Ben’s Wonderfully Kinky Wife (L/F) ~ Ignite Story
This fictional story describes a relationship between husband and wife that allows for complete honesty about fantasy turnons (F) while maintaining a commitment to monogamy. And it contains strong language (L). But it also involves elements that some readers may find questionable or even offensive.
Debbie and Ben were lying naked in bed early Saturday morning, and she was casually caressing his flaccid penis.
“Have you ever fantasized about fucking another woman?” Debbie asked.
“What?!” he laughed. Was she actually asking him this after nearly 30 years of marriage?
“I just wondered. You ARE human, you know,” Debbie smiled, leaning over kissing him on the cheek.
“You’re the sexiest woman I know and the ONLY woman I want to fuck! And you keep me COMPLETELY satisfied,” Ben said honestly, leaning toward her to kiss her tenderly on the lips.
“I know that, silly!” Debbie laughed. “I just want to know who you think’s sexy and what gets your juices flowing,” she said, cupping his balls in her hand.
Ben was concerned that they might be treading into dangerous territory here, but his wife always pushed the envelope. Besides, she was always candid; they kept no secrets from each other. Those were some of the reasons he loved her so much!
“You’ve really thought about this, haven’t you?” he asked.
“I have,” she said sweetly, lovingly giving his balls a gentle squeeze.
“You ARE kinky, lady,” he laughed.
“And you love me anyway,” she said coyly, feeling totally secure in his love. Then she grinned, “So who is your fantasy woman?”
“Who would you want it to be?” he smiled.
“No fair!” she protested. “I want to know what YOU think.”
“Hmmm. Someone like you—cute with big tits.”
“Are you sure it isn’t someone completely different from me?”
“I know what I like. She would definitely have to have big tits like yours.” Ben grinned.
“Well, I understand that. I think a lot of men like big tits.”
“You know that for a fact, don’t you?” he laughed, looking down at her big melons.
“Well, my big tits HAVE always seemed to get more than their fair share of attention,” she giggled.
“I KNOW!” he grinned.
Ben was incredibly proud of his wife’s oversized breasts and wasn’t bothered when other men ogled her huge chest. In fact, Debbie’s big melons were an intense fetish for both of them, a source of immense pleasure.
Not giving up, Debbie smiled while continuing to fondle Ben’s flaccid penis, “So who is she?”
He paused, debating if he should tell her.
“My sister, Diane?” she asked.
“Huh?!” he exclaimed.
“I’ve noticed how you’re always sneaking peeks at her big tits,” she chuckled. She felt Ben’s cock stir in her fingers. “She DOES turn you on, doesn’t she?” Debbie grinned, propping herself up on her elbow and looking at him. “Your cock doesn’t lie!”
Ben’s penis hardened as he thought about Debbie’s sister and her big tits, so he certainly couldn’t deny it!
Debbie squeezed his now stiffening cock, chuckling. “So you’ve fantasized about sticking this thing into Diane’s cunt?”
Ben didn’t know what to say!
“She IS cute,” Debbie continued, “and her tits are just as big as mine. Admit it.”
“Admit what?” he laughed nervously.
“Say that you’ve fantasized about fucking my older sister.”
“Why do you want me to say it?” he laughed again.
“Because I wanna hear you admit it. Damn, your cock’s hard just thinking about her! You’re just as kinky and horny as I am! Say it, Ben.” She giggled, stroking his firm shaft.
“Okay, I’ve fantasized about fucking your sister. Happy now?” he laughed.
Ben watched his adorable wife grinning at him. God, how he loved this woman!
“But you DO know that I would never actually do it, Debbie!” Ben protested.
“Of course I know, honey.” She smiled lovingly. “But it’s fucking hot that you admitted it, and I love you all the more for sharing that with me.”
With her fist still gripping his erection, she leaned over and kissed him passionately, slipping her tongue deep into his mouth. Then Debbie moved down to take his cock into her mouth.
“Oh, baby,” Ben moaned softly, savoring his wife’s amazing cocksucking talent.
Still holding the base of his prick, Debbie let his cockhead slip from her lips and looked up at him.
“Diane’s got a great set of tits, but she’s not a better cocksucker than I am,” Debbie grinned. “She might be as good, but I guarantee she’s not better,” she giggled.
“Stick my cock back in your mouth, you pervert,” Ben laughed, gently pushing his wife’s head down on his prick.
