Pubic Hair

I have a question for both genders:

My wife has never shaved bare; she trims and then shaves the sides. I would love her to try going bare once. I go bare typically. We have talked about it, and she isn’t interested in shaving it bare.

Obviously, I am not going to pressure her because it is her body, but I am wondering how other people keep their pubes. Is it really as popular to go bare as porn and stories here at times suggest?

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38 replies
  1. SecondMarge says:

    The online magazine _Slate_, referring to a news article in the New York Times—which, in turn, cites a 2016 study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association dealing specifically with dermatology (JAMA Dermatology)—had this to say: “The 62 percent bald figure is not quite accurate, though. The survey actually found that 62 percent of women have ever removed all their pubic hair, not that they “prefer to go bare,” in the Times’ parlance, all the time. Nearly 34.6 percent of the women surveyed had removed all their pubic hair five or fewer times; that likely means they’ve tried it but prefer not to go bare. Less than 21 percent of study participants said they’d gone bald 11 times or more—this is more likely the population that wants a completely bare vulva for life.”

    Last I read, it was less than 10% of straight men.

  2. MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

    My wife has been bare down there for about 18 years. She typically just shaves it but occasionally she'll get waxed. This is all her choice but I love the look. I just do typically grooming.

  3. MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

    P.S. For my wife, going all bare was a progression of sorts. She started with a landing strip that she kept shaved for width but she didn't keep the hair short. Also, she didn't shave around her labia. Then she started shaving around her labia (for my benefit). When she shaved around her labia, made a huge difference for me whenever I pleasured her. Then she started trimming the length of the hair. Then one night in 2004 we were getting it on and I pulled off her bottoms and–BOOM!–she was all bare. She's been all bare since. She's told me most of her friends are also bare down there.

  4. Bootylicious says:

    I have a female friend who is an ultrasound/x-ray technician. Thus, she sees A LOT of naked women! She says almost all are bald these days and that she hardly ever sees bush. I asked my ob-gyn that question once too. She said bald is definitely the norm (if a woman keeps anything, it's just a little patch above but most women take it all off). Oh, she's a baldie too! As am I. I won't ever go back to bush! I love being bald!

  5. Fearless Lunk says:

    My wife shaved bald for the first time just after our 19th anniversary. So it’s fun to have some ever-evolving sexy fun. She wears a trimmed bush most of the time, but has shaved bare about 4 times in the last 2 years. It’s a treat for me. And I LOVE licking her bald pussy!

  6. firefly says:

    About 10 years ago, I began shaving myself and would often shave my wife, but she avoided it. Then she found out our adult daughters all get waxed. She went the first time about 3 years ago and has been going regularly since that time.

  7. LovingMan says:

    My wife was shaved a couple of times for medical procedures. The stubble itched her like crazy. So she just lets it grow. I wouldn’t mind if she trimmed it back some but I like her bush. All her hair is ultra soft … including & especially her bush. So I love stroking her very soft bush as my hand moves lower to her pussy region at the start of a lovemaking session!

    I trim my hair down there for a weird reason. If it gets long on my scrotum or above my shaft then during the day hair gets grabbed by my foreskin. (I’m uncut.) So, when hair gets grabbed it freaking HURTS! Actually my kind wife trims my bush and scrotum hair for me.

  8. hornyGG says:

    I shaved bald a couple times, but my husband Ben prefers me to have a bush. He just feels it's more natural for a woman to have a bush. Of course, he is a bit old fashioned. I like it either way. Thanks for posting and God bless. Stay horny hon!

  9. TheHulksWife says:

    I've been "bald" for as long as I can remember. For me, it's just cooler, feels nicer and I think it looks a million times better. My husband loves it!
    He keeps himself just trimmed up as I didn't like it when he shaved in the past, but too bushy isn't for me either.

