The Power of the Tongue

Allow me to share this verse from Proverbs 18:21. “Death and life are in the power of the TONGUE, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”

Let us look at how this Scripture can be applied in our marriage and in our bedrooms.

When I used to read this Scripture I always focused on the “death” part of it. But then I started understanding how much “LIFE” we can create with our words and tongue. I have heard so many sermons about the damage that words can do. But very seldom have I heard the wonderful things that our words can do to bring life and joy and pleasure. Words can bring so much healing and restoration.

You can speak life into your marriage by the way you use words to excite and encourage yourself and your spouse. You can use words to bless, to love and to build up. Your words can be a mighty weapon to protect your marriage. Yes! I said PROTECT. Words of love, encouragement, acceptance and security can build a wall around you and your spouse. A wall that will be a hedge against attacks from the enemy.

It is also important to keep in mind that when you do not respond to your lover’s words it can create a vacuum. An empty space where hurt and rejection can grow. This can be the “Death” part of the tongue.

We should use our words to create love and security and sexual excitement. Doing that, you will bring new life into your bedroom. What we say can be so sensual. My wife can whisper something in my ear at the right moment and those two or three words can turn me into a sexual giant. She can turn me on with just a few words. “Wanna make love?” “Lick me!” or “Come eat me!” Through her words, she speaks life into our intimate times.

Song of Solomon 2:3 – “Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, So is my beloved among the young men. In his shade I took great delight and sat down. And his fruit was sweet to my taste……..”

I want to take this a bit further. There is tremendous power to give your spouse pleasure with your tongue and mouth. Just think about all the things you can do with your lips, teeth and tongue. “And those who love it will eat its fruit.” Let us eat the fruit. Let us enjoy giving and receiving oral love.

This is NOT just talking about genital love. It is also kissing, licking and tender biting. But it is also definitely the things we say and the sounds we make that would turn ourselves and our spouses on. We help create the most exquisite times of lovemaking, sensuality, desire and “spousal lust” by the things we say.

Now go and enjoy yourself.

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4 replies
  1. ClimaXX says:

    Tx The Rose. I believe our tongues should get more involved in our marriages. We should TALK MORE about our likes, dislikes, wants and desires. AND…. we should get those tongues busy making our spouses happy and fulfilled.

  2. YumYum says:

    My fingers, lips, tongue, mouth & also my throat were meant to give pleasure to my husband & his were meant to give pleasure to me. I pleasure my husband with all I have & take all he gives me. The honey from my pussy is his to enjoy & the cum from his cock is mine. I love that he likes to finish in my mouth. I love that I have a husband that feeds me his cock & gives me his cum. I love that he devours my pussy and sucks me till I beg him to stop. He never stops till I get off. He sometimes has me lie back & sucks & fingers me till my cunt quivers & sometimes my industrial strength wand vibrator comes into play. He likes to watch my pussy lips pulse when I orgasm & sucks me softly to calm me. Wow

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