Wand Magic
Even though my wife and I have enjoyed a great sex life for over 30 years, we only started exploring the use of toys in the last couple years. It can be a bit intimidating with all the choices available. We explored a few things for both of us, and it took a little while to find what we liked. But the cost of some of them is also intimidating, especially when you don’t know if you will even like it. The MH stories of experiences with different toys helped somewhat, but everyone is different, so that wasn’t a sure thing either. Along the way, we kept hearing about the famous Magic Wand. Also, in a question that I posted a ways back about toys that men liked (Boys and Their Toys) I got a lot of feedback about wands.
My interest continued to be piqued by the legendary status this device had gained, and yet I continued to hold off. Part of it was that I thought, “In all the time since the wand has come out, surely they have come up with better toys.” If you’re unfamiliar with its history, it came out I think in the early 70s, may have even been 60s, as a body massager. It soon was written about in a women’s magazine, I think, as a great aid in achieving orgasm. The rest is history. It is still made today with very little variation from the original. There are some different models available including cordless ones. Yes, the original model is corded, another reason I held off for so long. That seemed so ancient and the cordless ones are even more expensive, and I questioned if they were as powerful, which seems to be the key point to the Magic Wand’s success.
There are a lot of other companies making wands now in a great variety of sizes, colors, and features. We even have one called a “micro wand” that was a freebie with some other purchase. It’s basically a bullet vibrator but in the design of a wand, with the flexible head. It’s cute but effective. We call ours Mighty Mouse (?Here I come to save the day?). So I kept reading reviews and watching for a good deal. I didn’t want to spend a lot of money and find out the hype didn’t hold up.
The day came that I found a good deal on one. It wasn’t the original Magic Wand * but it was designed very similar to it with similar specs. This one was the Lovehoney Extra Powerful Multispeed Plug-In Massage Wand Vibrator (even its name is big) and it was around 40 or 50% off. I had been reading a lot of reviews on different models for a while, so I knew that this had gotten great reviews even by people who had used the original Magic Wand. This one also had one feature that the Magic Wand didn’t have: a rolling variable power control. The original has two settings: as one reviewer said, the settings are “insane” and “holy crap I’m gonna die!” To be honest, that concerned me a little bit. We are both still relatively new to vibrator use and I didn’t want to scare off my wife. The Lovehoney model allows gradual adjustment from low rumble to space shuttle launch with the roll of your thumb.
After it arrived, I showed it to my wife. We had talked about them and she knew I was watching for a good deal, but I hadn’t told her I ordered one. Since it arrived only a few days before our getaway for my birthday we decided to wait on trying it out, other than a little teasing of it on her sore shoulder (it was originally designed as a body massager remember). Considering some of the stories we’d heard about it and given that my wife’s volume during orgasm can be a challenging factor in a home with kids, we decided it would be better for its maiden voyage to be at a hotel.
That was a wise choice. One of the downsides to this device is that it is rather loud compared to other modern vibrators. But I soon discovered that that would not be a problem for us. There was no way anyone could hear the vibrator over my wife’s cries of ecstasy. From the very first touch, she responded intensely and it only grew from there and grew rapidly. I had read reviews in which women made claims of cumming in 30 seconds. I didn’t time my wife; I’m sure it was more than 30 seconds, but it didn’t take long before she was writhing and trembling in orgasm. I kept working the wand and she kept cumming in wave after wave.
We had used toys for a few months before my wife had ever had an orgasm strictly from the toy. She was liking the new experience but never really expected that they would do that for her. She preferred my fingers, tongue, or cock to get her there. After the first time a toy induced an orgasm she had a few more, but usually it was the toy in conjunction with other activities that caused the orgasm. This initial experiment with the wand, however, was the first time she ever had a lifting-her-ass-clear-off-the-bed orgasm from anything other than my mouth and tongue. It was a glorious sight to see and sound to hear. I finally backed off for fear of an embarrassing explanation with the paramedics. She eventually was able to speak again and breathe normally and we knew we had a winner. We named it Juan Diego, or Juan D for short (you may have to read that out loud to get the joke).
