Married sex

Masturbating Woman – Husband’s Suggestion

I grew up and kind of thought that a masturbating woman was bad. As I teenager, I experimented but felt guilty.

After I married, my husband encouraged me to pleasure myself whenever I wanted to,  of course thinking of him. At first, I thought he was perverted. I would give him a hard time when he would touch himself at night occasionally when he was going to sleep.

Finally, after being married for 17 years, he took my hands and put them down there. I resisted but eventually touched myself during a climax with his hands there too. At other times, he would touch my breasts while I masturbated. I was slowly getting over my hang-ups. I was becoming a masturbating woman, a masturbating wife.

Now ten years later, I enjoy this marriage masturbation. About once a month is a designated “hot day”; I wake and just start the day off with that warm feeling. I”ll walk around the house with no panties and a skirt.  I bring on a climax again and again during that day, sometimes standing up. Any time on that day, my husband just lifts up my skirt and puts his love tool into my welcoming sweet spot.

We might go out on one of those “hot days” and bring on a climax in the car while he caresses my tits.

My husband LOVES to watch me touch myself.  Our sex life was great and it just keeps getting better.

Masturbating Woman Note:

We notice many stories about the masturbating woman in a marriage.  Husbands, how comfortable are you with being married to a masturbating woman?  If your wife were a masturbating woman, would that offend you?  Comment on this one. Vote in our poll about wife masturbation. It will be interesting to see how comfortable husbands and wives are with a masturbating woman (wife) in the marriage.

How often does wife masturbation occur in your marriage?

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9 replies
  1. 76servant says:

    Thank you for sharing! As well recently experience the same as we danced in foreplay. Making our way from having a glass of wine on the couch I gently placed my hands under her night gown resting on her inner thigh she made movement for invitation by spreading legs open. I then move closer giving her a gentle kiss on her neck below the ear as she gasped with desire. Continuing to caress her thigh her breathing began to get heavy with a slight moaning desire. Moving my gentle sweeping kisses from her neck down to her breast motioning with movement of her hips drew my member to get harder and harder. Stopping the movement of my hand just within reach of her vulva gave her an immediate push of her hand to mine. I whispered, “please help me” as I guided her fingers to rest under my hand on her clit. Taking one of her fingers I said, move slowly in a circle. She did just that! While with my other hand slowly grasping and squeezing her nipple her finger moved in a beautiful rhythmic motion. Her body now fully exposed with desire I pulled away as I undress to reveal my now fully hardened shaft. Her eyes taken by my arousal, she then starts moving her fingers throughout her vulva revealing her wet and lucious entry. Reaching forward in the attempt to touch my shaft I moved closer as she lays her head within reach. Bent down to give her a kiss she pull away a draws me forward to gently kiss the crown. Wanting so much to enter her, she is now vigorously moving her fingers in and out of her vagina. Needing a more comfortable place, I pick her up and carry her to our love chamber. Placing her on the bed she continues to move her fingers throughout precious mound and vulva lips with deep moans…she climaxes!
    After her explosion she whispers, “cum fill me up”! I mount her taking ahold of my shaft, rubbing my head of my penis in the learned strokes of her hand she again explodes with loud moan. Resting and gliding between her wet vulva lips while sharing in the dance of our tongues she reaches again fingering her clit and in same sweep takes my shaft and draws it slowly within her. While drawing me to penitrate deeper she vigorously moves her hips and squeezing vagina lips drawing my member to explode my juice deep within her. With shared bliss, we rest into the night with a wonderful sleep.

    Waiting for more….!

  2. Anonymous says:

    I’m surprised to see how many votes were about couples that did not masturbate in their marriage. It would be interesting to hear from some of these readers who voted this way why they believe that way, or is it just personal preference?

  3. Anonymous says:

    I am seeing that masturbation in marriage is not wrong morally. This story inspired last Saturday. My husband was home all day. I had eight climaxes starting with him bringing me one orally. Two climaxes from masturbation; two from a vibrator, and three while he was in me. He lifted up my skirt four times in three different rooms. Great day. I am at my fertile time, maybe I will be pregnant soon!

  4. Anonymous says:

    My wife when we are lying in bed both naked takes my hand and places it firmly between her legs and then starts rubbing and pressurising my fingers and sliding her fingers in between mine to touch herself. She also pushes my fingers inside her and then move them in and out with her one hand while she keeps rubbing her clit between my fingers. Its like masturbation by remote control. The feeling when she finally cums under my fingers is amazing!!

  5. Gina G. says:

    I am a masturbating wife! My husband Ben loves for me to masturbate. Sometimes, instead of intercourse, we will sometimes masturbate together. It is very erotic and special to
    share something so personal with the one you love… Gina G.

  6. Fiddler says:

    I feel that I am a very blessed man to have a wife that thoroughly enjoys masturbation. Watching her and participating in the experience is one of the most pleasurable things about our sex life. As we grow older it seems that the mental part of sex becomes more important. It is wonderful to be able to express our affection in many creative ways while keeping it within the bounds of Biblical standards. It is amazing how freeing it can be to have confidence in each other’s moral commitment while letting it be expressed in an infinite number of ways. Life has many dimensions to it and I believe that each facet of a relationship can be enhanced by finding a way to express that aspect of life in intimate ways. Do you like boating? Yes, well include sex in the experience. Do you like to play Golf? Yes, find a way to use the equipment for more than just hitting the ball around the pasture. Do you have a Home Theater? If no, maybe it’s time to get one and use it to create the most X-rated movies ever conceived. Guys, I challenge you to find a way to delight your wife in whatever your passion may be. Ladies, do likewise in whatever you find to be most interesting. Couples, make a commitment to be creative enough to include sex in whatever you do and you’ll never run out of options or reasons to be intimate with your mate…and you will find it hard to not have a smile on your face most all of the time.

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