I want to query the MH community members: Please tell me if I'm off base. For a woman who has not experienced multiple orgasms, I would think a few things need to happen first in order to have them.
First, she would need to be comfortable in her own skin and not self-conscious.
Next is high arousal. A woman would, I believe, need to be comfortable, relaxed, and "into" it. She needs to be able to trust her husband completely.
Here's what I think is the final ingredient (and probably the most important). The woman's brain, thought processes, and beliefs need to be arranged in such a way that allows her body to respond. She needs to believe a multiple orgasm is possible — no distractions, no worries, etc.
For those out there who learned how to have double orgasms (or more), can you please describe how that happened for you? What needed to take place to get you there? What roadblocks did you have to remove? Did you go from disbelieving to belief? And once it started happening for you, what other doors opened for you sexually (e.g., different techniques, positions, squirting, etc...)?