Ben sighed with pleasure, watching his wife’s head bob up and down on his cock. Watching Debbie perform fellatio was almost as delicious as feeling her mouth and tongue working their magic!
Letting his erection slip from her mouth once again, she looked up at him. “So you’ve jacked off thinking about my sister?! You’re the pervert!” she giggled.
Ben began wrestling with his teasing wife as they laughed. He climbed on top of her, pinning her beneath his body. Feeling Ben’s hard cock pressing against her belly, Debbie stopped laughing and hungrily kissed him. He suddenly shoved his hardon up inside his wife’s wet cunt.
“Oh GOD!” she moaned, feeling her husband’s swollen prick fill her pussy. “Is this what you’ve fantasized about doing to my sister?” she teased.
“Yeah. But I’m doing it to you, and you LOVE it!” Ben grinned, relishing the sight of her massive tits flopping and rolling around each time he bottomed into her.
“Yes, I do. I FUCKING love it!” Debbie squealed, eagerly lifting her hips to meet each of her husband’s thrusts.
“We must BOTH be perverted!” He laughed, screwing her.
“We must be.” She giggled, then asked, “Did I ever tell you that you’re a great fucker?” She grinned salaciously, wrapping her arms and legs tightly around her man as he humped her.
“Not recently.” Ben leaned down to take one of Debbie’s swollen nipples in his mouth. He savored the texture of her puckered nipple with his tongue as he contentedly suckled.
“Mmmmm, that feels so good!” she cooed, loving the simultaneous sucking and fucking her husband was giving her. “Well, you ARE a great fucker! And I LOVE your cock,” she moaned, caressing Ben’s head as he nursed on her nipple.
Just then, Debbie’s cell phone rang on her nightstand. She glanced over at it.
“Speak of the devil,” Debbie chuckled. “It’s Diane.”
“Just call her back later. We’re busy,” Ben said.
“No, I think I’ll take this call.” Debbie smiled. Picking up her cell, she put it on speaker and laid it down on the bed next to them.
“Hi, Sis,” Debbie said.
“Hi, Debbie. What are you doing?”
“Just lying in bed with Ben.”
“Hope I’m not interrupting anything. I know how horny you always are.” Diane chuckled.
Debbie and Diane had shared everything since they were kids. That openness continued into adulthood and included giving each other intimate details about their love lives.
“I have you on speakerphone, Di. No, you’re not interrupting. Ben’s just fucking me in the missionary position.” Debbie giggled.
“Oh my god!” Diane gasped. “I’ll hang up and well talk later.”
“NO! Don’t hang up. We can talk and fuck at the same time,” Debbie laughed. “Say hi to Ben.”
Diane stammered, “Hi… Ben.”
“Hi, Diane.”
Diane continued, feeling a little awkward, “I’d ask how you were doing, but … well, you know.”
“Yeah,” Ben laughed. “You already know WHO I’m ‘doing.’”
All three laughed as Ben and his wife continued copulating.
Diane was gradually adjusting to this very unusual and risqué conversation. In fact, she was starting to become aroused as she thought about them fucking as they talked to her.
“You two guys are in bed screwing, and I’m here all alone. It’s starting to make me horny,” Diane admitted.
“Is it really making you horny, Di?” Debbie asked.
“It is,” Diane answered, reaching down to touch her crotch.
“Interesting!” Debbie exclaimed. “It IS kinda hot, isn’t it?”
“Yes, it is,” Diane sighed as she began rubbing herself through her panties.
Debbie was now REALLY turned on, squirming with pleasure under Ben’s sexual assault as she talked to her sister on the phone.
“Is Ben still screwing you, Debbie?”
“Yes, I am,” Ben answered.
“Oh my!” Diane reacted to hearing Ben’s voice admit that he was fucking Debbie. Her hand slipped inside her panties.
“Are you touching yourself, Di?” Debbie asked.
Diane gasped, feeling like she’d been caught in the act! She didn’t know what to say. Would her sister and brother-in-law think her perverted for playing with herself while talking to them on the phone? But they were talking to her on the phone while they were fucking!
“Diane, Ben and I would like to know if you’re playing with your pussy while you’re talking to us,” Debbie pressed.
“Yes,” Diane answered sheepishly.
“Wow, that’s hot!” Ben exclaimed.
“That’s FUCKING hot!” Debbie chimed in.
This whole conversation seemed surreal to Diane. And it was REALLY turning her on! She was relishing the pleasure of masturbation while talking to Ben and her younger sister while they fucked!
