Hey everyone! I am new to this account but not necessarily new to the site. I’m quite young—I am over 18, but will not reveal my age—and I have found myself visiting this site repeatedly for years. I am in awe, and as I have gotten older, I understand that there is no reason to feel guilty to use this site to better understand a healthy Christian marriage, which I desire to be in one day.
I decided to make this account for two reasons.
1.) I want to be able to express my thoughts and fantasies without revealing my identity, of course, and without judgment. Everyone seems very kind and open-minded to discussing these necessary things. I need to work on being more sex-positive.
2.) I also want opinions on masturbation. I have done it since I was a child, and I only felt guilty about it when I became older. I have read many different articles on both sides of the topic of whether masturbation is a sin or not a sin. So far, I believe that the act itself is quite innocent but it can be harmful when you include lust and pornography. My fantasies never include anyone that I know, and are focused on more of the act of sex itself. This has led to me writing many great stories that I cannot wait to share with you guys!
I have also struggled with whether or not I should share these stories and fantasies. They’re very personal, and no one knows about them, but one day I would like to share them with my future husband! I also want to know if it’s okay to masturbate with a toy before you’re married? I know it seems like an odd question, but it is a daunting experience for a virgin.
Thank you so much for reading this! I would truly love to hear your thoughts and opinions in the comments!
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