Tips for Oral on Him

I like to think of myself as somewhat of an expert cock-sucker. Today, I’ll share with you all some of the ways I indulge my husband with oral sex. Maybe it will spark some ideas for those married couples who love to blow, suck and swallow—or those who’d like to.

Early on, I gave Greg just straight blow jobs. The first time, he was taken aback when I engulfed his penis with my mouth while he lay on his back, but my subsequent up and down movements drove him wild. He didn’t resist one bit, and as I went faster, he moaned with ecstasy till he shot a heavy load. Because of how he lay, a lot of sperm drooled back down, but I licked him clean.

Later, we tried another way that he enjoyed tremendously. I had him stand up, pulled down his pants, and went to my knees. Then he put his back against the wall as I swallowed his cock whole, my head providing all the movement. I mixed up the pace and activity to extend his pleasure, stopping now and then to suck the head, stroke the sides with my tongue, or lick his balls. He gripped my head and enjoyed the extras.

These two variations served us well for a time. When the moment of no return came, we would take one of two courses: Either I’d open my mouth wide to accept his cum, or he would grip my head and penetrate his deepest to shoot it all inside. Both were equally fun for us.

After a while, we added something new. Similar to the standing style, he would sit on the edge of the bed, a chair, or the couch so that his cock protruded. I would get on my knees and bend slightly forward to align my mouth and gulp it down. As he was seated, his movement was limited, so I mostly used the “extraction method.” With my lips tightened around the head of his cock, I would suck hard. This was very exciting for him, and ejaculation would almost always come within 30 seconds. I’d suck him dry and swallow up all the semen. In time, we would do these “quickies” in cars or dressing rooms, and a few thrusts would fill me up.

When we are at our leisure, I use more elaborate ways to pamper him. For one, he lies sideways on the edge of the bed, his back supported by pillows. This gives me clear access to his cock as I kneel by the bed. He slides back and forth into my face, like simulated sex—very intense.

In time, we tried the “overhead.” I would lie naked on my back while Greg knelt over my face, lowered his cock into my mouth, and used it like a cunt. This sent shockwaves through me; the harder he pushed, the more I loved it. Finally, we would end in a facial or a deep-throat ejaculation. Wow! I can’t describe the feeling.

But the ultimate? I hang my head over the edge of the bed and rest it on a stool. There are two variants. The first is very similar to the last position I described: Greg stands at my head and faces my feet, penetrating deeply. I enjoy the feeling of total submission to him and letting him enjoy me this way. The position often leads to deep throating, and many times slime will slide down from my throat.

For the second variation, he backs up over my face and basically sits on my mouth with his penis inside. It doesn’t allow for deep penetration, but I have the option of sucking this way.

On culmination of one of these oral treats, he might ejaculate anywhere. But I preferred full facials, even his lovely sperm in my hair and, if he’s facing the right way, all over my breasts.

Those are all the tips I have for now, but please don’t think because I only focused on giving in this post that Greg in any way neglects my pleasure. I treat my husband to frequent oral sex because I love him, and he does the same and more for me, as I’m sure you can gather from my other stories. That’s all for now; I’ll write with tips on other subjects soon.

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14 replies
  1. hornyGG says:

    Awesome post Suzyzz! I love sucking my husband's cock! Most of the positions you mentioned we have tried and enjoyed. Thanks for sharing your love of cocksucking and please write more! Stay horny dear and God bless!

  2. 1blessedman says:

    Awesome! The big elephant in the room in most churches is sex. I am a proponent of churches having young married couples' classes to teach Biblical truths about sex and sexuality. Not the usual denominational avoidance classes! I am talking about real classes that teach God's truths in their individual contexts while refraining from denominational, doctrinal, single passage proof-texting that usually lumps everything "sex" under one "sexual immorality" umbrella and hides the truth. Also, part of those classes can be such teachings as Suzyzz has offered. Those more intimate of discussions can be for those who would choose to talk about such in a forum that requires a devotion of, "What is discussed in this class stays in this class". I realize that exploration of sexuality by two married people and the years of learning "as-you-go", can be, and is rewarding. However, for those not desiring to try and reinvent the wheel or those who really are not blessed by the grandest of intuitions, these classes could be very helpful and relieve much stressors that surround sexual prowess; or shall we say, sexual clumsiness. I think performance anxiety could be mostly avoided and special bonds that have enduring qualities created!

    Now…..who dares ask the pastor or elders if they can use a classroom on Thursdays for such a class?………….

    • LovingMan says:

      I gotta comment on this comment… YES we need to have classes or at least books to teach married couples how to make love to each other. There are many women who never or rarely have orgasms because the couple lacks knowledge and skills. Since many marriages break up due to sex problems, should churches (who should value stable marriages) help educate married couples in sexual matters from a monogamous Christian perspective? I think they should.
      Books are also helpful. We read one before marrying called “The Act Of Marriage.” After we were married we got just a few books on sexual positions and techniques and that also helped. The problem is that so many books on sex embrace non-monogamy etc. We found a couple of Christian based or monogamy based sex books that we’ve read together in just the last few years and they also improved our mutual live life. . . (& we’ve been married almost 30 years). You are never too old to learn!

    • MarriageHeat says:

      LovingMan, would you consider an advice post recommending some of your more recent favorites and telling a little bit about what resonated with you for each one? Book reviews have been requested as a lot of us want to increase the sexual intimacy of our marriages.