“Are you still there, Diane?”
“Yeah,” she answered softly.
“This is kinda kinky,” Debbie observed. “Kinda like the thrill of exhibitionism and voyeurism over the phone. Maybe a whole new version of phone sex,” Debbie giggled.
“So do you think that makes me, uh, kinky?” Diane tentatively asked while fingering her clit.
“I hope so!” Debbie laughed. “Remember, we’re sisters, and I’m about as kinky as you can get!”
“Yeah,” Diane agreed, recalling some of the fantastic, sexually provocative things her sister described doing with Ben.
Ben and Debbie had changed positions and were now enjoying coitus in the relaxing scissors position.
“Have you stayed celibate since your divorce, sis?” Debbie asked.
At first not sure she wanted to tell them, Diane finally admitted, “Yes.”
“Wow! That’s over a year!” Debbie exclaimed.
“Yeah.”
“Well, Ben and I were actually talking about you just before you called,” Debbie said, then added, “while we were fucking.”
After a stunned pause, Diane asked, “Really?”
“Yeah.” Debbie waited for Diane to ask for more information.
Finally, Diane asked, “What were you talking about?”
“Well… Ben admitted to me that he’s jacked off thinking about fucking you.”
“Oh my GOD!” Diane gasped, so stunned that she stopped playing with herself.
Ben was also astounded at what his wife just told his sister-in-law, and he pulled out of Debbie!
“I had asked him if he ever fantasized about fucking another woman,” Debbie explained. “And he finally admitted that he’s fantasized about fucking you.”
“Oh my!” Diane exclaimed.
“When I first asked him, he said it was someone cute with big tits. When I mentioned your name, he finally confessed,” Debbie laughed.
“Wow!” Diane sighed, touching herself again.
“I gotta admit that he’s got good taste, Diane,” Debbie giggled.
“I’m sorry, Diane!” Ben apologized, losing his erection. “Geez, I feel terrible.”
Diane was at a loss for words. But, regaining her composure, Diane said, “No, Ben. Please don’t apologize. I’m flattered. Really! After what I’ve been through with my divorce, I’ve wondered if any man would ever find me desirable again. So it’s kind of a turnon for me, thinking about you, uh… ”
“Jacking off thinking about you and your huge tits!” Debbie filled in, chuckling. “I think that’s hot!”
“You’re perverted, Debbie!” Diane scolded her sister sarcastically.
“Maybe so, but Ben still loves me.”
“And I love you too,” Diane told her sister as she started playing with her pussy again. This whole phone conversation seemed unreal and extremely erotic—for all three of them!
“Are you still horny, Diane?” Debbie asked.
“What do YOU think,” she answered sarcastically. “My pussy’s dripping!”
Listening to the girls’ lewd conversation had Ben playing with his dick.
“Good! My pussy’s dripping too, sis!” Debbie admitted, fingering her cunt as she watched her horny husband stroke his shaft. Their bawdy conversation had made Debbie extremely horny, and she decided to push the limit again.
Debbie said, “Tell Ben what position you want him to fuck me in.”
“What? You ARE fucking perverted, Debbie!” Diane laughed.
“I know you’re finger-fucking your pussy, Di, and all three of us are horny as hell. I know you want to play. It’ll be fun. So will you do it?” Debbie asked.
“Yes, I’ll fucking do it! Why do I let you talk me into things like this?” Diane giggled.
“Because you love me. And I love you. I guess I AM twisted, aren’t I?” Debbie laughed. “It’ll be fun for all of us.”
“Oh my god, I can’t believe I’m doing this!” Diane exclaimed, rubbing herself.
“I want you to tell Ben what position you want him to fuck me in,” Debbie repeated.
Diane briefly thought about it while fingering her clit. “Okay. Ben, fuck her doggie style!”
“Yes, ma’am!” Ben said, stroking his now hard cock as his wife positioned herself on her hands and knees.
Debbie grinned salaciously, looking back at her husband as he knelt behind her with his prick jutting upward. Debbie began, “Okay, Di, I’m on my hands and knees with Ben behind me. What do you want us to do?”
“Ben, stick your cock in Debbie’s cunt and fuck the hell out of her!” Diane directed, not quite believing she had just said those words to her brother-in-law!
Ben responded joyously, “Yes, ma’am!” and placed his hands on his wife’s hips as he moved in behind her.
Diane heard some movement on the other side of the phone and her sister moaning softly.
