The Joy Of Boobies
The Joy Of Boobies – Survey at bottom of post
First, I’ll admit that this is sort-of a reposting of my answers to Adoniswetewolf’s survey of March 17th, 2024. He called that post “Butts and Boobs.” However I have added much more detail in this post than I did in my comments and answers to his survey. I’ve also included six of MY questions in a survey at the bottom of this post.
I am definitely a boob-man! I even remember noticing early on in our marriages that my wife’s aroused nipples closely resembled ripe raspberries. They were even more tasty to me than raspberries!
There are many ways I enjoy her breasts. I love how my wife looks in general but her D-cup boobs I find give her a lovely shape when clothed or nude. Her cleavage is very sexy when in a swimsuit and lingerie. But her bare breasts are the absolute best! In fact our mutually favorite lingerie that she wears is open cup teddies. She has learned to appreciate her large breasts because of her husband’s absolute admiration of them. (She had been bullied by other girls when she was growing up. They teased her about her large breasts.) I think I’ve shown my wife how beautiful her breasts are by loving them and loving on them so much.
Our lovemaking sessions always involve extended boob-play. That includes kissing, palming of breasts, and rubbing them with my palms. It includes pinching, licking, sucking, and tongue-stimulation of nipples. Often part of foreplay includes me rubbing my hard tip or glans of my erection on her nipples as I pump my rod. I add some coconut oil and usually some AloeCadabra lube to each nipple first. We call this fun erotic activity “tip on nip.” We do all of those things in erotic massages too.
Funny thing is that although she likes to be nipple stimulated a LOT, My Melody likes stimulating MY man-nips just as much. Nowadays in our lovemaking sessions she almost always needs me sucking on or tongue-flicking her titties for her to cum. I will manually stimulate the breast and nipple that I’m not sucking.. (She usually goes through a sequence of vibrators while I’m orally loving on her breasts n nipples.)
On most “off-days” when we don’t have a full sex session she helps me have a morning orgasm. I often I start by sucking on and manually pinching etc. Melody’s tits to get my motor going. Even just the sight of them starts my engine. Then she or I manually pump my erection to orgasm as she orally loves on my nipples. (I often use a “Hello Cake” vibrating stroker too. But only while she’s sucking and tonguing my nearest nipple.) Sometimes I rub my tip on her nearest nipple while pumping my rod. Then I’ll come all over her flavored breast and next “clean up” the mess with my tongue and mouth. We call this “tip on nip.”
I’ll add that her orgasms usually come after we’ve stimulated each other’s nipples, had banging sexual intercourse, and then when I’m cleaning her nipples off with my lips and tongue. I say “cleaning them off” because after my orgasm in her pussy I scoop some of our “protein shake” out and rub it onto her nipples and boobies. Then I “clean” it off! We use AloeCadabra flavored lube either in her pussy along with coconut oil OR smeared directly onto each of her nipples with the “protein.”
Finally, I appreciated the little survey from Adoniswerewolf. But I have also sometimes wondered if other married boob-men
were…
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1. were obsessed with their wife’s boobies as much as I’m obsessed with my Melody’s boobies and raspberries.
2. What percentage of other married couples enjoy manual and oral nipple play as much as Melody and I do?
3. I’ve wondered if some other couples like using flavored lube on nipples.
4. I’ve also wondered if some other couples like using flavored lube in the wife’s vagina or on the husband’s erection or directly on the nipples.
5. Are there some other married couples who like the cum or “flavored protein shake” scooped out of pussy and rubbed on boobs to be orally “cleaned off?”
6. Have other couples tried the “tip on nip” trick as part of foreplay or had the husband do it until he came on his wife’s beautiful boobs? Does the husband lick off the love-cream?
Again, thank you Adoniswerewolf for inspiring me to make this survey post! I’m writing it early in the morning right before Melody and I celebrate Saint Patrick’s Day in a fun, sexy, and married way!
I just want to chime in and say that my nipples can bring quite a lot of pleasure on occasion. I can feel a stirring in my prostate that is grown the more I tweak, twist, and generally explore them. It's supposed to grow with time too, the more you work on building that nerve connection.
