Backdoor Man Goes Further (A)
It’s been a while since I last posted, so it’s time to update. Long ago, a friend from high school and I were talking about sex. He said he’d had anal, but it was just ok. He said it wasn’t as nice as pussy. Ever since I’d been “anal curious.” I’d dabbled a little with anal play but never pushed it further. And I had no plans to ever insist on anal sex.
Jen and I had warmed up to the idea a little, as referenced in my previous post. We’d spoken briefly about cum in the bum, but not much. We kept going there now and then, as I wrote about last time.
About two weeks ago, around bedtime, Jen went to the master bed/bath and got ready for bed. I turned off the lights, checked the doors and dogs, then headed her way. It was cold. Jen had already climbed into bed and curled a little ball trying to warm up. I brushed my teeth, prayed, and crawled into our king-size “latex piece of heaven” bed. It’s firm but plush, so comfy. But tonight it was mainly COLD!
I moved across the vast expanse of chilly Egyptian cotton sheets. They’re new and a tad stiff, but they’ll soften up. Jen lay on her side, her back to me. I gently pressed my body against hers, breathing in her unique scent — hair products, deodorant, toothpaste, and her own sweet smell. It’s intoxicating. We lay still for a little to warm up.
I draped my left arm over her side, exploring her soft curves. My hands moved from hips to thighs to knees, then back to hips. I ran them up her waist and under her arm. So soft, muscular, and warm. Rubbing and scratching, I moved back down from whence I came. Then I untucked her shirt (we both sleep in PJs) and massaged her stomach and abdomen. Paying attention to rub over her uterus, I stopped at the edge of her freshly trimmed pubes. It’s my hobby to keep her squatchiness at bay. And besides, I love a smooth shaved pussy!
My hands have a mind of their own sometimes, and one moved to just beneath her breasts. We’d never seen each other naked before we married and I’d wondered what they were like. The way she holds herself, they’re not prominent. It’s like she’s hiding them. But they are BEAUTIFUL! Perfectly round and very firm. They have the perfect sexy drop to them when they’re free and naked.
With my finger, I traced the sexy ‘W’ underneath, not too fast. She likes slow and gentle. I ran a fingertip around her areola, pretending it’s my tongue. Its tactile tissues tightened and contracted, getting erect. Careful not to touch the nipple I lightly cupped the whole breast. Then I pulled my hand out and traced the round contour to the point, lightly brushing the nipple. Then I couldn’t stop myself: I pinched, twisted and tugged it ever so gently. It grew hard and jutted out. I was dying to suck and nibble it.
I reached down the back of her PJ bottoms, gliding my hand along her naked skin. Following the part between her buttocks, I cupped her ass in my hand, But it was so confined. Suddenly, we felt an urgency for nakedness. Pulling up. Pulling down. Mine. Yours. There’s no cool way to get naked like this! With a short time-out, we each disrobed under the covers. A scene from James Bond it was not.
Now I wanted to feel her nakedness against mine. I LOVE THIS SENSATION! We cuddled back-to-front again. With her breasts unleashed and eager for attention, my hand started doing laps on her hot body. I moved my fingers down the sides of her pussy lips. Gently, I squeezed them together, stretching the skin over her clit. She moaned in pleasure.
From this position, Jen could move either forward or backward, depending on what she wanted. It’s a code: if she moves her shoulder towards me, she wants a clitoral orgasm. She’ll slowly separate her legs as her pleasure builds. Soon, she’s wide open and spreading her lips with her hands. Sometimes she rubs her clit while I massage her g-spot. But f she rolls away from me she wants me to give her more of a bumgasm. She pulls her top knee up and exposes her bum and pussy. I’m always happy to oblige! Her deepest orgasms are this way.
Tonight she moved away, exposing her beautiful curvy bum. Her knee went up, and my hand repositioned to reach her lovely muff. As I rubbed the opening and occasionally her clit, her excitement built.
I’m taller than Jen, and this puts Moby in the right spot to lightly touch her erogenous areas. I grabbed the coconut oil and applied it generously. I rubbed it over her ass and between her cheeks, slathering her anus and pussy. For fun, I put a bunch on my dick. It felt very smooth and slick moving up and down her crack.
As I worked her pussy, the top of Moby now softly brushed her anus. The pre-cum made it super slick. Using zero pressure, the tip of Moby touched her anus. Sweet precum trailed onto it, making it slicker and slicker.
Jen reached for my tool and moved it to the entrance of her muff. She wanted me in her. But I pulled away and returned to tickling her pussy and clit while Moby danced around her backdoor.
When she couldn’t take it anymore, she grabbed Moby and rubbed him firmly around. With a tiny slip, I slide in.
I wasn’t sure what was up. I thought it felt kind of tight and shallow. Different. The curve of her ass limited penetration to short tiny strokes.
I’d always thought that, if I were stroking in her ass, I’d cum in ten seconds. Instead, we rocked and bumped for ten minutes. Finally, I squirted a huge hot load. It felt like seven or eight ropes of cum. I could feel the waves of the cum moving inside of her with my gentle pumping like I do in her sweet pussy. But this was much tighter and more confined.
We were quiet as we cleaned up. I got her a hot wet hand towel and offered a pad to absorb the oozing semen. She said she didn’t think she’d need it. Hmmm. That’s different, too.
We were too awake to sleep, so we got up and watched TV on the couch. She lovingly rubbed my arm, neck, and chest. She was very affectionate. I enjoyed it, swooning to her touch.