“Oh, god! Ben just shoved his big prick into me, and now he’s fucking me like a dog!” Debbie described shamelessly.
“Oh my GOD!” Diane gasped breathlessly. She shoved her fingers up her cunt, listening closely to their bed rocking and Ben’s loins slapping into Debbie’s ass with both of them softly moaning as they fucked. “Now reach down between your legs and finger your clit while Ben pounds into you from behind,” Diane ordered, picturing Ben fucking her sister doggie-style.
“Okay,” Debbie affirmed, immediately obeying her sister’s command.
“Debbie’s pussy feels fucking great, Diane!” Ben moaned.
“How does Ben’s cock feel, Debbie?”
“It feels fucking wonderful! I LOVE it!”
“Oh, FUCK, this is hot!” Diane moaned breathlessly, now rubbing her clit directly and climbing toward orgasm.
Debbie was also close as she frigged her clit while her husband fucked her hard.
“Where do you want me to shoot my cum, Diane?” Ben asked.
“Deep inside her cunt, Ben!” Diane exclaimed, feeling close to orgasm.
“Oh my GOD!” Debbie screamed. “I’m CUMMING! DAMN!”
Hearing her sister orgasming pushed Diane over the edge! “FUCK!” Diane yelled as her climax exploded throughout her body!
Listening to the girls’ dirty talk and then hearing both women screaming in orgasm was too much for Ben. He rammed in hard, bottoming against his wife’s big ass. “OH SHIT! FUCK!” he groaned, emptying his balls deep inside his wife’s cunt. His stomach pressed tightly against her smooth ass as his orgasm ripped throughout his body.
What followed was only heavy breathing on both sides of the phone conversation. As Debbie’s climax ended, she collapsed onto her stomach, and Ben fell on top of her, his spent dick still inside her cum-filled pussy. The silence continued as all three quietly recovered from their powerful orgasms.
Debbie, exhausted from her fuck, finally broke the silence, asking softly, “Are you okay, Di?”
“Yeah,” Diane sighed. “That was intense!”
“I know!” Debbie agreed. “It was incredible! Ben filled me with his cum. He just kept cumming! I’ll be dripping all day!”
Diane said, “Thank you, guys. That was really something!”
“Thank YOU!” Debbie said.
Diane ended the conversation, ”I’ll talk to you later. Love you. Bye.”
“Love you too. Bye.” Debbie said.
Debbie pressed the button on her cell phone to end the call and just lay there on her stomach under her husband. “I love you,” Debbie whispered.
Ben rolled his spent body off of Debbie’s and cuddled up behind her, holding her in his arms. “I love you,” he whispered with a kiss to the back of her neck.
Just before they fell asleep, Ben prayed silently, thanking God for blessing him with his wonderfully kinky wife.
Wow! This was HOT! Made me cum.
Dang this was hot! Got me so horny had to Jill off!
Glad the story inspired both of you lovely ladies to jill off!
What happens in in marriage bed is good, pure, and even commanded! It is truly a beautiful thing. So another person observing and enjoying what a married couple is doing, with their permission of course, is not sinful at all. In the scenario above, it was actually a kind act of service to her sister after a painful divorce.
Hot! Raw! Intense!
Love your writing BillAnthony. The easy, no-fuss style that you used for this story suits it perfectly perfectly. You depicted the honest, open and transparent, accepting, comfortable, and loving relationship that your married couple has so well. Then there's the hot and sexy time they're having on top of it! You make me desire to have that kind of marriage myself! Thank you for that.
Taking my cue from the degree of honesty in your story, I should say that I'm not entirely comfortable with the second half. It certainly is thought-provoking though, and I'll likely be adding a comment to the other post. Now that that's out of the way, I want to say again how much I enjoyed your writing. Please write more for us!
Cuddles xxxx
This is such a hot story and got my cock so hard. Thank you for sharing it with us for us all to enjoy. I love fantasy talk with my wife. Way more erotic for us than even watching erotic videos.
Ben, this is a delightful fantasy. Thank you for sharing! I'd like to see other stories you have posted here, but I don't know of a way to search by author. Can you give me titles of some others you have written?
[From MH: If you look at the byline under the title of the story you are reading, the author's name is hyperlinked to their author page. There you can find a collection of all the stories by that writer.]
WOW… hot!
