Drunk with Love
When we come to saving faith in Jesus Christ, we start a process of having our minds renewed – which leads to transformed or changed thinking and living (Romans 12:1-2). It affects every area of our lives. It is a rewarding and sometimes painful journey. Yet, God promises to complete the work He began in us (Philippians 1:6).
All the readers of Marriage Heat know something of the power of sex. It is so liberating to know what the Bible says. We are “not to lean on our own understanding” (Proverbs 3:5-7). Jesus said His people “will know the truth – and the truth will set you free” (John 8:32).
Free from what? Lies. While we still have a sin nature – we are still susceptible to lies and deception. This is why we need God’s truth from the Bible every day (Matthew 4:4).
So, we know the power of sex in our experience. I want to look at a couple of passages that give us a life-changing perspective about sex in our marriages. The first is Song of Solomon 5:1.
“I came to my garden, my sister, my bride, I gathered my myrrh with my spice, I ate my honeycomb
with my honey, I drank my wine with my milk. Eat, friends, drink, and be drunk with love!”
God condemns drunkenness in the strongest terms – even warning that those who are drunks “will not inherit the kingdom of God” (1 Corinthians 6:11). Yet, here God encourages husbands and wives to be intoxicated with their sexual love. He implores us to give ourselves to each other with abandonment. To be intoxicated in this way is to be so exhilarated that we’re in a state of euphoria.
This encourages my wife and I greatly. We not only do not have shame in godly sex – we are so free to go crazy in bed! We know this is a delight that the Lord has given His stamp of approval for. This is a kind of euphoria that God designed.
So, as we are cleaning up from the wetness of our lovemaking – we know we have just experienced orgasms that God gave us as tokens of His greater love. We don’t worship the experience, but the One who gives us such good gifts. If our love with our spouses can be so intoxicating – how much greater is the love of Him who made us?!
I recently mentioned in commenting on someone else’s story – of our sexual relationship being like “a daily retreat”. We face many trials and difficulties on a regular basis in this world. What a tremendous need that God helps meet in our lives – in giving us the retreat of sex in our marriages. I encourage you to dwell on the notion of “the daily or every other day retreat” of your bedroom (or whatever room or vehicle you two are in). If you are having a trying day – let your spouse know that you are looking forward to being “drunk with each other’s love” later that night! It doesn’t solve every problem we face – but, it makes facing them easier – in knowing you are headed for a retreat with the one who God gave you later that night. This thinking has blessed us so for many years!
Another passage I want to look at is Song of Solomon 4:16.
“Awake, O north wind, and come, O south wind! Blow upon my garden, let
its spices flow. Let my beloved come to his garden, and eat its choicest fruits.”
The wife invites her husband to “feast on her garden”. Her body is her husband’s garden (1st Corinthians 7:4) – as his body is her’s. I must say that one of the most intoxicating experiences in our lovemaking is oral sex. I love feasting on every part of my wife’s body. We both come to bed cleaned up for each other.
I love getting “drunk” on her pussy. I slurp up her juices and savor them. I’m in the garden! I like her to get on top of me and just move her pussy all over me – getting me wet everywhere possible. It is my garden. It exhilarates me. This makes no sense apart from God’s design. Sometimes she puts her cunt right in front of me and I inspect it with the light. I love the mystery of all the folds and caverns that are before me. I stare and then taste and eat. I love hearing her gasp with exhilaration. The spices of her fragrant pussy in my mouth and on my nose send me to the moon! I tell her, “I love the taste and smell of your beautiful cunt”! My cock is throbbing as her mid-section grinds on my face.
I will arch my head up and lick her butt and tease her pretty hole – and that makes her want my cock (which is in her mouth right then) in her pussy! We are intoxicated in the way the Lord has designed. Many times, this leads to us (panting like two animals) to finishing doggy-style. We cum together as I fuck her from behind – grabbing her boobs and kneading her nipples – as she is slightly elevated and padded with pillows underneath.
Sometimes this exhilaration ends with us laughing as we catch our breaths after the orgasms. I tell her how much I love her – and how she amazes me every time with her sexiness!
