Entries by Fiftyfitfidelity

Sexual cues

What verbal cues to you give each other? Subtle or overt? Please add yours. We are very overt (direct or to the point). My wife took subtlety or innuendo as me being “coy.” She detested that strategy. It took over ten years for her to directly confront me about that. You see, as a child […]

Groomed for Swinging

My brother and his wife were swingers.  My wife Julie and I have had many discussions about this marital lifestyle and its pitfalls. Over time, they have tried to gauge our attitudes about (or even availability to participate in) swinging. They groomed us for swinging over a few years. Here are examples of what we’ve […]

Slow Sex in the Secret Garden

Bruce Springsteen said it best in “Secret Garden” – “To a place where You can’t remember–And you can’t forget.” Now, the relationship The Boss alludes to here is not one of a married couple. But I relate it to the experiences my wife and I enjoy. Think about entering your wife and how that feels […]

Wet and Wild?

Our first home owned a classic clawfoot tub. It was one of those features that helped us determine this was the perfect first house. My wife pictured bathing children one day. I pictured candles and water lapping up over the edge as we pumped each other’s brains out! Weeks after we moved in, I began […]

Christmas Tradition Reborn

Ah, life before kids. Those glorious days of sex anywhere in the house. Strutting around naked afterward. All that general sexual freedom has been gone for 20 years now. Sure, we are still spontaneous. But it’s not easy. We had to navigate the hurdles of kids sleeping in the next room. The interruption of coming […]

Uncomfortable Firsts

I looked across the table at her. I was thinking of the morning sex we had earlier. Flickering candles and soft Christmas music filled the air. I held up the dry, earthy red wine in our best crystal. “To the only gift I’ve ever needed this season, one God gave to me and I will […]

Vacation Heat II (L)

After our “show” for the landscapers, we joined friends on the beach. Then, after lunch, we snuck back to our room for a romp before returning to the beach. We followed that up by showering together. I was pretty sure I wasn’t going to cum; I was numb. But since she worked so hard with her […]

Roadside Marital Assistance

My wife and I had hit a rough patch. Just before my 50th birthday, my wife uncovered a year-long online flirtation I was having with a former girlfriend. The exchange manifested itself into long, erotic emails. Ultimately, we exchanged some nude photos. It was like God said, “ENOUGH!” As my wife was planning my 50th […]

Vacation Heat (L)

No kids. Sunny Skies. Great sex. Vacation. No sooner did the door of our room at the resort swing open, but we were tugging at each other’s clothing. We landed on the bed, wrestling to get naked. Her mouth planted on mine as my hands roamed her body. I rubbed her breasts and her nipples […]

From Doubt to Perfect Fit

Did she cry out your name at the end, collapsing on the bed? Doesn’t everyone contort and twist in a montage of positions, each as passionate as the next? Don’t all couples go on for hours into the night? Won’t deep thrusts and forceful play do it for her as much as you? Being married […]