What an honest piece of erotica. You are blessed with a kinky wife. The day my wifey asks me about who I would want to fuck if given a choice, I will have to say it would be her hairstylist married friend. I'm an ass man. My wife is blessed with a donk ass. So is the hairstylist friend. It would be such a hot situation if she were on the phone while I'm balls deep inside my wife.
I love this story, hubby, and I have actually done something similar.
I enjoyed how the wife was "narrating" her sexual experience, and how the sister was "directing" it.
This story is very similar to my fantasy of being a cameraman for a married couple while they fuck. The wife would narrate her pleasure in detail, and there would be some dialogue in which I would direct their activities. (Somehow, even fellow Christians seem to have no problem with a woman doing that, but then comment that it is "perverted" if a man wants to do the same thing.) In my scenario, the couple gets to keep the video, so that they can watch themselves whenever they want, and I get to keep the memories. (If the couple is really generous, then they would let me keep a copy of the video.)
I agree TOTALLY with you Moviefan2k4. It's very inappropriate in my opinion.
Sitting here this morning with the news on and my husband gone, I opened up this website to see what was new.
As usual I went to my account scrolled down to see what new comments were made on stories and found this story which I had never read before.
As I read, at first I found myself vacillating with the question about where this was going. Because it is pushing the envelope.
Being that I'm not wearing anything but my robe and a pair of panties as I sit here drinking my morning coffee. I have to admit the story intrigued me and it wasn't long before I begin touching myself.
Keeping in mind that this was a fantasy and not a real thing I allowed myself to continue and it wasn't long before the top of my robe was opened and I was pinching and tugging at my now erect nipples with one hand while holding the phone in my other.
M. And I have long been honest about who we find attractive or maybe have thought about sexually. Sometimes it's people we know, at other people we deal with on a regular basis. Sometimes it's television personalities (usually local)
And we have had role-play sex involving those people. That being said, we would never include another person.
We have had multiple conversations about whether or not doing this was right. Even though these are only thoughts and fantasies we are told that we are supposed to, take every thought captive. However attraction is attraction. Anyone who says they've never been attracted to another person other than their spouse I question. It may be just a fleeting moment of attraction or a thought. Something somebody does, or the way they handle themselves, or the way they make us laugh, or the way they look.
We're told we're supposed to walk in truth, and that means a husband and wife have to be honest and open with one another. And it's truth, that sets you free. We're told to confess our sins to one another. And if we can't confess things to one another as far as our attractions and feelings towards others, that means there's something wrong in our relationship.
For us, to come to the point where we are today one of the major hurdles was jealousy. Comparing ourselves to the person that they find attractive.
This leads to another problem, self image.
Jesus was approached and asked what the greatest commandment was. His answer was the love God with everything that's in you. Then he went on to say the second is like it, to love others as you love yourself.
If you don't love yourself, how can you love others? How can you love your spouse?
I've always dealt with extra weight. And now, as we head into our seventh decade of life I am definitely bearing the evidence of it in my body.
And it's something we will all will deal with.
The first thing we have to realize is that our Creator loves us as we are. He understands that we have this struggle between flesh and spirit.
That's why his grace covers all sins past, present and future.
That doesn't mean we just can continue sinning. It means we have to live on a moment to moment basis weighing our thoughts and actions and whether or not we are living in a way that's worthy of receiving Grace. In other words we're supposed to try to stop sinning. Not only those things which we know we're not supposed to do anymore. But also those things we know we should be doing but don't.
When it comes to marriage, monogamy, sex. We all deal with the same things that happen over time. That being mental and physical changes in our bodies and minds. Allowing the most intimate part of our relationship. Or sex life slip away and become mundane. We allow other things to overrule the the sexual intimacy that is the heartbeat of monogamy.
But it's the ability to create an honest and open rapport about our thoughts and feelings concerning one of the most secretive things we hold, our sexual desires.
To to be monogamous in a marriage means that not only are we not going to be with another person sexually, it also means that we are going to be everything we can be for our spouse in order for them to feel complete.
In order to do that it requires truth between the two. Each confessing, their thoughts and desires to one another.
For us, I have said before and will continue repeating. We developed a framework for our sex life.
First with, all things be governed by love, neither one of us has a right to judge the other or instill fear of loss for their thoughts or feelings.
Once confessed comes discussion. How can we fulfill these desires for one another?
Whether it's in fantasy, a new practice, or sex toy. We agreed between us that we will try it providing it meets these three criteria.