We enjoyed Juan a couple more times during our two-day stay in the hotel and realized that it would have to have very limited use at home. We managed to find a couple of small windows of time between her work schedule and kids in school to use Juan at home always with extraordinary and loud results, but soon school ended and those windows closed. I learned more finesse on moving (or not moving) the wand and how to use the speed control better (I still have yet to get it to full strength on her). One time we did use it while others were in the house because we were just so crazy horny and wanted to. She had to press a pillow over her face to keep the volume to a moderate level. I finally stopped because I was afraid she would suffocate herself, bringing another embarrassing explanation which would probably include the police this time.
Now if we go away, Juan goes with us. As of this writing, we’ve had him for about three months and have used him less than ten times, but every time has been off the charts exciting. During one recent hotel stay, I was using it on her, and after she reached orgasm I thought I’d try something different. I usually use it mostly in her clit area, occasionally running it down over her lips and back to her clit. Now I decided to work it lower on her lips while I went after her clit with my tongue.
She was thoroughly enjoying this, but the device is quite large, remember, and keeping it on her pussy while my tongue worked her clit was challenging. Unknowingly I had begun to move the wand lower until she cried out in an incredibly excited and sensual way, “OH WOW, what are you doing to my ass!?” It was such a hot thing to hear I thought I was going to cum. I instinctively began to readjust the wand but didn’t really know how far back I had gone, and as she has always told me with toys, fingers, and tongues “never back to front.” So I left it vibrating her ass while I licked her clit to more orgasms. Afterward, she said that was an incredible sensation and that she should try that on me sometime. I’m still waiting.
So to sum up, we think the wand does indeed live up to the hype. Yes it has its cons as well: it is big and cumbersome, the cord is a nuisance at times, we have to know that audio volume isn’t going to be an issue. Even so, Juan has quickly become my wife’s new best friend even if we only get to use him occasionally. I don’t know if it is magic or just great engineering, but this wand is definitely worth the purchase.
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We started using vibes early on in our marriage and they were a great blessing to us. Early onset health conditions had started to make it rather challenging to get my wife to orgasm.
We’ve also read on MH about the Magic Wand. We’ve been thinking about purchasing one. Thanks for the great info. I think we’ll get one. We liked the idea of the gradual speed adjustment too! Your portrayal of your wife’s orgasms with a wand is very sexy & makes us hopeful that a wand will work well for my wife.
Your review and/or story was rather humorous as well. Thanks again!
Thank you for your words. I’m glad you found the post helpful and enjoyable. I’ve appreciated how much you’ve written about how vibrators have aided you two in adapting to changing health conditions. It helps in ridding these of the stigma that it’s something taboo. I’m sure there are many a couples that would greatly benefit from them but are stuck with that mindset that they shouldn’t partake in such things. Keep shouting from the rooftops, so to speak, and let us know how it goes when you get your wand.
God bless
Congrats on discovering (through MH) an amazing toy that produces exactly what you described. Your post will undoubtedly encourage others to purchase this amazing product. When Mistress is finished with my oral duties and finished reading her MH stories and reaches for her Magic Wand, I lay back by her feet and watch as she pleasures herself with the Wand and climaxes with uninhibited joy and sounds. Since we are empty nested she is free to be a loud as she wants. Then she finishes with a smaller vibrator to get 1-2 more orgasms. The smile she has on her face when she looks at me with my hard-on sticking straight up (my wrists are usually cuffed behind my back at this point) is priceless. It may sound strange, but I almost enter into my own euphoric sexual joy just watching her come, and I find myself humping the air in extreme sexual tension. If she just touched my cock, I know it would explode in its own orgasm, but that is usually not to be until it is scheduled for later in the month. The effect on my psyche of her smiling with sexual satisfaction written all over her face is what I call mental conditioning. She sends me off to another bedroom to sleep without getting my own orgasm, and I lay awake for more than an hour re-playing her self-pleasuring in my mind before I drift happily off to sleep. God made us so wonderfully different, didn't he? I am so glad MH exists to help more and more couples experience the God-given pleasures of sexual joy. Enjoy the Wand.
