Ladies, let’s do it!

A very short note from my wife:

I felt that I needed to share this thought with you. It is just something for the ladies to chew on.

I think wives should be more open to the sexual ideas and fantasies of their husband. (My Maxx is loaded with them and keeps me very busy.)

Many wives got married because they were the “Good” girl. But they also got cheated on because their husband wanted to play around with the “Bad” girl.

As wives we need to embrace the role of being a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets.

Wives should not be ashamed or scared to initiate lovemaking. Start doing it out of LOVE for your husband. You might find your marriage will jump to wonderful new heights. There will be more love, more joy, more pleasure and many more orgasms for both of you.

Join me in being his fantasy. Join me and become a wild woman who loves to seduce your OWN husband. Join me and let us make our marriages something to be desired by those around us.

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14 replies
  1. Tohimbetheglory says:

    That sounds like an amazing idea for you ladies, of you getting your freak on for your man. My wife struggles with this kind of thinking, but when she does … It's truly a huge blessing to me and our relationship. I then feel like she wants me and that I'm her stud, and I'm not just a " chore". The male ego, I believe is much more frail than what we care to admit. If our wives aren't feeding us sexually ,then that puts more tension between the married couple; then bickering ,and fighting may begin. Then if the marriage doesn't have the Rock to stand on, the shifting sands of life will crack the foundation and affairs can happen. We as Christians need to be the light. Women, rock your man sexually; happy husband, happy wife, happy life. I love GGs tag line and thought process on all of her stories and responses….. Stay horny!! To Him be the glory!!

  2. Southernheat says:

    Yes! Yes! Anything he wants, I love to please my man! I love to think of new ways to surprise him and please him! The more orgasms the better! Keeps things interesting and fun. Every marriage needs that playfulness!

  3. nodesire4sex says:

    I know I'm going to get a lot of disapproval for this but here it goes… In my experience, women get cheated on for many reasons. I have seen sexy, beautiful, hardworking, dedicated women get cheated on. Just like I have seen the opposite. A cheater uses any excuse to cheat. If the wife is fat and simple, he cheats. If the wife isn't as romantic as the husband, he cheats. If the wife is sexy but the man has an insatiable sex drive, he cheats. ETC ETC.

    I believe spouses cheat because they CHOOSE to. Because they took for granted the vows they made before God. They cheat because they want to. They choose to because, simply put, they can. The cheat because it is "always" the other spouse's fault. God does not give us a spirit of cowardice, but a Spirit of self-control.

    Why do we make excuses for the cheaters? Let's call it what it is.

    Heck, Beyonce can be considered the epitome of sexiness in all aspects and that didn't stop JZ from cheating.

    • CrazyHappyLoved says:

      No disagreement here – breaking our vows is wrong. Male or Female. But I think it also takes courage and self-control to meet our spouses' needs and desires (inasmuch as they aren't unloving or disobedient to God), especially when they don't line up with our own or we have none of our own. Fear and timidity can lead us to refuse to go outside our comfort zone, restricting the ways we show love to just the ones that feel good to us.

    • GoodKitty says:

      I Agree People Cheat because they decide to. You shouldn't have to excite your husband sexually to stop them cheating but because you BOTH find each other sexy and want to have fun and have pleasure.

  4. MaxLoving says:

    I agree to a point. The point I refuse to cross is that, yes, while not fulfilling every fantasy of a man can potentially lead to him cheating on you, you cannot make the assumption then that the female is responsible for the cheating male, or the other way around. That is what is called blameshifting. And it is chronic in both sides of the cheating fence.

    That said, a person who doesn't take responsibility for their part in the atmosphere when an affair happens is not going to prevent it or heal from it. There is a difference between prevention and cause. If he cheats, it doesn't matter what the wife has done, it is fully him who is to blame. To suggest otherwise is destructive to any healing or prevention of cheating to happen, which those who cheat often use things like this as an excuse to cheat.

    But yes, I agree, a healthy marriage should take advantage of fantasies on both sides of the bed if you want to satisfy each other more fully. Good article.

  5. ClimaXX says:

    I fully agree with the "cheating sentiment." A cheater is in sin and has NO excuse. But at the same time we should build a hedge around our garden that makes it a pleasure to eat fruit in our own garden.

  6. SecondMarge says:

    Cheating and divorce are complicated subjects with a variety of causes.

    However, overly repressive teachings about sex certainly are an issue whose solution could make both partners happier. It may start with discussing beliefs about sex before marriage if not actually participating which many still interpret as wrong.

    We should also not neglect women waiting for their husband to initiate more sex, or more variety in sex but the husband isn’t interested. While less frequent it still common.

    We need to be careful in defining right and wrong inside the marriage. Beyond cheating, the couple needs to define those for their union. Even if that includes acts our personal beliefs find unacceptable.

  7. The Rose says:

    All I can say is that there is really not much sweeter than when my wife initiates lovemaking with me. It changes my life for the next week. It places me on a high and makes me feel like a KING. I do not think wives really understand how much we need to feel needed!

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