The Blessing of Married Heat

I am encouraged by the stories on Marriage Heat in a number of different ways. I am encouraged to know that there are many other people just like me – who love the Lord Jesus Christ, and want to be obedient to the Word of God – and who have embraced the call to biblical sexuality. We don’t want to cross the line and give into the world’s values regarding sexuality – a depraved view of sex.

I am also encouraged by the stories – that give me ideas about how I might want to incorporate the creativity that other people have discovered and experienced. Just like there is a vastness to so many other disciplines in life – there is also a great more depth to sexuality than we would have first thought. I still have a lot to learn – and I love learning from others at Marriage Heat.

As we grow in the Lord, we exponentially grow in a number of different areas of life – all under the Lordship of Christ. This certainly includes our sex lives within marriage. We don’t know it all!

God helps us to not embrace worldliness. So, God’s Spirit produces in us a fruit that includes self-control (Galatians 5:23). This self-control doesn’t make married people stoic about their sexuality – it gives them strength to keep their sex within their marriage! So, as I have read Marriage Heat, I am heartened to see that other couples are just as horny as my wife and I are – and unashamed! There are the right parameters for Christian couples to be horny and to act on it with joy.

As I’ve read one of the regular contributors (Gina) encouraging fellow readers to “stay horny” – I want to remind you that her admonition to us really does fit with what Paul wrote in 1st Corinthians 7:2-5,

2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

God’s wisdom is wonderful. A husband and wife being horny with each other keeps us from giving in to the lack of self-control that comes when one or both are depriving the other. So, our calling is to be horny – and to give ourselves to one another in the amazingly erotic ways that God designed. And only within the covenantal bond of marriage! I want to stay horny with my sexy wife because this is the place of safety for us in our marriage.

So, I want to thank Gina and my fellow Marriage Heat contributors! I am new to this site and my wife and I are already reaping good benefits from it.

We love engaging in our conjugal rights. We are glad that Marriage Heat promotes godly and horny sexuality – without condoning pornography, homosexuality, and swinging. This makes this site a prime place for God to bless people like me (us) who love who God has made us sexually – and are not ashamed. We love the graphic depictions and sexual language on this site – because it about what is happening within real, godly marriages.

So, I celebrate all the good sex that many of my brothers and sisters in the Lord are engaging in! We are being the kinds of husbands and wives that God made us to be. Give thanks to Him who has made you for such blessing. All glory to God!

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  1. Gina G. says:

    God bless you noryar13! I think you just said what alot of us feel and I Thank you so much for that.

    I know Ben and I have been blessed and inspired by the contributors of this site and their stories. Yours included.

    I am so glad that we as Christians have a place to go to express our sexual passion. I truly believe the good Lord blesses our marital ” horniness ” and if I may be blunt , the “marital fuck” between a man and a woman.

    Yes, we are Christians. But we are also sexual beings. Unfortunately this fact tends to get lost.

    I have said it before and I will say it again. Thank you Blondie and the others at MH for giving us this site. Thanks also to all the contributors, you all have been an inspiration and a blessing.

    Thanks and praise to God! May we all stay Horny.

  2. Loved by my Wife says:

    You said “We love the graphic depictions and sexual language on this site – because it about what is happening within real, godly marriages.”
    That is truth that needs to be heard by all Christians: Sex & its language are not dirty – they are sacred.

    • Lovinghusband says:

      Loved by my Wife – Amen! I agree.

      I do not like that the use of these sexy words, for the marriage bed, between committed spouses – has been so cheapened by our culture.

      But, I will not allow them to steal them! The fact that I ONLY speak with those words to my wife – and never anywhere else – reminds us often that we have not succumbed to the culture’s use of those words – to hurt people with.

      these words make us hot in bed because they are the language of our intimacy and oneness.

      Keep up the good fight – and only use these words to build up!

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