Thanks for commenting, glad you liked it. I too think that the greatest sight in all the world is watching my wife orgasm. She doesn’t really like doing it herself but prefers me to bring her there, but like you said, it’s great that God made us all different. I do hope this helps others discover more God given pleasure.
Take care and God bless
Wife and I have had a similar journey with toys. We haven't tried a wand but have found so far that her favorite is the Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-spot Rabbit. We use the end of it alot just on her clit like you do with the wand and sends her into an orasm extremely fast. She also loves using it as designed, to hit her g-spot. She had never squirted before using this toy. I have bought 2 more for backups when I catch them on good sales. I may have to surprise her with a wand one day.
Thanks for commenting and glad you two are enjoying the exploration of toys. I think a rabbit vibrator might be my wife’s next choice. She’s read several stories that mentioned them and had gotten pretty interested. Although, the wand has captivated her attention for now.
Take care and God bless
Wow, I may have to try this toy. I am pregnant with my first child and I am having the most intense orgasms. I had never squirted before being pregnant, and it happened one day where I just basically exploded all over/pushed my hubby's erection out of me and shook in pleasure. I really think there is not much better than having a squirting orgasm. Does your wife like to squirt too? It just feels amazing to me and turns my husband on, too. What was your reaction and her reaction the first time she squirted?
alwayswet101, that's awesome. I bet your husband loved it. I know I love it when my wife squirts and she does too. After she squirted the first time, she realized that she had felt like she could have squirted before but didn't let her self because she thought she was peeing and would stop herself. I had heard of women squirting while reading reviews on toys but she didn't know anything about it. So in the past when she had that feeling she would hold back. Now she let's it go and we love it.
After reading this story I sent a message to my wife and screen shots of this story and she wanted to try one of these wands, so I was more than happy to order her one. I bought the same one from the story in a purple color. And if you haven't tried the Greedy Girl g-spit rabbit, I and my wife highly recommend you buy it.
My wife and I just had our 3rd child back in June. She was extremely horny during all her pregnancies. She is horny a lot even when she isn't pregnant, lol.
Congratulations on your pregnancy and pray all goes well for you and your husband.
AW101 glad you liked the story and recommendation. I’m sure you will love the wand. Your comment, though, brings up something I’ve never considered. The wand has the ability on full setting to deliver probably the strongest vibrations of any toy. I’m curious if that would pose any issue for the baby. You might want to check into that. Although it might also be helpful at the end of your term if the little one is stubborn like one of ours was. They say that orgasm can help induce labor when the time is right. Anyway continue enjoying your pregnancy and we pray for a safe birth.
Very hot story. My wife has a Sweet Smile vibe very similar to the one in the picture that is very strong and that she loves-she is most crazy, though, about her bullet vibe that she puts right up to her little clit and that instantly makes her butt cheeks tense up as tight as they can, and makes her moan and groan from deep in her throat. The last time she used it, she buzzed her clit with it standing up, and I sucked her hard nipples, kissed her and chewed on her neck while she made herself cum several times. After she was spent, I sat her on the counter and took her while I was standing up, ejaculating real soon on her pretty tummy. It was sweet 😉
Thanks for commenting. Thanks for sharing. “Sweet Smile” what a great name for a vibe. We have one particular bullet with a remote that my wife really likes also. In fact just a couple days ago I was playing with her through her panties while she lay across our bed. I discovered that these panties had a little piece of fabric that formed a small pocket right over her pussy. I went and got the bullet, slipped it in and hit the remote. She instantly began to squeeze her legs together and pull them up. As she lay on her side she wriggled and writhed as I cycled through the different options. It was great to watch.
