Hello! Looking for Ideas!
Hi Friends!
I tried to post an introduction before, but for some reason, it didn’t correctly post so I’m trying again.
My Name is NorthernSky. The meaning is simple: I live in the North, I enjoy stargazing, and I am a hopeless romantic.
In a nutshell, I am a man who has a high sex drive and loves to write, although I wouldn’t call myself a writer.
I write heavily about sports in online sports forums, and I thought I might try my hand at writing erotica, because I enjoy erotica.
I eventually found my way to this forum after a recommendation from a friend. You should know that I am Christian. I’ve dabbled a bit in writing erotica in secular spaces, but the stories that do well on those websites tend to be highly sexually deviant, beyond what I am comfortable dwelling on or extensively writing about. So, I’m here because I believe I have a lot of monogamous experiences to share that perhaps will be more appreciated here. It seems they are too dull for the more edgy online forums, but what can I do? I have to be me.
My writing style is something akin to an Impressionist painting. I tend to focus more on the feelings, emotions, sights, and sounds of pleasure, rather than on the exact facts of what occurred. As such, I take a bit of artistic license when writing. However, I base all my erotic writing on very real experiences. If you have any questions about any of my stories, regarding what is factual and what is ornamental, please feel free to ask. I won’t be offended!
I would like to know from the readers of this forum what sort of stories you are most interested in, as that would help me better explore my writing capacity on this site. I initially intended to write a lot of fictional erotic stories, and still have some of those in the works. But after writing a few, I have settled into a groove of writing about my own desires and experiences and shared moments with my wife, as we’ve had some exciting moments that could make for some fun stories as long as the reader is interested in monogamy. I just need to know what sort of stories you most want to hear about us. Whatever your preference, we’ve probably either experienced it or role-played about it.
Drop me a comment and say hi!
NorthernSky
Welcome NorthernSky. I, for one , very much enjoy the “impressionist” approach in addition to the factual. Look forward to your contributions.
Thank you! I tend to stay pretty close to actual facts, but I am apt to blend two or three separate recollections into one seamless story. That’s the main reason I consider myself an impressionist storyteller. Please let me know if ever you have questions about a story, and I’ll try to help explain it.
Hi my Wife loves to read slave stories both female and male she also like chastity cage stories as we play like that on some weekends.
Wow that’s pretty edgy, but no judgement here! I love being dominated by Vanessa. She used to pin me a lot when we were engaged (she can wrestle), and nibble and kiss my neck. After we got married, the kisses and nibbles expanded to… OTHER places 😉
Hi, I am also new to this forum as a contributor. I have been reading marriage heat for a little while. I am unsure however about the production of erotica and the use of masterbation even for Christian singles.
I love the lord and love that he has given me a high sex drive, but as a single 21 year old man I just seek guidance and understanding.
I love the wedding night/honeymoon type stories, or just simple sex during marriage.
Again I personally just seek love and guidance. I want to find a women, but I also want to trust the Lord and the plan He has for me. Idk personally how I feel about consuming erotica vs porn and masterbation for singles.
You’re statement, “I have settled into a groove of writing about my own desires and experiences and shared moments with my wife, as we’ve had some exciting moments that could make for some fun stories as long as the reader is interested in monogamy. I just need to know what sort of stories you most want to hear about us. Whatever your preference, we’ve probably either experienced it or role-played about it.” sounds like a great place to start!! No better erotica for hot monogamy than real life experiences ! Everything else is just fiction.
I’m totally going to encourage you to use those hands and maybe even some toys. I really do not believe there is anything wrong with stroking yourself. It’s pleasure and it’s done alone. Enjoy yourself
Hi HornyVirginKept, I appreciate your struggle with Masterbation. From my own experience the more you feed something the stronger it will become. When I was single I didn’t dabble a lot with Masterbation. But what I did do made me long for an actual partner. This included watching movies with sex scenes, any personal rubbing, reading sexy fiction etc… and the honest truth is if you hope to stay pure until marriage. (Which is no easy task) you have to set yourself up for success.
I’m not saying one way or the other what’s right for you. It really just depends on if it helps you take the edge off or stokes the fires. But when you DO find the woman you’re meant for, it might be very difficult to restrain yourself and remember the reasons to wait until marriage. I think you’re right to be cautious.
I have a story pending posting about my wedding night with Vanessa.
Thanks for the comment!
Cindy here, Christian Hotwife stories are the best. I personally like to share the stories where I get extra naughty for Cal. I’m a very sexually submissive wife I love that dynamics. That said, write what makes you happy and you’ll find the audience you’re looking for, it’s out there.
Thank you, Bee. I really like your stories. I see a bit of similarity between you and Vanessa in some ways that you’ve described your own looks, and in some of the ways you both just really, really enjoy being sexual! You both came from a background where you had to learned to find that fulfillment the Lord’s way. And it’s beautiful. In some ways even more beautiful than someone like me, who was celibate until marriage.
