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Too Much Masturbation?

We’re a married couple for the last five years, and we used to have sex on a daily basis. During her period, she would give me a handjob or blowjob. I enjoy the way she strokes my cock.

During my business trips, we’d have phone sex, and I used to carry her panties for masturbation encouragement.

My wife was 33 weeks pregnant when we stopped having sex, but she loves to give me handjobs. Now, more than one month past her delivery, she’s still giving me one on a daily basis.

Nowadays, we just do mutual masturbation. She has learned how to stroke my cock in a way that feels so great.

But I’m worried; is being masturbated daily safe for me?

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13 replies
  1. one day you are mine says:

    I've wondered the same thing: Is daily masturbution safe? I am single virgin male and in my early 20's.
    Sometime the amount of semen is reduce as I masturbute daily, but I don't think it's matter of worry because our body continuously produce semen, I guess.
    Even I like to ask how to enjoy masturbution? And does masturbution affect us when we actually have sex with our wife?

    • ParkerJen says:

      You should definitely talk to my husband, Parker! Before we married he was a twice a day guy (part of what I fell in love with: that libido 😉 ). He has mentioned a few times what effect that had but I hesitate to say it for him. Would you be interested in hearing from him? I have my own advice for how maybe you could best enjoy it but I’m sure a guy’s opinion will be good. Let me know 🙂

      -Jen

    • one day you are mine says:

      Please! I am so happy to hear Parker's opinion, and I am glad if you also give your advice…😊

    • ParkerJen says:

      Parker is excited to share! And I’ll likely throw a few insights in too 😉 But because it’s likely to be a much larger conversation… I hope it’s OK to share our email in these comments? Fingers crossed… we look forward to encouraging you!

      [No, we don't publish email addresses, in comments or otherwise. But feel free to post longer advice or discussion posts through the Post a New Story link in the menu.]

  2. MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

    Not sure I fully understand what you mean when you ask if being masturbated daily is safe for you. Can you expound on that? I will say that when my wife was pregnant there was very little sex but there was a nice stream of oral. Not uncommon, I think, to see what you're experiencing, especially if she's overdue. Being overdue is not a pleasant experience for most women. Had my wife been overdue, I am 100% sure there would have been zero sexual contact between us as the last few months were not easy at all for her.

  3. MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

    Sorry. Just realized you may have meant she delivered and is now still masturbating you. Was it a vaginal delivery? If so, she may still be healing and is not able to have sex. I wouldn't worry too much.

    • CrazyHappyLoved says:

      I thought the OP meant it's been a month since the baby was born. If I'm right, five or six weeks is not an unusaul amount of time for your wife to take to heal, especially if she had a particularly hard delivery. But you are blessed that she is happy to still take care of your needs, and orally or manually triggered orgasms daily shouldn't be any worse for you than cumming during daily sex. I hope that you are meeting her need for affection and sensual touch—and orgasm, too, if she's up to it—even without intercourse.

  4. LovingMan says:

    I don’t think you need to worry about it at all. In fact, frequent ejaculation is associated with lower rates of prostate cancer. (And it is lots of fun too!) So enjoy your kind wife’s willingness to give you pleasure. I assume that you and your wife are going to return to full sexual intercourse after she recovers from childbirth.

  5. King Arthur says:

    Nice story. Good question. I know it doesn't harm you. I love to masturbate. I do it daily. It doesn't hurt your sex with wife life either. Been married 41 years.

  6. hornyGG says:

    Darlin, don't stress about it! You are fine. Just enjoy. The myth about running out of sperm and a limited amount of ejaculations is just that, A MYTH.

    My husband Ben has enjoyed his masturbation pleasures for many years and we have three children and a fantastic sex life.
    Be thankful that your wife cares about your needs and wants to please you even if intercourse is a no go. Just enjoy and let it flow! God bless and stay horny!

    💋💋❤❤
    GG

    • CM001 says:

      Thank you very much for such wonderful comment…we're delighted…will keep you posted on next story..

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