I am thinking of getting a pair of vibrating panties. This pregnant lady wants to cum all the time and not miss out! I was asking the people in the store and found out you can put that little vibe into most panties. My husband loves to watch me orgasm like that also, when I feel so good that I basically lose control. For me, closing my legs feels absolutely amazing. Just typing this has my panties with a whole wet spot now.
Alwayswet101, I just saw your comment on panty vibes. Have you looked at the WeVibe Moxie? It uses a strong magnet to hold in place on any panty you are wearing. Also has a remote and can be controlled by an app from anywhere. WeVibe also has one called the Chorus that you slide into yourself and position on your G-spot and the other end against your clit. It is also remote- and app-controlled. We haven't had a chance to use the Chorus yet, and have only tried the Moxie once at the house, so I can't really speak of how well it works on my wife. She did enjoy the constant vibe against her clit from the Moxie that one time though. Made her extremely wet.
alwayswet101
I got my wife a Lush and use the Lovense app on her. She absolutely loves it, and I love being able to make her cum when I’m away. The control features are awesome. It does suck having to log in and remember another password, but I keep all my handles the same. There are a bunch of different toys and some for men. I think, out of the ones we’ve tried, the lush is our favorite, especially since we can go out in public and I can use it on her without anyone knowing. It’s made for some fun dinners.
We agree with your review 100%! The first toy my wife got, was a free bullet vibe when she went to a toy party a friend had. That got us started! It wasn’t long after that, I bought her a Magic Wand. That was the early 80’s sometime, and we still have it, and it’s still going strong! One thing about the Wand, is it’s very durable It’s the only toy we still have from back then, and I’m not sure what the OPkWh* is, but it’s way up there, especially since it works for me too! *(Orgasms Per Kilowatt Hour) It’s her go to toy!
Hilarious “mileage” abbreviation!
Thanks for your comment and enthusiasm. I love the “OPkWh.” A recent story mentioned about the Wand driving up their electric bill. I could see how that would be a noticeable change.
God bless
Nice story. We use the Magic Wand every time. It’s wonderful.
Thanks. If we were empty nesters like you, I’m sure our wand would never get unplugged.
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Ken and I (mostly yours truly) love and adore our Hitatchi Magic Wand(s). Over the years, we’ve burned through two or three with number four well on the way. All I can say is, “Mmmmmmmmmm.”
Kate
Thanks for reading and for your input. That’s impressive to burn through even one Hitachi; from what I hear they are pretty rugged. My wife has already told me that if anything happens to me she will probably throw out everything else in our locked cabinet and just keep the wand?
Thanks for all the info. Very useful. I am beginning to think as we both get older that a vibrator could really add a lot to our lovemaking.
Any one have advice or ideas as to how I might promote the concept to a skeptical wife?
Give it to her as a present for her bd, Christmas, Valentine's Day, etc. That's how I gave my wife her first vibe. She loves them-they make her scream and cry 😉
As a skeptical wife, get one. She obviously trusts you (from y’all’s stories). The Wand can be used just for body massage as well, so even if it’s not as amazing for her as I found it to be, the $ won’t go to waste. It’s great for sore muscles or feet too. We’ve just found it be a highly efficient route to me having a loud, thrashing orgasm.
For my wife, she would rather get it as a “gift” on a getaway or vacation trip… NOT tied to a Bday or Anniversary. But if she’s totally skeptical, I would say buy one and make it about YOU, not her. Like “Honey, I got this wand thingy, because I read an article on how to better please your woman in bed. Some people recommended that the men should use this on the women. So I thought I should give it a try.”