  10. Happy Husband says:

    Wife shaves bald for past 6 or 7 years. Won't go back. I shave my balls and shaft. Usually have a solid patch for her to play with, but am mostly shaved too. We both love cumming by oral, so shaved is more pleasant.

    • D&D says:

      My wife shaved a few years back, we both love it. She won’t go back!!! I tried it but she didn’t like me shaved, she prefers a little hair. I’ve also tried waxing my chest she prefers some hair on my chest. She feels it’s more sexy.

  11. Sarge says:

    Good subject. I kept mine trimmed down to about 1/3 of an inch, but my late wife had vitiligo, and I’m not sure if this is what caused her pubic hair to be so sparse, but what pubes she did have were short and pin-curly. Eating her out was a pleasure in many ways, but it was nice not having a lot of pubes to deal with.
    I loved it when we’d have sex before I’d leave for my graveyard shift at the base, and then I’d cough up a tiny curly hair that reminded me of what we had done. Plus my pubes had crusties from her juices. Oh, I miss her.

  12. SecondMarge says:

    I think a woman looks sexier with a waxed bald pussy. The oral is better. But it can be a great deal of maintenance. Not to mention possible discomfort from ingrown hair, itching, the waxing itself. I was bald for years but now settle for very short cut.

    • Bootylicious says:

      There's an easy solution to avoiding any regrowth itching… give your pussy a quick going over every day. I shave my legs every day (cuz I can't stand stubble) and so it's no big deal to go just a few inches higher and do my pussy also. Takes all of two seconds. As Larry the Cable Guy says, "Git er done!" haha

      I got one of those DIY laser hair removal devices for Christmas (something I had asked for). I hope to be smooth from head to toe at some point! 🙂

  13. Bootylicious says:

    Okay, so we all know that both men and women alike love bald pussies. Do any MH wives loves bald cocks too? My hubby started shaving everything off a few years back….as in completely smooth. I LOVE IT! I think a bald cock looks just as sexy as a bald pussy and is so much fun to play with! (hubby says sensitivity is increased too) Any other MH women agree?

    • Twice Blessed Husband says:

      My wife LOVES my bald cock as well as me being completely shaved nose to toes. She is a smoothie as well, and I love it. We like how we look outside nude or wearing some of our very small swimsuits. Not to mention how awesome it feels when we get together. Nothing but skin to skin.

  14. Salcpl says:

    I suggest you read a story that I posted about my wife waxing. Let her see my response and how turned on it made me. I could not wait to get my mouth and hands and other body parts on her. It was one of the most erotic if not the most erotic thing I have ever seen in my life. It’s not something she would have to keep doing. I think we should all experiment to some degree and step out of our comfort zone or our spouse. The name of my story is Brazilian wax. You can also find it under my profile: https://marriageheat.com/author/salcpl/

  15. YumYum says:

    I had a hysterectomy many years ago & shaved my pussy as bare as I could at the time before surgery. I had always kept myself trimmed prior to that. After I healed up a bit & started to grow my hair back, my husband let me know how much he enjoyed it when I was trimmed up neat & tidy. He kept his cock away from my pussy while I was healing, so we enjoyed pleasing each other with intimate oral pleasure instead. I once asked him to shave me & it was such a turn on for him that I've shaved my pussy on a regular basis since then. He likes to watch me shave & it makes his cock so hard & excites him so much knowing that he gets to suck & pound my sweet, shaved cunt. I love giving him my bare pussy & reap the rewards as such. I don't like the stubble as it grows back, so I shave every few days to at least keep my pussy lips suckable. I haven't tried a wax yet, but I might in the future. He shaves his cock & balls smooth as well & I do love sucking his shaved cock.

  16. Ron33 says:

    My wife trimmed short or shaved before it was thing, mid 1980's. We both shave or trim short now. We have let ours grow back full bush a few times just to see what it looked like or felt like.