FM I didn’t know that the more you work your nipples the stronger the nerve connection! That explains a lot!
I'll echo that! I think you're correct that sensitivity can increase. I don't know the details of how that works neurologically, but I can speak from experience. Several years ago, I didn't really get any sexual sensation at all from my nipples, but eventually, as I grew to see them as an erogenous zone and practiced stimulating them, they became much more sexually receptive, and now nipple stimulation has become a favorite for me! I've found intermittent, feather-light caressing provokes the most pleasurable response. I eagerly await sharing that piece of my sexuality with my future wife, letting her touch and lick my nipples, and most certainly returning the favor for her!
I've never been able to reach orgasm just from nipple stimulation, or really even get close. (Although just ONE time I worked myself right up to the edge by other means and was able to barely push myself over the edge into orgasm with nipple stimulation.) But I definitely get very aroused from it, and it helps contribute to some amazing full-body sensations as one part of a more complete self-exploration session.
The wonders of Neuroplasticity! The Aneros forum has quite a few accounts of things like nipple stimulation which is why I started experimenting myself! I've seen videos of all the different erogenous zones (quite a lot more than I would have imagined) and have found I can get some wonderful tingly sensations by lightly caressing my sides under my arms and also my inner thighs as well as my balls.
As far as orgasm by nipple stimulation, I don't look at it that way as much as just rewiring your brain to experience pleasure in different manners. I've read reports of men (and women) being to orgasm using just the power of their minds, which is amazing, and probably involves quite precise muscular control of your core and/or root. You guys could look into Mindgasm as well as I've found their programs to be enlightening and helpful.
1: I don’t know if I’d call it obsessed, but nipple and titty play is ALWAYS a part of our lovemaking.
2: My wife has nipplegasms, so nipple play is, as above, an every-time thing!
3 & 4: we’ve tried flavored lubes, but it wasn’t our thing. It didn’t make any of our oral on each other better.
5 & 6: I discovered long ago, that my wife gets turned on by cum play, and oral with cum play, so tasting each other, ourselves, and our combined cum are routine. Her favorite thing is when I eat her creampie! She’l slip a couple fingers into herself, and rub the combo cum on her nipples and I or both of us will lick it off. I’ll rub my precum on her nipples, and we do the same, and, often, do the same after I cum on both of her nipps. I’ve always had a kink about jacking off on her nipples now and then, and combine that with her kink of having me lick up my own cum, and it’s a winner!
All this oral almost always leads to us continuing on with more sex!
My wife worked up to cum familiarity over the years. But now it clearly turns her on to rub cum on her titties n having me cum ON those titties… & me licking it off. But I like the flavored version. Just yesterday I had smeared chocolate AloeCadabra on her nipples then added cum-mix from her pussy! I called it our chocolate protein shake. It was a delicious treat, and she was using her vibrator as I feasted on her chocolate boobies. She had a BIG orgasm. Then a few minutes later she had another one!
Thank you so much for your detailed comment. I felt inspired and happy that another married couple enjoys many of the same or similar things! Of course every couple is different!
In 30+ years of marriage we are still rookies compared to your advanced skills. The closest we have gotten to flavored lube is Astroglide & anal. However, I do love breasts. I rather enjoy them. I honestly wish men would've behaved themselves better, back in the day, & feminism would've never started. There is nothing sexier than a woman confidently being a woman. Today, women hide their figure. Had we behaved ourselves maybe we would still be able to enjoy the privilege of a woman's form out in public. Breasts used to be out there, along with all the rest of it. I'm not talking about naked, nor obscene things. I'm just talking about natural clothed women. I realize we men didn't start feminism, but we help give them ammunition. There are women out there that enjoy men looking at them. It is a part of who we are. We have a form & there is no sin in enjoying it, walking down the sidewalk. My wife & I enjoy breast & nipple play. I play with them most when eating her out. Both, my tongue & fingers start out ever so slightly, & by the time she is cumming I am lifting them up by her nipples. Not so rough, but pinching enough to lift them into the air. Great questions. One day, maybe we will become pros like you guys.
