What Do You Do While Waiting For Hubby to Cum Home?
As lots of you out there may know, my hubby Jim travels quite regularly for his job. You may also have heard that we are totally horny like 24/7! We prefer to say we are over the top in love and are extremely oversexed lovers.
I know I am always ready for his delicious cock, any way he wants to feed me. He also knows my screenname, CreamyPatty, is derived from the state of my shaved and hyper-sensitive pussy. I have a total of seven toys I use to accommodate my many moods.
All this got me thinking about how you gals—and guys—prefer to get yourselves off while your loves are away.
What’s your favorite go-to method for a quick orgasm when you just can’t stand not having him or her around? If you fantasize, briefly describe your sex scene.
The more the merrier, so let’s have it!
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Can singles answer too? I sure have my fantasies, and while I wait for my future husband it helps to imagine steamy scenarios. Now, the realm of quickies has troubled me a bit because I take so long to reach orgasm (sometimes 2 or 3 hours!), and having a quickie seemed just kind of impossible. The last few times I've masturbated, though, it's taken much less time, maybe 45 minutes. I wonder if it's a combination of feeling very horny (which spring/summer weather does to me) and feeling better in body and mind as I address and treat my health issues.
Anyhow, yesterday I had my own version of I-can't-wait-anymore-I-need-relief-now! I did my exercise, wearing only a thong, and then lay on the floor in my bedroom and caressed my pussy over the thin fabric. As usual, I got deliciously wet in just a few minutes. I was DYING for another good orgasm (I'd had an epic one a couple nights before), so I quickly got my dildo out. It takes only moments for me to work it in while straddling it. I was picturing mounting my future husband for the first time, and just how erotic that would be. Something else I'm finding really gives me pleasure is to have a full or partially full bladder. It really heightens the warmth and pressure deep inside me. I rode that cock while watching myself in the mirror, enjoying the hot view (if I may say so, I think I look great with a tan and some light makeup, not to mention I'm quite fit). Then I switched to lying on my back and screwing myself, rubbing my clit with the other hand. Oh my, it felt amazing. I tried a couple other positions, like lying on my belly, but it was hard to maneuver the dildo. I found that riding the dildo in such a way that it slid right along my clit was very enjoyable. I figure someday that could be accomplished in real life by having standing sex, facing my husband. But my go-to for a climax has been lying on my back, left leg bent, and pounding my cunt with the dildo as I deeply massage my clitoral hood. I softly whispered sweet nothings to my imaginary husband, as if we were having honeymoon sex. CreamyPatty, I think sometimes I should rename myself to Creamy Lady; I absolutely drench that dildo and my vulva and thighs in my cream. It's beautiful. Finally I came, my loins tensing as throbs of pleasure shot through me. It was so satiating. I often laugh gently afterwards, pretending my future husband is there and we just lay in amazement at how good we feel. Ah, well, it is very fun to dream and prepare!
Wow LLL! You are really stoking the flames for the time you find your lucky lover. Now, try not to fuck him to death on your honeymoon night! lol!
Ooohhhhh Lovely Sexy Lady (that's my new name for you.)
I was enjoying a lazy morning after my husband had left and was perusing the stories here as I often do well laying on my bed.
Wearing a light robe and a pair of panties as I began to read description my fingers travel over my own body holding the phone up in front of me my fingers traveled over my own breasts pinching and teasing my nipples then traveling down and doing the exact same thing you wrote about I fingertips tracing over the outlines of my clitoris and labia through the sheer nylon of my panties.
It wasn't long before I reached over into the nightstand and pull out
My dildo.
Laying him on my lips and tracing the head back and forth as I read it wasn't long before my tongue slipped out and my lips wrapped around the head.
I lubricated it then teased my nipples with it before running it over my clitoris and finally inside..
The picture you painted with your words was so vividly beautiful it inspired me. Thank you so much for writing.
Lady L. 💋
LLL,
My first wife and I were paired well regarding height.
