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Masturbation in Marriage -Let’s Masturbate Baby! (L)

Masturbation in Marriage – The fellowship supper at the church went really well as about 175 people attended. It was a true blessing with good food, good friends and good old fashioned gospel music to go along with it. Everyone from my family was there. Ben, Randy, Kristie, Alicia, her boyfriend Kevin and myself.

It was around 10:30 or so before we got everything cleaned up and squared away, so we could leave. Ben and I left in our car, while Kristie took Randy to get ice cream.

“Why don’t you scoot over here next to me,” Ben said as he started his truck.

“Sure!” I replied as I moved to the middle of the seat next to him. I patted his thigh and we kissed.

“I love you!” I said softly.

“I love you too, baby!” he said.

We were almost home when he said, “Touch me, baby!” He then took my hand and placed it on his crotch and upper thigh. I could feel his bulge, his dick rested down his right pants leg. I smiled as I gave it a gentle squeeze.

We pulled into the driveway. After turning the truck off Ben leaned and kissed me very passionately. “Wanna have some fun tonight, baby?” he said in a soft tone.

“Sure!” I replied, then we kissed again. Just as were walking to the door Kristie and Randy drove up. They were both eating ice cream as they walked up to us. Ben unlocked the front door and we all walked in.

“Mom, can I spend the night at Kristie’s?” Randy asked as he finished his ice cream.

I thought for a moment then said, “I don’t care if Kristie doesn’t mind. But you still have to ask your dad!”

“I don’t mind! But you mind your sister bud!” Ben said as he fixed him a glass of tea.

“It’s fine with me mom, I was the one who asked him. A bunch of us are getting together tonight for a scary movie marathon. I know how he loves scary movies!” Kristie said.

“Well, okay. Go get some clothes,” I said as I took my earrings out of my ears. “Oh and get some underwear! I’m sure your sister doesn’t want you running around naked in her apartment!” I exclaimed.

“Yes ma’am!” Randy replied.

“Well, I’m gonna go take my shower and go to bed!” Ben said as he hugged Kristie and Randy. “Love you two! Behave yourselves!” he said as he left for our room.

“Night daddy! I love yo too!” Kristie replied.

“Well, you ready Randy?” Kristie asked as she picked up her purse.

“Ok, you two be careful! Love you!” I said giving them both a hug and a kiss.

“We will, Mom, love you too! ” Kristie said as they walked out the door.

I shut the door and locked it behind them. I picked up a few things, poured myself a small glass of wine, clicked off the lights and headed to our bedroom. Ben was just getting out of the shower and was drying off when I walked in. He had this big grin on his face as he watched me undress.

My gaze drifted down to his crotch. His long, meaty dick hung over his balls harmlessly. I knew it wouldn’t stay that way for long. Once I was nude, I walked over to him and kissed him. I grasped his dick with my right hand and gave it a gentle tug and whispered teasingly, “I’m gonna fuck your balls off!” then I started my bath.

I eased into the tub, the hot water seemed to drain the fatigue and soreness from my body. I laid back and closed my eyes and soaked. It felt so good!  I soaked for about 15 minutes, then shaved my legs and underarms. I got out of the tub and dried myself.

I brushed my hair, brushed my teeth, and dabbed on a small amount of perfume. I then walked into the bedroom. Ben was in bed, his dick was semi erect . He was flicking channels on the TV when he saw me and grinned.

“Well, it’s about time! I was about ready to just jerk off!” he laughed.

I walked to the bed and crawled in next to him.  “Well, would that have been such a bad thing? It would have been so hot to walk in and see you stroking your cock!” I replied, then took his dick in my hand and massaged it until it was fully erect.

“Let’s do that tonight!” I said, then got out of bed and retrieved the KY from the bathroom.

“Do what tonight? Come on, baby, I’m hard enough to hammer nails! I want some pussy!” He exclaimed.

I got back in bed and said, ” Let’s masturbate together! We haven’t done it in a while. Besides, you know when we do it you always get some pussy. It makes me so wet!” I said.

” Okay, I guess. You’re right, and it is fun,” he replied.

“Hold out your hand!” I said, then squirted about a quarter size dollop into his right palm.

“When was the last time you jacked off?” I asked, as I watched him take his dick into his hand and lube it up.

“I don’t know, a couple days ago I guess,” he said as he began to slowly stroke himself.