    • Cuddles says:

      @ 1blessedman
      "Now…..who dares ask the pastor or elders if they can use a classroom on Thursdays for such a class?………"

      Me! I have! And it's not the only bombshell I've dropped on him either lol!

      Over the course of several cappuccinos (public, of course 😁) I've told him about my sexual awakening at age 68, my lightning-speed sex education at the hand of MH, that I consider the MH community to be my "other" church seeing as I've yet to encounter another sex-positive person at all let alone at church, and that I wish to specifically teach younger women how to love their husbands according to Titus 2:3-5. And, as the saying goes, "in for a penny in for a pound", I sent him the link to MH. Oh, I gave him a gentle warning that it may be a shock to his system lol 😇

      My transformation to sex-positive blew him away! He said that he had wondered if it was possible as a result of prayer (he has been teaching us to strongly pray in tongues every day so that we change from the inside, we are Pentecostal), but hadn't yet heard of it. Until me that is. His reaction was excitement, laughter of incredulous joy, and wanting to know more about how it happened.

      So now my Pastor is stuck with a sex-positive great-grandma just itching to spread the Godly word haha! He's OK with it but we have yet to discuss any details. Hmmm, looks like I MAY HAFTA fess up to my toy box lol.

      Anyhow, when I spoke about my desire to teach I proffered that it would be correct for me to be respectfully married which would go to credibility. He agreed. BTW he knows about my new man who's on his way to me. He's sitting on the fence about that one but he's not an unbeliever at the same time. Which leads me to wondering…

      Do I actually need to be married to be qualified according to Titus? It doesn't specifically say so does it?

      What do you think?

      Cuddles xxxx

  3. 1blessedman says:

    I wanted to tell this short story but not in the other comment since the subject matter is different.

    My wife worked with a lady one time who gave her husband a bj in the shower! Her husband passed out, fell out of the shower and was hurt! When I told this story at my place of work, the OR, my co-workers wanted to know exactly what the guy's wife had done to cause him to pass out!…..LOL….No one asked if the hubbie was alright…..LOL

  4. LovingMan says:

    Lots of interesting ideas. Our take on oral might be helpful to readers as well:
    We usually do oral in the shower or in the bathroom with me standing and my wife sitting. My wife wraps her hand around 1/2 my shaft and takes the other half of my erection into her mouth. She pumps the shaft as she also pumps her head forward and back. I will rock forward or I guess gently thrust into her mouth as she is pumping and engulfing me. Sometimes she’ll hold onto my hips with both of her hands to pull me deep into her mouth. She does tongue swirls around my glans and other creative moves too. For instance, she has licked the very sensitive underside of my glans like it was an ice cream cone.

  5. Tulsa says:

    As a guy, I love the visual part, and that, to me, is what makes a BJ so fantastic!
    I remember watching, and then cumming in my wife's mouth for the first time…..STILL! I also remember when she thought I was done, and pulled away, only to watch me throw out one more squirt on the head of my cock. She went back down to lick it up, and as she did, all that cum already in her mouth came drooling out down my cock and balls. She kept slurping a while, and I stayed hard as a rock. It was so exciting, I came again!

    That's what I'm talking about!! 🙂
    BJ's….love 'em!!

  6. TLC2383 says:

    We have also done many of those positions but you mentioned a couple I would like to try. My wife won't swallow, but like you she is open to and will happily receive a full facial. I absolutely love that she is willing to that for me, and I make sure to return the favor.

  7. Cuddles says:

    Brilliant post Suzyzz! Thank you for spelling it out for us. A lot of us need practical advice and you certainly gave it!

    I plan to use your post, along with some others, for teaching younger women about loving their husbands (Titus 2:3-5). It is in my favourites 😊

    Cuddles xxxx

  8. SamtheMan says:

    Thanks for sharing this story. It's exciting to think that there are actually women who enjoy giving blow jobs to their husbands. Your husband is blessed beyond measure!

  9. YumYum says:

    I've always loved sucking my husbands cock. I sucked his cock the first night we were together & I've loved sucking him all these years we've been married. He lets me suck him off whenever & wherever I want, for as long as I want. One of my favorite ways to pleasure him is sucking him off while he drives. A long drive on an uncrowded highway is an invitation I can't refuse & providing this loving gesture for my husband is something I've done for him so many times before. It's so very exciting for him to have his pants unbuckled & slid down to his ankles as I wrap my loving lips around his cock and suck him off while he drives. His cum in my mouth is the reward I long for. We get noticed from time to time, but he tries to avoid onlookers as best he can. And I could care less. I'm happy pleasuring my husbands cock and It sure makes the trip more fun for us both. Happy travels !!

  10. MarriedtoaHotBabe says:

    All wonderful tips. Thank you! I remember one night my wife giving me a blowjob–this was within weeks of us getting married. She was and continues to be a very happy cock sucker–she loves to give me blowjobs. Anyway, back to that night. She was over me and completely sucking me off, and just as I was about to cum, my cock got loose of her mouth and I blew a very large load all over my midsection, chest and neck. It was to go in her mouth! Feeling bad for me, she then got to work licking up every drop of cum from me and swallowing as she went. I say all of that to underscore that to me the key to a great blowjob is for my wife to swallow my load and enjoy it. Fortunately, she does. She loves swallowing. I wish the same for all guys out there!

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