So, if she needed some clitoral stimulation, sometimes we would stand naked, facing each other. The base of my dick was at about the same "altitude" as the top of her pubic mound. So, when it was between her full thighs, it gave enough upward pressure to give her good clitoral stimulation. That worked well for both of us, because the fullness of her thighs gave my dick the squeeze that it needs. Most of the time, that position was foreplay. But, a handful of times, we just fucked that way until satisfaction. So, you have the right idea.
PS: Try mounting your dildo on the arm of the couch and ride it that way. Let me know how that works for you. 😉
wow…
Love this topic CP since wifey will be home this afternoon from a weekend camping trip with our little one and a group of her friends. Just like you and Jim we are super horny 25/7. We are in our mid 40s so we get hornier w age lol which we never thought would happen.
This time before she left she sent a spicy video that she said I couldn't watch til yesterday and it got me jerking off on and off throughout the day (and as I type now lol). This morning I got a hot text from the shower after she freshly shaved her pussy and her telling me she just got done cumming thinking about tonight.
Also before they all left she snuck back home saying she forgot something. As our daughter went with her one friend…from the minute she walked in the door she looked extra fuckable and hot. She rarely wears her glasses but between glasses pigtails which never happens super tight leggings and a low cut tank top I wanted her.
She asked if I could help her w something she forgot and I said sure. She gave me a hug and a sexy kiss and said thanks babe follow me. We got into our bedroom and she shut the door with a huge mysterious smile. I asked her what she was up to ..she gave me a hug and started taking my shirt off….she whispered in my ear that what she forgot was she needed to be fucked super hard before she left since she has been so horny all day.
We made a home made video as well and needless to say after one of the hottest half hours we have ever had she went off w a smile on her face.
Tonight is going to be wild beyond wild.
Mmmmm, awesome, big guy! Send me the video! lol!
CP, you and Jim sound much like us, though In my profession travel is sporadic.
We both have a high sex drive and, on those occasions, when we’re apart, self-pleasure is necessary. Over the years I’ve explored ways and devices to satisfy my needs. Of course, like most men, I’ll often stroke my cock until I cum, but I have used masturbators, (hand’s free and not) as well. I also enjoy prostate stimulation and have a wand and a hand’s free device for that. Prostate orgasms are pretty intense and take a while to achieve, so you have to have some time set aside for that. Like you we have our calls and skypes so that self-pleasure can be shared (she’s exceptional at describing what she wants to “do to me.”
Where I do it? Mostly in the shower or naked on the bed, for me, being nude is an important component in masturbation, I think it represents a commitment to pleasuring the self, and a focus. My preference is to masturbate for her or at least the sound of her voice.
As for fantasies, usually sex in the outdoors (we have a lot of experience getting naked and fucking while hiking in the mountains) so, there are a lot of visuals to draw from that. I also have a FMF fantasy I’ve shared with her, involving another woman who watches us fuck and takes turns performing oral on both of us. That’s a go-to for me as well.
Getting your rocks off in the Rockies! Nice.. […]
You and Jim are welcome to come along some time!
Agree with all the above. Most of my prostate play is in a hotel room when I’ve got the time to set aside for it.
And outdoor sex, nothing better! It’s a favorite of ours and we go out of our way to do it often!
We rarely are apart. But our health issues get in the way sometimes. This can lead to a pause in sex for medical reasons.
Long time MH readers will know about Julia. When my wife Melody had to have major back surgery she bought me a vibrating stroker. Then the first time I slathered it up with coconut oil she named it Julia. Then Melody talked for Julia as I pumped my rod to orgasm.
When Melody started to recover she started orally stimulating my nipples as I “fucked” Julia. On our honeymoon we discovered that my nips we’re great erogenous zones so Melody had already been doing “her lips on my nips.” But doing that and using Julia was definitely upping the game.