Ever since then, I’ve felt much closer to her. Another, different, and amazing level of closeness.
We didn’t discuss what happened for over a week — a long, busy sexless week. I texted her this morning and told her how I was missing her sexy body and that I need to make love to her. “It’s been a while since last time, ” I typed. Then, testing the waters, I asked, “Did you like last time?”
Just then my phone rang; it was my baby. She said she liked it. I told her it seemed weird, but felt very good. I asked if it hurt and she replied, “Not at all!” That shocked me a little because Moby is kind of fat. Thanks, guys, for the tip on the coconut oil. It’s way better than silicone lube.
So we both enjoyed it. It added a new level of intimacy. I’m sure that Jen could have big orgasms from it in the future. I don’t know if it will be a regular thing, or if it’ll be a bit more reserved. But I know it’s going to be better next time when we’re both on the same page.
Keep it hot, y’all! Marriage, married sex, and MH are the best.
Great job of conveying the intimacy that you all enjoyed. The physical pleasure of sex is fantastic and in my mind the deep connection with your lover is what is absolutely incredible.
Your descriptive writing is PHENOMENAL! You bring me (us) into the experience. You don’t use flowery adjectives to “artificially enhance” the story. I even re-read Part 1, and you are one of my new favorites on MH! …It doesn’t hurt that I’m pretty obsessed with Anal Play right now. Wife still isn’t ready for full-on AS… yet. But I hope our first is as good as yours!!
Thanks for your kind words.
Nice Story. I'd love to do backdoor, but wife is not ready.
Yes as my husband wrote about how we tried and finally won, I find it very hot , but the few times I let him enter my butt hole, we both make sure that he has protection. Coconut oil also works best , but protection at the same time prevents a clean up afterwards and also helps in combating unwanted bacteria spreading. There are however times when it’s not on hand and we just feel an undeniable urge for it. In that case, I love ejaculation fully inside as it gives a weird tickle….but once finished the leak is a bit messy, although I try and cup it with my palms and rub it all over my body.
We've tried anal. It's painful for her. I like it. What seems to relax her is when I eat her asshole out. It's weird, but I cannot get enough of it. My tongue moving in and out of her asshole… It's Soo fucking dirty and taboo. She makes sure she is clean though. Any suggestions on getting her to be more flexible down there? I don't want to hurt her.
Hott4you, that analingus action sounds so hot! I hope my future wife allows me to do the same ultra-erotic things to and for her!
As part of my research to be a better lover for my future wife, I wrote an article here on MH about the basics of anal play: (https://marriageheat.com/2018/06/15/anal-play-in-christian-marriage/) That might cover some of the things you're looking for. I've experimented anally on myself and found that it just takes time, sufficient lubricant and some slow, gentle, careful stretching. A set of toys that gradually increase in size has been helpful for me. I have a 3-piece set of glass toys that work wonderfully! (If I may make a recommendation: search for "Dosha 3 piece glass anal plug kit". I see it on Amazon today for just $20, and that's a bargain for how nice they are.)
Beyond the tool you pick for the job, the big things are:
– Use PLENTY of lube,
– Use slow, gentle movements, and
– Change the pressure you apply very gradually. Let her say when it's not enough, too much, or just right. Let her dictate the pace, or better yet, see if she'll get involved and control it with her own hand! That may be the safest way to go if she's willing.
Additionally, think about getting the rest of her body loosened up with a relaxing evening and a bath and/or massage. It might also be a good idea to get her aroused and play with her clit a little before and throughout the process of anal stretching, so she begins associating that feeling with sexual pleasure.
If she's willing, I might also suggest getting her to read some of the anal stories here on MH. If she knows other wives not only tolerate it but find it pleasurable, her mental state might be more conducive to relaxing and allowing her rear entrance to open up in that manner.
I hope this helps! Good luck and blessings in your erotic explorations!
PatientPassion
Help me understand. You have never had anal. In fact you have not had sex at all? Yet because you read an article you feel confident to give advice on how to do things you haven’t even tried to do? I’m sure your intentions are good. But help me understand your thinking.
Actually, SecondMarge, PP says here that he "wrote" not "read" an article. And he makes clear in that particular post of his that he is very experienced with anal play and penetration, just solo until he marries. He is also very conscientious and researches his articles thoroughly rather than basing his advice on just his experiences. That research is also part of his personal preparation for marriage sex, as I read in his posts and comments. He is very humble and acknowledges his limits but offers his thoughts as a door-opener to further discussion and input from those more experienced than he. I, for one, am grateful for his 'advice offered' post that kicked-off MH's new allowance for anal penetration stories.
CrazyHappy
Thanks for helping me understand.
Thank you CHL, that is a good summary of my experience and approach.
SecondMarge, you're right that I haven't experienced true "anal sex" by giving anal penetration to, or receiving it from, my wife (whom I have yet to marry). However, I have done a considerable amount of research and synthesized the good advice that is given by many people who DO have experience. Also, I have some limited experience of my own, experimenting with anal penetration on myself. By that experience, I've confirmed the validity of the good advice I've read from other people.
While I don't have as much, or the same kind of experience as others, I feel a responsibility to pass on knowledge of what I've found. Even if I can't give original advice of my own, I think it's right to use the advice I found from others to help out people who want to learn!
PatientPassion
I admire your desire to help others your self confidence.