Not being married, I can't answer all these questions (yet), but I will tell you, LovingMan, that some of your posts have inspired me to try more stimulation if my own breasts. Sometimes my nipples seem absolutely numb, or just sensitive in a don't-touch-me way, but I'm finding that when I'm in certain positions as I masturbate that they suddenly are very alert, for lack of a better word. Still, it's usually that non-affecting feeling of rubbing your own back or scratching your own itch. It just does nothing for you. I'm sure looking forward to feeling my future husband's hands on my boobs!
That’s interesting! See, I never realized a woman’s nipples are sensitive & can bring them pleasure, but it’s interesting that for you certain positions have different effects on you. Guess you & your future hubby will just have to try them all! 😏
LLL everyone is different. I think you will one day discover that part of the marriage adventure is discovering what you both enjoy together – and that has gone on for us over the years. You could say that our lovemaking has evolved. (& gotten more fulfilling!)
I'd encourage you to keep trying! As I mentioned above in my reply to Faith-Manages, it took me (as a man) some time to "wake up" my nipples to sexual sensitivity. I'm so glad I stuck with it, because they're now a wonderfully pleasurable erogenous zone for me. I know my efforts have prepared them to be wonderful little buttons for my future wife to push and drive me wild!
While the male and female bodies work a little different in some ways, I suspect that you will be able to awaken yours in a similar way! My nipples used to not give really any sexual sensation at all. I used to think it was only women who had sexually sensitive nipples, and I was honestly a bit jealous at times. It sounded so hot, and so much fun! After hearing that some men enjoyed it too, I decided to believe it was possible for us too, and I started trying for myself. Armed with that belief that my nipples could be an erogenous zone, I treated them as if they were, while I marinated in sexy thoughts and other simulation I already found pleasurable. I didn't keep track of what I did in any scientific way, but over time, my nipples began to feel more and more pleasurable, and now they're one of my favorite things about my body! So I bet you can do it too!
I'll keep at it then! And the idea of loving on my future husband's nipples REALLY turns me on. Years ago, I thought men having nipples at all was rather repulsive, but only because I associated them so much with breastfeeding; it seemed incongruous for men to have them. Now I see them as normal, plus another area of pleasure.
Loved your description of "marinating" in sexy thoughts. Whew! I do that too. 😉
1. I definitely love her boobs. I loved them when we first married, and they’re even squishier now, so all the better.
2. I do all I can give give both types of stimulation
3. Never have, but definitely would
4. Again, never have but definitely would
5. Never done that either. Have shared a cum kiss after I ate her cream pie, though
6. I don’t remember her ever letting me cum on her boobs. Maybe once?
KM just yesterday my Melody was saying her breasts are too floppy. I reassured her that they were absolutely perfect and beautiful! I liked your term “more squishy now so even better!”
Loved this! I have always been envious of women who have large boobs. It followed me throughout high school and up until I married. At one point I even considered a boob job, because I felt that Ben may prefer it. But Ben told me that he loved my tits just the way they are. Saying that they are perfect. I don't have big tits, but not super small either. The border between a B and a C-Cup.. When I wear a bra it is usually a c-cup.
I have sensitive nipples and love for Ben to play with, lick or suck on them. It really gets me horny.
We have used flavored lubricants before. Our favorite is chocolate. I would put some on his cock when I would suck him. We would also apply it to my nipples and pussy and Ben would lap it up, often times making me cum.
I love having him cum on my tits as well. I would suck him off and rub it in or he would lick it off. Sometimes he would straddle me and jerk off, shooting his seed onto my face and tits.
We both enjoy our own juices as well, especially when they are mixed.
I could ramble on forever, but will stop here. Thanks again for sharing! Stay horny my friend.
Wow HGG! Your comments are even more sexy than your amazing stories!
