Am I Odd?
I have a question that I couldn’t answer and so I thought this might be a good place to write about it. As of yet I have not to my knowledge met my future spouse. So here is the situation I have a question about. Several months ago I got a coupon from a men and women’s clothing store and it allowed me to get one twenty dollar item for free so I walked around the store and decided to look for a nice/set top for my future Mrs. and I ended up deciding I should get her a medium or a large size girly t shirt.
I then looked until I had to choose either a rose red t shirt with five buttons and the distance from the first button to the last button is about eight inches down the shirt or the other option which was a horizontal striped red and pink very necked top. I ended up choosing the red and pink striped t shirt that is a size medium. I then checked out and brought it home and ever since then when I wish my future wife was here and that we were laying in bed married I have cuddled with that shirt in bed, or laid it on top of me, or had it in bed with me. I also have it in bed when I read the MH stories and fantasize about my future wife. The question I have is is this odd or bad? What do you think about it and for the ladies reading this how would you react if your husband had done this before he met you and he later told you about it?
I keep a journal for my future spouse, and nobody I know of has seen that as weird. Some people might think it’s weird or maybe even creepy, but I think it’s cute, and would really like it if my husband told me something like that
Dear DarkGrayLady,
Thank you for sharing some. I am glad to know that it doesn’t seem weird and actually seems appealing. I hope my future wife likes it when I tell her about it.
Sincerely,
Crown
OK, I have to admit I chuckled when I first read your post. Not because I thought it was weird, because I didn’t. I chuckled because I myself have “snuggled” with one of Ben’s shirts while he is away at work. Granted most of the time I end up wearing it.
I too think it is really sweet and cute that you did that thinking about your yet to be known future spouse. I would be honored to know my husband did such a thing.
Now, if I may get a little personal here. I have to ask, do you masturbate when snuggling with the garment? If so, make sure it is machine washable! Lol.
Thanks for posting dear sir! Also, thanks for making me feel not so odd. God bless you and have a very Merry Christmas and prosperous New Year! Stay Horny always.
Dear hornyGG,
Thank you for your helpful feedback. To answer your question I haven’t thought about masterbating while snuggling with it, but if I did I would make sure to wash it. I am glad that I decided to post this article and a merry Christmas and Happy new year to you too.
Sincerely,
Crown
I actually have a pillow that i snuggle with. It is a long pillow from my head to my hip. I reshaped the pillow to make it have a booty. Sometimes i will masturbate with it and i will put a pringles can with warm sponges, gloves surrounding the sponges, and some lotion in between on the bottom of the pillow to make my own “fleshlight” (to scared to order one online. parents will think its weird and it cost like $120.) So trust me man, you are not weird.
Merry Christmas and God Bless,
wendoigetawife
Not weird. I think that’s really sweet actually. I’ve always wanted to have something to give to my spouse someday from when I was single. Your post has inspired me to follow through on that. Thanks for sharing!
Dear FutureWifey,
Thanks so much! I am glad that what I am doing was able to inspire you and that you felt it was good enough that you would use it.
Sincerely,
Crown
I agree with FutureWifey. This is sweet! 🙂
To all the MH community, and especially my MH friends, have a very Merry Christmas!! ? Enjoy the blessing of togetherness and the reason for the season – it is invaluable! THE Gift. May God bless you and your loved ones!
Dear PassionateForChrist,
Thank you for your insightful input and for the wonderful Christmas wishes.
Sincerely,
Crown
Thank you for the lovely reply 🙂 Your future girlfriend/wife will certainly be blessed to have someone with a thoughtful heart like yours. God bless ya!
Dear PFC,
Firstly you are very welcome. I am encouragedoing that you think my future wife will be blessed to have someone with a thoughtful heart. I hope to bring her joy and raise passion in her about sex once God has joined us in marriage. I truly hope that my current beliefs about masterbating and sex and this website are things she will approve of and find encouraging.
Sincerely,
Crown
Dear Crown, I’m confident that your hope isn’t in vain. Be the best that you can be. Keep God first place. Listen to His voice that guides you and prepares you, through and for everything. Have patience and keep an understanding spirit, even when it’s hard sometimes. Build trust with your future beloved, through every day. Build that bond of love – not only between the sheets but especially between your souls through daily life. Build that unique team that you two will get to be exclusively in God, and don’t get weary when it may not always be easy. Just believe in God’s promise, knowing that what we get to fight for is always worth the fight, the work, the dedication, the patience, the passion and the sacrifice. You will be in this together. Be encouraged and stay encouraged, dear MH friend! Stay open for God to do the work in you that He wants to do and rejoice in seeing Him do for you what only He can do. He’s surely going to amaze you with His goodness, as you keep following Him and have your heart set on Him. God bless you, brother!!