1. Is it expressly forbidden in the written word? (Notice the word written. That means when we read it does it mean what we think it means. A lot of people will profess to preach the word and then put their own spin on it. Why a lot of people have fallen away from the church because of so many different unrealistic expectations that humankind has put on the word. Is the very reason Jesus lectured the Pharisees. They broke the word down to a point that it put weights on people that they could not bear.)
2. Is it legal according to man's law and your local jurisdictions? We have to stay within the framework of law.
3. Is it safe? ( Could this harm either one of us or introduce something that would be detrimental to our health and well-being. )
And finally doing it. Putting into action a person's desires and fantasies, we have performed multiple sexual type fantasies and actions and use a number of different types of sexual aides and toys over the years.
If when we do this and one or the other of us does not enjoy or find pleasure in what's being done we discuss it to find out what can be done to make it enjoyable and pleasurable. If we try it again and it doesn't change we don't bother with it anymore we throw it out. There have been times when taking a thought and putting it to action has not been pleasurable for either one of us and we just stopped because it just was stupid or uncomfortable. But there are other things that we were so glad and are still so glad that we've tried. Things that have given us some wonderful memories together.
…. Back to the story, bearing in mined that this was a fantasy it wasn't long before my robe was completely opened. And my fingers at first grazed over my labia and clitoris through the sheer nylon fabric of my panties. It wasn't long before they were wet with my essence.
My mind went to people that I knew M. Had confessed to finding attractive.
Lo and behold, she was right on the morning news giving the weather report. A very cute meteorologist who not only he but I found very attractive.
By the time I finished your story I waited for her spot to come back on and paused the TV thinking about my husband and what could possibly happen.
I won't go into detail but a story type fantasy developed in my mind.
My hand now inside my panties my fingers easily dipping in and out of me and moving freely over the slippery surface of my Vulva, lifting one of my feet up onto the chair that I was sitting on and my legs pressed as far open as the arm rests would allow. Bringing myself to the point of arousal of pushing my feet down and lifting up as if trying to reach up to my husband's own erect shaft wanting him to drive deeper. My fingers taking the place of that.
Opening my eyes briefly to see her standing there on the TV in front of me, and then closing again.
I was so very wet, my ears weren't filled with the sound of my fingers thrusting inside and pulling back out again my knuckles stretching against the sheer nylon fabric.
Over and over again I would get to that point of climax only to have it fade away, depriving me of what it was I was seeking..
I finally turned off the TV stood up with my robe wide open, walked to the bedroom dropping my robe on the floor as I entered. Pulling open the nightstand drawer and pulling out a dildo.
Flopping down on my back spreading my legs I began first of all stroking over my panties, and eventually working them down to my knees so that I could insert the dildo. My fantasies now filled with my husband and him being the one who was above me.
Eventually the panties worked their way down to my ankles and kicked off to the side. The soles of my feet flat on the mattress I found myself thrusting my hips up as I felt the shaft of my husband's penis slide into me. I wanted to feel his body on me so badly. To hear him talking to me and reassuring me how sexy I was to him as he always did. To know that I was being a good girl for him and that he was happy with me.
I wanted him to hear me tell him how much I loved him and how much I loved what we had together and that I could give to him what he needed.
Seeing his face and feeling him brought me to such a point of arousal. My hips were thrusting up in the air over and over again the shaft of that dildo filling the need I had for him sliding in I could feel every aspect of it. The shape of the head and the ridge as it entered me, the feel of him gliding inside of my vaginal walls. The feeling of the balls hitting me every time he thrust deep in.
Finally, relief.
My orgasm came rushing out of me as if reach out of my very being and wrapping around that shaft wanting to pull it back in again and repeating over and over in waves..
Bringing relief to my entire body I relaxed with a smile on my face. Leaving the shaft inside of me and thinking about how much I loves to my husband.
I showered, got myself together and came back to my phone.
Would it be right to actually do what the story said to do? To actually get on the phone to verbally and mentally engage another person in sex with you.?
Personally I don't believe it is. But then again this is just a fantasy. It's what story writing is about. Putting into words thoughts that will engage The reader and allow them to engage their own minds and put it in their own setting.
Let me say thank you because this is what you did for me. However, in real life I would not say that having the weather girl or sister Diane join physically is the right thing to do.
Part of being truthful with my husband is telling him about everything,
and I will tell him about this tonight when I see him.
It brings things into the light between the two of where we can deal with these things as a couple.
Quite often,discussing these things produces a good cop bad cop scenario. One wanting to do something that may not be right and the other one bringing logic and wisdom and putting restraints on things.
