Favorite Positions? (L)

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(L) – This discussion contains strong language. 

I’m proud to say that as part of our sexual renewal after the kids moved out, Tom and I embarked on some experimentation with various sex positions. It was a little awkward at times, but mostly a lot of fun! While we didn’t quite check off all 64 in the Kama Sutra, here is a list of the 16 we tried, ranked from worst to first.

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16: Classic Doggie

As sexy as this can be for Tom, his cock is just too big. I know that seems odd to complain about, but sorry, it’s the wrong angle for me. We have never found the right one, so it ends up being more painful than pleasurable. I realize lots of ladies claim to like it best. To each her own. We could use some advice here. Maybe we are doing it wrong? 

15: Supine Doggie

In this one, I lay on my tummy, legs spread, bottom up. It’s a bit more comfortable than classic doggie. It simulates anal sex, in that even while doing PIV, it’s easy to imagine we’re having anal. Tom liked this position; I didn’t as much.

14: Standing Doggie

This was the easiest of the doggie-style variations for me, but we still couldn’t do deep thrusting. We have a couch that’s just about right for me to stand next to and bend over. It’s a very sexy position to watch ourselves in a mirror, especially with the nice boob sway I had going on. It was great for dirty talk too.

13: Side Spooning

A good position for relaxed, sleepy sex. A good starter position too. Tom can reach my clit and nipples. He gets hard quickly with his cock pressed against me from behind. But it’s a weird angle for deep penetration.

12: There should be a name for this

Me on my back, legs over Tom’s lower torso, with him lying on his left side. It was good for “shallowing” (very shallow penetration), manual stimulation of my clit (with his hand or mine) or toy play. Tom doesn’t come in this position, but it’s quite pleasurable for me. We can have enjoyable conversation. It’s a lot of fun for longer lovemaking sessions.

11: Reverse Cowgirl

Tom likes it. So did I, a long time ago when I had a nice firm ass. It’s a great position for fantasies, as you aren’t looking at your husband. But I’m now a bit too self conscious to put it in our top 10.

10: Cowgirl Squat

We tried it a few times before my knees wore out. It was very sexy for Tom, since it was easy for him to watch my pussy sliding up and down on his cock. It definitely makes him cum, but it’s lots of work for me.

9: Seated Lotus

We tested out this position on our dining room chairs. Not recommended for antiques! It’s sort of a lap dance, plus deep penetration.

8: Reverse Lotus

We did this one with Tom seated on couch. It was great making love while also watching “Murder She Wrote” on TV. Plus I get my back scratched, which in the winter time feels wonderful! 

7: Legs-Together Missionary

This one increases clit contact. It requires lube or a lot of warm up. It helped if Tom stayed in a pushup position, but that modification may be more difficult for men over 60 with heart issues.

6: Classic Cowgirl

This is Tom’s favorite on the list, and it used to be mine too. It’s easy to make yourself cum by grinding your clit or by self stimulation. I’m a bit too self conscious now to enjoy it as fully as I once did, but Tom swears I still look sexy on top of him. He’s a sweetheart.

5: Missionary (Man Kneeling)

One of the best positions! If I prop myself up on my elbows or use a big pillow, I can watch Tom’s cock sliding in and out of my pussy. Tom can tease my clit and pussy with the head of his cock. It is also a nice position for getting stimulation from both a toy and his cock at the same time, which can be very intense. Tom enjoys my hands lightly grazing his shaft while he is fucking me. I also get a full view of Tom, his face, his chest and arms. We can watch each other cum, and he can pull out and cum on me, which is a huge turn on for me. If I’m really turned on, I can gush or squirt easiest in this position.

4: Variations of my legs pulled way back

Sometimes called “happy baby”. It’s is great for second helpings. In my younger days as a former college cheerleader, I was still flexible enough to get my knees all the way to my shoulders. This feels very exposed, and is excellent for deep penetration. Both our children were conceived by way of this position. It can be a bit uncomfortable if Tom thrusts too hard, but he knows this and takes it slow. I read that this is good for G spot orgasms, if I had one. I’m still not entirely persuaded of this.

3: Missionary (Shallowing)

With him barely inside, the passion at a slow burn, this variation is amazing. Sometimes we don’t even move. Tom makes me beg for his cock. I love his smile when I cum this way.

2: Missionary (Full Body Contact)

I love feeling Tom’s body weight pressing down on me. It isn’t painful or suffocating; instead, it makes me feel possessed, protected, desired. We are so close, face to face, chest to chest. I wrap him up like a blanket. I whisper in his ear, sometimes too loud, “just fuck me baby.” There is nothing like it in the world.

1: Missionary (CAT – Coital Alignment Technique)

Not too sexy a label, I agree. But it gets me off. The key is for Tom to shift forward and up, so his penis is inside but his pubic bone structure is pressed against my vulva, with his cock pointing in a slightly downward angle. This way, the base of his cock rubs against my clit. It is more of a grinding than an in and out motion. It helps if he is positioned up a bit, with his elbows over my shoulders, or holding himself in a downward dog yoga position. We call this the “right there” position, as in “You are right on it babe. Don’t stop.” It causes leg shaking orgasms!

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Ok, that’s our list. What’s yours? We would love to know. Please share!

Love, Ann and Tom