Dear MH Admins,
To you all who keep MH going strong and nurture daily this unique ministry for marriage and intimacy according to God’s design, I wanna say thank you and I wanna wish you all a Happy New Year 2016! May it be prosperous in Him and may He lead you to even greater fruitful shores in your service to His people! May you be blessed and continually wrapped in His wisdom! His love, His grace is upon you, and I’m looking forward to seeing what God has in store for you all in the year to come! Be encouraged, for the work you’re investing in this ministry of your heart is priceless! The lives that witness new beginnings, the souls that receive restoration, the many who get help in confusion and frustration, the many who find God, as you keep God and His Word first place. Stay the course in, through and with Him! Mighty and powerful are His ways. And mighty He has already shown Himself through you. God bless you, dear MH admins! In Him, the best is yet to come! <3
To my dear MH family and friends, and the MH community, Happy New Year 2016! What a year I was blessed to share with you here on MH! My very first year within the MH family – one I will surely remember, for so many reasons, so many moments, so many blessings, but most of all because of all of you, the people, the hearts I've been blessed to walk through life with in this year, as we came to know and love each other as brothers and sisters in Christ here in this sweet MH home. Thank you for your friendships! Thank you for the wisdom you've shared with me, the love you've poured upon me, the many prayers you've blessed me with through my various seasons in this journey of life and faith! Thank you for who you are in Christ! God bless you all and keep you and lead you strongly and securely into and through 2016!
Love, always,
PfC
I second PFC’s words to the MH administration! You are making such a difference for the Kingdom of God! Thank you for all you do and may this new year be filled with blessing and productivity! And to you, PassionateforChrist, you are such a dear sister in Christ and I thank God daily that I “met” you and the others on MH. You have taughte so many things and I so admire your love and obedience to God! May this new year be filled with adventures as you follow our Savior through all that He has planned for you!
My dear friend, CMLove, thank you so much! I am so blessed to have your support on here and in life, for the love and the faith I receive from your heart and the hearts of all the other dear ones I’ve come to know on MH, I carry it with me, and it has impacted my life in such beautifully meaningful ways. God has used you and my MH family in great ways to help me and make me and mold me further according to His good will and purpose. Through you, He has given me strength when I ran out of it. Through you, He stirred my hope when I had lost it. Through you, He wrapped me in love unspeakable, love so powerful, love that warmed my heart, that gave life to me, when I felt broken and all alone and like such a failure. I am so tremendously grateful for you and for MH!! <3
I am in my heart so excited to see God do the impossible this year, to see Him jaw-dropping amaze me with the greatest desire of my heart – the love of my life, my very own. May this be THE year! I am faith-filled, I am expectant about it. I got my fire back. I got my sexy back. Yay!! 😀 I made it through the darts of the Enemy. He had his best shot at derailing me but his best shot was not enough, for Christ has got me and is all around me. I am so happy, so full of joy in my heart to be able to share my sexy with my Savior anew, with devotion to Him, with total confidence in Him, with peace of mind and heart, with a passion for Him that burns stronger than ever before. I am red-hot, on fire for marriage. I am eager, I am hungry for my own marriage, for my husband and for our beautiful sex life that we will get to have for His glory. I am hungry for it. I am hungry to get to know God in the way that only husband and wife can get to know Him – receiving gloriously from Him and giving glory to Him through our union in Him, through our oneness in Him, in every wonderful area. I am joyfully looking forward to having and building up a good and playful sex life with my future hubby. 😀 And I am overflowing with gratitude and praise to God as I continue to prepare myself for it. I thank God in advance that I get to delight in my future hubby – in his body, in his heart, in all of him – and that my future hubby will be delighted and fully satisfied in me. I thank God that I will get to receive and enjoy my hubby's juicy love. I thank God for everything that comes to heart! This very day, I thank Him for this journey of continual newness in Christ! 🙂
God bless you, CMLove! God bless you, MH! Love you all so much!!
Amen, PFC! Oh, I am so beyond happy to hear that! Praise God! I am so excited for you and for what our Savior has brought you through and what He will do this upcoming year! Please keep us posted on your journey! I am praying for you and your soulmate, wherever he is! May God fill you with joy and anticipation! Love you, sweet sister!
Prayers are very much appreciated, dear, thank you so much!! <33
Love you right back! 🙂