I opened my legs and began to touch my pussy. I ran my hand over it, then slipped in a couple fingers. I continued to touch myself as I watched him stroke his long hard dick.

“Where did you do it?” I asked as I worked my fingers in and out of my now wet pussy.

“The shower!” Ben said, establishing a good steady slow stroking rhythm.

“Should have figured! Guess all guys beat off in the shower. My pussy is so wet, baby!” I exclaimed as I touched myself.

“When did you do it last?” Ben asked, as he moved his left hand to his nuts as he jacked himself.

“Yesterday afternoon on the sofa. Oh, it feels good, baby!” I panted, as I moved my fingers to my clit and began rubbing it.

“Baby, you look so sexy when you’re horny!” Ben said as he increased the speed of his strokes.



“THAT’S OK, BABY, CUM! CUM FOR ME! I’M ALMOST THERE TOO, BABY! ‘ I panted, I could feel my orgasm slowly building inside me.

“BABY, I’M GONNA CUMMMMMM!” Ben bellowed as stream after stream of his cum shot from his dick, landing on his stomach, hand and pubic hair.

“OOOOH! OOOOH, BABY! I’M GONNA CUM TOO! AHHHHH! OHHHHH!” I squealed as my body spasmed from my orgasm.

We kissed, then lay side by side holding hands basking in loves warm glow.

Ben, my love! I love you so much! Words cannot describe it well enough! Let’s “have fun” again real soon!                                Your loving wife, Gina.

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25 replies
  1. Steve says:

    Just wanted to let you know what a blessing these stories are to me. My wife Ann and I will celebrating our 26th wedding anniversery this August. We have two grown boys 24 and 21, well I guess men now, but they will always be our boys. I have told her about your stories with you and your husband. She now wants to read them together. Our marriage just keeps getting better and better. I believe this website will continue grow us closer and closer together. Who knows since my wife has her english degree maybe she might even share some of our stories 🙂
    Many, many blessings to you and your family!!!!!

    • Gina G. says:

      Thank you so much for the nice comment! I am so happy you have enjoyed my stories. I am so glad your wife wants to read them with you. I would love to read some of your stories. I have 2 grown daughters so I know what you mean. God Bless you and your family!

    • Fetishhubby says:

      God Bless you and yours my wife and I habeen married almost 20 yrs she just recently agreed to read this tonight might be more fun than we have had IN a L O N G TIME?

  2. Strawberry says:

    My husband and I were suffering from sensory overload from relatives visiting, I read your story and said to my husband. Let’s masturbate. I actually came first. I invited him to enter me. Moments later were were asleep contented. Do you ever masturbate to sleep better?

    • Gina G. says:

      Thanks for the comment Strawberry. The answer to your question is yes, I quite often masturbate to sleep better. God Bless and stay horny!

    • mary says:

      I’m glad we aren’t alone. We do it together and apart and it is awesome. Sometimes you need to be able to seek release alone to give your partner what he or she needs. And watching expert pretty much always leads to super hot sex. I love when he cums on me, as does he. I’ll get on my knees and bend over, so he can get a full view of all I have to offer, and he cums all over my holes. It’s so erotic. Love married sex.

  3. jezuz11 says:

    We have 5 kids (0-12) so we are often just too tired to get into a major romp at night. In this season, masturbation is our favorite sex activity. It’s hot, it’s intimate, it’s faster, and it’s cleaner. I know some think that nothing is as good as PIV sex. To us, not true. We have fantastic orgasms when we masturbate. And we can usually cum together. It’s beautiful and erotic. The sight of my wife jilling off is heavenly! I’m so glad my wife doesn’t have hang ups about touching herself! It’s been a marriage builder!

    • Gina G. says:

      Thank you jezuz 11! I totally agree! Thanks for the comment. God Bless and happy masturbating!

  4. Northwest Guy says:

    I enjoy your stories, but they would be much better without the crude language. I guess that I don’t understand the F word. How can it be the most vile thing that you can say to someone and still be sexy and sweet? I’m conservative enough to think that this type of language should not be on a Christian site. I do love the site! Keep the stories coming!