All of this because – as Song of Solomon 4:9-10 says,
“You have captivated my heart, my sister, my bride; you have captivated my heart with one glance of your eyes, with one jewel of your necklace. How beautiful is your love, my sister, my bride! How much better is your love than wine, and the fragrance of your oils than any spice!”
The drunkenness of wine is incomparable to the love between two people committed to the Lord in covenant marriage. I join in this testimony in confessing that my wife of 27 years has “captivated my heart.”
As my cum leaks out her pussy and we share one last kiss – we position the towels as we get up off the bed and walk to the bathroom. I clean my still firm cock as she drips the last of my cum into the toilet. I peek my head around and we smile at each other. We are in love.
We’ve just been playing in the garden!
Thank you for writing this out! Bookmarking it for reference to help others 🙂
Thank you HoneyGirl – Song of Solomon is loaded with inspiration and instruction. I encourage you to read it with your husband. I also commend to you – “Intimacy Ignited: Conversations Couple To Couple” by Joseph and Linda Dillow and Peter and Lorraine Pintus. The whole book is interactions with Song of Solomon. God bless you and your family!
Wow! What a revelation!! I read the entire book of Song of Solomon (MSG version) yesterrday, trying to really understand where the sex part was coming in (still bit ignorant bout these things). And your explanation is the answer then I was looking for.
This has really blessed me, being new to this site and blushing everytime I read some stories – but God showed me through this site the beauty of marital lovemaking, sex without the perversion theworld teaches.(Will share with my hubby)
Thank you lovinghusband and God Bless
Hi Tayba. I’m glad my brief explanation was helpful. There are some really good resources on Song of Solomon. Tremper Longman has written a very readable commentary (“Song of Songs” – New International Commentary of the Old Testament). I believe he rightly understands the sexual language – and helps us to understand the euphemisms from the Hebrew.
I also (as to HoneyGirl) think “Intimacy Ignited: Conversations Couple To Couple” by Joseph and Linda Dillow and Peter and Lorraine Pintus – is a good book written by two Christian couples interacting with Song of Solomon.
By the way, I blush too – but not because of being ashamed! God truth renews our minds and gives us the self-control to be godly in our sexuality – and not in the gutter of the world’s perversion.
Blessings in Christ!
Wonderful story lovinghusband! Well said and a perfect explanation.
Also thanks to you, Blondie and Kay for the kind words and prayer. I am doing OK, just got a bit of a headache and bruised a bit.
Ben has been wonderful as always. However, I am a little ticked because he trashed a story , that I thought was good and really SWEET. He said he didn’t like how he wrote it and it wasn’t worth posting. OH well, MEN!!! LOL.
Be blessed!
Thank you Gina – I hope you are feeling better each day!
Really beautifully put. Thank you for posting this, Lovinghusband!
Thank you for this wonderful exposition of the meaning of scripture, along with a beautiful testimony about your wife’s delightful body, and about the treasures God has gifted us with in sexuality. Well written, and a blessing.
Happy New Year Lovinghusband! Thought you’d like this–I was in a board meeting yesterday and my dear husband sent me a text quoting one of your stories!
“I love getting “drunk” on her pussy. I slurp up her juices and savor them. I’m in the garden! I like her to get on top of me and just move her pussy all over me – getting me wet everywhere possible. It is my garden…”
Made me wet trying to focus during the meeting and my hand found its way under the table and up my skirt to scratch that itch in my hairy pussy.
No fair, LOL. 😀
Needless to say, when I got home, I had to emulate that text onto my dear husband…
Hi Kay. Happy New Year to you and K! Sounds like you were distracted at your meeting… What a hot distraction! I’m glad to report that what I wrote in that story was lived out once again last night – as my wife came in my mouth and on my face with her wet pussy. I was intoxicated on her pussy juices – and swallowed them up! She came so violently – as I was also fingering her butt (no surprise). We finished with me fucking her hard doggy-style – and I came just as hard as she did in my mouth. Your report of your husband’s text has me hot again! I think something is going to happen again in our bed late tonight! I hope you had a great Sunday. God bless you and your marriage! Thanks again for thinking of us.
Thanks for explaining this to us! God bless!