Tonight, We Light a Candle

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Ben G  ( 6/ 13-1960)- (11/18-2024 )

It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Ben G. Beloved husband, father and grandfather.

Daddy suffered a major stroke at 1:17 this morning and left us to be with Jesus. We are deeply saddened and will miss him greatly.

We would like to thank you for all the prayers. He loved Jesus and his family with all his heart. He also loved and enjoyed MarriageHeat.

I write this on behalf of my mother Gina G. ( Horny GG), who sends her deep gratitude and love.

God bless and be with you all!

Alica G. M.

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54 replies
  5. SilverGold says:

    Oh, dear Father in heaven, my heart breaks for GG and her family. GG means so much to many of us and me. Precious Lord, take her hand, lead her on, help her stand, GG is worn, torn, and sad. Help her stand as we come around her and Alicia and her family in prayer and love!!! In Jesus name, Amen!!! 💔

  6. SouthernHeat says:

    We are so sad to hear this news. Your family is like family to so many of us here at MH
    Praying for sweet Gina and for all of your family. May God comfort you in this time of grief. Ben was loved by so many such a wonderful husband father and grandfather and he loved his Lord and Savior. Take some comfort that you will see each other again someday. Our hearts break for your family . Hugs and prayers from our family to yours

  7. RockyGapMan says:

    Such sad news. Thanks for keeping us all posted. Although we’re not flesh & blood family, your mom & dad have blessed us all in so many ways they made us feel as “family.”

    Our deepest sympathy & prayers go up for you all as we both celebrate your dad’s homecoming into the arms of his Savior, and grieve his family’s loss who are left behind.

  9. LovelyLonelyLady says:

    The news stunned me at first, but it was quickly swallowed up by the joy of knowing that Ben is in the glory of Jesus' presence now. How wonderful! He is free from all sickness and age and earthly decay. And we who are saved are following him. I pray for your family's comfort and peace during this time of separation. The Holy Spirit be with you.

  10. All I want to find is true love says:

    My humblest condolences, I hope if there is a heaven that you will meet him again when your time comes. Love him with all your heart but always remember to stay happy he wouldn't want you to be crying your eyes out everyday from now on but you should still let those feelings out when you need to

  11. PatientPassion says:

    With solemn sympathy, I pray for your whole family's comfort in the power and hope of Christ.

    Ben is a wonderful and valuable man. And I do mean IS—though he may sleep for a time, he lives on in the presence of his Savior.

    I am personally grateful to him for his contributions to MarriageHeat, in the beautiful experiences of love he made with his bride, which were then recorded for the benefit of us all in this community. The stories he wrote (or stories where he gave his wife GG a hot experience to write about) were especially influential to me in the first few years after I joined MarriageHeat.

    I'm sure he leaves a great legacy of God-honoring love in his family. But he also leaves a legacy of God-honoring love in all here at MarriageHeat who have learned from his example of excellence in loving his wife in the intimate and erotic way only a husband can. Even though I never had the privilege of meeting him, my life is richer for having Ben G's influence upon it. I will reap the benefits of his wonderful example, which will deepen the love and pleasure between me and my future wife. I hope to thank Ben and give him a hearty hug and handshake when it's my time to join him in the presence of our Savior.

  13. SecondMarge says:

    Great sadness overwhelms me. Despite never meeting, the years of reading about your love for each other was inspiring. The sexual pleasure you so wanted to share with each other gave me hope for the same. My deepest sympathy may God give you strength.

  14. Livinit says:

    No words can express my shock and heartache dear GG and family. We have shared so many wonderful things together, truly you have been as close as a close family member. We ache with you and for you. GG. may you feel the true warmth and love that only our loving Father can give you as you journey this sad path. We love you dearly. AliceNWonderland

  16. Faith-Manages says:

    My condolences for your family, this is never an easy time. Part of the trial (and the joy) of this life is living in a way that reflects God's promises for a better life to come. There is joy in that, and the hope that you will be reunited in His perfect timing. Psalm 39:5

    • LovingMan says:

      So sorry for your loss Gina and family. Y’all are in our prayers. I know you know this but I want to testify that the next life is very real. Ben is indeed as has been said, in the arms of Jesus. I know that you will be together again one day.

      Your love for each other and for the Lord have been and are inspiring to so many. You have inspired us on MH and you have inspired many others who you have influenced in your daily life.

      God bless you Gina during this difficult time of temporary separation. But know that it is truly temporary and an eternity of love and joy will follow.

  18. Sharky says:

    Dear GG and family. My heart breaks for you all. I'm so sorry for your loss. I've always loved your stories so much! God Bless! GG, and family. Please let us know how you are doing after some time.

  19. sarah k says:

    Stunned, when I read this earlier this morning. First step, prayer.

    Eternal rest grant unto Ben, O Lord, and let Your perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace.

    It was only four weeks ago widowhood was put in front of us: https://marriageheat.com/2024/10/22/being-a-christian-widow-sexual-care-poll-marriageheat-com/
    Now we find our dear HornyGG has joined their ranks. I went to your profile, you have eight pages of stories. The first from June 2013: https://marriageheat.com/2013/06/18/sensual-homecoming/

    Gina, [please] keep us updated on your transition to widowhood, [and let us know if there are any other ways we can be praying]. Not today, or even this week, you have other priorities. If you would please save this link, or Christianwidow's link above, and [when you're able,] provide an update.

    Condolences and praying for your future. You have set a wonderful example of wholesome Christian sexuality, I look forward to seeing that continue.
    https://marriageheat.com/2020/07/16/masturbation-may-shall-we-l/
    https://marriageheat.com/2013/07/10/masturbation-in-marriage/

  25. Rufus says:

    Praising God for Ben's example as a husband and father living for Christ and for their example in marriage of the intimacy our LORD wants to.have with His church. I will be praying for you, Gina, and your family in your grief and in your celebration of Ben's life. He lives on in Jesus' arms and in the lives of those he left behind in His love and by His grace.

  28. Blossom says:

    My heart is broken over hearing this news of Ben's passing. My husband and I have been married for over 30 years. We are not that much younger than Ben and Gina. However, we have not had a happy marriage or a vibrant, healthy sex life. I started reading on Marriage Heat around 10 years ago and, right from the start, Ben and Gina's hot and loving marriage was an inspiration to me. It made me believe that the kind of marriage God wants for His children is possible even if I never get to experience it. I hope that my children will be blessed with this kind of marriage. I know the pain of significant loss and Gina and her family are in my prayers. Ben's rewards in heaven are great for the love he poured out on his wife and family and for blessing others with a glimpse of that love and devotion.

  30. Horny_boy says:

    I'm so sorry ,there are not words to describe the pain of your lost, what I can say is that you guys have been my mentors and what a loving couple should look like. I've been reading MH since 2016, I was a teenager and you guys tought me that masturbation was a gift from heaven.
    in fact I masturbated so many times to your stories and how Ben fucked you many times. (nust a question, do you know how many times he fucked you during your marriage) he was a happy man!
    Ben enjoyed his sexuality with you and you were the only woman for him, what a blessing he was for your family and for so many people on MH in sharing your sexual encounters.

    our thoughts and payers are with you Gina, your daughter Alicia and her siblings.
    God got this! please keep us posted, we want to know your journey!

  31. Happy Husband says:

    So sorry for your loss. You love and marriage has inspired so many, including me. God blessed the two of you with an open and honest love for your time together. While he designed you for each other, we are not meant to stay here. May you find comfort in the beautiful time you had with him here. I know from your stories that he was so blessed to have you as his loving wife. Few men experience such love and passion. I pray for your peace and comfort.

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