Being a retired scientist I gotta tell you that the pH of semen and the female’s vaginal juices balance out to make a more milder flavor. We kind of recently tried chocolate flavored AloeCadabra and it’s a winner! As I mentioned in my reply to Tulsa’s comment above- just yesterday my wife n I both enjoyed me licking off our chocolate protein shake from Melody’s titties.
As much as I talk about Melody’s D cup breasts, I love all of her so I am sure I would be happy whatever size her boobies were. I am sure Ben feels the same way!
I'm really working on loving and accepting my "tiny tits". I'm an A-cup, and I admit it is very hard to not wish they were bigger. If I lie flat on my back, they're basically non-existent, just slight points. It sometimes makes me feel like a girl just hitting puberty. However, now that I know that there are men who love small breasts, and also realizing that God built me unique and beautiful, I am way more content. I have thought about someday getting a minor boob job, but they're so expensive and I've heard there are bad side effects later in life. So, I'm working towards complete contentment and enjoyment of the way they are naturally. I love your stories, by the way! So hot and sweet!
We’ve been married for over 50 years and our, not just my, celebration of joy for her tits and nipples is is strong as ever! Her tits and nipples are perfect – between a B and C cup. Still perky and taut after all these years. She loves, often offers, her tits to be suckled by me. Our suckling foreplay can last for 10-20 minutes as both of us gradually begin to masturbate. It’s incredibly sexy and hot to feel her hands and fingers move downward to start to expertly jill her labia, erect clit, and dip into her pussy. She responds with words and body language begging for more on her tits and nipples and when I begin to stroke my meaty cock. She has experienced a nipplegasm, but craves me to DP her – finger in her ass and fingers in her pussy as she takes increasing control of her clit. What puts her over the top is my pleasure/pain attention to her nipple by nibbling, nipping, stretching, pulling on her hard, erect nipple with my mouth, lips, and teeth as she cums!
SG I remember when I first read your use of that term “suckling” in one of your stories. I thought it was great and I’ve incorporated it into some of my stories.
I thought that your comment was a beautiful example of a married couple enjoying each other sexually.
BTW I love your writing!
Boobs are nice
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But, all in favour of having a post like this in appreciation of "The Joy of Bums" say 'aye'.
"AYE"
Aye!
While I did designate myself a "butt man" over a "boob man" in the comments of the referenced "Butts vs. Boobs" post, that's only because my great appreciation for boobs is simply overshadowed by my even greater appreciation for butts! But here are my boob-related answers from my unmarried perspective.
1: When I get married, I get the feeling I'll be obsessed with EVERY part of my wife's body, most certainly including her breasts and nipples! They're such a beautifully feminine thing, and I'm whole-heartedly leaning into God's biological male programming to enjoy them!
2: I don't have a particularly scientific way to measure how we compare, but suffice it to say that I strongly hope and suspect that my future wife and I will very thoroughly enjoy all kind of boob-related play like you two do!
3 and 4: Flavored lube doesn't sound appealing to me. Coconut oil or some other natural body-friendly oil is about the closest I think I would enjoy. I'd be willing to try variations of this, though. Especially if my future wife wanted to try.
5: That sounds super hot, and would love to try it with my future wife!
6: Not sure whether we would enjoy this or not, but it sounds sexy, and it's definitely on my sexual experimentation list!
I have always felt that tits are beautiful and pussies are erotic, but in reality, tits are both. I would rather see tits over pussies 10 to one and my personal feelings are that small boobs are the prettiest. If titties are prominently displayed, I simply cannot take my eyes off them.
Yay! (From a gal with tiny boobs)
I definitely like my wife's boobs. They are obviously different now after having 3 children. I'm a boobs man and when I first met her, she was just 20 years old with her boobs sitting up without a bra on.
I love playing with them and sucking on her nipples. She used to let me cum on them but not anymore.
Responses:
1 – I love my wife's beautiful large breasts and still after many years of being married to her I get turned on any time I see them!
2 – She almost always has orgasms when I play with her nipples and I love that!
3 – Not lube, but chocolate pudding, etc.
4 – No
5 & 6 – Yes, I love eating my cum off her gorgeous breasts