Creamy Patty (I always loved your writing & your screen name) I am like you ‘n [Jim] but my wife is only that way sometimes. Yet we still have sex every 3 or so days. On off days I use Julia or my mano – usually with Melody stimming my nips. I’ve cum to realize that it’s great when Melody is totally wired from the start, yet it’s also fun to get her there by all the fun foreplay.
On the few times we have been apart for extended periods of time we used phone sex. I used my hand and Melody used her vibrator as we talked sexy to each other over the phone. Two different times I had major surgery 2000 miles from home with months in the hospital. Melody couldn’t stay the whole time so we used phone sex – when I had recovered enough. I had to do this in the shower when I had all the heart monitors off. I think the high heart rate from masturbating would have worried the nurses.
When sometimes Melody gets me started “fixing my problem” but we get interrupted by something- I will finish in the shower and use the shower to stimulate my nipples. Not as fun as my Melody’s mouth on my nipples but it still works.
We aren’t far away from each other but sometimes I fix my own problem at night when I can’t sleep. If I wake up Melody in the process she reaches over with a hand to stimulate my nipples.
Sorry about the long comment but I gotta add that reading MH stories helps jump start me. In fact, I really like reading my old stories and those memories are so intense when I read about what we’ve done in the past. I highly recommend keeping a sex journal because it helps you feel grateful for the sexual blessings you have had.
Love the journal idea, and I’ll bet you and Melody have several sexy chapters!
Wow LLL .such a hot comment. Got me extra hard first thing in the morning and I will need an extra long shower to take care of myself :).
You made a great point with the seasons. Both me and wifey find we are super horny in the spring.
Exercising in only a thong is super hot. I walked in on wifey doing that like 2 weeks ago and she was super horny and it made me want to strip down and join her. that was certainly a hot afternoon for us.
Loved your comment Giants05. Vanessa tends to get wet whenever she works out. I wonder what it is about exercising that seems to turn some women on.
Truth is, I found a thong to be difficult due to fabric slipping frequently into my crotch. Now I’ll either wear panties or nothing at all with a towel underneath.
For most of my working life, i was away from home more than I was home. Usually weeks at a time, but often months, so very early on, we had conversations about what we would do when we were apart. Turned out to be things we did together too! Masturbation is fun!
Over the years, we bought a lot of toys for her, but her favorite is still the good old Magic Wand! It has more OpKWh than all our other toys combined! (Orgasms per Killowatt-hour) 😉
I do know that she was masturbating while I was away, because there were many times I’d get to come home early and ahead of schedule, and caught her! Talk about exciting! First time I caught her, she had a bunch of our x-rated pictures spread out on the bed around her, and was buzzing herself and pulling on a nipple like a crazy person! When she noticed I was there, she wasn’t the only one in the room getting themselves off!
"Orgasms per kilowatt hour". ROFL!!
When I am away, I masturbate more often than at home. Hotels are either spicy with your spouse (hotel sex rocks) or it’s boring so I tend to rub my cock quite a bit more.
I have plenty of pictures of my wife nude or us having sex, so I use those a lot, but I also jack off to stories on here or some other sites.
When I have time (and a toy) working my prostate is a good time in a hotel, as it may take longer than a normal masturbation session.
Hotel masturbation is either decent, or insanely hot. On a few occasions I’ve heard or seen others fucking or masturbating and that’s always a really great time and obviously easy to enjoy!
“On a few occasions I’ve heard or seen others fucking or masturbating and that’s always a really great time and obviously easy to enjoy!”
Oh my, I need to hear the details 🥵
Thanks for the candid answer. Sweet that you enjoy your wife so much! Just think of her as you’re stroking that cock, that’s hot!
I like to lie down in the tub and let the shower water fall on myself. That usually does the trick! 😜
Tip: get a shower hose and work the jet streams on your fav spots. I’m able to get off while spraying my nipples or clit action…
Water is on my clit, my fingers enjoy taking care of my nipples while my mind imagines.
Hey there! I'm new here!