Glad you liked the post and found it useful. As for the advice, I was going to say that I should have my wife answer because she was a little skeptical at first, but she was already commenting when I read yours, so I waited for her’s to show up first (O-Surfer above). Now, for my advice I want to preface with the statement that the man who got his wife to ASK to be spanked probably doesn’t need my advice on how he should convince her of anything. ? But since you asked: knowing that everyone is different you will need to choose based on your knowledge of your wife. Does she like surprises or like to be aware of the planning process? If surprises are a good thing then get a vibrator and introduce it maybe during a massage session or something. If you get the wand you could even use it to massage her and then move to the more fun areas. Maybe even have her blindfolded. It may also depend on why she is skeptical. My wife didn’t have any issues with toys in general (such as it was wrong to use them), she mostly just didn’t think we needed them. I think there was also a sense that if she liked it, it would send me a message that I wasn’t enough for her. We talked that out eventually. She also thought it was crazy to spend all that money on that stuff. Another way to go is to start small. Maybe a bullet or something that can be used during foreplay or even during intercourse. As I write this I’m thinking we should probably write up our whole introductory journey. I’m sure some of you would like to know how a cheap electric toothbrush was the catalyst for the major turning point in my wife’s embracing the use of toys. So to wrap up, you two are incredibly creative and I’m sure you will work it out.
God bless
I would love to read that story!!!
Also I’d like to add that since Mrs. Woods reads MH the surprise idea is probably not gonna work entirely. But on the plus side, since she reads the stories, there are some great ones that illustrate the benefits of toy use. Of course most of LovingMan’s show how they have been helpful to their intimacy. SouthernHeat had a great one about the role vibrators played in helping her get through and adjust to menopause ( https://marriageheat.com/2019/01/19/great-sex-after-menopause/ ) and there are many more.
I becme fascinated with women masturbating when I bought my first wife, who passed away many years ago, a simple slim vibe just purely out of curiosity. I never even thought she would like it, but she fell in love with the thing instantly.
She would mostly use it to masturbate solo, but would also use it during our lovemaking. She would always put it up against her big clit, never inserting it. She would always lie on her back, so I could enter her lying on my side and make love to her that way, sucking her big boobs and stroking her long blonde hair. When she orgasmed from the vibe, her vaginal spasms were so strong that they felt like they were sucking me into her, and I would always lose it and come inside her immediately.
The interesting thing is that when I would lick her, she would moan and then scream bloody murder when she would come, but when she used the vibe, she was completely silent, even when she came. She said the feeling in her clit was so intense that it put her into kind of a trance, like she was on some kind of drug, and that she was unaware of her surroundings, even if I sucked her nipples hard. If I said something to her, she wouldn't answer because she simply didn't hear me and wouldn't feel me chewing on her nipples.
It made me feel so good to see her have such incredibly intense pleasure and how she reacted to it. She had this exact routine that she never changed at all. She would take off all her clothes and lie flat on the bed. She would hold the vibe with her left hand against her large clit (it was about an inch long and as thick as my little finger), and with the tips of her index and middle finger of her right hand, would push against her clit, creating this pressure so the vibe would be firmly against her clit. She would move her fingertips slightly all the time, changing the pressure as it felt better.
First, her nipples would harden and turn red. She was somewhat plump with a tummy, large breasts, long blonde hair and blue eyes, and thick blonde pubic hair. After her nipples hardened, she would start to develop this blotchy red sex rash—first on the top of her breasts, then over her chest, then on the bottom of her throat. It happened the same way every time, which I thought was so hot because I knew exactly what to expect. After the sex rash spread all over her, the last thing that would happen was that her lips would turn purple. By this time, beads of sweat were all over her. When her lips turned purple, I knew orgasm was about 15 seconds away. When she started to come, she would inhale through pursed lips and make a long, hissing sound-then her big sexy hips would rise way up in the air, then she would turn over on her side and her abdomen would jerk in this exact rhythm, over and over again many times until her orgasm was over. Sometimes, she would repeat the whole process two or three times. And sometimes, I would just not be able to hold back and would ejaculate on her sexy stomach as she was about to come. It was all so hot.