    • Gina G. says:

      Thank you for your comment! I respect your view. However , let me say that what you call ” Crude” language is simply the way Ben and I talk during sex. It adds spice to our sex life. I am a Christian as is my husband. I do not recall it mentioning anything in the Bible saying it is wrong to use the “F” word or any other Sexual term. We use these words only during our lovemaking. If I am to post stories about our sex life, then ” dirty talk” will be included or it would not be a true representation of our sex life. It would be like lying and that is a sin. God Bless You!

    • Blondie says:

      I agree with you, Gina. I avoid using the “F” word outside of my sexual life too. Stay true to your stories! There are many other stories on here with couples who don’t use the “F” word as well as couples who do. It is personal preference what words couples use. After all, we use the word “pussy”, “dick”, “cock”, and other words on this site that we would find offensive and innapropriate outside of our sex lives. I hold no judgement if a couple is uncomfortable using the word in their own life. I respect where you are coming from Northwest and we wouldn’t allow stories that take the Lord’s name in vain on this site, but the “F” word is used in context in the stories we allow on this site and not as a means to curse anyone.

    • Romantica says:

      I agree. The vulgar prose in some of the stories makes this seem like a porn site. Some are into that, but I prefer the stories that work around that, more of an erotic romance. Just my humble opinion.

    • Gina G. says:

      Romantica, thank you for your comment. Let say that it is not my intent to make Marriage Heat resemble a porn site. Like I stated above, I try to write a true representation of our sex life. “Dirty talk” is a part of my sex life. I do not use such language except during sex. It is not my intension to offend anyone. If I were to tone it down or “sugar coat” it, then it might as well be about ” Harry and Jane” cause it wouldn’t feel real to me.

      I will see if I can request MH put an “L” by my stories for language. I will just as soon stop posting than change my stories or the way I write them.

      God Bless you and your family!

  5. CHW says:

    Do you ever worry that Masturbation will take away from the Marriage sex experience? You will love masturbating more that the together experience? Have you every confronting something like that that we should be aware of?

  6. Gina G. says:

    CHW thanks for your comment and question. To answer your question let me say that Ben and I are deeply in love, have been for almost 30 years. There is nothing that will ever take the place of being close to him or making love with him.
    We both enjoy masturbation, it is a part of our sex life that we enjoy together as well as when we are apart. We are both comfortable in our relationship and our love is strong. I hope this answers your question.
    God Bless and stay horny !

  7. SultrySoulful says:

    Hello Gina,

    I’m a pastor for 34 years now. I respect the holiness of God. I believe the freedom you and your husband find in Christ within your marriage gives you the freedom to use so called “dirty” language as you find it acceptable and arousing. Some of us as couples find it pleasing and some do not. God doesn’t wire us all the same. What you share isn’t displeasing to God. Your unselfconsciousness is like Adam and Eve playing in the garden before the fall.

    Actually, that sounds a little clinical, theologically. Let me say that my wife and I are not unlike you and your husband. Sometimes I’ll stroke myself as I await my beloved in bed in the sweet anticipatory moments before we engage. She is like you, she gets off on seeing my swollen cock with me stroking like a horny teenager. It makes us feel young, as we didn’t meet till more recently in life. Like you guys, we find boldness very hot. She will match my daring by opening her sweet thighs to give me a view of her tender pussy, as her lips swell until her flower is in full bloom, dripping with desire. She works circles round her clitty, panting like she is in heat. We are unafraid together. We like to jack and jill off together at any moment within our course of lovemaking. Sometimes we use it as exclamation point as we get ready to come. It becomes a game where I will deliver my seed. I tell her I want to ice her body like a cinnamon bun. I put her on all fours so I can view her exposed girly secret and tell her what it does to me. I deliver on her beautiful curvy derriere, in her eager ruby pursed lips, or her favorite–spilling all over her tits as she gets to view it. As I approach my culmination, I charge her to work her sweet gash of nature. I tell her how superhumanly hard her daring makes me, and she comes, sometimes as many as 6 or 7 times, as I brace myself for my launch. I share this to embolden you in your sensual daring, to encourage you in your honesty.Frankly, we can be even more explicit in our language than this website can abide. But I share that not to judge this site or any here who object. I share it because such honesty about our desire brings us closer to one another, and closer to our Maker. Do you and your husband ever talk about your stream of consciousness in your arousal as you masturbate apart from one another? Sharing fantasies is a growth industry in our marriage, lol.. All the best and blessings.

    • Gina G. says:

      SultrySoulful, thank you so much for the kind words of encouragement. It truly means a lot.