This is the power of Truth. The ability to be honest and vulnerable with the one who is your lifelong partner and the one with whom you share the most intimate part of your life. The ability to love one another no matter what, to understand that we all deal with the challenges that life brings us.
Being a believer that strives to not only be acceptable and approved and worthy of Grace which we have been given freely, is a beautiful gift. To be able to walk through life together with another and live this out together is an amazing gift.
What are the two greatest commandments?
Love the Lord your God with all your heart mind and soul.
The second one is like onto it, love others as you love yourself.
I might add this,
Love yourself.
Lady L.💋
A sensible examination of the options in marriage fantasies. I
“Believe” fantasies are normal, healthy, and in no way sinful regardless of the topic. Far better to enjoy them and share them than to hide them from one’s spouse. My man loves the fantasy of me with another man or woman, is not wrong or sinful it just excites both of us which is a good thing.
If you choose to think those words mean that you should not include thoughts of others in your sex life. However, those words do not say that. You need to make assumptions to conclude they relate to things in this fantasy.
I like the story,
The part I was not keen on is Debbie pushing Ben to admit he jacked off thinking about fucking his sister-in-law. Now there is nothing wrong with him him doing so, as all his fuck attention is to his wife. And before he married Debbie, he could freely wank himself thinking of either sister.
Of the scenario itself, I see nothing morally wrong with it, I even think it could be done in the same room with Di off to the side masturbating herself as she conversed with Debbie and Ben and the fucked and/or masturbated.
A phone call like this that lead to a sister/sister-in-law masturbating herself is good.
As is the multiple woman I read above who ended up "jilling off".
Cor 6:20, glorify God in your body.
Thanks be to God.
Happy Easter.
Sarah K
I believe the idea of sex or masturbating has to happen in privacy is a recent development and no sound reason for it. There are men’s clubs for group masturbating, why not the same for us? Couples had sex around others in the past. And Solomon and his harem of hundreds of women certainly had to have some interesting group sex, sex with others in the room and girl with girl. No one was turned into salt, no fire and brimstone rained down on them. What is acceptable sexually has changed greatly over the years. Other than not involving children, people should be free to decide.
@SecondMarge
I agree and have submitted (hopefully to be posted) stories about experiences with that.
Being aroused is not the same as lust—- lust is emotional, not physical.
It’s a beautiful thing to enjoy married sex, and if that means you are aroused watching a married couple as they enjoy each other, that’s okay! It’s fun!
@SecondMarge
“ There are men’s clubs for group masturbating”
What are these clubs and what are they for?
Monogamyman1 while I have no direct experience, many boys have a common experience around the time of puberty called a “circle jerk”. Often sharing some knowledge of the opposite sex in words or pictures as they masturbate. From what I have read and heard from others, adult men with fond memories of this experience seek to find others to do the same group masturbation in men’s clubs. As a girl we had sleepovers that often involve talk of boys practicing kissing and even some physical “practice” for future dating. From what I have read these early same sex experiences that may include same sex play, are not an indicator of future same sex, gay lifestyle. I have not read about adult women having these clubs but I can imagine it might be enjoyable. The closest I have seen was a woman that held classes on how to masturbate for woman that never started mostly for religious reasons.
I must’ve missed this story the first time around. I have to admit that it’s hot, but I can’t imagine many real life couples have this type of openness. Admitting an attraction to someone else is edgy enough, but admitting to thoughts of having sex with that person while masturbating is something else. Bringing that person in on the conversation while having sex is beyond the realm of reality, at least the reality that I know.
Maybe we should make a poll to get a feel for some actual numbers, but I would guess that if we’re all honest, we have all probably thought of someone sexually other than our spouse. We have all probably found someone attractive other than our spouse. But I would venture to say the number of us who have had those thoughts versus the number of us who have shared them is pretty significant. I would also say that the number of spouses who would accept hearing that in a positive light is very small.
As to the moral question of the story, I think that’s a thin line. If it were all in good fun and nobody actually wanted the other, then maybe, but like I said, it’s a thin line. I don’t think there’s anything wrong in being aroused by someone else. If there is, then we’re all sinning by reading these stories. (I don’t think we are) Anyway, the possibility of something like this in my world is zero.
@KingdomMan, maybe you should write a poll about this.