Hope to see more stories from you soon, and please let me know what you think of my stories!
—NorthernSky
I think I’d love to hang with you and Vanessa lol. Not that it’ll happen, I try to be more private, Cindy and Cal aren’t even are real names. But trust me, there’s beauty in obedience. But I can’t wait to read your naughty stories
@Bee thanks for such a kind comment. I feel confident that if ever you were to meet Vanessa in real life, you two would hit it off instantly and probably be friends. 😊
Dear NorthernSky,
I love reading stories rooted in actual events. There’s something captivating about knowing that certain elements happened. I’m drawn to vivid details and descriptions, from the sensations and smells to the atmosphere and, most importantly, how the protagonists experience everything. I also value stories centred on mutual consent and respect.
Our lifestyle is evolving to include more BDSM and kink, but trust, communication, and respect remain at the heart of everything for us.
As for scenarios, I enjoy stories about outdoor relationships, the use of toys, and anything with surprising twists.
Love Lauren
Thank you, Lauren!
I think you’ll like the content of most of my stories. There’s several pending posting in February and March. Please let me know what you think!
—NorthernSky
@AdventureLovingCpl I think you’ll enjoy a lot of my stories then!! 😉
Thanks for the comment!
—NorthernSky
I've really enjoyed your posts so far and look forward to more stories! My favorites would center around:
Wedding night
Hot, feral, spur-of-the-moment sex
Beach sex
Reunion after long separation
Historical (because I love historical fiction!)
Awesome, I think you’ll like some of the stories on the way!
[Story summary by MH: The day after Lady Wetspot and Sir Longrod were married, he was called away to help stop the beginnings of a rebellion in one of the kingdom's colonies. He was away for a long time, and Lady Wetspot longed for her husband to return, so they could enjoy each other for more than only the wedding night they'd had together. Upon his eventual return, Lady Wetspot prepared a picnic for the two of them at a secluded beach, and the two reunified lovers feasted on much more than only food on that joyful day.]
[Would a story like] that check all the boxes, m'lady? 😉
[Note from MH: Thanks for writing out that story, TurnedOn47. However, you may not have realized as a newer member, but we generally discourage posting stories in the comments. If you have a story to tell, we ask that you submit it as a story for publication, and if you want to share some of it before it's published, write a short summary like we wrote for you above. We copied your story into a draft and set it under your account, so it should be available to you if you wish to make any changes and submit it for publication.]
I have a fascination with how much standards of privacy have changed over time. The kind of stories I’d want to see are stories of monogamous exhibitionism and voyeurism in either a historical fiction context, or adapted to a modern context.
A historical fantasy of mine, which I’ve mentioned in other comment sections, is the bedding ceremony.
A second historical fantasy comes from knowing how people used to live in every close quarters, sometimes even in one-room houses, and at most episodes have had curtains partitioning off different “rooms”.
Vanessa introduced me to the idea of a bedding ceremony. We occasionally role-play about it. While I’d be up for actually planning out something like that in real life (see my current conversation with Turned On 47 regarding my Exhibition Fantasy), I don’t think it’s something Vanessa would be comfortable with and I would never pressure her to do it.
However, she has suggested and hinted about MAYBE one day doing something like what is described in the story “Hotel Window” by “No Longer With Us” if the mood and moment aligns. She has stated it would have to be spontaneous, as she wouldn’t feel comfortable doing something like that in her right mind. She tends to lose her inhibitions when extremely aroused, though.
After reading your comment on the "Cum Questions" post, I have to say that I'm fascinated to learn more about your skills in sucking your own cock!
Thanks Faith-Manages! I will just say, Vanessa was turned on by that ability as well. Well, a bit shocked that I could do it when I (perhaps unwisely) bragged about it when we were getting to know each other. Once we were married she demanded to see it. Watching her expression as I went down on myself in front of her is something I wouldn’t trade for a million dollars. 🤩
Are you sure that your amazing abilities weren't at least part of the reason she wanted to marry you? 😉
@Faith-Manages I think you have a point there!
While we did start out as friends, there was some sexual tension pretty early. I think especially for me. It was very hard to ignore how good it felt to be hugged by her (even early on before things got serious), when her great big round breasts were of course pressing into me. I was always getting erect whenever she hugged me. 😉
Historical drama, year is 1200.
Rural village, as was most of Europe, with families living in a one room dwelling.
Follow the life of one girl.
Context is the Church at the time taught that sex is a natural act, together only for married couples, masturbation in moderation. Masturbation is essential for a single girl, so she doesn't die for a "suffocating womb".
The medical science was a long way behind the present, but the above is true to what was taught in the Middle Ages.
At the time everything a girl learned is from the world around her, the local church, convent, monastery, abbey, which taught her in words the sexual values her parents lived. Living close to nature and family in one room, everyone was open about sex. Everyone grew up with parents fucking sucking, masturbating behind a curtain or under a blanket. There was no shame in it as their is now.
