Any Male Toy Suggestions?
Ok, I’m attempting to purchase my first pocket pussy or Fleshlight. But there are plenty of male masturbation toy options, and I don’t know which one to choose.
For those who have purchased a pocket pussy or Fleshlight, which one gives you the best orgasm? I would like something at least very close to a real vagina. I just learned that there are even pussies with vibrators, but obviously, I don’t want something that might damage my penis. I just want something to use until I have a wife and maybe after, if we can’t be together.
I really would appreciate some input about which one(s) you use or recommend. And for the ladies, what toys do your husbands use?
Thanks for your input!
From MH: Married Dance is a Christian online toy store that Calvin and I patronize and highly recommend. They have a section devoted to male masturbation products, including the one pictured above. This is an affiliate link, so any purchase made after following it will result in a small commission for MarriageHeat. Thank you!




I own two fleshlights and a pocket pussy. Personally I enjoy both the Fleshlight and the pocket pussy. However, if I had to choose between the two I would most likely choose the Fleshlight. I just like the over all feel of the Fleshlight as to me it feels more realistic. You can get one with or without pubic hair, plus it's easy to clean after use.
I love watching you use them ! ❤️
Rez has a lot of toys, including a couple of Fleshlights. I'll try to get him to respond with his favorite(s).
I do have two Fleshlights, and I like them a lot. I also have the Tenga Geo like the one in the picture. Pros and cons to each. The Fleshlight feels very good, and like Ben, I prefer it over the Geo if I'm looking for feel. That being said, they're kind of messy in that lube sort of leaks out over time, so you have to re-apply every so often. The Geo wraps around your cock and keeps the lube in and away from the air, so it lasts longer and less of a mess. The Tenga Geo Aqua is my favorite for feeling more like a real pussy than the others.
For me, there is nothing like my wife’s pussy since it is hot, she knows how to work it, and she offers audible spice to the feast. That said, toys have their own sensations that I find enjoyable. I have a Head Honcho jelly-type sleeve. Tight fit and very different from the wife but super enjoyable. I like the looks of the Fleshlight and the variety. I think that the hard casing might be able to be anchored in various ways that could offer a hands-free experience…..🤷🏻♂️
This is what I have!
https://marrieddance.com/shop/for-him/sleeves-strokers/super-head-honcho/
I have two Fleshlights, the best one is a vibro model that has three little vibrating bullets that you turn on and install before use. I haven’t used the bullets in a couple of years now but the texture inside is more stimulating and will get me off without too much trouble. They make a shower mount for the Fleshlight that is really fun for stand-up sex, but they are not made well and I’ve broken two of those last year. Gets a little spendy at $25-$30 each. If you really want a real feel, run hot water through it before use! I also have a no-name sleeve that my wife got me several years ago that is easy to use while traveling. I recommend using Astroglide lube with any stroker though.
I have had several sleeves and have shredded every one in no time due to my girth. This week I ordered a Max2 that is supposed to be for bigger guys and is motorized. Can't wait for it to arrive and see how it is.
I bought a generic masturbation sleeve from Amazon to try out. It was okay. While putting lube on, I got it on my hands, and it was so slippery I couldn’t grip the outside to stroke myself. My wife and I both got a good laugh out of it, but I could grip the outside using a wash cloth and eventually was able to cum. My wife noted she liked that it was open-ended, so she was able to view me spurting my cum out.
I use a Fleshlight, and it usually makes me cum pretty fast. I also hold my wife's vibe against the underside of my cock, and that makes me cum too.
I love putting my wife’s vibe under my balls/taint. Make me shoot some nice ropes.
Fleshlights seem best for the money and are easy to pack in a suitcase when you are traveling. For advanced long-time singles, there is something called the Venus for Men. It is expensive, but can be worth it for those of us who anticipate being single for awhile. It is very pleasurable and has helped keeping me from getting involved in fornication.