This story was right in my wheelhouse; as I’ve said before, when I became friends with my Vanessa and spent afternoons at her family’s home, I found myself aroused on many occasions by not only her, but her three sisters as well.
Now, Vanessa knows I find not only her, but her sisters attractive as well. Initially there was some discomfort about that early in our relationship simply due to past issues with sibling rivalry, and boyfriends who dated other sisters, etc (you can imagine). That tension went away pretty quickly early in our marriage. And I of course did my best to reassure Vanessa that she’s the only one for me, and also to be careful to police my own thoughts (and my gaze) regarding my sisters-in-law’s beauty.
I would never cheat on Vanessa, but I admit something like is described in this story is a major turn-on, though quite fantastical like you said.
I have had sex with Vanessa in earshot of one of her sisters and we were certain we were overheard. Was also half-caught after sex with Vanessa as she got out of bed and another of her sisters saw her with her hair messed up. The situations were a turn-on for us both, but that was a bit after our early stage of marriage when we felt more comfortable and secure.
Was it arousing? Very much so. Anyway, I can relate in terms of feeling physically aroused by a woman and her sister(s), and I would be open to reading more about it and what others think about it. I would not mind this story playing out in my life for real, but I admit it might not exactly be something “okay”, and I am also okay with that.
To clarify my last sentence — if this story happened to me and Vanessa in real-time, I doubt I’d have the will power to not let it happen. That said, I understand it sort of ties the line and I am okay with the reality it probably wouldn’t happen, and rightly so.
NorthernSky, I think some of what you’ve described regarding you, Vanessa, and her sisters is fairly “Normal.”
You obviously made Vanessa feel secure in your relationship, and thus created and nurtured a comfort level many people don’t have.
What might not be as “normal” is the comfort level she has with her sisters. I think you mentioned once them being able to masturbate in the same proximity. Them having shared that experience created a bond that would reduce or alleviate the awkwardness of “catching” you or hearing you guys have sex. (I think)
There’s nothing wrong with that. In fact, I think it’s great to be able to share a through-the wall experience.
That’s probably more in line with most of history than the way the modern world now treats sex.
And the modern world, in my opinion, has more sexual problems than it ever has.
Anyway, that’s saying a lot to say kudos to you and Vanessa for having a great relationship. It’s heartwarming to read the stories you share and I’m a big fan.
@KingdomMan thank you so much for your kind words!
My sister has been “involved” when my husband and I had sex. Glad most here thinks it’s sexy or at least acceptable. Now what if had been her brother? Ot father?
No different?
Very different?
Even sexier?
Too sinful to imagine?
I’d love to hear more about the circumstances with your sister. I can’t imagine any of my family being that close with each other
[Note from MH: While we support each community member's rights to make their own decisions about their sexual practices and share their history openly, this is a subject that pushes the boundaries of our area of focus (MARRIED sexuality), and also the boundaries of propriety. That being the case, discussions on this topic may be limited.]
There are some topics that even if they involve a marriage may not be appropriate for MH. I say that admitting MH has made great strides in allowing honest admissions about sex and desires. A true reflection of real lives not the hypocrisy of no one ever sins or has kinky or taboo desires.
I think Kingdom man is very much on point with the fact that we all if we are honest and we should be subject to finding other people attractive here and there.
However sexual communication between a couple is one of the most neglected things in a monogamous relationship. It's ironic really that. Two people agree to for the rest of their life expecting one another to only be true to them in action and thought. Yet at the same time will not be willing to meet the needs and desires of the other leaving them on satisfied and creating a fertile ground for infidelity, not only in mind but quite possibly in Physical reality.
Judging and relationships for with Christians and non-christians that I have. I can say that the problem is greater among the Christians for fear of breaching or need to maintain ourselves as holy and separate from the world.
I said it before and I probably will keep saying it.
In our marriage we've had our sexual revolution. And sex now is honest, open and amazing. Whereas before we would not have talked about such things as the attractiveness of an individual we now can discuss it openly. My being that I am attracted to women as well as men. (And I believe more women than care to admit are as well.)
We are able to discuss what we find attractive about a person with each other. The honesty and ability to communicate our thoughts and desires and feelings with one another openly as created a greater love and togetherness particularly in the most intimate areas. Our sexual life.
The very first thing we need to do ourselves is learn to love ourselves and who we are. To love the way we look to love our personalities and to love our lives. In other words don't be afraid to be sexy. And more importantly don't be afraid to be sexy for your spouse. You are all they have so be all they need.
Lady L. 💋