Wrong or Just Harmless Fun?
There is a story that I wanted to talk about for a long time, but could never get up the courage to ask anyone’s opinion. It doesn’t directly relate to marriage, but more to the wait beforehand and being faithful to the Lord in how I handle my sexual urges.
Do you think what happened was wrong, or was it just harmless fun?
When I was a teenager, a close female friend was staying over for the night after helping me and my parents do work at the family farm. (I had a big crush on her but never asked her out.) After she left the next day, it was discovered that my friend had left some of her dirty clothes, including her panties, in the laundry basket. We told her, and she said that she would be back in a few days to get them.
When I went walking by the laundry room, I grabbed her dirty panties and sniffed them. I know some of the guys on MH like to sniff their wife’s panties, and I understand why; my friend’s female scent smelled so good. I put the panties back, and the clothes were returned.
We kept in contact over the years and eventually she got married. A few years ago we met up at a class reunion, and she asked me if I had played with her panties when we were teenagers. I do not know how she knew, but she knew. She told me that she thought it was really hot and had liked me too and was disappointed that I had not asked her out.
Apparently, her husband really enjoys playing with my old friend’s panties.
I look forward to playing with my future wife’s panties. This is one of my biggest fantasies. Hopefully, my future wife is an MH fan as well.
Nope not at all. It's natural for a man to crave the scent of his lover or the one he is attracted to….
I remember as a teen getting a glimpse of a friend's beautiful pussy. She hadn't shaved and it was a beautiful little bush. I was so turned on I almost instantly started cumming. Oh the memories…..
The fact is there are sexual pheromones in those worn female panties! It’s normal for a male to feel “ROWR!” …at the scent. Very normal.
It's innocent fun and I would even go as far as to say a fun memory but make sure it ends there. Something like that could easily become a stumbling block if left unchecked.
Aprilandavette – I very much agree with "make sure it ends there." She and her pheromones belong to someone else now. In fact, I'd suggest it may be very unwise to even relive the memory. If someone can't have dessert, it does no good to daydream about chocolate cake.
Not sure if it was right or wrong, but I think it’s understandable, and since God tells us in Psalm 103 that “He remembers our frame, he knows we are made of dust,” and “As a father pities his children, the Lord pities those who love him,” he understands, too. It’s obvious you love God or it wouldn’t be troubling you after so many years. The omniscient God chooses to forget our sins and failures. Don’t keep remembering what he has already forgotten. You were a normal teenage boy. Let it go.
Good Question. I love sniffing panties.
I think for a married man to smell another woman's panties would not rise to the level of adultery, but would be wrong. I don't think you did anything wrong. You were both single, so any lust you experienced would not be ADULTRY of the heart. You weren't in a relationship with her, so I doubt any sort of improper sexual attachment would have been created as when two people have sex, oral or otherwise.
Asking to smell your girlfriend or fiancee's panties? Probably a bad idea. My girlfriend now wife smelled incredible even though I never got my nose close to that area or anything she wore there. No need to add fuel to the fire.
My wife smells incredible down there. We do things to enhance the scent — full natural bush, washing up with plain water no soap or ot washing at all….
Kudos to your friend for her healthy attitude towards her natural scent. Lucky husband. I wonder if she had any hair?
So dude, hope you find someone to love. Update your Christian Mingle profile, and spare no expense or effort to find the right woman. It is totally worth it!
PS My wife and I were watching this TV show Love is Blind. A group of men and women meet in adjacent rooms separated with an opaque screen. The idea is to fall in love and get engaged before even seeing each other. A problem is that people hit it off when conversing, but find they have no chemistry when they finally meet. I commented to my wife that I would ask the girls I was interested in for their worn panties. "That's weird" she says. Agreed, but any weirder than dating that way? ?
Thank you for the advice! I love hairy pussies!
Personally I see nothing wrong with it at all. My husband Ben is an admitted " panty sniffer" and will often do so while he is jacking off. It turns me on to know that he is turned on by my scent as well as my body. Thank you for sharing and stay horny darlin.
Rez and I met in the Army. While we were dating, he got deployed to Iraq while I was left in the rear. On one of our weekly phone conversations—this was before the days of personal cell phones; he had to call me from an Army call center, and we were on a timer!—he asked for a pair of my panties to keep under his pillow. He specifically asked that they be panties I had worn, not a laundered pair. Of course, I sent them, in a baggy so the scent would last. I liked that he wanted to think of me at night on his cot or bunk.
Your friend may have left the panties on purpose, especially since she said that she wished you had asked her out back then. But even if she didn't, I don't think you did either her or her future husband any wrong by taking a whiff. But if embarrassment or guilt over the act held you back from asking her out, I'd say maybe you suffered?
Interesting and hot responses to this candid question. I can certainly understand a young man's curiosity prompting a clandestine "panty grab and sniff." It's all part of basic primal urges. The trick is to control such urges and channel them towards a healthy sexual relation with your married mate in the future.
I believe the "scent of a woman" is beautiful – and I also believe that the lovemaking that generates the scent in liquid form is the ultimate aphrodisiac.
Jim will be getting a very strong whiff from me later today, after church and when the time is right!
Great question kiddo!