Discovery

My wife and I have been married 15 years. and she’s the most beautiful woman in the world to me. Kind-hearted, gentle soul, loves Jesus, servant heart.

We’ve discovered something that she is aroused by recently and our sex life has taken off. She’s becoming so wet from how aroused she is, and that’s turning me on even more. We’re kissing so much throughout the day and sending each other sexts. It’s something we’re sharing together, and is so fun.

I feel like as a husband I’m more attentive to her and more attentive to the spiritual consistency in our house. It’s amazing.

We’ve always had a loving home. But this is new. It’s the constant kissing or love taps, sexy messages, looking forward to and craving each other. It’s so fun. We feel like newlyweds again with 15 years of experience.

Are there any other couples who’ve gone through something similar? I’d be curious to hear your story and perspective. I’m not sure if I’m different than most guys. Although my wife is always willing, I discovered something after reading and studying Song of Solomon (in fact one of the books from this site helped a lot). I find that I crave my wife seeking and ravishing me. And knowing that she wants me too, makes our intimacy stronger than ever.

I felt isolated a lot over the years. There was never any sexy communication between us or any indication that she was seeking me as a lover. Now she will come to bed in anything I recommend and would do that a lot. For me, I felt something was missing. It was sexual communication of some sort. After studying Song of Solomon, I realized I crave that sexual communication that is God’s design.

Throughout the day, and sometimes at set times, we would have a date and talk about sex. When we started doing that we discovered ourselves as the individuals we fell in love with again. Not just the Mom, Dad or husband or wife going through the daily motions. We became lovers again. Seeking what we enjoy together. Sex was no longer just a chore to get done to help with temptation. We became actual lovers enjoying and seeking each other’s love.

I love my wife! I’m so thankful for the Lord being a part of our journey everyday. He loves us unconditionally even when we don’t deserve his love or grace.

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5 replies
  1. SecondMarge says:

    Song of Songs as many prefer to call it is indeed beautiful poetry of his lust for her. Many are bothered by Solomon being roughly 33 recruiting a virgin about 1/3 his age to join his harem.

    Solomon 6

    8 There are threescore queens, and fourscore concubines, and virgins without number.

    9 My dove, my undefiled is but one; she is the only one of her mother, she is the choice one of her that bare her. The daughters saw her, and blessed her; yea, the queens and the concubines, and they praised her.

    Yes he already had 60 wives and 80 concubines at the time he wrote these versus. According to some Jewish records he wrote 1005 only exceeded by the number of girls he deflowered.

    It was good of him to get the approval of his other wives before adding her to the group.

    Not sure I would take my hair as goat-like and teeth like sheep as particularly flattering. But those were different times.

    But it is an approval of lust in marriage, even if she is his 61st wife. Plus he indicates she is the pick of the litter. The only of her mothers daughters he defiled.

    [MH: We disagree that he defiled her since, as you say, he's marrying her.]

  2. JohnClancy says:

    "We’ve discovered something that she is aroused by recently"

    What was it?

    "Are there any other couples who’ve gone through something similar? I’d be curious to hear your story and perspective."

    Yes, we have.

    • CrazyHappyLoved says:

      I waited to see if the OP would confirm, but I think he was referring to the new openness about discussing sex as the new "thing" that is arousing to his wife and him.

  3. Fiftyfitfidelity says:

    Alas, for us it's been a struggle in this regard. We haven't found the rhythm and reason for such displays and truthfully our jobs make it difficult to digitize our bodies or say things sexually over texts. It is something we need to work on this summer.

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