      Ben and I often share our fantasies we use when we are apart and masturbating. I agree that when we masturbate together, it brings us closer together.

      I also do not believe the good Lord holds our ” dirty ” talk against us.

      I enjoyed ready about you and your wife’s experiences concerning masturbating together. I loved the ” cinnamon bun ” reference. I love for Ben to cum on me.

      I don’t know if you and your wife are into oral sex. If so here is something Ben and I enjoy that you two may want to try. The next time ya’ll are masturbating together, tell her when you are about to cum and ask her to let you cum in her mouth. Ben loves me to do this.

      Thanks again and God bless the both of you!

  8. Rock says:

    This is a beautiful and very useful story. What makes your stories so great is your use of so much erotic (dirty as some calls them – though there nothing dirty with a Christian marriage). For the 35 years of married life we use them. It surely turns us on. Keep it up stay horny. God bless

  9. Old Lover says:

    There nothing more freeing and erotic in our long marriage than to invite each other to masturbate. We love masturbating! Watching each other pleasure ourselves, listen to each other softly moan, and enjoying hearing each other scream and shout with pleasure as we cum hard. For us, masturbation has built a bond of deep intimacy and erotic love. If either of us walks in on each other in the throes of playing with ourselves – me and my cock and my Anne and her clit and nipples – we quietly let each other finish, touch or cuddle to provide encouragement, or offer a helping hand. We always relish in the pleasureable experience that we get from cumming good and/or watching and hearing a good cumming. Thanks for this wonderful story of the freedom to self-pleasure in the presence of one's beloved!

  10. Tanya says:

    Absolutely! I just LUV IT when my hubby masturbates for / with me! It's just so damn sexy & so very, very erotic to watch one another! I get him going by taking him in my mouth & stroking him nice & slow ,after awhile of teasing him I reach over & grab his hand & place on his cock & whisper that I want to watch him masturbate for me. I just LUV watching how he teases his beautiful waxed smooth manhood & then my silky smooth little kitty begins purring away & she's just begging for me to play with her! He'll start out very, very slowly by gently running his fingers along his beautiful erect shaft starting with his silky smooth balls, and up the entire length his gorgeous cock & while he's doing this I can see his manhood just throbbing more & more with each gentle teasing caress along the underside of his hard cock. Then his gorgeous cock will begin jump up off his groin all on it's own like it's alive to meet his hand & by this time my eyes are just fixated on that beautiful long cock of his & I am just entranced & hypnotized with pure amazement by this very sexy, erotic movements of his throbbing erection. By this time now my fingers are giving my pretty little smooth kitty a good rubbing over as I am becoming very turned on & soaking wet with anticipation. I then begin to see his sweet clear pre cum is beginning to slowly ooze out of the tip of his cock so, I take my finger & gently begin to make a circular motion on the head of his luscious cock & he starts to grip himself tighter & he continues very slowly to stroke it to squeeze out the sweet love nectar of his for me, that I yearn so badly for & longing to taste. So I take his head into my mouth to taste his sweet nectar as he continues to squeeze his love out for me. After repeating this a several times all the while of course I'm still playing my silky smooth kitty, then he reaches over to grab my working hand & brings it close to his mouth, then he will very gently lick and suck on my wet fingers to taste my sweet love cream that he loves so much as well! This literally makes me cum again even more intensely & nearly gives me an orgasm just from this alone! But, I have to wait until we can both get off together, after several minutes of slowly savoring the taste of each other we both begin again to get ourselves off & he starts picking up the pace of stroking that long beautiful shaft of his for me & by now I am frantically giving my kitty a good rubbing, faster & harder we both are going at it now & we both are echoing out soft moans of pleasure as were both fixated on watching one another. Then he's tells me he's about to cum and then just shortly later he erupts with all that beautiful hot pearly white cream onto my breast's & body.It so hot & feels so warm & good when he doe's this just for me & when I see it erupting out like a volcano it takes me right over the edge to shear pleasure with wave after wave of an awesome orgasms!
    I have to recommend trying this to all the ladies out there, you definitely need to seduce your man into masturbating for or with you sometime at least once! I mean we all pretty have masturbated at some point in our lives why not simply be honest with one another & try doing it together occasionally? I think most ladies will truly end up just LOVING IT! Just a very sexually happy married couple of waxed smoothies. 😉

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