That is the context the girl you will write about grows up in. A story from her sexual awakening, learning to masturbate herself, meeting a handsome young man, marrying at 21. Finishing with fucking and other sexual activities.
(Contrary to what many of you have heard, the average age of marriage in the Middle Ages was in the early 20s. Early teens was generally arranged political marriages for nobility, not to ordinary person. So a good Christian did in fact have a few years of solo sexual exploration before they got married.)
Sounds like a great idea, Sarah K. I will need Vanessa’s help to really “see” things from a woman’s perspective, but it sounds like I have a good idea for a project here. Thanks!
Pastors Christian Sexuality Retreat
Inspiration (plus others)
https://marriageheat.com/2022/04/26/joyous-incarnation/#comment-59377
Friday, arrive midday. A day of prayer and fasting.
Lunch will be hearty vegetable soup and bread rolls.
Dinner will be fried fish and bread with fruit.
Water only.
No sexual activity, not even masturbation, this is a period of prayer and fasting.
Saturday, a day of anticipation, a day of singleness. God's gift of our sexuality.
The only sex allowed is self masturbation, kissing and breast play is allowed for couples, but genital region, only own hand.
Women
https://marriageheat.com/2024/06/02/masturbation-as-sexual-purity/
Men
https://marriageheat.com/2025/01/26/can-christian-singles-write-erotica/#comment-66465
Sunday, the day of Resurrection, the day of the Lord.
After the morning service. Day for sex – fucking! (except for the singles) and still masturbate – offer and honour him for the gift of your body and sexuality.
1 Cor 6:20, glorify God in your body
Romans 12:1, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God
It is often talked about. What about being inspired to sexual activity because of hearing or seeing others?
People open up about their sex lives to pastors.
Lets bring this together into a story, focusing on Christian sexuality, that of the pastors attending, but also to teach.
Set aside areas in the retreat venue, 1: no sex, 2: hand and oral only, 3: fucking.
Not that anyone ever has to engage in any sexual activity. Everywhere it is permitted to not have sex.
In your rooms couples can do what they like, they can close the door, or open to inspire others. Expect the first Friday, a day of abstinence and Saturday a day for solo.
Even the dinning hall has areas 1, 2, 3.
I think numbers should be small enough, everyone fits in area, so no pressure. If wife feels she wants to suck hubby off at the dinner (or breakfast) table, move to area 2, or 3.
The retreat will have talks and workshops on Christian sexuality, including a study on the Song of Songs.
Some talk/workshop ideas.
– Meaningful masturbation
– Pornography – balance, the pros and cons
– Singles sexuality
– Marriage preparation
– Counseling couples
– Handling differences in libido
– When children are brought forth
– Helping parents prepare children for puberty
– Helping parents with horny teenagers
– Widows/Widowers
Numbers,
I thought a dozen couples and half a dozen singles, practically for a story, may need to reduce the number to a handful of each.
Writers
I thought if a few real pastors got together to collaborate on this story, sprinkle it with real Christian teaching and examples of Christian sexuality. Perfect if it could be used as a model for a real retreat.
I thought we could bring some challenges into the retreat.
A weigh in one morning. Girls weight the clean fresh knickers you will put on, at days end weight again, the wetness from arousal and they will be heavier, a prize for the biggest increase in weight (wetness). (We trust you not to cheat by peeing in them or something – do that another day.
https://marriageheat.com/2021/12/01/wet-panty-masturbation/
Weigh your dress, weigh it again at days end the increase in weight is to be your husband's semen.
Another challenge is for men to come in for dinner with an obvious wet patch of semen on the front of their trousers
Clothing.
The retreat will be messy, chose with that expectation, with semen and "myrrh" liberally released.
Ladies – Dress sexy, wear what you'd normally only wear at home, see-through top, skirt or dress, form fitting, showing your curves.
Bras – preferably absent, or shear, or quarter-cup/shelf, absolutely no padded bras. If wearing a bra, chose one with a colour that brings attention to it, no white bra under a white top, wear a coloured one.
Show your curves, don't hide your nipple bumps, or areola.
Gents – wear pants you can "tent", with material that allows wetness of pre-cum or semen to be visible. You have muscles, show off.
https://marriageheat.com/2024/08/18/what-underwear-do-you-like/
Hair
Don't remove body hair if that is not your practise, let people see you natural. Don't be embarrassed to show what normally only your spouse sees.
Is there a swimming pool?
Swim togs are those that become see-through when wet, or perhaps underwear or a dress.
Yeah, this is a biggie – that is why I'm putting up the idea and running away – I'm come back when you have the retreat ready – I have a nice figure hugging semi-transparent dress I'd like to wear, with my semi-sheer knickers, I'm sure you'll even partly see my pubic hair when fully dressed. 🙂
Sarah K