This is a perfect topic since my wife is 3 weeks postpartum, so she is still here but I've been so crazy horny throughout her whole pregnancy and even more now it seems!
At work I get to the point where I want her so bad I have to sneak off to the bathroom and take care of myself. Since I've found this sight I I've been using it to get off and imagining when me and my wife can hopefully recreate a few of them 😉 I also have some great pictures of my wife in the shower that help a ton!
For Christmas I bought myself my first toy, a vibrating and sucking masturbator, which has taken it to the next level for me.
It's definitely not as good as my wife but it helps so much in this season! The sucking definitely scratches that BJ itch!
I have a lot of fantasies lol but one of my go to ones is my wife is so horny that she grabs a dildo and puts in on our kitchen island and climbs on top of it and rides it like crazy and I come home and catch her in the middle of her riding it….There's more but I actually have a story written about it that I might share as my first story!
Welcome, MrSunny and may you have LOTS of horny sessions here in the future – and stay horny!
Please share the name of that vibrating toy you purchased. My wife has been wanting me to get one.
CreamyPatty,
It's interesting that you asked that question. A while back, I wrote a story about that very topic. It will be posted in a week or two. So, rather than spoil the surprise, I leave you with this "teaser" — I'm confident that you will really like it. It is rather detailed.
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LLL,
Your descriptions of masturbation and writing style* always give me an instant hard-on, even at 67 years old. (*You and I think a lot alike.) Now, I need to make it soft again…. 😉
I will look forward to your story, tO47 – and may you keep stroking […] in the meantime. Keep it hard […]
Great post CP!
Girl, I jilled off alot! Ben used to travel alot and would be gone for several days at a time. Needles to say I was one horny bitch by the time he got home. Alot of times he would call me late at night and have phone sex. I would send him naughty pics of tits and wet pussy, and he would send me pics of his dick all hard and delicious looking and we would cum together. It was so hot! When he would finally make it home we would fuck ourselves silly.
I truly miss those times and think about them often when I masturbate.. Sometimes I can't help but tear up and cry afterwards. I miss him so very much! Sorry, don't mean to be such a downer. Also sorry it took me so long to reply to this post. I've been busy moving into my new apartment since I have put the house for sell. Alot of memories there that I will take with me.
God bless you sweetie and stay horny!
Sweetie, I am soooo sorry for your loss! Rejoice in the fact that you two really had a wonderful life together, including a more eventful sex life than most.
Love you child.
hornyGG,
It's interesting that you use the term "fuck ourselves silly".
When I have a really good orgasm, afterwards I laugh. The better the orgasm, the harder and longer I laugh. (This does not happen when I masturbate; only during real sex.) Alas, I have not been laid in almost 15 years, and so I have a lot of laughter to catch up on.
Gina, I pray you remain a 'horny bitch' and that a lot of 'jilling' happens in your new apartment.
I try to find something to do, but if i cant, I'll masturbate, thinking of being with her in places we've never been. Sometimes, I'll think about her with another man.
Hot vision there, Tj – And your "another man" fantasy is very normal. Jim sometimes points out guys we encounter in public and ask "how''s about this guy as our third? Harmless fun!
Oh my CP we thought we invented that role play of hot guy/gal joining us later.
Oh, we did Margie! At least in our minds we did! […]
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Usually I read stories or listen to audio stories of other married women masturbating 💁🏻♀️ idk why but it alwaysss does the trick!
What I love to do is start edging in the morning in bed. Teasing my clit and tits. Thinking of my man's big thick cock. I don't cum. Then I will put my butt plug in and put on a thong and do some housework. I love being naked or mostly naked at home. My tits and ass jiggle and the feel of my ass filled keeps me wet and horny.
Great subject. I like to put a pair of lacy underwear on and masterbait looking at my wife’s sexy pictures. Occasionally I will use a male toy for extra pleasure but the feel of my cock in a nice pair of pants are amazing.