Extramarital Sex: What’s the Big Deal?

Over ninety-percent of the sex scenes depicted in the media do not take place in a committed relationship of marriage. Can you name off the top of your head a “hot” scene in a recent movie between a married man and woman?

This may create the perception that “hot” sex is not married sex. God intends that the marriage bed glow with romance and sexuality (Song of Songs) – creative and hot, including the benefits of commitment, trust, companionship, safety, longevity and encouragement with one exclusive partner. Oh, and the joy of getting babies out of this God-created pleasurable union.

If a married couple lets the flame go out, waters of neglect and hurt will dowse their marriage heat until hardly a spark is felt.

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With so many voices arguing explicitly for sex outside the marriage bed, let’s explicitly but purely disciple each other into long-term hot monogamy.

What do you think? Help kindle this flame by providing your opinion in a comment below!

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  1. mhope says:

    Good topic! Really, all of the answers are true, however, I believe that sex inside of marriage is far more meaningful because it’s more than just lust – it’s actual love, with every bit of your soul and being having an active part in the act. They say sex is 90% thought/emotion and 10% physical touch…think of what the love between two partners adds to the emotional aspect of sex!

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