    I have a good friend that is a gynecologist. I asked him about how many women shave and he said under 35, they are nearly all bare. 35 to 60, nearly all trim or shave. He said some women over 60ish are full bush, but a lot of them trim or shave too.

  17. 1blessedman says:

    My wife has shaved bald a few times but mostly keeps a small patch. I shaved the balls and keep the pubes buzzed close. Trim the nipple hair close because the wife doesn’t like the long hair getting in her mouth. Did shave around the nipples once but she likes a little hair there. It made her feel like maybe they were girl nipps when there was no hair there.

  18. CreamyPatty says:

    I go from total shave to short trim I guess out of laziness. My pussy wants oral more when I'm shaved, guess it's just more sensitive to silk panties and my own fingers sometimes when I'm driving and fantasizing. I have noticed that Jim eats me longer when I'm shaved.
    And Jim keeps his shaft shaved but not his balls. He feels my tongue better this way. I also get fewer stray hairs in my mouth and throat this way, especially when I'm on top of him and diving down during 69. I get so worked up a can even lick his balls with the tip of my tongue without gagging while very deep throating him!

    • Giants05 says:

      @creamy patty we are laying in bed after a great round of hot sex and so can relate to this comment ..today was her first full shave in about 2 months and it so made for an extra exciting night …she was super sensitive as I ate her out ..and eating her shaved pussy got me so hard and throbbing that, after she took a double orgasm and I stood up, we were in super shock how hard I was …we both swear this was the deepest and roughest sex we have had in years. We lie here ready to go at it again, lol

  19. FunJames says:

    I am a HUGE fan of my wife’s shaved pussy and I do pay more attention to it during sex as a result. I also play with it more while on the road with her because when we are in the car she never wears panties and she stays creamy by hiking her right leg up on the dashboard to open up the gates of that sweet pussy. Watching one, two then three fingers disappear into that creamy cunt drives me nuts and I’m always wondering if another motorist gets an eyeful even though she tries to cover herself with a towel always.

  20. Twice Blessed Husband says:

    My wife has been bare ever since I have known her. (33 years)
    I myself have been shaved nose to toes since there was anything to shave.
    We enjoy being bare as well as each other being bare.
    We are nudist and have noticed the same trend with only a few variables.
    Hairfree / Carefree

  21. Bootylicious says:

    For those women that keep themselves bald, how old were you when you started shaving everything off? How long have you been bald? What was the reason for you shaving everything off in the first place? Just wanted to try it? Friends were doing it? Your mom encouraged you to try it? 

    Even though I kept my bush all the way through high school and university and when I was first married, I never liked it. The only reason I didn't go bald already back then was because of what my doctor might think (it wasn't the norm back then) or even other girls in the change room. Then, during one of my pregnancies, when I could no longer see or reach to give myself a good trim, I asked my hubby to do it for me. He shaved everything off completely and I've never looked back!  And now I even make sure I'm good and smooth before every doctor appointment! 

    My good friend is a medical professional and sees a lot of naked women. Bald is the norm, she says.

    My aunt was in her 60s when she started shaving everything off. Her adult daughters (all married) encouraged her to go bald. She did and has been bald ever since. 

    I have two sisters and have always wondered if they are bush or no bush or somewhere in between? 

    Creamy said she encouraged her sister to shave her pussy bare, which she did and loves it.  CP, have you gotten any other women to go bare too?  

    • ourbestlife says:

      About 5 years ago or so, before my wife and I went on our Hawaiian vacation, my wife went to get her bikini line waxed so she wouldn’t have to deal with shaving and irritation on vacation. To my surprise (and delight) she came home with a Brazilian! She is very happy with it and I love it. She has no plans on changing. She has a piercing in that region so it really lets it shine lol

  22. Maturewife66 says:

    I am 56, will be 57 in a few months, and my pussy is smooth as silk. I had laser hair removal, and it’s smooth for life. I love it. It feels so good. And my hubby always tells me I have a juicy thick pussy. I love it.

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