Entries by Stag-on-a-hill

Nudity in Marriage

My wife and I got married young, and we both had hopes for our marriage that we didn’t tell each other and perhaps hadn’t really admitted to ourselves. One of my hopes was that we would be nude together a lot, get all-over tans, go to nude beaches, and do nude dares. I also hoped […]

Heading North

We hadn’t had a holiday in ages. I wanted to head north where it’s warmer. And where it’s also far from people we know. This was partly so my darling could wear skimpy clothes, and even go nude if the opportunity arose. We found the ideal location. God gave us a wonderful apartment which was […]

Understanding Lust

This is an excerpt from Jim Vander Spek’s book, Overcoming Lust… If we want to overcome lust, we need to recognize what we’re dealing with. A good place to start is to understand the “sexual buzz”—the electric feeling of pleasure that makes sex so enjoyable. The psychobiologic sexual buzz involves our emotions, our bodies, and […]

Good nudity

Since I was a teenager I’ve believed that simple nudity is good. I recently came across an article by Jeff Bowman called ‘good nudity.’ It absolutely sums up many comments that have been happening lately on MH. Here’s an excerpt… The Bible shows that God created our bodies and that His creation was good. Genesis […]

The Healing Power of Nudity

Some studies say 90% of the men and women don’t like their bodies. Why do so many people not like their bodies? Let’s do something about it – let’s get naked. Could it be that so many people don’t like their bodies because of the discrepancy between our bodies and media images? And could it […]

Benefits of Sleeping Naked

For many years I’ve been sleeping naked except in colder months, when I throw on just a t-shirt. Sleeping naked is so liberating. It’s had many subtle yet amazing benefits on my entire body and mind. There’s even scientific research that those of us who slip beneath the sheets au naturel may actually be healthier […]

How has MH changed your life?

Hi all, I would like to know how Marriage Heat has changed your life generally (not just your marriage or sex life). Some questions: How has your view of God changed? Parenting? Church involvement? Self-confidence? General joy? Stress? Life rhythms? Interaction with wider family or friends? Work? Your understanding of gender differences? Understanding of and […]

Getaway advice

Hi all, I’m new to this site and need some advice. I’m going away for 2 days with my wonderful wife. We’ve been married for many wonderful years and I love her dearly. She is the sweetest girl in the world to me, and I’d like to spend a couple of days talking with her […]