Advice for My Pregnant Wife
My wife is currently nine weeks pregnant with our first kids. (We’re having twins!) While we are both very excited, M is unfortunately having a really rough go of things, with constant sickness (which thankfully they put her on medicine for, and it has helped tremendously) and exhaustion. And the poor thing has been so tender and swollen in her nether regions that sex has been off the table longer than we have ever gone without sex together.
I was curious about a few different things, and I was hoping you all might be able to share some advice 🙂
1. For the ladies here, was there anything you did that maybe helped with your discomfort during your pregnancy? And not just sexually, mind you, but other things as well?
2. Any advice for me? It’s hard since I can’t just make things better for her, but I am hoping I can make it easier. From the wives and the husbands here, is there any advice for me on what I can be doing or preparing?
3. Any sex advice you could give? We’ve been masturbating a lot together (which has been a lot of fun, but holy cow, we miss sex.) As far as masturbating together, any fun stuff you can suggest? And when we can start having sex again, any advice or suggestions there?
Such tender sharing of love and care for you beautiful, pregnant wife. Thanks, Gemlin.
MH, the selected photo radiates the beauty of new life, created by God, through His purpose of loving, marriage unity of husband and wife!
My advice. Lie face-to-face, kissing, touching, and caressing each other to heights of sexual desire. Let your pre-orgasmic juices swell and warm your pussy and cock and full, milky breasts. Then lie side-to-side, legs entwined as each of you masturbate, listening to the moans and sounds of delight as you edge up and down in your heat seeking pleasure until one of you explodes in ecstasy causing the other to quickly follow in their orgasmic pulses of delight.
Gemlin – you asked for advice. The advice I am offering may not be what you are looking for, but as the parent of twins, it is the best I can offer. As you know, your wife’s body will change a great deal both before and after the birth of the babies, but you may not realize how much. This may not sound like sexual advice, but it is. Never miss an opportunity to tell her how beautiful and desirable she is. Especially from the 6th month on as she grows larger, she may not feel attractive. (See the story "Ron and Anne 11.0: Pregnant with Twins"). It is up to you as the most important man in her life to reassure her she is still sexy.
As long as 'tender and swollen in her nether regions', there is not a lot of advice I can give. You can still touch the rest of her body, kissing, breasts, nipples.
I applaud you both for masturbating a lot. It will help strengthen the muscles used in birthing.
Hmmm. I can't help much at all. My wife always gets even more horny during pregnancy.
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I did a search for medical advice:
Masturbation, including during pregnancy, can be good for the body. Some women even report stronger or more intense orgasms while pregnant.
Some benefits of masturbation during pregnancy include:
lowering stress levels
improving sleep
easing pregnancy-related discomfort and pain
increasing the release of endorphins
That is in addition that masturbation strengthens the muscles used in childbirth.
I masturbated through all four of my pregnancies, and I am glad I did – I had an easier time of it than my friends. Self masturbation is a blessing and gift from God – enjoy it.
To help and inspire other women, I made this search on MarriageHeat.
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