let's make you cum, first!" She insisted that she wanted me to cum, adding that she was too distracted in thought to 'get there.'

    Well, in short order, with her skillful hands kneading my perineum and my equally capable hands, my hardened cock, dripping with pre-cum ached to explode. I whimpered, "Anne, you're going to make me cum all over us!"

    Her response was to grab the base of my cock between the V of her index finger and thumb and gently cup my taut sack of balls with her hand as she matched my frantic jacking-off stroke. As I cried out, "Oh, fuck me, fuck me, Anne," my hot cum spurted repeatedly all over her stomach, tits, and face. As I came down from my uncontrollable and fantastic peak of ecstasy, I whispered, "You planned this, didn't you?" She giggled, saying nothing as she took the towel and sensuously wiped my cum off her beautiful body and face. My Anne had taken full control of 'where and how she liked me to cum'! It was skillfully directed all over her, with little on me.

    When I offered to assist her to reach her cumming orgasm, she demurred. Then I made her promise to jill-off while I am gone on a business trip early this week, and she promised that she would do so. I'll be checking later this week to be sure she treats herself to a good cumming time!

  47. Happy Husband says:

    The last two nights have been a perfect reflection of how my wonderful wife of 30 years and I have come to connect through lovemaking. We go up to our room, take off our clothes, and sit or lie naked facing each other, our legs intertwined with us "Indian style" or me sitting with her reclined. I rub her legs, feet, and massage her pussy region. We talk about what is on our minds. We connect with our eyes. Her pussy slowly swells. Most of the time I will change position and start to give her slow loving oral, eating her perfect shaved pussy until she is close to cumming. The last two nights, however, I wanted to stay visually connected, so I used a vibrator and bullet combination to stimulate her and get her very close, ending with a full combination of the bullet on her clit and the thick, 9" inch long dildo in her pussy, feeling it running over her g-spot as she cums vaginally and clitorally. When she begs me to stop, I rest my palm on her quivering cunt, lovingly cupping her. When the orgasm has faded she will sit up and we will kiss each other deeply as she starts to rub my cock before sliding down and giving me a fantastic blow job. We love oral for each other, and we love our routine. After 30 years, we are getting it just right.

  48. OneCouple says:

    It was great to read your responses Old Lover and Happy Husband, thank you for sharing these erotic moments, God bless you guys, and your hot marriage sex, please write more !

  49. Happy Husband says:

    Did I mention that after a dry spell, my sexy, beautiful wife has awakened. Last night, for the third night in a row, she decided to let me know just how much she loves to suck my cock. It started out with us just laying naked together as she played with my package. She made it clear that she did not need a release last night, but as I inevitably got hard, she moved down and said "looks like you need some attention" and then just started sucking and pumping me with vigor. To all wives out there, you have no idea what kind of a blessing such a simple act is to your husband!

  50. OneCouple says:

    Happy Husband, wow 3 nights in a row, happy for you guys, way to bounce back after a dry spell ! My wife also doesn't mind at all sucking my cock when she herself is not in need of stimulation, couldn't agree more, an absolute blessing for us guys ! Thank you for sharing and God bless you two.

  51. Lovinghusband says:

    Happy Husband,

    If this goes to 5 nights in a row – I'll go from being happy for you two – to being envious. So,
    please don't go above 4. I am just having some fun with you. God bless! LH

  52. snagd says:

    When first we started oral , my wife who initiated it would not let me cum anywhere on her. She adopted the position on me on my back and normally I would cum on my stomach. When however my wife for the first time ever made me cum in her mouth and swallow, it has now become routine in every oral episode to suck out every bit and swallow. On some occasions I could load off mostly on her pouted lips or face and breasts.

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