Even though my wife and I have enjoyed a great sex life for over 30 years, we only started exploring the use of toys in the last couple years. It can be a bit intimidating with all the choices available. We explored a few things for both of us, and it took a little while to find what we liked. But the cost of some of them is also intimidating, especially when you don’t know if you will even like it. The MH stories of experiences with different toys helped somewhat, but everyone is different, so that wasn’t a sure thing either. Along the way, we kept hearing about the famous Magic Wand. Also, in a question that I posted a ways back about toys that men liked (Boys and Their Toys) I got a lot of feedback about wands.
My interest continued to be piqued by the legendary status this device had gained, and yet I continued to hold off. Part of it was that I thought, “In all the time since the wand has come out, surely they have come up with better toys.” If you’re unfamiliar with its history, it came out I think in the early 70s, may have even been 60s, as a body massager. It soon was written about in a women’s magazine, I think, as a great aid in achieving orgasm. The rest is history. It is still made today with very little variation from the original. There are some different models available including cordless ones. Yes, the original model is corded, another reason I held off for so long. That seemed so ancient and the cordless ones are even more expensive, and I questioned if they were as powerful, which seems to be the key point to the Magic Wand’s success.
There are a lot of other companies making wands now in a great variety of sizes, colors, and features. We even have one called a “micro wand” that was a freebie with some other purchase. It’s basically a bullet vibrator but in the design of a wand, with the flexible head. It’s cute but effective. We call ours Mighty Mouse (🎶Here I come to save the day🎶). So I kept reading reviews and watching for a good deal. I didn’t want to spend a lot of money and find out the hype didn’t hold up.
The day came that I found a good deal on one. It wasn’t the original Magic Wand * but it was designed very similar to it with similar specs. This one was the Lovehoney Extra Powerful Multispeed Plug-In Massage Wand Vibrator (even its name is big) and it was around 40 or 50% off. I had been reading a lot of reviews on different models for a while, so I knew that this had gotten great reviews even by people who had used the original Magic Wand. This one also had one feature that the Magic Wand didn’t have: a rolling variable power control. The original has two settings: as one reviewer said, the settings are “insane” and “holy crap I’m gonna die!” To be honest, that concerned me a little bit. We are both still relatively new to vibrator use and I didn’t want to scare off my wife. The Lovehoney model allows gradual adjustment from low rumble to space shuttle launch with the roll of your thumb.
After it arrived, I showed it to my wife. We had talked about them and she knew I was watching for a good deal, but I hadn’t told her I ordered one. Since it arrived only a few days before our getaway for my birthday we decided to wait on trying it out, other than a little teasing of it on her sore shoulder (it was originally designed as a body massager remember). Considering some of the stories we’d heard about it and given that my wife’s volume during orgasm can be a challenging factor in a home with kids, we decided it would be better for its maiden voyage to be at a hotel.
That was a wise choice. One of the downsides to this device is that it is rather loud compared to other modern vibrators. But I soon discovered that that would not be a problem for us. There was no way anyone could hear the vibrator over my wife’s cries of ecstasy. From the very first touch, she responded intensely and it only grew from there and grew rapidly. I had read reviews in which women made claims of cumming in 30 seconds. I didn’t time my wife; I’m sure it was more than 30 seconds, but it didn’t take long before she was writhing and trembling in orgasm. I kept working the wand and she kept cumming in wave after wave.
We had used toys for a few months before my wife had ever had an orgasm strictly from the toy. She was liking the new experience but never really expected that they would do that for her. She preferred my fingers, tongue, or cock to get her there. After the first time a toy induced an orgasm she had a few more, but usually it was the toy in conjunction with other activities that caused the orgasm. This initial experiment with the wand, however, was the first time she ever had a lifting-her-ass-clear-off-the-bed orgasm from anything other than my mouth and tongue. It was a glorious sight to see and sound to hear. I finally backed off for fear of an embarrassing explanation with the paramedics. She eventually was able to speak again and breathe normally and we knew we had a winner. We named it Juan Diego, or Juan D for short (you may have to read that out loud to get the joke).
We enjoyed Juan a couple more times during our two-day stay in the hotel and realized that it would have to have very limited use at home. We managed to find a couple of small windows of time between her work schedule and kids in school to use Juan at home always with extraordinary and loud results, but soon school ended and those windows closed. I learned more finesse on moving (or not moving) the wand and how to use the speed control better (I still have yet to get it to full strength on her). One time we did use it while others were in the house because we were just so crazy horny and wanted to. She had to press a pillow over her face to keep the volume to a moderate level. I finally stopped because I was afraid she would suffocate herself, bringing another embarrassing explanation which would probably include the police this time.
Now if we go away, Juan goes with us. As of this writing, we’ve had him for about three months and have used him less than ten times, but every time has been off the charts exciting. During one recent hotel stay, I was using it on her, and after she reached orgasm I thought I’d try something different. I usually use it mostly in her clit area, occasionally running it down over her lips and back to her clit. Now I decided to work it lower on her lips while I went after her clit with my tongue.
She was thoroughly enjoying this, but the device is quite large, remember, and keeping it on her pussy while my tongue worked her clit was challenging. Unknowingly I had begun to move the wand lower until she cried out in an incredibly excited and sensual way, “OH WOW, what are you doing to my ass!?” It was such a hot thing to hear I thought I was going to cum. I instinctively began to readjust the wand but didn’t really know how far back I had gone, and as she has always told me with toys, fingers, and tongues “never back to front.” So I left it vibrating her ass while I licked her clit to more orgasms. Afterward, she said that was an incredible sensation and that she should try that on me sometime. I’m still waiting.
So to sum up, we think the wand does indeed live up to the hype. Yes it has its cons as well: it is big and cumbersome, the cord is a nuisance at times, we have to know that audio volume isn’t going to be an issue. Even so, Juan has quickly become my wife’s new best friend even if we only get to use him occasionally. I don’t know if it is magic or just great engineering, but this wand is definitely worth the purchase.
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